Punting quirks

[hendrix]

A couple of recent reviews, and my reaction to them, got me wondering about my own "quirks" and perhaps what others might also consider to be theirs.

Mine is that I simply won't pay extras. I would rather pay, for example, Alexxa Vice £900ph (all inclusive) than, for example, Crystal Powers £350 plus £50 for anal    Severely limiting my choices (in an all time weak pse market) in the process.

I fully understand about the prep etc for anal but I simply don't care to pay a published premium for it. I won't pay extra for cim/owo/facials/ws either too.

Maybe my own weird perception of vfm, that if anal didn't happen (can't always guarantee naturally) I'd feel cheated out of £50 and awkward about getting it back. If it didn't happen in the £900 booking I wouldn't be that bothered 

Even writing it down here sounds mental to me 😂

Maybe I just needed to write it down to realise it's insane. Ah well, carry on!

Also, although I'm not black, if I see NBA I'll blacklist, maybe that's just my "wokeness"   

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Seems a bit mental paying a girl 900 bloody quid anyway!...

Well your loot your choice!..

[hendrix]

Seems a bit mental paying a girl 900 bloody quid anyway!...

Well your loot your choice!..

Yeah, I mean, that's the most extreme example I could think of for a truly all inclusive WG.

[jamiekinkxxx]

100% with you Hendrix.

I never see girls that charge extras. They either enjoy it and wrap it in their price (which could therefire be higher) or they don't and they add the 'extras' like a restaurant menu. The latter is just not for me.

[sim0256]

Agree with others. I don't like the pick and mix way of pricing. If the girl does it , fine , include it  and if I avail of it no problem . It goes with the flow. Paying extra makes it almost a must do , must have, because I've paid for it.  Pay for eg, Anal and the meet goes so good you pop before you get round to it , or worse it goes bad and you don't wish to move on to whatever you paid extra for.  Buy the package you know what available and whats included and then it up you what you avail off, no holding your hand out and asking for a repayment of the unused bits. Simples.

[hendrix]

Agree with others. I don't like the pick and mix way of pricing. If the girl does it , fine , include it  and if I avail of it no problem . It goes with the flow. Paying extra makes it almost a must do , must have, because I've paid for it.  Pay for eg, Anal and the meet goes so good you pop before you get round to it , or worse it goes bad and you don't wish to move on to whatever you paid extra for.  Buy the package you know what available and whats included and then it up you what you avail off, no holding your hand out and asking for a repayment of the unused bits. Simples.

Yep, it's the "goes with the flow" bit that I really enjoy in punts 

[Stevelondon]

Daft as it sounds. I go with the OP.

I can look back and see that I usually always go for the SP with a standard charge and a service list that suits my quirks if that makes sense.

So why on earth I paid £20 extra for FK when I went to see Gabi (New Malden) I will never know.
As it turned out it was’nt worth it so I shot myself in the foot and realise I should have stuck to my guns about extras.

[Southernbloke]

I don’t mind paying extras in a parlour as long as they are published on the wall in the room.
But when there are unmentioned ones with indies when you get there I really mind , generally speaking I walk if that’s the case .

[jamiekinkxxx]

Yep, it's the "goes with the flow" bit that I really enjoy in punts 

Indeed... I love meets that are organic and just ebb and flow without the thought of 'shit' I didn't pay for this 'extra'

As you may b able to tell.... I hate extra's.

[jimbobted]

I very rarely pay for extras, go with the flow and spontaneous acts are much more enjoyable than choosing a tick list of activities in advance.
I also would far rather the girl did something because she's happy to do do it than do it under semi duress because she's getting more cash.

Most I've ever paid for extras is £10 for OWO, not counting £80 for bondage at a BDSM themed brothel (but I viewed that as just the price of entry, because why the fuck would you go to a BDSM place and not tie the girl up?!).

[Jeffe]

My wariness on extras is that the sp doesn’t really want to provide the service so paying extra might mean it’s delivered grudgingly (so you don’t enjoy it as much and neither does the sp)

I enjoy duo bookings but the extra for “bi interaction” that is sometimes an extra is confusing. How much bi interaction constitutes the service delivered etc. bit of a minefield

[Billy no mates]

Totally agree with everything said and Hendrix’s post.

The price is the price, we each have our own version of that in our heads. However I very rarely have CIM but I did in a couple of recent bookings. I don’t want to pay ahead for that in case I’m not in the mood, nor do I want to be reminded of all of a sudden I fancy it that I need to get the card machine out.

[luv2kiss54]

I have paid the odd extra in the past but dont anymore on principle.

Some girls have the trick of quoting a reasonable price to lure you in but then lumping on extras so the meet becomes unaffordable and one i wouldnt have booked in the first place if i knew the actual full price.

I booked one recently which was quoted as £80 for half hour. I made my way over there, nothing mentioned on the profile or on text messages about extras. I was in the flat so i say its £80 right ?. She says thats the basic service if i want kissing, OWO or pussy licking thats £20 each extra ie another £60 !!. I just laughed at her and walked, greedy cow. Her profile quickly disappeared so others must have done the same !

[Blackpool Rock]

Well i'll go against the flow here then 

I'd rather have a girl with a low basic rate (Indi or parlour) and a known list of extras so that i can price the punt up then decide once I get there what extras I actually want
For instance I pay the basic at the start unless I know OWO is extra so may also pay that at the start however I wouldn't actually pay for CIM or a facial up front as I don't know if i'll pop before that stage, I usually see if it's on offer and say i'll go with the flow so only pay after if i've actually had the service.

The logic of paying an all inclusive fully loaded price up front then not receiving half the services simply doesn't make sense, what make even less sense is being happy to do so but unhappy at paying an overall lower price from a combination of the basic plus extras actually received, sorry guys but the logic is fundamentally flawed 

I think we can probably all agree however that extras which are not advertised are a real piss off  Turn up to see what is already an expensive Indi thinking it must be all in only to find she wants extra for OWO etc 

[hendrix]

Well i'll go against the flow here then 

I'd rather have a girl with a low basic rate (Indi or parlour) and a known list of extras so that i can price the punt up then decide once I get there what extras I actually want
For instance I pay the basic at the start unless I know OWO is extra so may also pay that at the start however I wouldn't actually pay for CIM or a facial up front as I don't know if i'll pop before that stage, I usually see if it's on offer and say i'll go with the flow so only pay after if i've actually had the service.

The logic of paying an all inclusive fully loaded price up front then not receiving half the services simply doesn't make sense, what make even less sense is being happy to do so but unhappy at paying an overall lower price from a combination of the basic plus extras actually received, sorry guys but the logic is fundamentally flawed 

I think we can probably all agree however that extras which are not advertised are a real piss off  Turn up to see what is already an expensive Indi thinking it must be all in only to find she wants extra for OWO etc 

Yeah I accept that my logic on this is bonkers, hence noting it as a "quirk" because I'm not changing my mind 

[Billy no mates]

Well i'll go against the flow here then 

I'd rather have a girl with a low basic rate (Indi or parlour) and a known list of extras so that i can price the punt up then decide once I get there what extras I actually want
For instance I pay the basic at the start unless I know OWO is extra so may also pay that at the start however I wouldn't actually pay for CIM or a facial up front as I don't know if i'll pop before that stage, I usually see if it's on offer and say i'll go with the flow so only pay after if i've actually had the service.

The logic of paying an all inclusive fully loaded price up front then not receiving half the services simply doesn't make sense, what make even less sense is being happy to do so but unhappy at paying an overall lower price from a combination of the basic plus extras actually received, sorry guys but the logic is fundamentally flawed 

I think we can probably all agree however that extras which are not advertised are a real piss off  Turn up to see what is already an expensive Indi thinking it must be all in only to find she wants extra for OWO etc 

To be I fly Ryanair a lot and it’s their business model

[jamiekinkxxx]

To be I fly Ryanair a lot and it’s their business model

Isn't it just!

[Blackpool Rock]

Yeah I accept that my logic on this is bonkers, hence noting it as a "quirk" because I'm not changing my mind 

Yeah fair enough i'm happy to accept it's a quirk and we probably all have them plus it's your cash so your choice.

Just seems like going to a Chinese restaurant and paying for the Emperers buffet then only eating some prawn crackers and a chow mein

[big-al93]

My wariness on extras is that the sp doesn’t really want to provide the service so paying extra might mean it’s delivered grudgingly (so you don’t enjoy it as much and neither does the sp)

I agree with this, at least for things like OWO, DFK, and maybe CIM, I tend not to (actually typed never originally, but never say never) pay extra for these for the same reason. Whilst I'd agree that extras in general are a bad thing, just set a price, I do see why most girls don't include anal and maybe fetish stuff. A truly inclusive price will encourage a lot of inexperienced punters to try these services as they are included. And I can see why an escort wouldn't want lots of inexperienced guys trying to fuck their arses.
As a punter who doesn't induldge in these services anyway, I wouldn't particularly want to pay an enhanced rate to an SP who provided them all inclusive.

[Billy no mates]

Yeah fair enough i'm happy to accept it's a quirk and we probably all have them plus it's your cash so your choice.

Just seems like going to a Chinese restaurant and paying for the Emperers buffet then only eating some prawn crackers and a chow mein

See, I don’t think it’s like that.

I feel it’s more I’ve paid for the buffet so I can have whatever I want on the menu. I totally agree that if on a certain night I only want prawn crackers I will loose out, but I prefer that to going in for prawn crackers and then saying oh actually can I also have some noodles (extra £5) and some sesame toast (extra £6) and so on.

In fact BR you really have hit the nail on the head, with your food analogy. I prefer a restaurant that says eat all you want £30 or whatever, so I know what I’m going to pay at the start. Knowing full well I (probably) won’t eat that value in money.

[KatieEdinburgh]

I am curious behind the rationale for not wanting ANY extras

I think charging more for things like anal is less about “begrudging” offering it but more that it does require prep time (especially if you want porn style level of clean for the next multi-hour shag fest) and that is time spent before the booking which is otherwise unpaid for, correct? That other bookings wouldn’t require?

Can understand the thinking that charging extra for kissing, OWO, and even RO I’ve seen mentioned on here  would make you think that she probably doesn’t like doing these.

But you need to see that is often the set up for SPs with bargain basement prices to begin with; so upselling each of these is to simply get as much money out of the client as possible…


What would be deemed an acceptable extra then, if any?
- I think sploshing for sure (the clean up time for it probably tops all other activities)
- Anything where you want the SP to purchase a special product ahead of time (Nuru? So expensive)
- Very unusual dress requests that require us to buy stuff just for you
(You won’t guess how many times I’m asked for a fantasy such as tights ripping etc. and I have said yes but you will need to pay for new ones)

Surely in some cases, paying more than the basic rate does make sense ??

[Lou2019]

Yep, it's the "goes with the flow" bit that I really enjoy in punts 

This, from experience, an inclusive rate avoids any misunderstandings too.

[Blackpool Rock]

I know as has been stated that it's a quirk however i'm still baffled why punters would prefer an all in expensive Emperors buffet style price then not eat much so to speak, let's think about this -

Scenario A - A girls service offers a comprehensive likes list which is stated as "All inclusive with no extra charges for anything"
The likes list states -
Kissing
OWO
Protected sex
CIM
Facials
Anal

Her rate is set at £250/hr

Scenario B - Same girl and same likes list but with a basic hr fee of £150 + some chargeable extras
Kissing £10
OWO £10
Protected sex £0 (included)
CIM £20
Facials £20
Anal £40
 
So some of the punters have posted that they are happy with scenario A at a guaranteed £250 but not for the same service offering of option B which would also be £250 assuming that he actually partook of every service, in fact they get annoyed at option B   

My preference is for option B then if I decide against anal for instance the punt is only costing me £210, equally if I aim for 2 pops in the hour (wishful thinking for me  ) with the 1st being CIM after anal and the 2nd being a facial but only manage to pop once then I only pay £230

Perhaps this is my quirk but this sort of reminds me of those places that advertise "Kids eat free", I understand that this probably draws in a family of 4 as they think pay for 2 adults and get 2 kids free.
However if i'm looking to eat without kids then I avoid the place like the plague as i'm still paying the full adult price with no free portion, my rationale is that as a single adult i'm subsidising someone else's kids to eat for free   

[hendrix]

I know as has been stated that it's a quirk however i'm still baffled why punters would prefer an all in expensive Emperors buffet style price then not eat much so to speak, let's think about this -

Scenario A - A girls service offers a comprehensive likes list which is stated as "All inclusive with no extra charges for anything"
The likes list states -
Kissing
OWO
Protected sex
CIM
Facials
Anal

Her rate is set at £250/hr

Scenario B - Same girl and same likes list but with a basic hr fee of £150 + some chargeable extras
Kissing £10
OWO £10
Protected sex £0 (included)
CIM £20
Facials £20
Anal £40
 
So some of the punters have posted that they are happy with scenario A at a guaranteed £250 but not for the same service offering of option B which would also be £250 assuming that he actually partook of every service, in fact they get annoyed at option B   

My preference is for option B then if I decide against anal for instance the punt is only costing me £210, equally if I aim for 2 pops in the hour (wishful thinking for me  ) with the 1st being CIM after anal and the 2nd being a facial but only manage to pop once then I only pay £230

Perhaps this is my quirk but this sort of reminds me of those places that advertise "Kids eat free", I understand that this probably draws in a family of 4 as they think pay for 2 adults and get 2 kids free.
However if i'm looking to eat without kids then I avoid the place like the plague as i'm still paying the full adult price with no free portion, my rationale is that as a single adult i'm subsidising someone else's kids to eat for free 

In that example, rightly or wrongly, B (based on my experience) tells me that the WG dislikes providing those services but will tolerate them for extra money.

[Blackpool Rock]

In that example, rightly or wrongly, B (based on my experience) tells me that the WG dislikes providing those services but will tolerate them for extra money.

I get your point and would agree that in some instances that will be correct, I guess that's where if the girl has good reviews on here her service can be double checked whether it's inclusive or extras

[Steely Dan]

I have a different quirk.

My punting quirk is always searching for girls with small boobs.  But when I get it wrong and book someone with a big (or huge) pair, I have a great time.  Same at parties when I am booking the venue rather than the girl, I have a great time with some proper tits - even well done fake ones.  And yet I keep looking for girls with small boobs.  It makes almost no sense.

[tynetunnel]

I tend to only take the exact money to a punt, so if something is extra, I can’t pay it. Only once in my punting have I been told that a service was extra. Sadly I had to forgo it 

[jamiekinkxxx]

I know as has been stated that it's a quirk however i'm still baffled why punters would prefer an all in expensive Emperors buffet style price then not eat much so to speak, let's think about this -

Scenario A - A girls service offers a comprehensive likes list which is stated as "All inclusive with no extra charges for anything"
The likes list states -
Kissing
OWO
Protected sex
CIM
Facials
Anal

Her rate is set at £250/hr

Scenario B - Same girl and same likes list but with a basic hr fee of £150 + some chargeable extras
Kissing £10
OWO £10
Protected sex £0 (included)
CIM £20
Facials £20
Anal £40
 
So some of the punters have posted that they are happy with scenario A at a guaranteed £250 but not for the same service offering of option B which would also be £250 assuming that he actually partook of every service, in fact they get annoyed at option B   

My preference is for option B then if I decide against anal for instance the punt is only costing me £210, equally if I aim for 2 pops in the hour (wishful thinking for me  ) with the 1st being CIM after anal and the 2nd being a facial but only manage to pop once then I only pay £230

Perhaps this is my quirk but this sort of reminds me of those places that advertise "Kids eat free", I understand that this probably draws in a family of 4 as they think pay for 2 adults and get 2 kids free.
However if i'm looking to eat without kids then I avoid the place like the plague as i'm still paying the full adult price with no free portion, my rationale is that as a single adult i'm subsidising someone else's kids to eat for free 

Its not the money to me, it is the simple fact that I just prefer to have an all inclusive price. This need not mean that they don't offer some services (although my min requirement would be DFK, OWO, Kink Friendly). I just don't want to meet a SP where she maybe begrudgingly offering something she will only do for 'extra' cash. It's amere mindset that I share with Hendrix and some others that have responded to this thread.

I always view my interactions as a two way street to get the best out of the few hours that we will be in each other companies. A two way street to me isn't some charging extra's like a restaurant menu.

[Steve2]

I'm with you Hendrix,
Any sign of extras and I move on

[davidgood]

I hate paying extra for things. As it is a must have, the only thing I will pay extra for is anal if it is a modest amount on top of a reasonable base price.

But I am finding it harder to get anal at, IMO, a reasonable price. Fortunately there are still a few reasonably priced girls around and there is now a regular anal party I attend.

I may be kidding myself, but I always think I get a better service from those that offer an all inclusive service at a fixed price.

Regards,
davidgood

[limarasa9]

Well i'll go against the flow here then 

I'd rather have a girl with a low basic rate (Indi or parlour) and a known list of extras so that i can price the punt up then decide once I get there what extras I actually want
For instance I pay the basic at the start unless I know OWO is extra so may also pay that at the start however I wouldn't actually pay for CIM or a facial up front as I don't know if i'll pop before that stage, I usually see if it's on offer and say i'll go with the flow so only pay after if i've actually had the service.

The logic of paying an all inclusive fully loaded price up front then not receiving half the services simply doesn't make sense, what make even less sense is being happy to do so but unhappy at paying an overall lower price from a combination of the basic plus extras actually received, sorry guys but the logic is fundamentally flawed 

I think we can probably all agree however that extras which are not advertised are a real piss off  Turn up to see what is already an expensive Indi thinking it must be all in only to find she wants extra for OWO etc 

+1. Personally, the only 3 things that I am interested in is OWO, kissing and vaginal sex. Even if an SP has advertised 100 other services, it’s of absolutely no interest to me. So, if someone has included all these other services in their base rate which I am not going to utilise, I would give them a swerve.

[Hobbit]

In that example, rightly or wrongly, B (based on my experience) tells me that the WG dislikes providing those services but will tolerate them for extra money.

Exactly! If a girl is charging extras then that would indicate to me that she doesn't enjoy those services or will end up doing it mechanically.

The other things I don't like girls telling me are:

They have a cum once policy
They don't see customers with dicks bigger than 5 inches
They will not take clothes requests
They will not put on extra makeup

I will NOT see any hooker that makes such stipulations, end of!

[jimbobted]

I tend to only take the exact money to a punt, so if something is extra, I can’t pay it. Only once in my punting have I been told that a service was extra. Sadly I had to forgo it 

Same at my last punt at the end the girl quoted a price that was £10 more than I expected. Turns out she charges extra for RO, but not stated anywhere on her profile. I don't usually eat WGs pussies, but went with the flow this time.
I just said "Sorry I didn't know and I haven't any more cash on me I'm afraid". She was OK about it and I said I'd bring it next time, though she said not to be bother about it.

[Sparta Prada]

Two I can think of in terms of my approach to punting.

1) I don’t recall seeking or booking a SP from Vivastreet.
2) I never knowingly book via an agency.

Not sure if they are quirks as such? More like my punting practices.

[Malvolio]

I don't think you can automatically say a WG is unwilling to provide a service just because she charges extra for it - she's just looking for a way to make more cash.

On this topic, there's stuff I know I will never do in punts, such as filming.  There must be things some of the 'not seeing WGs who charge extras' punters also never do in punts.  If one of your favourite WGs started to charge extra for a service you have no interest in, would that really stop you from seeing her?

[magnetico]

I don’t want to pay ahead for that in case I’m not in the mood,

I pay for OWO in advance
I pay for CIM after the punt ( if go for it during the punt)

[george r]

I pay for OWO in advance
I pay for CIM after the punt ( if go for it during the punt)

Same for me mate it ruins the flow otherwise

[Jeffe]

I am curious behind the rationale for not wanting ANY extras

I think charging more for things like anal is less about “begrudging” offering it but more that it does require prep time (especially if you want porn style level of clean for the next multi-hour shag fest) and that is time spent before the booking which is otherwise unpaid for, correct? That other bookings wouldn’t require?

Can understand the thinking that charging extra for kissing, OWO, and even RO I’ve seen mentioned on here  would make you think that she probably doesn’t like doing these.

But you need to see that is often the set up for SPs with bargain basement prices to begin with; so upselling each of these is to simply get as much money out of the client as possible…


What would be deemed an acceptable extra then, if any?
- I think sploshing for sure (the clean up time for it probably tops all other activities)
- Anything where you want the SP to purchase a special product ahead of time (Nuru? So expensive)
- Very unusual dress requests that require us to buy stuff just for you
(You won’t guess how many times I’m asked for a fantasy such as tights ripping etc. and I have said yes but you will need to pay for new ones)

Surely in some cases, paying more than the basic rate does make sense ??

Fair points here, I suppose in my head I was thinking of things like kissing, OWO, CIM etc. but yes if it has prep (cost of time) or an actual cost (e.g. special outfit than fair enough).

The main one I’m wary of in duo’s is extra for bi interaction. From the SP perspective I can see the logic in this being a way of making more and most punters paying for the fantasy but it’s a hard thing to define - if the girls kiss at the start a bit and that’s it is that really potentially worth £100 each (which some agency girls charge)

[Jeffe]

Thinking more on the original post here, could it be we don’t like being reminded of the cost breakdown, so it feels more like you’re paying. Probably not articulating well but it’s like gambling online feels like you’re spending less than if you’re in a casino putting chips physically down 

Or maybe that’s just my perspective

[sim0256]

Steely Dan I'm with you on this one , ask me and I'll say I don't like big boobs!
Should I accidentally come across (no pun) a pair of big ones I have a great time playing with them, then on next escort search I'm back to the usual , looking for a small sensible set . Must be in the genes.

[alabama1]

Steely Dan I'm with you on this one , ask me and I'll say I don't like big boobs!
Should I accidentally come across (no pun) a pair of big ones I have a great time playing with them, then on next escort search I'm back to the usual , looking for a small sensible set . Must be in the genes.

Or the bra 

[SimonSays2108]

As i'm also a fan of FBSM i've recently noticed an additional +£10 charge being proposed for a 2nd HJ during bookings.

This is on top of £100-£120 / hr B2B sessions - an immediate no no for me but something i'm seeing more frequently.

When i've tried to go cheap though (See recent reviews) the quality has fallen away so perhaps you get what you pay for .. but not always which is the risk.

[hendrix]

I have a different quirk.

My punting quirk is always searching for girls with small boobs.  But when I get it wrong and book someone with a big (or huge) pair, I have a great time.  Same at parties when I am booking the venue rather than the girl, I have a great time with some proper tits - even well done fake ones.  And yet I keep looking for girls with small boobs.  It makes almost no sense.

This is what I mean! Zero sense, but it works for you  

[Brand242]

Good thread. I hate extras too. Have a low tolerance level for it but not a zero tolerance as i have succumbed to temptation in the past (and I will do for Crystal powers when dates align). Usually for anal, facials, rimming or WS. But those that do, I put lower down the HL…which usually means we do not end up meeting.

Other quirks:
- I don’t see anyone that doesn’t like facials, even if they do all of the other of my likes. must mean this is my #1 like..
- don’t do deposits (not sure if it’s a quirk as many will likely be the same)…which has prevented me from seeing a few girls that I know I would have had a lot of fun with, but I just won’t do it.

[datwabbit]

Interesting.

Although I misread the title as "Pauline Quirke"

[Shades]

I get the no extras thing. I am happy to pay for anal as an extra, but at some point it does get to be an experience where you can't go with the flow, and becomes very offfputting.

I also don't like profiles with a long list of dislikes. Suggests they are going to be difficult and don't really want to do the job.

[sablood]

My quirk is that I never plan ahead to see an sp. Even if I know exactly how free and where I'll be, I'll never book in advance. I always book at short notice and won't see anyone that needs an advance notice/ booking period.