Could you defend your punting preferences to non-punters/OH/friends?

[sparkus]

We all have particular preferences and WGs we seek out - orientals, ebony, Roms, Latinas etc.

How surprised would people around you be if they knew what you went for? Especially if you're not shacked up with a Chinese bird. I've tried broaching this through the prism of Tinder with fellow online dater mates but some would be happy for anyone with a pulse, never mind any holy grails.

[lillythesavage]

We all have particular preferences and WGs we seek out - orientals, ebony, Roms, Latinas etc.

How surprised would people around you be if they knew what you went for? Especially if you're not shacked up with a Chinese bird. I've tried broaching this through the prism of Tinder with fellow online dater mates but some would be happy for anyone with a pulse, never mind any holy grails.

Not surprised at all, Amazonian black/mixed women have been on my list forever, but not exclusively ,the others, I would keep from most, only a few know about, including the wife. 

[Colston36]

We all have particular preferences and WGs we seek out - orientals, ebony, Roms, Latinas etc.

How surprised would people around you be if they knew what you went for? Especially if you're not shacked up with a Chinese bird. I've tried broaching this through the prism of Tinder with fellow online dater mates but some would be happy for anyone with a pulse, never mind any holy grails.

I have no idea. I only talk about it with those I know are interested; certainly don't "broach" it. To me it 's a subject of interest but nothing to boast about.

My ex whom I still live with occasionally asks when I come back from a jaunt "Did you enjoy it?" but never asks anything.

My eldest daughter would be shocked, my eldest son in NY is very interested and asks for my advice and suggestions when he comes to the UK, but I don't go into detail though he likes some of the photos of women I've seen; his brother disapproves slightly and again no detail; funnily enough he used to fuck everything that moved when young because he's a musician.

My youngest daughter who's in LA knows a bit from a book I wrote but we never discuss; my PA who arranges some of my travel knows, laughs, but doesn't disapprove; my financial director whom I've known for 60 years knows and likes to hear about it, with pictures.

[standardpostage]

Never talk about it.

Loose lips sinks ships, as they say.

My secret, is more secret, than a Swiss bank account 

[Tongue in Cheeks]

This 

[Longshot]

I cant imagine discussing my punting preferences with anyone out side this forum but i suspect the fact that i use prostitutes would be a greater subject matter than the choice of woman i see.

[post impressionist]

Never talk about it.

My secret, is more secret, than a Swiss bank account 

I could not agree more.  Well said

[FiveKnuckles]

Would never talk about it but they would be surprised in my change of taste.

Friends/fam have me down:  tall (same height or taller), long straight hair, pretty,  size 10-12, natural handful tits. 
The body type that can carry my babies.     

Punt world:  Slim ROM with heavy-ish make-up with a bitch face that takes a good pounding 

[sparkus]

Would never talk about it but they would be surprised in my change of taste.

Friends/fam have me down:  tall (same height or taller), long straight hair, pretty,  size 10-12, natural handful tits. 
The body type that can carry my babies.     

Punt world:  Slim ROM with heavy-ish make-up with a bitch face that takes a good pounding 

This is what I was referring to.  It goes without saying we would never discuss it.  But if we did...

[big-al93]

Other than I was paying for it, what is to defend? I don't spend what I don't have and variety is the spice of life, because I've only just started, I'm still ticking things off both my hotlist and like a kid in a candy shop. I tend to stay with girls I am as sure as you ever can be are not being controlled, at least in the sense of kidnapped, trafficked, and forced to work. A manager who helps with comms, booking accomadation, security, while still a bit sketchy is not really much different from an escort agency or parlour imho, providing they knew what they were coming to do and can stop whenever they want. But in the last few months I've been with mostly british, but blonde, brunette, black, white, 1 EE, some petite, some larger. Yet to see an asian for full service, or a redhead, but I have a redhead booked.

Why would you have to defend who you find attractive? Five Knuckles probably wouldn't want a relationship with the bitch faced ROM's that he likes to punt(parphrasing his words), it would be way too much high maintenence, but that is what punting is for, attractive to fuck for half an hour or an hour, then you can piss off and leave any drama or hassle behind.

[myothernameis]

My young brother knows what I usually get up to, and he understands 100%, and dosnt judge me, and knows why, we feel this way

And the only way he knows, and dosn't judge me, was back in the mid 80's, as I walked into one of the local saunas, who came out of one of the cabins, my young brother, with a smile on his face, which soon turned to shock, when he had seen me

[Slow grinder]

Nope... I wouldn't discuss it, as it's MY business .... and besides that I REALLY don't care what others think, if I did I wouldn't be a Punter.

[sparkus]

Other than I was paying for it, what is to defend? I don't spend what I don't have and variety is the spice of life, because I've only just started, I'm still ticking things off both my hotlist and like a kid in a candy shop. I tend to stay with girls I am as sure as you ever can be are not being controlled, at least in the sense of kidnapped, trafficked, and forced to work. A manager who helps with comms, booking accomadation, security, while still a bit sketchy is not really much different from an escort agency or parlour imho, providing they knew what they were coming to do and can stop whenever they want. But in the last few months I've been with mostly british, but blonde, brunette, black, white, 1 EE, some petite, some larger. Yet to see an asian for full service, or a redhead, but I have a redhead booked.

Why would you have to defend who you find attractive? Five Knuckles probably wouldn't want a relationship with the bitch faced ROM's that he likes to punt(parphrasing his words), it would be way too much high maintenence, but that is what punting is for, attractive to fuck for half an hour or an hour, then you can piss off and leave any drama or hassle behind.

Defend was perhaps the wrong term but as another poster mentioned, the types of women I seek out for punts (Chinese with big chebs, big backside ebonies and curvy all over Latinas) aren't reflected by the women I get with IRL.

[NottsNylonLuvr]

The only time two people can keep a secret is if one of them is dead.

[MissWolf]

90% of you lot are missing the point of the OP lol

Hes asking (as far as I can ascertain) if the women you see when punting are the polar opposite of those you are known to date/lust after etc IRL and if they are very different then would those that know you and think they know your type be shocked at who you actually shag.

Could you explain your desire for variety to those who have you down as a guy who goes for size 10 leggy blonds if they saw you out with a size 18 ebony with massive chebs

The paid element doesn't come into the discussion 

[lamboman]

90% of you lot are missing the point of the OP lol

 

[sparkus]

90% of you lot are missing the point of the OP lol

Hes asking (as far as I can ascertain) if the women you see when punting are the polar opposite of those you are known to date/lust after etc IRL and if they are very different then would those that know you and think they know your type be shocked at who you actually shag.

Could you explain your desire for variety to those who have you down as a guy who goes for size 10 leggy blonds if they saw you out with a size 18 ebony with massive chebs

The paid element doesn't come into the discussion 

Thanks for articulating it better than I did

[stampjones]

Im not sure if anyone would be surprised by my type though no-one really has an idea what that is other than a couple of mates as Ive been married 30 years so they didnt know me when I dated. I think quite a few would have something to say about the ages of the girls I see (on seeking mate not fbsm obviously  ). I imagine my family would be disgusted as they often comment on old-young/rich-beautiful relationships and I know at least one of them would think me a borderline paedo (talking girls in early 20s here). Most of those I see are younger than my kids so I get that there would be looks of horror but I guess thats why I dont say anything 😂

[Colston36]

Im not sure if anyone would be surprised by my type though no-one really has an idea what that is other than a couple of mates as Ive been married 30 years so they didnt know me when I dated. I think quite a few would have something to say about the ages of the girls I see (on seeking mate not fbsm obviously  ). I imagine my family would be disgusted as they often comment on old-young/rich-beautiful relationships and I know at least one of them would think me a borderline paedo (talking girls in early 20s here). Most of those I see are younger than my kids so I get that there would be looks of horror but I guess thats why I dont say anything 😂

Wow! I think they'd be astounded or appalled. Few are less than 40 years younger; one was over 60 years younger - and we got on extremely well.

[signy]

I think that they would be able to predict most things: redhead, freckles, tall, slim with tiny/no tits, probably in their 30s and an interest in roleplay. However, this doesn't often reflect the escorts that I actually see, but that is due to a shortage of WGs with these characteristics more than a different preference.

I don't think they would predict my TS interest and enjoyment in sucking a nice cock.

[suttonporksword]

I dont have fixed preferences, I like the fact that punting brings the opportunity to meet a whole spectrum of sexual activities. I tend to keep all of my civvie and punting experiences to myself, except on here, so if i told anyone I had fucked every race and age of woman yes they would be shocked

[shed]

Everyone has secrets and for me it will always be kept that way.

[mandy18]

I think anyone I know would be astounded by the type of person I go with and the things I get up to, Which is pretty much everything, barring under age, animals and scat. Not much let to try.

I would love to talk about this to somebody, but then it is no longer a secret.

[Thephoenix]

It's not an obvious answer for me as my tastes vary considerably.
In civvy life it's more or less any woman that shows interest.

In paid sex, variety is the spice of life.

Regarding discussing with others, it's definitely...
See no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil.

[Steely Dan]

I like a party.  I like MFF.   I think anyone who knows me IRL would not believe it at first.

[MissWolf]

Thanks for articulating it better than I did

 

[hendrix]

I don't ever do civvies, so I expect my tastes might be a complete surprise to some

[JPin]

Never talk about it.

Loose lips sinks ships, as they say.

My secret, is more secret, than a Swiss bank account 

I'm sure there have been threads about this, but I honestly couldn't even tell my best mate. I love having this little secret that is all mine and no one will ever know about it. And it doesn't feel like a lonely secret since I can share experiences with everyone on here.

[JPin]

We all have particular preferences and WGs we seek out - orientals, ebony, Roms, Latinas etc.

How surprised would people around you be if they knew what you went for? Especially if you're not shacked up with a Chinese bird. I've tried broaching this through the prism of Tinder with fellow online dater mates but some would be happy for anyone with a pulse, never mind any holy grails.

It would 100% raise a few eyebrows that I've fucked a 59-year-old Chinese lady, or some of the 50+ year old Hungarians I've booked.

Very curious about doing a TS, and also looking at booking a dominatrix at some point... My mates definitely wouldn't understand that at all, especially the TS thing.

Based on my general civvie activity though, most of the others wouldn't be much of a surprise at all.

[Aldebaran]

Don't know if this quite classes as punting, but all the women I have had relationships with considered me a decent enough lover, but fairly vanilla, so I guess they would be surprised to know that during one period of no relationship, I had regular sessions with a Domme and was caned, paddled, flogged, pegged and cock and ball tortured at least once a month for over a year. Eventually I worked the itch out of my system. I had no idea of the definition of someone like myself, but apparently I was a pain slut.

[willie loman]

i understand the question , never thought i would enjoy the company of girls who left school early etc but i do, family and friends would be kind of surprised,as i am , to be honest.

[lillythesavage]

I'm sure there have been threads about this, but I honestly couldn't even tell my best mate. I love having this little secret that is all mine and no one will ever know about it. And it doesn't feel like a lonely secret since I can share experiences with everyone on here.

Spent most of the day on the road, shifting cars with a mate, had a chat about the local scene, his and mine, preferences etc, then looked on AW for the bird he shagged in my car on Paddies day, she mentioned being an escort.