The free sex isn't too unusual in the fbsm scene, especially with Chinese or Thai girls, who often do want to take a different route - some of them see something more in it.
This girl has been from fairly vanilla to pretty raunchy, if reports are to be believed. I haven't seen her, as an indy but I do know her from her shop days. She's no amateur who has just arrived - she learned in a hard bargain shop - and has a good brain on her.
My thinking, here, is that the OP is a stupid individual, who, if what he says is true, is so far up his own ego that he's outed himself - if not directly to Alicia but to her ex-boss, or to someone who'll pass on the tale. There'll be more than a few guys, on here, reading this and wondering, about the sex and about the 'outing' by her - one or more will talk to her. It always happens.
Then there's the fact that he really is so up his own ego (and is Asian/Oriental, if I recall) that he thinks he's a level up, from others and he'd do 'better'? She snubbed him and this is Chunga's Revenge.