My question is this. Am I just experiencing a run of bad luck or is this normal for everyone?
2 Months ago I decided to start seeing escorts instead of the occasional visit to a massage parlours that I did a few years ago and the swinging and dogging I did years before that. I knew it wouldn't be easy fitting it in a around wife, family and work, but I did not think it would be this difficult.
I have been lurking on adultwork for a while and sent emails enquiring about meeting a few days later to 2 WGs that logged on regularly and had reasonable reviews. Lets call them WG1 and WG2. Both immediately stopped logging on, maybe they went on holiday. Then WG1 closes her profile.
I email WG3, she replies and we arrange a meet several days later. I arrive 5 mins early and email for full address, she replies "give me 10 minutes hun." I give her 10 and email her again, and again and again. Stupidly wait 40 minutes in the end, before going home. Good job I did because I nearly got caught by the wife who came home unexpectedly early. I should have been doing DIY that afternoon not sneaking out for a shag. I email WG3 again that night and she claims to have tried to send me emails "but they obviously didn't get through". Timewaster?
WG1 shuts down her profile and WG2 finally replies after the window of opportunity for meeting has passed.
Consider trying another meet with WG3 but she has shut down her profile.
Try a gloryhole in a parlour for the first time. Great OWO but banged my head on the door when I came. Hillarious.
Email WG4 and she immediately appears to have gone on holiday.
In a swinging chatroom, arrange a hotel meet with a couple for the following night. After contriving an excuse go out and meet "some friends for drinks" to the wife, he cancels claiming a family member is ill. I was already a bit dubious about him because some of his profile details didn't match what he said in the chatroom. Since then, every time I bump into him in the chatroom, he logs off or ignores me. Timewaster?
WG3 reappears on AW but has changed her name and some of her details, lets call her WG3.1, consider contacting her again but she shuts down her profile again.
Email WG5 and arrange to attend a gangbang. I have another contrived excuse ready to go as cover for my night out, when the wife announces she is going to see her father that night. I couldn't really object without arousing suspicion. Miss the 3 girl gangbang.
Email WG6 about a meet next week. She doesn't reply this afternoon so I ring her. "Sorry darling, but I have left Manchester and moved to London."
Should I keep persevering or should I just start using parlours again?