Hi All
See AW for details.....(how does one post links into this website?)
Comms. were good: she seemed to prefer texting.
The first appointment got missed; mainly because I failed to follow-up but when I did get in touch again she quickly replied. Having read some mixed reviews I was sure to ask her whether she did OWO. Her response was 'No' even though it says 'at discretion' on profile. Fair enough I suppose; I asked and got her honest response.
Here's where it gets weird though. During our texting I asked her not to x at the end of her messages just in case a stray text was seen by the 'other half' before I had had a chance to delete it. (You never know; these things do happen!). She apologised.
Anyway, when she said she didn't do OWO I replied with 'a shame' and a sad emoticon; my polite way of saying 'thanks but no thanks'. Then, about two hours later, late in the evening when the likelihood of being at home was greater, (and I was at home), she texted loads of xxxx with the words 'sorry hun'.
Clearly, this WG felt piqued at my turning the appointment down and felt that gave her licence to try cause serious problems with my home life as 'pay back'.
My advice: be careful. This could be a vindictive WG who doesn't play by the rules!