Hi
I'm interested in this post too.
For me there are some attractions to a chinese massage. First I think they are attractive and you nearly always get a good massage. The downside is that you need to negotiate, usually when you have a hard on. And often if you agree a HE then touching etc might not be allowed.
On the other hand an English WG who offers full personal will let you do most things in the price, but then you get a crap massage for 10 mins and a quick tug and out the door. Like the original OP I like a good massage, HE, but also some touching, fingering and the option of a BJ.
Asking first brings its own issues. I called Tanya, see link below, and asked if she did HE. She sounded offended and said no. 30 mins later she texted and said "OK", not sure what that meant but by then I had made other plans. Does anyone have any experience here?
External Link/Members OnlyI like to avoid Southampton city Centre as I punt late afternoons and hate rush hour traffic.
Maybe I should just try Siam Sauna?