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[Thephoenix]

One thing to remember: performance anxiety is a stress in itself. If you worry about your performance, your performance WILL drop and fail. It's a classic negative feedback loop.
Stress creates stress, worry creates more worry. Self imposed performance targets always result in disappointment.
Go to a punt or massage with the mindset that you're only going for the shits and giggles, to have fun. Don't plan or anticipate anything else. Relax and see what happens, if anything does regard it as a bonus.
And one final important point - whatever you do DON'T fall into the trap of trying to impress the girl with your performance. She's not interested - all she wants from you is your money. She doesn't care how many times you can bring her to orgasm. Or not.

Good advice there chum!
.... except maybe going for the shits?  
Diarrhoea can be a symptom of stress and anxiety, but wouldn't he be better going for a poo poo before he leaves home?

[MissWolf]

One thing to remember: performance anxiety is a stress in itself. If you worry about your performance, your performance WILL drop and fail. It's a classic negative feedback loop.
Stress creates stress, worry creates more worry. Self imposed performance targets always result in disappointment.
Go to a punt or massage with the mindset that you're only going for the shits and giggles, to have fun. Don't plan or anticipate anything else. Relax and see what happens, if anything does regard it as a bonus.

Exactly this, I've just had this exact conversation with a new to punting client this morning who has had no intimacy for over 3 years, he kept saying 'I hope I can perform' 'I hope I'm not a disappointment' the inevitable happened and even though I tried to explain to him why and reassure him he still kept apologising and saying he was embarrassed.

Sometimes no matter how hard we try if that's the track playing in a guys head nothing will work 

[DouglasReynholm]

Exactly this, I've just had this exact conversation with a new to punting client this morning who has had no intimacy for over 3 years, he kept saying 'I hope I can perform' 'I hope I'm not a disappointment' the inevitable happened and even though I tried to explain to him why and reassure him he still kept apologising and saying he was embarrassed.

Sometimes no matter how hard we try if that's the track playing in a guys head nothing will work 

You seem a lot kinder than some of the girls I've rented. Made me think of this thread https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=288915.0 I started 3 years ago - and I've now just seen who posted second.

I've had no trouble getting it up but they're still cheeky to me on a regular basis. They use language barriers as an excuse.

[MissWolf]

You seem a lot kinder than some of the girls I've rented. Made me think of this thread https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=288915.0 I started 3 years ago - and I've now just seen who posted second.

I've had no trouble getting it up but they're still cheeky to me on a regular basis. They use language barriers as an excuse.

Agh I remember that thread fondly and my faux par embarrassingly 

That is not a valid excuse and I try to subscribe to treat others as you would want to be treated, it serves me well

[proxima22]

Yep, usually when a girl is way out of my league and/or a lot younger than me. Also very often struggle to finish.

Blue pill has solved this problem for me but I also found I had less of a problem with Thai and Chinese WGs as I've found they're often much better at making you feel comfortable and like they actually want to do it with you!

[Ivor Hunch]

Exactly this, I've just had this exact conversation with a new to punting client this morning who has had no intimacy for over 3 years, he kept saying 'I hope I can perform' 'I hope I'm not a disappointment' the inevitable happened and even though I tried to explain to him why and reassure him he still kept apologising and saying he was embarrassed.

Sometimes no matter how hard we try if that's the track playing in a guys head nothing will work 

Not exactly a scientific study, but it would be interesting to know, what percentage of clients (a) cum multiple times (b) are one and done (c) struggle to cum at all (d) struggle even to get/ maintain an erection.

One would assume that there might well be an age correlation, but again it would be interesting to know if there are any other demographic correlations.

Also it might be interesting to know how a "perceived happiness" rating would correlate between the categories.

In a 1 hour booking, I am a firm (b).  if we go up to 2 hours or more, it is (a)/(b)-  but I would not say that i necessarily enjoy the (a)s any more than the (b)s.  The effort to get across the line sometimes detracts from the experience itself.

[holeymoley]

Yep, usually when a girl is way out of my league and/or a lot younger than me. Also very often struggle to finish.

Blue pill has solved this problem for me but I also found I had less of a problem with Thai and Chinese WGs as I've found they're often much better at making you feel comfortable and like they actually want to do it with you!

I share your thoughts regarding the Thai and Chinese, it just seems they are more accepting of my (old) age and most are quite fun to be with. Due to health issues Ive tended to stick to a couple of regulars which i think makes life easier.

Just wonder if its simply that the T's and C's are better actors ( actresses ! )

[Watts.E.Dunn]

No I think thay have this ability to either understand what a man needs, or how to look after them!.

Never not known one who i hadn't had a good time with mainly maasage, and a reg or two they always want to help ypu dress and fuss over you a bit:)..

Its also in their culture, a respect for older people!..

[DouglasReynholm]

Everything I hear about oriental women is good, but I've never even kissed one. In Bangkok I was in bed at 11 every night - alone! I just don't fancy them, it's like they're a different species. Nothing against them, but got nothing for them sexually. Must be their eyes. I don't feel that way about any other races. You can't prosecute a cock for racism! Yet.

Yep, usually when a girl is way out of my league and/or a lot younger than me. Also very often struggle to finish.

Blue pill has solved this problem for me but I also found I had less of a problem with Thai and Chinese WGs as I've found they're often much better at making you feel comfortable and like they actually want to do it with you!

When a girl is way out of my league and/or a lot younger than me I actually rather like it, but I will admit it's harder - to get hard - if they won't kiss. It's like the beginning of the film is missing. I'm willing to try Tadalafil (Cialis) if I need to.

[scutty brown]

Everything I hear about oriental women is good, but I've never even kissed one. In Bangkok I was in bed at 11 every night - alone! I just don't fancy them, it's like they're a different species. ...................

Well..........there is a theory taught in some Chinese Universities that they're more directly descended from Homo erectus.....
Our current understanding of DNA suggests that's a load of BS but who really knows?

[Maak]

I struggled getting it up too, but have recovered by doing the following steps.

I quit porn, quit masturbation, took magnesium, ashwagandha, zinc & hit the gym. Cleaned up my diet, ate all the right foods recommended for penile health.

[bangstick]

I struggled getting it up too, but have recovered by doing the following steps.

I quit porn, quit masturbation, took magnesium, ashwagandha, zinc & hit the gym. Cleaned up my diet, ate all the right foods recommended for penile health.

I've heard of zinc and the quitting, but what foods are regarded as beneficial ?

[JontyR]

ashwagandha

Bless you.