Does it make me gay?

[BobbyDazzler99]

Does it make me gay if I am considering a WG using a Dildo on me?

Has to be a full on girl not a TS

Curious..

[Jonestown]

No

[tynetunnel]

I’m not able to give you a definitive answer but I’d say as a man, you are gay if you fancy blokes and don’t fancy girls. That’s my basic ‘finger in the air’ test   

[BobbyDazzler99]

I’m not able to give you a definitive answer but I’d say as a man, you are gay if you fancy blokes and don’t fancy girls. That’s my basic ‘finger in the air’ test   

Hhaha, I do not fancy men at all, absolutely nothing whatsoever

However when a girl plays around near my back doors it absolutely fires me up, its amazing .. so was considering the dildo but it has to be a girl using it on me..

[theejaculator]

Does it make me gay if I am considering a WG using a Dildo on me?

Has to be a full on girl not a TS

Curious..

Yes you are very gay....so what?

[jamiekinkxxx]

Does it make me gay if I am considering a WG using a Dildo on me?

Has to be a full on girl not a TS

Curious..

Not at all, 100% doesn't. You'll just know where your g-spot is and never look back! Enjoy!

[Dark Vader]

However when a girl plays around near my back doors it absolutely fires me up, its amazing .. so was considering the dildo but it has to be a girl using it on me..

Would you consider a girl using a strap on?

[datwabbit]

Why are you asking?

It does make you gay. Now you have your answer. What now?

[BobbyDazzler99]

Would you consider a girl using a strap on?

yes

[big-al93]

Hhaha, I do not fancy men at all, absolutely nothing whatsoever

However when a girl plays around near my back doors it absolutely fires me up, its amazing .. so was considering the dildo but it has to be a girl using it on me..

TBH if you fancy a dildo up the arse, what difference does it really make who is wielding it? It's still just an inanimate object. Maybe different if the bloke had his knob out at the same time.

Of all the does it make me gay questions I've seen asked on here, this is probably the most straightforward to answer. No it doesn't.

[Waterhouse]

Yes you are very gay....so what?

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[big-al93]

Would you worry about being gay if you were playing with the dildo by yourself?

[jamiekinkxxx]

Why are you asking?

It does make you gay. Now you have your answer. What now?

Why does it?

[RandomGuy99]

Loads of people on here seem to like prostate massages so a dildo in your bum is similar.

I'd say no it doesn't and really why do you need to stick a label on it. Do what you enjoy as long as it doesn't hurt others.

[jamiekinkxxx]

Loads of people on here seem to like prostate massages so a dildo in your bum is similar.

I'd say no it doesn't and really why do you need to stick a label on it. Do what you enjoy as long as it doesn't hurt others.

+1

[mills_and_bhuna]

A bit like asking if wanting anal sex is gay.
I don't even consider fancying a TS as gay.
Or even bi.
The relevant question is whether you are attracted to someone who presents themselves as a man (appearance, behaviour, voice, dress, etc.).

[RandomGuy99]

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[Mr Sinister]

Does it make me gay if I am considering a WG using a Dildo on me?

Has to be a full on girl not a TS

Curious..

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[Stevelondon]

TBH if you fancy a dildo up the arse, what difference does it really make who is wielding it? It's still just an inanimate object. Maybe different if the bloke had his knob out at the same time.

Of all the does it make me gay questions I've seen asked on here, this is probably the most straightforward to answer. No it doesn't.

Don’t agree with the first bit.

Agree with the second bit. 😂

[Jumping Jack Flash]

OP  do you have an unusual interest in soft furnishings and cleaning? What do you do at a family party when the DJ plays Village People? Can you dance? I think you have some tough admissions to make public 

[contentguy]

A bit like asking if wanting anal sex is gay.
I don't even consider fancying a TS as gay.
Or even bi.
The relevant question is whether you are attracted to someone who presents themselves as a man (appearance, behaviour, voice, dress, etc.).

To the OP’s question, who cares?  We can now write our own labels.

If I understand modern thinking on these issues, one can ‘receive’ anal from a TS ‘with’ and not be bi.

Gender, Sex, Sexuality, they are all very different and it’s a bugger to get to the bottom of.

As a str8 bloke, my labels aren’t that interesting.
But I do fancy being a lesbian Asian woman for a little while.

OP if you fancy a day as a gay guy, go for it!

[contentguy]

FWIW, I have enjoyed the activity the OP is concerned about and it didn’t affect my labels at all.

For those that are interested in identity and choice, this is an interesting read:
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[Thephoenix]

There really is some crap answers on here.
Of course it doesn't make you gay ffs! 

Gay:- 'Sexually or romantically attracted to people of one's own sex' (used especially as a man).
Oxford dictionary.

[timmy1]

Imo doing literally anything sexual with a girl means its not gay by definition, we all have our little kinks and its fun to try new things in the bedroom:drinks:

[alabama1]

Pretty sure that the OP already knows that the answer is 'no' 

[akauya]

However when a girl plays around near my back doors it absolutely fires me up, its amazing .. so was considering the dildo but it has to be a girl using it on me..

I haven't had the pleasure myself but apparently Goddess Cleo comes well recommended for assgasm and anal training for men...

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You might want to try her.

[Waterhouse]

Pretty sure that the OP already knows that the answer is 'no' 

Exactly. Just another pointless “look at me”/“bait” thread.

[GingerNuts]

Curious..

Bi-curious.

[JontyR]

Bi-curious.

If he's wondering about paying for it he is buy-curious.

Anyhoo in answer to the question, no sex act is gay / straight. It's who you do it with that makes it gay or straight.

Going down on a woman doesn't make me a lesbian. The woman dildoing your arse doesn't turn her into a gay man.

If you are closing your eyes and wishing that each time the dildo goes into your arse its the cock of one of the first team squad of Hull Kingston Rovers then that's a different matter.

[marc_hotsteppa]

And the award for the most ridiculous thread goes to... OP.

Jesus Christ, how old are you?  Ten?

 

[Stevelondon]

And the award for the most ridiculous thread goes to... OP.

Jesus Christ, how old are you?  Ten?

 

Going off the avatar I’m guessing he’s a Man U supporter…….. explains everything 

[scutty brown]

Does it make me gay if I am considering a WG using a Dildo on me?

Has to be a full on girl not a TS

Curious..

Depends on the culture you're brought up in.
In ancient Rome, yes you would be regarded as effeminate/gay and be a subject of derision. Paradoxically the man who was "top" in what we now regard as a homosexual coupling would have been regarded as masculine. The view was that the penetrator in any coupling was "masculine", while the receiver was "feminine". In the situation you ask about, you're the receiver. They somehow managed to separate the unnatural/obscene concept of homosexuality from the masculine/feminine concept.
You still get the same mindset even now among some Mediterranean / Middle East societies. The boy-buggerers of Afghanistan are one extreme example where the act of raping a child by alpha-males is seen as an expression of masculinity, not homosexuality.

[Hobbit]

Watch some gay porn and if it turns you on and you get a boner then you could be gay. Otherwise, just enjoy the dildo.

[nightbot]

Very gay, infact it makes you the gayest.
If you take a dildo up your arse, you instantly start spitting rainbow out of your mouth.


On a serious note, no it does not.

[Foxtail17]

Very gay, infact it makes you the gayest.
If you take a dildo up your arse, you instantly start spitting rainbow out of your mouth.


On a serious note, no it does not.

You forgot it may make him vote Tory!!

[Marmalade]

‘Gay’ is just a label. Commonly used to mean someone who is attracted only to their same sex or used pejoratively to call someone or something effeminate. 

Bisexual is someone attracted to both sexes. The easy way to find out is to experiment (discreetly!) More important than labels. Trying it, finding out you do or don’t like, it doesn’t make you gay or bi either. However, shoving a complete big fat dildo (or penis) up your arse is likely to stretch it, potentially uncomfortably or painfully (though presumably you can learn to relax it more and/or get used to it).

Try something smaller perhaps, like an anal/prostate stimulator or narrow dildo/vibrator.

If you like it, it means you enjoy having your arse/prostate stimulated. Nothing more. If you would prefer a woman to do it, that’s a heterosexual desire, not gay. If you fancy another man doing it, that’s a gay attraction but if you still like sexual activity with women then that suggests either bi or predominantly heterosexual.

It sounds like you’re completely fucking straight and just need reassurance …. ahhhh….. so don’t be offended if people are taking the piss. Or mention it to your macho buddies who will love calling you gay. 

[Marmalade]

You forgot it may make him vote Tory!!

Eeeew that’s so trendy now the Tories are knee deep in shit. Whereas a year or two ago it would be wokey Starmerites getting called bumfuckers.

[webpunter]

Gender, Sex, Sexuality, they are all very different and it’s a bugger to get to the bottom of

An interesting way to put it, given the topic 

[contentguy]

An interesting way to put it, given the topic 

 

[bobock100]

Do you like musical theatre?

[yesbby]

Anal penetration is an act of domination and therefore submission. Wanting to be dominated by a woman is not exactly macho or manly, but not technically gay either

[Markc]

Like most of here on here l don’t think this makes you gay.

My regular has used a strap-on me many times while playing with my cock.

[contentguy]

Anal penetration is an act of domination and therefore submission. Wanting to be dominated by a woman is not exactly macho or manly, but not technically gay either

That’s way too simplistic 

[YorkshireLad]

If you enjoy a dildo up your arse you will enjoy a dick up your arse & that is pretty gay

[webpunter]

Bisexual is someone attracted to both sexes. The easy way to find out is to experiment (discreetly!) More important than labels. Trying it, finding out you do or don’t like, it doesn’t make you gay or bi either. However, shoving a complete big fat dildo (or penis) up your arse is likely to stretch it, potentially uncomfortably or painfully (though presumably you can learn to relax it more and/or get used to it).
Try something smaller perhaps, like an anal/prostate stimulator or narrow dildo/vibrator.

I'll take your word for it on 'smaller'

If you like it, it means you enjoy having your arse/prostate stimulated. Nothing more. If you would prefer a woman to do it, that’s a heterosexual desire, not gay. If you fancy another man (or TS) doing it, that’s a gay attraction but if you still like sexual activity with women then that suggests either bi or predominantly hetero sexual.

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It sounds like you’re completely fucking straight and just need reassurance …. ahhhh….. so don’t be offended if people are taking the piss. Or mention it to your macho buddies who will love calling you gay. 

You would be v.good running a Deir Deirdre column with a balanced approach 
Mentioning to mates, especially when at the boozer, is likely to invite a ribbing
Not really the time or place
If there are 5 of em reckon at least one will have tried / like pegging
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How many SPs have dildos / strap-ons in their armoury to cater for punters fetishes ?
I reckon 50% or more
Some of em when left in sight look rather
& if the SPs are into femdom its a dead cert, incl. v.large sizes & shapes   
This suggests that heterosexual punters like up the bum stuff

On the subject of pegging have a search for #PrinceOfPegging

[webpunter]

If you enjoy a dildo up your arse you will enjoy a dick up your arse & that is pretty gay

I thought the dinosaurs on here were wiped out a few years ago 

[contentguy]

I thought the dinosaurs on here were wiped out a few years ago 

Perhaps he”s so old he thinks gay means happy?

[Munter84]

Is kissing gay? With a man, yes, with a woman, no.

Is getting a blowjob gay? From a man yes, from a woman no.

Is having your bum played with gay? You can see where I'm going with this.

[JontyR]

You can see where I'm going with this.

Ipswich?

[jamiekinkxxx]

Anal penetration is an act of domination and therefore submission. Wanting to be dominated by a woman is not exactly macho or manly, but not technically gay either

As mentioned so simplistic  Such a daft response.... and what the fuck is 'not technically gay'