How long have you been seeing your regular?

[dub6747]

Just wondering as I'm going into my 13th year seeing the same SP ... have seen many others over that time but have come to realise that none of the others do it for me in the same way this one does, so⁶ don't bother with any others these days...not suggesting that she's the one and not deluded to think that there's a special chemistry etc but just wondered if anyone else prefers to stick with the same SP
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[CityTillIDie]

I do see other girls as well and I’m currently in ‘arrangements’ with 3 different girls from Seeking.
But I do from time to time see an SP in York that I first saw probably fifteen years ago. I see her a few times annually and always end up staying over time as we catch up. All the while kissing and touching which sometimes leads to more

 

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[Dylanbob]

It was a cosy night mid summer in the early 2000's, her name was Pamela, Pamela handerson. Been by by side ever since.

Never understood regulars, the beauty of this hobby is the variety. Might be just me.

[mr.bluesky]

Just wondering as I'm going into my 13th year seeing the same SP ... have seen many others over that time but have come to realise that none of the others do it for me in the same way this one does, so⁶ don't bother with any others these days...not suggesting that she's the one and not deluded to think that there's a special chemistry etc but just wondered if anyone else prefers to stick with the same SP

I have been seeing one regular for over twenty years . I know exactly what I'm gonna get when I see her, I know her likes and dislikes and she knows my likes and dislikes and that suits both of us fine. I know some punters prefer variety but if your happy with what you've got then stick with it I say. 😉

[Charliehutton]

One of my very first punts nearly six years ago was with a girl who has remained my favourite. I visit her once a year, so six times now in total. Does she count as a regular? Dunno. As per an earlier response, it's the variety I find so exciting.

[Jonestown]

Interesting, 13 and 20 years, that’s longer than most people stay married now,  I had no idea girls stayed in the business that long. Currently there is one girl I’ve seen on and off for about four years, I might have a bout of seeing her every few weeks, then disappearing for several months. Usually I’ll meet a girl and think this is the best ever, this is all I need, then after half a dozen visits or so I slope off, partly boredom/predictability, partly embarrassment at thinking she goes, oh no, not him again. I used to have most days of the week covered by a reliable option, so if the opportunity or desire for a punt arose I knew who to call, but these days it’s impossible to keep your dance card more than half full with regular and reliable providers.

[dizietsmae]

I think I saw Sandra curly once every 2-3 months for thew whole time she was working.  We just really clicked but that is the only time I was so consistent due to a combination of price/performance/connection.

[dizietsmae]

I think I saw Sandra curly once every 2-3 months for thew whole time she was working.  We just really clicked but that is the only time I was so consistent due to a combination of price/performance/connection.

I think I never reviewed her either after checking my reviews    No idea why, maybe I got a bit of EAS 

[myothernameis]

From 1983, when I was around 17 years old, a girl who worked in a Glasgow sauna, I would see her over the next 10 years, until.  I found another girl, who I would see over around 15 years until, she retired

[Thephoenix]

In the days of sauna/massage and parlours, I used to have favourites, long before Gumtree and AW, and I had about 4 regulars I visited.
I suppose there's so much more choice available now online, it's often tempting to try something new.

[fastnet]

I think of her as a reg, I visit every 2/3 months but never twice in a row.

So it has been 5 years now

In that time she has lived in 3 different towns.

[Kelgon85]

4.5 years now. See her every couple of months or so.

[mrdiamond77]

I have been seeing my oldest regular for 7 years now.  There are a few others I have been seeing on or off for 5-6 years.

[69Punter]

I have seen mine every month for 2 years and I will still see her

[Landscape]

Been seeing one for around a year or so now and visit her 1-2 times a month. She knows my likes and is fine doing them and that suits both of us. Have no interest in looking elsewhere as all my needs are being met so there's no point.

[Punterperson1971]

I’ve known my regular for around 20 years lost touch years ago but now been seeing her for almost 5 straight years,we get on really well always have.

[flybynightpm]

Maximum 2 years for a reg, always weekly, usually ends because they move, retire or I move. I prefer a reg over something new, you know the layout and their repertoire, they know you, it takes the edge off.  Works both ways, they feel more relaxed and can make the sessions pretty wild. Dangers are, they become complacent and too familiar which leads to a whole set of other issues. Got to make it clear that it's a business relationship, nothing more. I'm not going to rescue you and raise kids, lend money, be a sugar daddy, find you a flat, do your shopping etc etc...

[Punterperson1971]

I find with a regular it’s more relaxed and she knows what I like and she’s introduced me to other stuff like anal and strap on and she allows me to film as well also she introduced me to her mate who I fuck occasionally too,hopefully arranging a meet with her this week too.
We click really well pay her after the session and she’s a very sexy lady she even gave me a key to her a house she uses for sessions

[Jomoore]

I rejected repeat visits for years in the hunt for variety.  I still like variety, but a lass I found on AW about 7 years ago became just like a magnet for me, and despite saying I wouldn't return I always do.  I have clocked up well into three figures of visits to her.  She's since "retired" but still sees me and I suspect a few others, in between bouts of going off radar.  Like now in fact, so back to the parlours and rub'n'tug joints for a while.

[Dennis T Menace]

Around 8 years, but she took a break for a year or so then came back. Not seen her a while now, I must book soon.

[sim0256]

Been seeing one for around a year or so now and visit her 1-2 times a month. She knows my likes and is fine doing them and that suits both of us. Have no interest in looking elsewhere as all my needs are being met so there's no point.

This could have been me writing were it not for the fact that the first one ever seen I visited about five times til she said I needed some variety! (did she want rid of me ?)

Told me of a friend , one who was hard to get a date with, using first girls name I got first visit no problem. realised there was more out there than the  first  one offered. I am still seeing her almost weekly and it is still as good as the day I met her. we chat about all sorts and the services are great and varied.   I do see the occasional new one
been seeing the reg over eighteen months now.

I never did go back to the first girl!!

[Mr Sinister]

About 7 years with 2, but they're no longer regulars more like backup options or when I just need to let some steam off knowing they're dependable and give a good service.

[cunnyhunt]

First booking was 16/17 years ago, saw her maybe once a month as she was reliable and we got on well. This carried on for 11/12years then I had a bad car accident which stopped everything (punting, seeking) for nearly 3 years.  We kept in contact and when I was fit enough we resumed meeting up.
 I also kept contact with a couple of SB from seeking and so far these have meant I haven’t had to trawl AW. The reg stopped being on AW a couple of months after our first meet, she’s willing to try different things as well as having a friend who joins occasionally which has been enough to keep me interested.

[nbarnes]

About once - twice a month for a couple of years.

She's gorgeous, dependable and remembers what I like and puts the effort in. She also gives me some little extras and doesn't stress time too much unless she has another booking.

I'd go more if I had the dollar.

Haven't really seen many other girls, it's just too much a risk sometimes...

[Punterperson1971]

About once - twice a month for a couple of years.

She's gorgeous, dependable and remembers what I like and puts the effort in. She also gives me some little extras and doesn't stress time too much unless she has another booking.

I'd go more if I had the dollar.

Haven't really seen many other girls, it's just too much a risk sometimes...

Same as my regular

[JonasG]

Longest since 2018.

A few others since 2019 too.

[unclepokey]

At the end of April this year my most special woman will celebrate, with me, our ten year commercial relationship. We hope one day to spread confetti so that commerce will be a thing of the past.

My longest connection lasts 21 years and endures still. And we are great friends.

fallen by the wayside are Diane of Bushey (my first excursion into the deeper areas of my wallet). Sadly only 4 years, and
Shanelle of St Albans who for 14 years was top of my list and was a very, very naughty girl.

Uncle Pokey
 

[Colston36]

I have been seeing 3 regularly for 6 years - my first frolic was almost exactly 8 years ago. Two others I saw often dropped out but are coming back, so I guess if I can find the time I'll start seeing them again. Not sure I can manage that many though. Too old.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

We don't have there here Regs up in Mid Anglia ..

[midspunter]

Not exactly sure but my best guess is that I first saw her 18 years ago...

[django0700]

Never understood regulars, the beauty of this hobby is the variety. Might be just me.

+1 Agreed 

[Maak]

I got 2 regulars

1. Seen her since 2017, she is mechanical performance but her body is amazing VFM (£50 for 30 mins). I see her once every 2-3 months.

2. Amazing performance, VFM (£100 for 1 hr), see her once every 2-3 months.

[hendrix]

2006 is the longest currently, but 2012 is the most regular. Works well for me.

[alabama1]

It was a cosy night mid summer in the early 2000's, her name was Pamela, Pamela handerson. Been by by side ever since.

Never understood regulars, the beauty of this hobby is the variety. Might be just me.

I have a regular and variety. It doesn't have to be one or the other.

[fatboy]

I used to like playing the WG field but eventually stayed with a couple of regs for all the reasons above.
One of four years just vanished (as they do) last year, but I do see a very special one every 3 weeks or so and have been for eight years.
I hear all the stuff about variety but we click well and know what turns each other on.
Also have a nice chat and she has a lovely body for a mature woman.
I do see new WGs now and again but most are a disappointment.
It's the same with guitars.....

[mr.bluesky]

From 1983, when I was around 17 years old, a girl who worked in a Glasgow sauna, I would see her over the next 10 years, until.  I found another girl, who I would see over around 15 years until, she retired

Crikey ! 17 years old, you started punting early, I didn't start until my mid 20's and have always tended to stick to seeing the same ladies over a long period of time if they provide a good service. I know a lot of punters like variety , we are all different in that respect 
Perhaps alabama1's way is the way to go, one regular and one newbie. 🤔

[I like natural boobs]

I started punting in my mid 20's too and I've changed a lot since then. Back then I just wanted to shag as many women as possible and very rarely saw the same woman twice. I'd only see a lady twice if I turned up at a parlour and the only lady available was one I'd seen before. Now though there are several ladies I want to see again. I've been seeing my most regular lady since 2016 and I've had nearly 80 sessions with her across 6 and a half years.

[Pete M 02]

I have been seeing an escort in Bedford on and off for the last 22 years. Only once or twice a year but a good go to fuck

[Colston36]

I have a regular and variety. It doesn't have to be one or the other.

Agreed. I am always looking for someone to add to the roster or replace current fave.

[chatman]

I started punting in my mid 20's too and I've changed a lot since then. Back then I just wanted to shag as many women as possible and very rarely saw the same woman twice. I'd only see a lady twice if I turned up at a parlour and the only lady available was one I'd seen before. Now though there are several ladies I want to see again. I've been seeing my most regular lady since 2016 and I've had nearly 80 sessions with her across 6 and a half years.

Similar - except I started in my late 40's and wanted to have a lot of variety. Tall, Short, BBW, Skinny, different Nationalities etc.

Now I have 3 regulars, all of which I have seen early 2015 (so 8 years).
My 3 regulars have all met each other too, when I have done various doubles with each of them.
I have never had the pleasure of all 3 ladies at once plus me, that would be a costly meet, maybe 1 day when I go out with a bang

1 of these regulars I have seen well over 100 times!, the other 2, I have seen over 50 times each.

I still play with others, as I'm always on the lookout for another regular, in case 1 of my 3 goes and does the unthinkable - retires 

[JontyR]

I'm amazed that some of these "relationships" have lasted as long as they have. I've had a couple of regulars but both have long since retired.

I don't think I have ever looked specifically for a regular. It jsut sort of happens.

Interesting thing about one was that she didn't mind (why should she?) about other SPs I may have seen. But she did get quite territorial about any civvie action I may have had.

[alabama1]

I'm amazed that some of these "relationships" have lasted as long as they have. I've had a couple of regulars but both have long since retired.

I don't think I have ever looked specifically for a regular. It jsut sort of happens.

Interesting thing about one was that she didn't mind (why should she?) about other SPs I may have seen. But she did get quite territorial about any civvie action I may have had.

That's just weird !

[webpunter]

But she did get quite territorial about any civvie action I may have had.

One semi reg who i maybe had 10 or so sessions with over a couple of years commented that i'd clocked up some new AW FB
Keeping tabs on me
Seemed a little miffed
Like some other masseuse was emptying my tanks, whilst she was getting at least her 'five a day' most days (clients)
Fortunately i'd texted her for a couple of sessions which she couldn't make (busy)
& as it was a bit of a drive to hers i mentioned some bollox that a desperation booking local
I'm thinking FFS i'm apologising to a massage burd 
Another massage burd i'd seen mentioned more in a teasing way that i'd been 'busy' to which my reply was a playful '& how about you ?'
These brought a rapid close to doing any more FB
I'm pretty sure that some SPs keep an occasional eye on regular punters FB, especially if dusty phone & not a lot else better to do

[PaulRuff]

Oh some SPs definitely keep an eye on your feedback, can understand them checking you out the first time you contact them but I've also had a bit of grief from a couple for seeing other SPs in-between sessions with them...when in that time they've probably sucked a few dozen different cocks!

 

[JonasG]

One semi reg who i maybe had 10 or so sessions with over a couple of years commented that i'd clocked up some new AW FB
Keeping tabs on me
Seemed a little miffed
Like some other masseuse was emptying my tanks, whilst she was getting at least her 'five a day' most days (clients)
Fortunately i'd texted her for a couple of sessions which she couldn't make (busy)
& as it was a bit of a drive to hers i mentioned some bollox that a desperation booking local
I'm thinking FFS i'm apologising to a massage burd 
Another massage burd i'd seen mentioned more in a teasing way that i'd been 'busy' to which my reply was a playful '& how about you ?'
These brought a rapid close to doing any more FB
I'm pretty sure that some SPs keep an occasional eye on regular punters FB, especially if dusty phone & not a lot else better to do

Yeah, one of my regulars who I've only booked once over AW and been reviewed the one time sometimes has said to me "I can see you've been busy". So, she's looked on my AW profile to see what I've been up to when I've booked by text and she reviewed me bloody ages ago.

WGs can't expect us to just have one regular lol.

[JonasG]

Oh some SPs definitely keep an eye on your feedback, can understand them checking you out the first time you contact them but I've also had a bit of grief from a couple for seeing other SPs in-between sessions with them...when in that time they've probably sucked a few dozen different cocks!

 

It's very weird, do they think we only see them regularly?

[S.X. MacHine]

Wow. I’m intrigued by this thread. And relieved. Relieved, because I thought I was the only punter who has a long serving girl. Two, actually; one since 10 years ago, another since 8 years.
I do shop around but tend to be disappointed given that my predilection is for bdsm. There seems to be a fairly tiny number of escorts who enjoy (if that is the word) taking the cane.

[Crockers]

I only started paid sex in 2019. Found a gem and still seeing her

Interesting seeing her body and mind change over the years.

Came to an arrangement and only meet on her days off for a few hours/overnights when sh'es not working.

Good sex with all extras thrown in.

She's cool.

[Sperminator22]

I had/have two long time regulars in my burth country (Italy).

One of them from 2012 to 2021 (romanian), she then disappeared to private life. Our last encounter was memorable though, we went out for dinner, she gave me a blowjob while I was driving the car e she wanted to be shagged from the back while standing in the parking (I obliged).

One of them from 2014 till now (russian). Although she retired to private life and a normal job in 2021, we keep seeing each other as "friends with benefits" once or twice a year. I keep bringing her gifts, she never asked me any money since we became "fuck buddies" and we keep having ridiculously good sessions (she's phenomenal on bed). Got very lucky with her, the magic of the chemistry

[dub6747]

There's definitely something about the regular sticking around and being available as well as the punter choosing to book their regular...looking back over the past 20 years if all my favourite punts had stuck around, out of the 150ish women I've punted with I'd probably have only four regulars now out of them all ...