French Kissing options

[t0mm13]

Hi All,

Thinking of making some adjustments to my searches as seems a lot that seem to list FK seem to say "at Discretion" and I am starting to think this is just a con on there part so thinking of only having the FK option in search.
Also does GFE include it as well or is that another tricky one?

Cheers for help   

[norwichfunseeker]

I've always taken that to mean if they offer it, but you turn up with 'death breath' etc they reserve the right to decline.
By stating it like that, it avoids the punter complaining if its not delivered following previous agreement /reviews where it has been provided.

[NIK]

Hi All,

Thinking of making some adjustments to my searches as seems a lot that seem to list FK seem to say "at Discretion" and I am starting to think this is just a con on there part so thinking of only having the FK option in search.
Also does GFE include it as well or is that another tricky one?

Cheers for help   

This is a tricky one.
Undoubtedly there will be many who use it as a get out clause and never have any intention of providing it with anyone. However, I don’t think it’s fluffy to say you can’t expect a prossy to kiss every punter regardless of their breath, etc.
I think if you are clean and fresh and don’t stink they should provide the service, but regardless of hygiene some may not find some punters attractive enough to provide what is still regarded as a particularly intimate service.
Having said this, I have been with many a prossy who I am glad didn’t kiss! 

[arrow0404]

Funny how some WGs would prefer to stick a cock in their mouth then DFK.

[t0mm13]

Well I just dont want to go to a punt and get the No excuse as not being funny I am probably far cleaner than they are when i turn up etc as that's the way I am.
So think I will just add the ones that offer it for now and see how i get on. 

[norwichfunseeker]

I always ask when making the booking, as if it's deffo not on offer, they will say, and I look elsewhere.

I don't pay too much regard to the likes on AW personally (apart from BB, when I will remove them from my search irrespective of anything else) , just ask them when making the booking. Worked for me this far, no refusals when I've attended.

[NigelF]

but regardless of hygiene some may not find some punters attractive enough to provide what is still regarded as a particularly intimate service.

Attractiveness should be irrelevant, especially since most people kiss with their eyes closed. Sex is also pretty damn intimate unless they don't allow basic positions like missionary!

I always ask when making the booking, as if it's deffo not on offer, they will say, and I look elsewhere.

I don't pay too much regard to the likes on AW personally (apart from BB, when I will remove them from my search irrespective of anything else) , just ask them when making the booking. Worked for me this far, no refusals when I've attended.

+1

The key is to ask. Do bear in mind though that many will happily agree to DFK but actually only deliver FK or just lip-kissing.

Also, don't get too worried about those who offer "at discretion" and those who don't - I've had some very good DFK from those who just seem to offer it at discretion.

[JonasG]

A lot do it tbf.

Just make sure to read the reviews and that punters mention DFK.

And sometimes you might luck out on a TOFTT and they do DFK.

Whilst some only lip and no tongue. Just the way it is.

[Ali Katt]

A lot do it tbf.

Just make sure to read the reviews and that punters mention DFK.

And sometimes you might luck out on a TOFTT and they do DFK.

Whilst some only lip and no tongue. Just the way it is.

This. I have found tongue kissing is increasingly rare these days. I don't mind a passionate open mouthed kiss and that is enough for me, tongue kissing takes it to another level though.

[Moreish]

At discretion = get out claws for them if your pig ugly. 

[norwichfunseeker]

At discretion = get out claws for them if your pig ugly. 

Get out claws - that's something else entirely!

[NIK]

Attractiveness should be irrelevant, especially since most people kiss with their eyes closed. Sex is also pretty damn intimate unless they don't allow basic positions like missionary!

+1

The key is to ask. Do bear in mind though that many will happily agree to DFK but actually only deliver FK or just lip-kissing.

Also, don't get too worried about those who offer "at discretion" and those who don't - I've had some very good DFK from those who just seem to offer it at discretion.

Totally agree. But it's just the way it is - human nature. I am sure there will be some prossies you prefer kissing to others.

[king tarzan]

I just love dfk yes yes yes yummy yum yum yaba daba doo 😁😁😁😁😀😀😀😊😊😊☺☺☺👅👅👅👅👅👅👅
without it it's not worth my time or money!!
Thankfully I have tongue wrestled some of the best super honeys adultworks and agencies have to offer..
I remember jessica ann and Samantha may lovely dyana  told me it's on the day face to face they will decide and not to be disappointed if they decline and I its at my own risk to turn up.. they were using " discretion " to its fullest..
Fair play they were honest I showed up and luckily my tongue was in there mouth and they were twisting there tongues too!!
At least they did not lie and say yes to make me show up and it was going to be a big fat no all the way regardless. .

Unless one is really disgusting looking and bad hygiene/rude aggressive attitude  then they have every right to say a BIG FAT NO!!!

I have been told by many ladies that they don't kiss everyone. . ( thankfully I was bloody lucky that they kissed me as I am no oil painting )

It's a very intimate service and it gets me going..
At my age now I don't have erections to waste!!

I love a good heavy helping of dfk then with an instant immediate prolonged mango gorge! !

[NigelF]

Totally agree. But it's just the way it is - human nature. I am sure there will be some prossies you prefer kissing to others.

Yes, that's a fair point. At least I don't charge them though - some of them I probably should have!

I just love dfk yes yes yes yummy yum yum yaba daba doo 😁😁😁😁😀😀😀😊😊😊☺☺☺👅👅👅👅👅👅👅
without it it's not worth my time or money!!
Thankfully I have tongue wrestled some of the best super honeys adultworks and agencies have to offer..
I remember jessica ann and Samantha may lovely dyana  told me it's on the day face to face they will decide and not to be disappointed if they decline and I its at my own risk to turn up.. they were using " discretion " to its fullest..
Fair play they were honest I showed up and luckily my tongue was in there mouth and they were twisting there tongues too!!
At least they did not lie and say yes to make me show up and it was going to be a big fat no all the way regardless. .

Unless one is really disgusting looking and bad hygiene/rude aggressive attitude  then they have every right to say a BIG FAT NO!!!

I have been told by many ladies that they don't kiss everyone. . ( thankfully I was bloody lucky that they kissed me as I am no oil painting )

It's a very intimate service and it gets me going..
At my age now I don't have erections to waste!!

I love a good heavy helping of dfk then with an instant immediate prolonged mango gorge! !

You're way over the top but you are funny.

[king tarzan]

Putting it simply

Dfk is main course in the punt for me
Mango is the desert
Owo and sex starters. ..

[BarryProudfoot]

Funny how some WGs would prefer to stick a cock in their mouth then DFK.

I don't get this either

[t0mm13]

Thanks for comments guys, will take on board comments. Think best option is to like discussed ask them out flat and if they say yes and i get to punt and say no just walk.

its a big thing for me as it gets me in the mood.

[arrow0404]

I don't get this either

The mind boggles 

[Ali Katt]

Funny how some WGs would prefer to stick a cock in their mouth then DFK.

What would you say is more intimate a bit of rug munching or a full on frenchie?

[BlueRock]

I've found if it says at discretion it's much like anal it generally means they don't actually do it but they want on their profile to catch your eye. I'm always clean, non smoker and brushed and gargled 15 mins before and still received half arsed pecks. I can live without it but it's a nice icing on the cake.

[Titti Tatti]

I get more pleasure from a good interactive DFK session, than having good OWO. Interactive being key.

Again patience can help (but is not ideal ). I've had a few girls warm up and though they start pecking they can get into it if they don't feel you're just trying to get on with this.

Any thoughts as to why Romanians just don't?

No ones mentioned the joy of missionary sex while trying to self felate deep inside her, as she experiences heightened sex due to the near auto asphyxiation going on.

[bearcat69]

What would you say is more intimate a bit of rug munching or a full on frenchie?

A full on Frenchie...

But it depends on the thought behind it. In my mind the thoughts would be the same, I'm doing it for reasons of sensual pleasure. I suppose in the minds of many prossies the thoughts and concerns may be different.

I tend to just think a prossie who was difficulties getting that straight in her head is just not a very good prossie. Whores are humans with emotions like everybody else, that I do appreciate. But would have thought it'd be something a girl would get straight in their heads before choosing to become a prossie.

I suppose it just comes down to at the end of the day, how much a girl is willing to do to get money, or how clear/honest a girl wants to be about that.

This though, is why I view attitude as key in this game.

[Littlefoot]

I get more pleasure from a good interactive DFK session, than having good OWO.

+1 

[Ali Katt]

A full on Frenchie...

But it depends on the thought behind it. In my mind the thoughts would be the same, I'm doing it for reasons of sensual pleasure. I suppose in the minds of many prossies the thoughts and concerns may be different.

I tend to just think a prossie who was difficulties getting that straight in her head is just not a very good prossie. Whores are humans with emotions like everybody else, that I do appreciate. But would have thought it'd be something a girl would get straight in their heads before choosing to become a prossie.

I suppose it just comes down to at the end of the day, how much a girl is willing to do to get money, or how clear/honest a girl wants to be about that.

This though, is why I view attitude as key in this game.

I can't disagree. I think a large part of it is due to personality types, some women even in a relationship are frigid and sexually ambivalent or maybe that's just the effect I have   

[peter_bungee]

Imo most state french kissing but few actually do it usually few pecks at most

[JonasG]

There's a lot of DFK out there.

You aren't checking properly or seeing the right girls if you aren't regularly getting it.

[Diehard]

DFK seems something women in general are not that into. The best kissing I’ve had is with hookers as it happens although only on first meets. Goes downhill on subsequent ones.


Similarly in relationships snogging gets much less as time goes on until it’s virtually non existent. For me anyway. I now assume once the kissing wanes she is cheating so I end it.

Can’t trust women now at all. So best to adopt a hard line approach to them all

[Romney]

I agree with the above comments that it really doesn't matter if the SP says "at discretion" or not for any particular service, as they can do what they choose to do once the booking is in progress. Better to ask when booking, but even then, that doesn't guarantee you'll get what they agreed to once you hand the money over....

[streetfighter1975]

It's important to me. It helps increase the intimacy in my view.

[Ali Katt]

DFK seems something women in general are not that into. The best kissing I’ve had is with hookers as it happens although only on first meets. Goes downhill on subsequent ones.


Similarly in relationships snogging gets much less as time goes on until it’s virtually non existent. For me anyway. I now assume once the kissing wanes she is cheating so I end it.

Can’t trust women now at all. So best to adopt a hard line approach to them all

Relationships take work. The rot can set it and it tells you it's time to move on, having said that you can be kissing like two horny  French teenagers months later. Angy make-up sex is the best though, the screaming argument is foreplay.

[Diehard]

Relationships take work. The rot can set it and it tells you it's time to move on, having said that you can be kissing like two horny  French teenagers months later. Angy make-up sex is the best though, the screaming argument is foreplay.

I seem to have A lot of foreplay then!

[king tarzan]

For me in 60 mins

45% dfk
30% mango licking
15% owo on me
10% penetration protected sex

That's the way I enjoy my 60 mins

Dfk is the main component in my PUNT!

[Horizontal pleasures]

I love real kissing, as I prefer to call it, as much as real screwing. I also adore real oral in both directions but one direction at a time. (Longer punt and more control, as I might come faster than the lady). Always happy with my mouth full.

I think that in 'olden days' many ladies thought it was 'too personal' compared with screwing so they avoided it as for their real partners only. But nowadays it has been incorporated for many ladies, in the recent concept of GFE.

On the other hand yes, they can avoid bad breath.

Also some do not like real beards and many ladies realistically dislike the unshaven stubble that is the fashion for some guys, and can be very scratchy. I shampoo my real beard in the bath and usually manage to overcome objections by asking the lady to stroke it first.

[Ali Katt]

For me in 60 mins

45% dfk
30% mango licking
15% owo on me
10% penetration protected sex

That's the way I enjoy my 60 mins

Dfk is the main component in my PUNT!

Is that because you only last 6 minutes during sex?

[king tarzan]

 

Is that because you only last 6 minutes during sex?

[Ali Katt]

Stop and start is your friend.

[Cunning Punt]

Like many others, decent FK gets me going.

I have fairly high standards, but in my experience, a lot of escorts offer a bit of FK that is not much more than a tongue flick but not many escorts offer DFK.

I don’t think it’s fluffy to say you can’t expect a prossy to kiss every punter regardless of their breath, etc.
I think if you are clean and fresh and don’t stink they should provide the service, but regardless of hygiene some may not find some punters attractive enough to provide what is still regarded as a particularly intimate service.

No-one is saying they should do services they don't want to do. The trouble is a lot of WGs claim to do FK without any intention of providing it.

Experienced punters realise "at discretion" is often bollocks and will either avoid or ask the question and judge if she's lying, but there are a lot of less hardened punters who are fooled into thinking that as long as they turn up with fresh breath, they will get it.

If WGs only do FK with clients who they find fairly attractive, then they aren't going to do it with a lot of punters so shouldn't have it on the list, let alone in their profile text - even "at discretion". It's just misleading.