Trouble is, my job is reasonably high-profile and it would be unthinkably disastrous for me to get caught.
And how would that happen? if you take all the usual precautions - punting phone, false name, not punting too close to home, seeing a reputable girl with good feedback - HOW could you get caught?
Unless you're one of a small handful of instantly-recognisable people - Richard Branson, Alan Sugar, David Cameron, Ed Milliband etc - how could she know who you are?
And plenty of guys on here are married, and getting caught would be pretty disastrous for them too - but it rarely happens, and when it does, it's usually a lapse by the punter.