Protection Femidom or Condom.

[paper7]

Which do people prefer - and why thanks. Undecided punter.

[Derrick101]

Which do people prefer - and why thanks. Undecided punter.

Seems like you're undecided about punting and posting a review as well 

[paper7]

If you knew WHY you'd probably be a bit more understanding. All I did was ask a question.

[daviemac]

If you knew WHY you'd probably be a bit more understanding. All I did was ask a question.

It seems a bit of a strange question when you aren't really an 'undecided punter'.   

[paper7]

I'm undecided about whether a Femidom or a Condom is better. I'm sorry I didn't make that clear. I don't know, which is why I'm asking.

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Which do people prefer - and why thanks. Undecided punter.

WGs I’ve encountered always provided condoms, except for one dumb woman years ago who said she ran out and so was limited to HR. Not one popped a femidom in.

[paper7]

Fair do's. Thanks.

[daviemac]

I'm undecided about whether a Femidom or a Condom is better. I'm sorry I didn't make that clear. I don't know, which is why I'm asking.

As you don't punt I'm confused as to why you would need to know, particularly as I would see it as a personal preference. We are all individuals and have different tastes, what works for one may not work for another.
It's also confusing why you call yourself a punter when you are not.

[whiskyfan]

Which do people prefer - and why thanks. Undecided punter.

What makes you think you get to choose? Very few WG's advertise that they have femidoms available and you'd have to ask any other in advance if they are ok using them.

[the_exile]

Yes, you would definitely need to ask about them first with the SP. All girls will have condoms but don't think many would have Femidoms as a rule.

[Derrick101]

If you knew WHY you'd probably be a bit more understanding. All I did was ask a question.

OK, so WHY ?

[tesla]

I had the femidom experience once with Holly Macy a good few years back now, to be honest it was like shagging the plastic bag the butcher puts your sausages in.
The session with Holly was good though, it was before her weirdness came upon her and pre boob job!

[daviemac]

OK, so WHY ?

He's disabled, married and housebound, hence my querying his desire to know if it isn't a situation he's going to find himself in. 

[Derrick101]

He's disabled, married and housebound, hence my querying his desire to know if it isn't a situation he's going to find himself in. 

Thanks Davie. If he's made that clear, then we would all be more understanding. Probably just curiosity then 

[Foxtail17]

Which do people prefer - and why thanks. Undecided punter.

Tried a femidom once, totally useless.

[Hobbit]

He's disabled, married and housebound, hence my querying his desire to know if it isn't a situation he's going to find himself in. 

That's a very strange contradiction. So why is he on this forum? Is he punting or not? Sounds very weird to me.

[daviemac]

That's a very strange contradiction. So why is he on this forum? Is he punting or not? Sounds very weird to me.

By his own admission he doesn't and hasn't punted. Why he's here only he knows.

[Jonestown]

Tried a femidom once, totally useless.

Have to agree, don’t think anyone likes them, expensive too, condoms bad as some might find them are way better.

[Thecunninglinguist]

I've never seen one of these femidoms. How does it work, does the WG just reverse the direction of her suspenders and clip the edges of the femidom to them to stop them being pushed inwards with the thrusts? 

[Hobbit]

I've never seen one of these femidoms. How does it work, does the WG just reverse the direction of her suspenders and clip the edges of the femidom to them to stop them being pushed inwards with the thrusts? 

I've never used them but they sound useless. Better to use extra thin condoms.

[brandonpete]

He's revising for his GCSE project!

[mradventures]

ive heard they where good for anal, maybe that was just nitrile ones?

[Marmalade]

If you knew WHY you'd probably be a bit more understanding. All I did was ask a question.

Try mumsnet. They will be more 'understanding'.   


To answer your question even though you've not had the decency to tell us why you are asking something so fucking idiotic, prostitutes either expect you to wear a condom or else you are better off doing so or walking. They will not graciously think your 'preference' is other than annoying shite.
 

Have a nice day. 

[Marmalade]

p.s. we've felt sorry for you before. But this is a punting forum.

[Tricky Dickie]

Well, according to Wikipedia they are less effective than condoms and if not used correctly have a 21% failure rate. Since most of the girls I’ve met are in the “stretch it in like you’re putting a rubber glove on a football” camp I’d say the chances of them being used correctly are low.

I can’t see what advantage the bloke gets from them.

[Doc Holliday]

I can’t see what advantage the bloke gets from them.

Potential advantages are that you don't have that awkward period of putting on the male condom with the associated issues of loss of erection etc. The female condom can be inserted well in advance even hours. You don't have to withdraw once you have ejaculated although that's less likely to be relevant with punting? Many say it feels more natural ... others disagree.

I only ever tried the older versions which were likened to shagging a crisp packet especially in terms of noise. That was my experience also but the FC2 versions are nitrile and are allegedly much quieter?

Being nitrile they can be used with almost any variety of lube and don't suffer the dryness effect of latex which can lead to rupture. I gather they are popular with anal (especially MM) for this reason, but they are not actually approved for anal sex, partly due to lack of research.

The female condom was supposed to be all about feminism and women taking control but it just hasn't really happened?

If used correctly they are slightly less effective in relation to birth control but not significantly so. They do prevent STI's on a par with the male version and some claim they give increased protection against skin to skin transmission of HPV and Herpes, but that's theoretical and opinions are split.

They require practice to insert on the part of the female but once mastered this is not considered a problem by those who use them.

The really big disadvantage is the risk of the penis going 'down the side' instead of within. It can happen accidentally if not enough care, but more importantly with punting may be deliberate with 'the BB seekers'.

Rather like the general population they just haven't caught on in the punting world either .... but a small number do use them?

Finally if you are turned on by the sight of female genitalia as part of your session then this may be diminished by the view of the outer ring of the condom?

[Tricky Dickie]

Potential advantages are that you don't have that awkward period of putting on the male condom with the associated issues of loss of erection etc. The female condom can be inserted well in advance even hours. You don't have to withdraw once you have ejaculated although that's less likely to be relevant with punting? Many say it feels more natural ... others disagree.

I only ever tried the older versions which were likened to shagging a crisp packet especially in terms of noise. That was my experience also but the FC2 versions are nitrile and are allegedly much quieter?

Being nitrile they can be used with almost any variety of lube and don't suffer the dryness effect of latex which can lead to rupture. I gather they are popular with anal (especially MM) for this reason, but they are not actually approved for anal sex, partly due to lack of research.

The female condom was supposed to be all about feminism and women taking control but it just hasn't really happened?

If used correctly they are slightly less effective in relation to birth control but not significantly so. They do prevent STI's on a par with the male version and some claim they give increased protection against skin to skin transmission of HPV and Herpes, but that's theoretical and opinions are split.

They require practice to insert on the part of the female but once mastered this is not considered a problem by those who use them.

The really big disadvantage is the risk of the penis going 'down the side' instead of within. It can happen accidentally if not enough care, but more importantly with punting may be deliberate with 'the BB seekers'.

Rather like the general population they just haven't caught on in the punting world either .... but a small number do use them?

Finally if you are turned on by the sight of female genitalia as part of your session then this may be diminished by the view of the outer ring of the condom?

I’m still not seeing many advantages in the punting world.

Fair enough no delay putting the femidom on but I presume for that to work I’ve been chewing on the thing during reverse oral which I don’t think I’d like.

Hopefully the girl isn’t relying on the femidom as her only birth control option so it being slightly less effective doesn’t seem a problem to me. From a punters point of view I’m more about safety and experience. However if she is using it as her only BC option then surely she’d want something that is less prone to operator error.

I can see the benefits in a relationship. The partners can work around the issues and get the benefits. For the punting world though it still seems like a lot of effort for little reward.

[Doc Holliday]

I’m still not seeing many advantages in the punting world.

I completely agree.

[CoverMyEyes]

Well, according to Wikipedia they are less effective than condoms and if not used correctly have a 21% failure rate. Since most of the girls I’ve met are in the “stretch it in like you’re putting a rubber glove on a football” camp I’d say the chances of them being used correctly are low.

I can’t see what advantage the bloke gets from them.

Really? Didn't know it was that high, but TBH I'm not surprised. Tried one once some years ago with a non-WG and I agree with the feeling you are sticking it into a supermarket bag, all the while worrying it will move/disappear up there without you realising.

[paper7]

Try mumsnet. They will be more 'understanding'.   


To answer your question even though you've not had the decency to tell us why you are asking something so fucking idiotic, prostitutes either expect you to wear a condom or else you are better off doing so or walking. They will not graciously think your 'preference' is other than annoying shite.
 

Have a nice day. 

I managed to have a short discussion with the O/H where I told her that the lack of ANY intimacy or closeness over the last 14 years was doing my head in and that she either changed her attitude towards me and sex or I paid for it. Her reply was, "Go ahead if you want, pay for it, just don't get caught."

The reason I asked whether anybody had a preference for either a Femidom or a Condom is that there is a girl on my H/L who 'offers' the service, having read the replies to my question the answer would be to decline the offer and use a Condom every time.

Being stuck in a wheelchair you face certain daily challenges that able-bods wouldn't think twice about, steps/stairs are just two examples To give you an idea I always test out getting to any venue/building by doing a 'dry run' first. I did one recently that required two bus journeys and a long (walk) push from one bus-stop to my second one, I was doing alright, pushing myself steadily along when I turned a corner and found that the pavement was narrow and there were cars parked all along the length of the street on the pavement, making it even narrower and impossible to get along. There was no 'dropped kerb' to travel down the road and it would have been far too dangerous, and downright stupid, to do it.

So I'm going to go ahead with it, just have to start saving my pennies first!

 

[myothernameis]

Which do people prefer - and why thanks. Undecided punter.

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I managed to have a short discussion with the O/H where I told her that the lack of ANY intimacy or closeness over the last 14 years was doing my head in and that she either changed her attitude towards me and sex or I paid for it. Her reply was, "Go ahead if you want, pay for it, just don't get caught."

The reason I asked whether anybody had a preference for either a Femidom or a Condom is that there is a girl on my H/L who 'offers' the service, having read the replies to my question the answer would be to decline the offer and use a Condom every time.

Being stuck in a wheelchair you face certain daily challenges that able-bods wouldn't think twice about, steps/stairs are just two examples To give you an idea I always test out getting to any venue/building by doing a 'dry run' first. I did one recently that required two bus journeys and a long (walk) push from one bus-stop to my second one, I was doing alright, pushing myself steadily along when I turned a corner and found that the pavement was narrow and there were cars parked all along the length of the street on the pavement, making it even narrower and impossible to get along. There was no 'dropped kerb' to travel down the road and it would have been far too dangerous, and downright stupid, to do it.

So I'm going to go ahead with it, just have to start saving my pennies first!

 

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I’d say your best bet is an outcall to your hotel room. More expensive but safer.

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Or better yet find a reliable minder to get you from point A to point B, and then back to point A. Cheaper.

[Strawberry]

Is this your first punt, if so keep it simple.

And yes being in a chair presents everday extra challenges, not everywhere is as accessible as us with 2 operational legs often appreciate. Arranging a minder means organising another person, some punters do have someone come with them but also depends which else you want to know, and of course there's your own privacy, dignity etc.

[The Owl]

I've used the old Femidoms in a civie relationship. It wasn't as good as fucking her bareback once she was on the pill but there was a certain better friction feeling as my cock was rubbing against the Femidom in her pussy rather than the experience of pressure being felt on my cock through the condom. I only know one active escort that uses them in my city but she's a touring pornstar with a price I'm not willing to pay for who it is.

[Punterperson1971]

I managed to have a short discussion with the O/H where I told her that the lack of ANY intimacy or closeness over the last 14 years was doing my head in and that she either changed her attitude towards me and sex or I paid for it. Her reply was, "Go ahead if you want, pay for it, just don't get caught."

She was fine when I left her in bed all happy.

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I suppose it is time for OP to create a new subject.

[paper7]

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I’d say your best bet is an outcall to your hotel room. More expensive but safer.

That would be the most sensible solution. Thanks.

[MrMatrix]

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I’d say your best bet is an outcall to your hotel room. More expensive but safer.

Hello P7, hope things are looking up for you. The above advice is probably the best solution. You control the location and facilities that would support the use of a wheel chair. May be more expensive but you can get day rate rooms
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This link may help.
Best of luck. MM

[Stiltskin]

It just looks like an annoying loose condom
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[paper7]

Hello P7, hope things are looking up for you. The above advice is probably the best solution. You control the location and facilities that would support the use of a wheel chair. May be more expensive but you can get day rate rooms
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Best of luck. MM

Thanks for the link. They do quite a good selection, all I need to do now is save up my pennies!
Thanks.
P7.

[paper7]

It just looks like an annoying loose condom
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It does too, and in the example (video) you linked to it kept slipping off. My mind is made up - condom it is.
Thanks.
P7.

[Happylad]

For any male with any degree of allergy to latex (and there are a few of us still about) it is the only alternative to BB, so please don`t knock it too hard.   Even as a vigorous youth in my eighties I well recall that the mere sight of a Durex condom would send my hardest of hard-ons diving for cover and turn it into a limp cowering wreck which needed considerable coaxing back to life.

[Strawberry]

For any male with any degree of allergy to latex (and there are a few of us still about) it is the only alternative to BB, so please don`t knock it too hard.   Even as a vigorous youth in my eighties I well recall that the mere sight of a Durex condom would send my hardest of hard-ons diving for cover and turn it into a limp cowering wreck which needed considerable coaxing back to life.

What about latex - free condoms?

[whiskyfan]

For any male with any degree of allergy to latex (and there are a few of us still about) it is the only alternative to BB, so please don`t knock it too hard.   Even as a vigorous youth in my eighties I well recall that the mere sight of a Durex condom would send my hardest of hard-ons diving for cover and turn it into a limp cowering wreck which needed considerable coaxing back to life.

Are you saying that all femidoms are non latex? Even if true (and I've no idea if it is or not), latex free condoms have been around for years so it's not the only alternative to bb.

[GingerNuts]

For any male with any degree of allergy to latex (and there are a few of us still about) it is the only alternative to BB

Latex free condoms?

[Happylad]

The problem was that the wgs generally either didn`t know, or didn`t want to know about Latex Free condoms - you had to use what they supplied, or no shag.  Tell a WG that you are allergic to latex and require latex free condoms and she will immediately assure you that her condoms are latex free, and you then find out the hard way; buy your own and take them with you and she is immediately suspicious and won`t use them.  In the end it was easier simply to use those wgs. whom I could persuade to use a Femidom, and I found that most girls who tried them were quite happy to use them as long as I paid for them.

Consequently I kept a supply on hand - still have some in fact but sadly no longer any use to me now - be a lovely surprise for my daughters in law when they all start rooting through my wardrobe after my death.