Sex Party Yay or Nay: questions and thoughts within

[Hunter84]

Ok, so i'm not exactly the most attractive guy and after an injury at work my health isn't all that either, i don't have a huge cock, nervous of how i look you know the normal bullshit bullshit, I'd LOVE to try a sex party and see if they're any good / or even for me,

Now the paranoia is kicking in

What if they all laugh at me?
What if none of the ladies wanna be touched by me or touch me?


all sorts of shit like that, What are peoples experiance with them?

if i get a few answers to help me work my brain out a bit more i'm very tempted to push my luck and go

[geostorm1]

You're over thinking it.

Find a WG you like and ask her to goto a party or sex club with you.

[Colston36]

Ok, so i'm not exactly the most attractive guy and after an injury at work my health isn't all that either, i don't have a huge cock, nervous of how i look you know the normal bullshit bullshit, I'd LOVE to try a sex party and see if they're any good / or even for me,

Now the paranoia is kicking in

What if they all laugh at me?
What if none of the ladies wanna be touched by me or touch me?


all sorts of shit like that, What are peoples experiance with them?

if i get a few answers to help me work my brain out a bit more i'm very tempted to push my luck and go

You are a puzzle. You have already had fun with a handful of ladies. These ladies are not there to fall in love or be enchanted by your wit and savoir-faire. They are there, just like the ones you've already seen, to make money. They are familiar with cocks of all shapes and sizes. They don't expect to meet superman. Most take a rather shocking delight in having as many orifices filled and surfaces covered with as much sperm as possible. Anyhow, it will be a new and delightfully sordid experience for you. Life has too few of those for such a  modest price. Press on, report, and entertain us! 

[SpaceRaiderDave]

You are a puzzle. You have already had fun with a handful of ladies. These ladies are not there to fall in love or be enchanted by your wit and savoir-faire. They are there, just like the ones you've already seen, to make money. They are familiar with cocks of all shapes and sizes. They don't expect to meet superman. Most take a rather shocking delight in having as many orifices filled and surfaces covered with as much sperm as possible. Anyhow, it will be a new and delightfully sordid experience for you. Life has too few of those for such a  modest price. Press on, report, and entertain us!

Everything said above by Colston is true. I will add a couple of other comments
All paid girl parties are no pressure events so spend the first 15 minutes watching. Worst case scenrio is you don't think you want to join and you just continue watching so you've ended up paying to attend a live sex show. Still not a bad thing and the itch has been scratched.
At every "paid girl" party I've been to the girls have been very sympathetic to newcomers so will do their best to make you feel relaxed. Do stay for the full duration as there is often a rush at the beginning of the party but the second half is always more relaxed.  Avoid Swingers parties for your first event as non paid girls do not play by the same rules
   

[Subboy1980]

Everything said above by Colston is true. I will add a couple of other comments
All paid girl parties are no pressure events so spend the first 15 minutes watching. Worst case scenrio is you don't think you want to join and you just continue watching so you've ended up paying to attend a live sex show. Still not a bad thing and the itch has been scratched.
At every "paid girl" party I've been to the girls have been very sympathetic to newcomers so will do their best to make you feel relaxed. Do stay for the full duration as there is often a rush at the beginning of the party but the second half is always more relaxed.  Avoid Swingers parties for your first event as non paid girls do not play by the same rules
 

Areed

[Thephoenix]

My experiences of sex parties are that the guys come in all shapes and sizes and all age groups.
One regular old guy couldn't even get an erection and just enjoyed watching.
If you read reviews of well managed parties, the organisers can usually ensure that no one's left out.

[Hunter84]

You are a puzzle. You have already had fun with a handful of ladies. These ladies are not there to fall in love or be enchanted by your wit and savoir-faire. They are there, just like the ones you've already seen, to make money. They are familiar with cocks of all shapes and sizes. They don't expect to meet superman. Most take a rather shocking delight in having as many orifices filled and surfaces covered with as much sperm as possible. Anyhow, it will be a new and delightfully sordid experience for you. Life has too few of those for such a  modest price. Press on, report, and entertain us!

a puzzle? i find it in my head 1 on 1 with a paid girl her how do i say it, her attention lets say is normal focused on just me. thats all thats running though my head, i didnt mean to confuse anyone. also its not just the working girls but the other guys if that makes sence, sorry

[southcoastpunter]

Op i know what you mean. but try it. I have done a couple of sex parties. glad i did but found they are not for me. And yes, sometimes you do find you are stood next to the guy hung like a donkey etc...... but..... not sure what age you are but you reach an age where you start going to a few funerals - first your parents age group then some of your friends etc and you realise that hell, you never know when your time is up so whatever you want to do or have a fancy to do - GET ON AND DO IT. whilst you can. If its not for you, well you have found out and you can try something else. if you like it, well get in there!

Life really can be too short to ponder on things too long. Plan,  and try it.

[Colston36]

a puzzle? i find it in my head 1 on 1 with a paid girl her how do i say it, her attention lets say is normal focused on just me. thats all thats running though my head, i didnt mean to confuse anyone. also its not just the working girls but the other guys if that makes sence, sorry

I think the difference is that at an orgy the girls' attention is on getting as much as they can - or so I gather from two girls I know with different points of view. One works at The Private Club and I was intrigued a while ago that despite that she then went to get fucked by lot of black guys, who didn't pay. Another is an ex-escort friend (306 reviews before she retired)  who wants me to take her to be fucked by as many men as she can manage while I lick her cunt, the scamp. 

[davidgood]

Ok, so i'm not exactly the most attractive guy and after an injury at work my health isn't all that either, i don't have a huge cock, nervous of how i look you know the normal bullshit bullshit, I'd LOVE to try a sex party and see if they're any good / or even for me,

Now the paranoia is kicking in

What if they all laugh at me?
What if none of the ladies wanna be touched by me or touch me?


all sorts of shit like that, What are peoples experiance with them?

if i get a few answers to help me work my brain out a bit more i'm very tempted to push my luck and go

As someone who has been to many different sex parties over the years I can assure you that nobody is going to laugh at you, or be concerned about how you look or the size of your cock.

The ladies are there to entertain the guests and if you are clean and polite they will be happy to let you touch them and more.

Do not waste money taking a girl to a party or try a swinger's party first as it is unlikely to provide a good experience as attractive swinging ladies can be quite  choosy.

If you tell the host/organiser that you are a party  newbie they will try to make sure you have a good first experience.

Go on give it a go. You might just like it!

Regards,

davidgood

[Hunter84]

As someone who has been to many different sex parties over the years I can assure you that nobody is going to laugh at you, or be concerned about how you look or the size of your cock.

The ladies are there to entertain the guests and if you are clean and polite they will be happy to let you touch them and more.

Do not waste money taking a girl to a party or try a swinger's party first as it is unlikely to provide a good experience as attractive swinging ladies can be quite  choosy.

If you tell the host/organiser that you are a party  newbie they will try to make sure you have a good first experience.

Go on give it a go. You might just like it!

Regards,

davidgood

Thank you very much

Next quetion would be Any suggestions for between dartford and london?

Thank you all so much for the comments

I suppose im imaginaning all Porn star esque men with big muscles and huge cocks or something lol

[crfc]

Hunter, just go to a party, it isn't anything like you fear, everyone is there for a good time (& or £££s lol), no obe is going to be taking too much norice of you but focusing upon their own perversions
I recently organised one in Cardiff, see Welsh review section, 3 girls and 11 guys for 2 hours, lots of different bidy sizes n shapes, sone experienced party goers and a few novices, they all enjoyed it thoroughly, at least 7 of the guys reviewed the party
So just find a girl who hosts or one of those organisations that hold them and jump in feet first, cock in hand, you'll wonder what all that fear was about!

[MysteryManNo.7]

You've overthinking it, though to be fair so did I before I took the plunge and tried my first sex party courtesy of The Phoenix Club. Ended up loving it and plan to go again very soon.

No one there cares what you look like, how big your dick is etc. As long as you're clean and respectful the girls will be all over you.

[Longlife]

I have been to several parties over the years. Phoenix would be a good choice.

[Thephoenix]

Thank you very much

Next quetion would be Any suggestions for between dartford and london?

Thank you all so much for the comments

         *****I suppose im imaginaning all Porn star esque men with big muscles and huge cocks or something lol******

          ******No I can assure you Hunter, there aren't many like me there*****

Like we've said there's all shapes and sizes, and those that might seem confident were probably just as nervous as you their first time.

I can't help with that location, but follow the advice.....and Just Do It!.....or you'll never know.




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[Steely Dan]

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I would agree with Phoenix as a good starting point.  Low ratio is better.  Less queueing.  If you like parties, some of the bigger parties can be fun too - a bit of banter from the boys and still enough sex.  For a busy party (3:1 or more) suggest it is at least 3 hours. Depends on budget: we all like different things.

My current Favourite is still LJE with 1:1 ratio, but this is quite different again.  Read the reviews.  Actually this applies to all parties.  And all punting!

[Marmalade]

Defo overthinking it. Biggest challenge for many guys, apart from the immediate “are they looking at me?” Which only lasts a moment, is just the proximity to other cocks. Remember all the guys there are into fucking women, not your ugly arse, and another make thigh momentarily brushing you is fuck all.

You need to be comfortable punting, ie sticking your todger in a wet hole: not getting some sort of exclusive or private ‘relationship’ with the particular fanny-bearer you’re fucker while another guy watches and waits his turn. It’s a party: not a series of private one-to-ones.

Having said that, yes, a low ratio helps, simply as yiu can do more fucking in the hour, not so you can ‘have your own’.

[Hunter84]

Thanks guys I'm gonna do it. Just hope no one knowticed \
recognises me lol

[Straightsix]

I felt similar when I first entered that scene. It was some other wierdo that made me call quits. Believe me, just by what you say mate you ain't as wierd as some folk you'll meet. The worst thing about these sex parties is the money hungry organisers who will ram the place full of cocks that it's all you'll ever bump into and none of the men are vetted. Bloody dangerous I think.

Give it a go, don't regret it. At least you'd have tried it.

Also, i have been to some where the guys have asked for their money back as soon as they see that there are too many men.

[Dipper]

I have been to several parties over the years. Phoenix would be a good choice.

Six years and counting.

We’ll all need a long life to read a review from you. 

[nbarnes]

Go and do it.

I'm not attractive, and have a massive lockdown gut. (seriously)

I went to a sex party (one of Mandy Foxxxes) and it was fucking awesome.

I fucked 5 women (not all to completion) and got 8 blowjobs - it had a really friendly and cordial atmosphere - I was suprised how bold (without being a twat) I was there.

In 10 minutes, being naked and having group sex was just normal.

DO IT

[MysteryManNo.7]

I was nervous the first time I went to Phoenix club but within 30 seconds of the party starting my cock was buried deep in one of the tightest pussies it's even been inside. I hadn't even learned the girl's name (Kasia) yet was balls deep inside her.

As others have said, within about 10 mins walking around and seeing everyone naked will feel totally natural and normal. The girls in my experience are the least self-conscious and couldn't care how you look. All that matters is you're polite, respectful and clean.   

[Hunter84]

Go and do it.

I'm not attractive, and have a massive lockdown gut. (seriously)

I went to a sex party (one of Mandy Foxxxes) and it was fucking awesome.

I fucked 5 women (not all to completion) and got 8 blowjobs - it had a really friendly and cordial atmosphere - I was suprised how bold (without being a twat) I was there.

In 10 minutes, being naked and having group sex was just normal.

DO IT

IS the name of the even mandy Foxxxes too?

I'm gonna do it, Just one last hurdle before i go, but If i can fake it for a day i can make it (don't want my walking stick)

[senordingdongs]

Your defo overthinking, even seen some of those UK Porn Party videos , all ages and all shapes and sizes. Most don't care that they are 25st with a 4in knob because they are getting to hammer Jamie Ray or other little smasher.

[Lewis]

because they are getting to hammer Jamie Ray.

I'd sooner stick my knob in a food blender than inside her. That is one seriously messed up WG.

[nbarnes]

IS the name of the even mandy Foxxxes too?

I'm gonna do it, Just one last hurdle before i go, but If i can fake it for a day i can make it (don't want my walking stick)

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[tynetunnel]

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You do have to pay a deposit and they fill up quick, so get in there.

Emily Indigo of Halloween party 4 looks rather delightful. A search engine shows no results. Anyone know anything about her?

[lillythesavage]

As someone who has been to many different sex parties over the years I can assure you that nobody is going to laugh at you, or be concerned about how you look or the size of your cock.

The ladies are there to entertain the guests and if you are clean and polite they will be happy to let you touch them and more.

Do not waste money taking a girl to a party or try a swinger's party first as it is unlikely to provide a good experience as attractive swinging ladies can be quite  choosy.

If you tell the host/organiser that you are a party  newbie they will try to make sure you have a good first experience.

Go on give it a go. You might just like it!

Regards,

davidgood

Agree with this, swingers parties are best as a couple, but you need to know and trust the other side of the couple, know what they like and do not like, not done parties for a few years but can agree no one is worried about anyone else.
A good hostess will want you to return and make sure no one is left out, go for it.