Seeking.com in the South West

[T0pgun]

After a break, I’m back on seeking. I want to share some information and help others on here using the site.

Moonprincxss, 25, Bristol.
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Also has profile on AW. Although she has stopped offering meets, She was in Taunton.

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[T0pgun]

Has anyone got any info or experience of these two please, both have been on for quite a few years

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Carla, 24 External Link/Members Only since April 2021

The pink one, Carla is also a lap dancer at the local lap dance club

Just started talking to them, both seem okay (sane) initially. Not yet got as far as talking arrangement etc. Just wanted to check if anyone had any warnings I should heed, or recommends either of them ?
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Carla, 25, Bristol

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We exchanged a few messages on Whatsapp. She wants £300 ppm and says she treats it like normal dating and wants a connection before intimacy. I think I will pass and see if anyone recommends her.

[T0pgun]

Allie, 25, Bath

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She seems genuine at the start.  We exchanged messages on WhatsApp. We had a video call. She had agreed to meet later in the week. Then she sent a late night message. She was at a friends and needed money to get home. “Do you want to send me £50 to get taxi home?”

She stopped messaging me as soon as she did not get £50 upfront. Has anyone meet and started an arrangement with her?

[Wcrasher89]

After a break, I’m back on seeking. I want to share some information and help others on here using the site.

Moonprincxss, 25, Bristol.
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Also has profile on AW. Although she has stopped offering meets, She was in Taunton.

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She's been camming on AW for years, based up in Taunton or was. I've asked her before about meets and she was 100% clear in that she does not and will never offer sexual meets.

Anything to the contrary that she says, will likely be an attempt to string you along and get the odd deposit for a 'taxi' or other such BS.

[Prifessionallondinguy]

Allie, 25, Bath

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She seems genuine at the start.  We exchanged messages on WhatsApp. We had a video call. She had agreed to meet later in the week. Then she sent a late night message. She was at a friends and needed money to get home. “Do you want to send me £50 to get taxi home?”

She stopped messaging me as soon as she did not get £50 upfront. Has anyone meet and started an arrangement with her?

The answer= no, no no! 🎅

[Pawgylove]

Allie, 25, Bath

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She seems genuine at the start.  We exchanged messages on WhatsApp. We had a video call. She had agreed to meet later in the week. Then she sent a late night message. She was at a friends and needed money to get home. “Do you want to send me £50 to get taxi home?”

She stopped messaging me as soon as she did not get £50 upfront. Has anyone meet and started an arrangement with her?

She is a scrounger, so I would steer clear. As is usually the case here, others might have a different opinion or more positive experience

[GoodLookinGuy]

Carla, 25, Bristol

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We exchanged a few messages on Whatsapp. She wants £300 ppm and says she treats it like normal dating and wants a connection before intimacy. I think I will pass and see if anyone recommends her.

I went on a date with Carla last year. She was lovely, chatty, fun, didn't request any payment for the date. I think she drifts in and out of Seeking, maybe when she's not seeing someone. We'd message and talked about a second date, then she'd go quiet. After a couple of times of that I decided to no longer pursue it. She's a dancer atpersonal info removed

[Pawgylove]

Allie, 25, Bath

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She seems genuine at the start.  We exchanged messages on WhatsApp. We had a video call. She had agreed to meet later in the week. Then she sent a late night message. She was at a friends and needed money to get home. “Do you want to send me £50 to get taxi home?”

She stopped messaging me as soon as she did not get £50 upfront. Has anyone meet and started an arrangement with her?

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[DAlpine1980]

I have a theory of why it's gone downhill after speaking to a younger male family member (who is the age most girls are when they join seeking).

Since covid the traditional idea of going to uni,getting into debts, student nites etc has diminished greatly. Young early 20s do not seem to go out on student nites as much as they used to 6/7 years ago or as much as me and my peers did when we were students (this is supported by the number of clubs closing down in recent times), less people are actually living on campuses than they were 6/7 years ago and more are deciding to do online courses/apprenticeships/travelling from their hometowns probably due to accomodation costs.

If we think back to 2017-2019 on seeking when I had probably the most luck on it, generally speaking you used to see influx of profiles after fresheners week and peaks in between student loan payment dates, this obviously doesn't apply to the single mum's and semi pros but the 18-24 year olds who were students on campus (whom the seeking marketing used to be aimed towards back then).

Now adding it all together that there are less people going to uni,less staying on campus,less marketing towards students, on top of the previous factors already mentioned around of and online content providing taking off it kinda makes sense why it's so dire. I still argue there are gems but much much harder to find.

The circumstances that created the perfect environment for sugar dating a uni student now just generally apply to a lot less people than it did 6/7 years ago. I'm just saying this from my experience. When I was new to seeking I used to be able to talk to a uni student, sort a meet, and once they saw I was not old (only 7-9 years older) and fun to be around meets were easy, you were basically giving them a day off ,let them their hair down have fun and give them cash for a good night or evening they would otherwise have to earn doing a 15/20hr work at a pub it was a no brainier, like it would literally save them time and allow them to focus on their studies or fund their nightlife lifestyle whilst at uni.

Just a suspicion, but platforms like OF and Fansly, probably allow some of the students a great way of earning g decent money without having to meet up.

May not explain it, but back in the day when I was at uni stripping was the secret money earner, then Seeking. So maybe now it is the turn of OF or just a change in willingness to do any sex work.

[T0pgun]

Just a suspicion, but platforms like OF and Fansly, probably allow some of the students a great way of earning g decent money without having to meet up.

May not explain it, but back in the day when I was at uni stripping was the secret money earner, then Seeking. So maybe now it is the turn of OF or just a change in willingness to do any sex work.

An interesting thought. Is it really a replacement? There is a certain discretion that comes with an arrangement. Even a stripper can work in a different city to maintain privacy. OnlyFans, however, leaves a permanent record that can be distributed and shared. This creates a digital footprint that will last forever. It is highly likely that this will be connected to the individual in some way in the future. Maybe they don’t realize the risk they are taking online using sites like OnlyFans.

[stevesimpson]

She was doing yoga classes near Bridgwater.  I almost had a one-to-one with her but doesn't seem to reply to emails now.

After a break, I’m back on seeking. I want to share some information and help others on here using the site.

Moonprincxss, 25, Bristol.
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[southcoastpunter]

anyone have any info on Poppy_XO aged 28, Bournemouth (although actually lives in Salisbury)?

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[Jake_sully]

Hi South Coast,

Have chatted previously with her off the site, she seemed genuine I suggested meeting for a drink see how we got on, but she wanted to jump right in with me booking a hotel for us first and we could then go for drinks and back to the hotel for our ‘second date’ on the same night.

She then wanted a little too much cash for a meet for me to stretch to so didn’t go any further. Not sure if she was just a little to keen and sure of herself or me based on a WhatsApp chat or what but before I book a night somewhere, I want to at least look them in the eye over a coffee or something!..

If your situation hasn’t changed and you still have your own place to entertain, I expect she would be a good find for you. That being said this was back October time so her view/situation may have changed a little. Essentially though, haven’t met her so could all be BS!.. 😅 good luck. 👍

[Danj89]

Hi scp spoke to her years back when she was in Salisbury but never managed to sort a meet I think it was 2018 time as trains to where I used to live required a few changes and schedules were difficult to line up that conversation started on kik and moved to WhatsApp vibes were initially really good. Anyways she joined an aw agency currently known as British liaisons for a little while and did escorting for that group like some girls on seeking in the region end up doing. Then she moved to Cam agency run by her friend who was also on seeking and I also spoke to.on seeking. The few times I reached out since the escorting mentality took over and the ask kinda just kept going up from what was spoken about the time before and the vibe faded. She did do incalls one weekend in reading and I was going to see her but I was knackered that day so had to bail, also the ask is always just above my budget at the time.

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[southcoastpunter]

thanks Jake and Dan - interesting!

She still lives in Salisbury (well that is what she told me) and it was interesting to see her AW account - although she has ticked the  "escorting" box, all the feedback there is cam or phone chat. She isn't my "normal" sort and i can't image she being a LT regular or a monthly allowance SB but maybe as a "one off"? - as its taking a while to find someone to become my next LT SB

thanks again for the info. Appreciated!

[hamchang]

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25% off and working just now. Anyone seen any 30%?

#seekingpromo
If we add that we can search on them when we need them perhaps?
 

[Pawgylove]

Awesome! Thanks mate, the codes are harder to find now. Would be good to find 30% as you said.
Dunno if it is worth resubscribing atm tho

[southcoastpunter]

Eva aged 26 Bournemouth
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been chatting to her - she is a PPM type so not really my sort. asked for £500 but reduced to £370 for a couple of hours at her place when i said that is excessive for Bournemouth. haven't take her up on it. 

I know some guys are wary of Telegram - she uses that and not WA.

[southcoastpunter]

Eva aged 26 Bournemouth
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been chatting to her - she is a PPM type so not really my sort. asked for £500 but reduced to £370 for a couple of hours at her place when i said that is excessive for Bournemouth. haven't take her up on it. 

I know some guys are wary of Telegram - she uses that and not WA.

new account made as she got locked out of the other one:
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[Iloveoral]

Hi scp spoke to her years back when she was in Salisbury but never managed to sort a meet I think it was 2018 time as trains to where I used to live required a few changes and schedules were difficult to line up that conversation started on kik and moved to WhatsApp vibes were initially really good. Anyways she joined an aw agency currently known as British liaisons for a little while and did escorting for that group like some girls on seeking in the region end up doing. Then she moved to Cam agency run by her friend who was also on seeking and I also spoke to.on seeking. The few times I reached out since the escorting mentality took over and the ask kinda just kept going up from what was spoken about the time before and the vibe faded. She did do incalls one weekend in reading and I was going to see her but I was knackered that day so had to bail, also the ask is always just above my budget at the time.

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You seem to be lacking on review contributions matey
Could you explain please ?
Thanks

[Danj89]

thanks Jake and Dan - interesting!

She still lives in Salisbury (well that is what she told me) and it was interesting to see her AW account - although she has ticked the  "escorting" box, all the feedback there is cam or phone chat. She isn't my "normal" sort and i can't image she being a LT regular or a monthly allowance SB but maybe as a "one off"? - as its taking a while to find someone to become my next LT SB

thanks again for the info. Appreciated!

Yeh as a one of deffo a good shout, I would have seen her that day as well but it's just never lined up

[Danj89]

You seem to be lacking on review contributions matey
Could you explain please ?
Thanks

No explanation, how many do I need to stay active on the site? I've already dropped 11?

[Pawgylove]

Hi all
Anyone had dealings with:
Megan126

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SeekingGirl88
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[Marakek]

Anyone had dealings with:
Megan126

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Never met but was looking for £400 a meet which was more'n I was willing to pay so didn't take it further. Didn't try haggling tho

[updownandaround]

Hi all
Anyone had dealings with:
Megan126

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SeekingGirl88
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Megan is a pro and she works with a friend: External Link/Members Only

[Pawgylove]

Thanks @marakek!! She did tell me about her high priced past arrangements… but then, they all do

@updownandaround thanks for that info, the little convo I had with her, I figured she was a pro. Didnt think I had seen her on AW and that was what threw me off, but I guess she could be advertising elsewhere.

[Danj89]

Yeh had a meet set with Megan but she changed plans, at one point asked if her friend could come as well , got low-key pro vibes.

The other seekinggirl88 messaged me her number but haven't had the time to reach out to her yet. Saw profile location as London so not sure on her.

[Pawgylove]

Yeh had a meet set with Megan but she changed plans, at one point asked if her friend could come as well , got low-key pro vibes.

The other seekinggirl88 messaged me her number but haven't had the time to reach out to her yet. Saw profile location as London so not sure on her.

Thanks. Megan does def give pro vibes, messages are sporadic too, so guessing she gets lots of options, since she is working with a friend.

I think seekinggirl is just a content seller. Don’t waste your time (except if that’s what you want)

[updownandaround]

Thanks. Megan does def give pro vibes, messages are sporadic too, so guessing she gets lots of options, since she is working with a friend.

I think seekinggirl is just a content seller. Don’t waste your time (except if that’s what you want)

FYI - Megan will do a threesome with her mate for 400. Neither can host however but are more than happy to do car meets.

[Maverick090]

FYI - Megan will do a threesome with her mate for 400. Neither can host however but are more than happy to do car meets.

I think 400 sheets for car meet is a bit rough.. personally speaking, definitely feels pro vibes. I have spoken to her a few times but as with all these girls the sporadic communication drives you insane. One thing I would say is never book or pay anything because pound to a penny they will let you down at the last minute..

[southcoastpunter]

I think 400 sheets for car meet is a bit rough..

we all have our own views on "value" as well as attractiveness / nice ass/nice tits etc. I took it that he meant 400 for them both. mind you, not sure how a 3sum in a car would work and be enjoyable -  never tried it, perhaps i should!!

[Pawgylove]

I think 400 sheets for car meet is a bit rough.. personally speaking, definitely feels pro vibes. I have spoken to her a few times but as with all these girls the sporadic communication drives you insane. One thing I would say is never book or pay anything because pound to a penny they will let you down at the last minute..

The sporadic communication is the worst imo, but very much part and parcel of a lot on SA.
Car meet would be a bit much with three people I think, except if you drive a bus 
Think I will keep contact with her in my back pocket for no

Thanks all, for the info. You guys are the best

[updownandaround]

I think 400 sheets for car meet is a bit rough.. personally speaking, definitely feels pro vibes. I have spoken to her a few times but as with all these girls the sporadic communication drives you insane. One thing I would say is never book or pay anything because pound to a penny they will let you down at the last minute..

That wasn't for a car meet. The 400 is for a hotel meet with the both of them together. Not sure what kind of threesome they offer for that either.

[southcoastpunter]

Ava aged 19 Bournemouth
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only joined today and online only. (or at least that is what she told me - maybe younger guys will get a different response??)

[somethingrandom]

Emma, 25, Bristol
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Anyone had any dealings with her? Seems nice but inevitably some money worries were mentioned

[hamchang]

Ava aged 19 Bournemouth
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only joined today and online only. (or at least that is what she told me - maybe younger guys will get a different response??)

It always amazes me that people are paying these girls to chat to them online. How lonely can a bloke be to agree to that.

[southcoastpunter]

It always amazes me that people are paying these girls to chat to them online. How lonely can a bloke be to agree to that.

not speaking from experience as i have not done that but i think that for many it also includes pics and video's. each to their own and all that but yes - really?

i note she has now put an "online only" comment on her profile as i suggested and put location as London to be seen in a bigger market place!

[southcoastpunter]

SaphireJane, aged 22 Bournemouth
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meet her a couple of times mid last year - had a nice dinner then took her to a fun activity  as "getting to know each other" and we seemed to be getting on well together - then when i asked the question of whether we were going to commit to an arrangement with an allowance and sex, she went quiet on me and ghosted me. shame as she is a pretty girl with a great slim figure.

she was in Romsey then not Bournemouth and had her Seeking location as Southampton - could have moved i guess.

[JoeFiddleSticks]

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When I asked how much she was looking for she said £200 for first date, but no intimacy on first date, but then asked how much I would be comfortable with for intimacy. Feels a bit scammy

[southcoastpunter]

SmartQueen

When I asked how much she was looking for she said £200 for first date, but no intimacy on first date, but then asked how much I would be comfortable with for intimacy. Feels a bit scammy

i have (well had) been chatting to her - her comms are all over the place and frankly awful. I gave up on her but several weeks later she came back to me and we arranged a meeting - she gave me two dates to choice from when she was available  (with a "i promise i won't let you do again") and guess what - yep she let me down again. when i asked her what happened this time,  a week or two later she just replied "i am shit".  well yes, i can't argue with that!

she looks good (in her pics, never seen her face2face) but imo just not worth the hassle!

[JoeFiddleSticks]

i have (well had) been chatting to her - her comms are all over the place and frankly awful. I gave up on her but several weeks later she came back to me and we arranged a meeting - she gave me two dates to choice from when she was available  (with a "i promise i won't let you do again") and guess what - yep she let me down again. when i asked her what happened this time,  a week or two later she just replied "i am shit".  well yes, i can't argue with that!

she looks good (in her pics, never seen her face2face) but imo just not worth the hassle!

Oh right, yeah seems hard work, and she's been on the site for 5 years so should know the score. Can I ask, was the meeting you arranged a meet and greet, or time in the bedroom. And if it was just meeting, was she expecting money?  Either way, I guess I should heed your advice and avoid.

[southcoastpunter]

Oh right, yeah seems hard work, and she's been on the site for 5 years so should know the score. Can I ask, was the meeting you arranged a meet and greet, or time in the bedroom. And if it was just meeting, was she expecting money?  Either way, I guess I should heed your advice and avoid.

a lunch date and chat with a view to a potential long term arrangement with monthly allowance. No meeting payment - i don't agree to those- if they can't invest an hour or two of their time, then imo they are too focused on "money" and not on the type of arrangement i am looking for.

[Iloveoral]

No explanation, how many do I need to stay active on the site? I've already dropped 11?

The site survives by members sharing information, if you turn it off then the site suffers, so there’s no number of reviews that make it qualify as enough.

You’ve not contributed in 3 years, so if you taking info for 3 years it’s not really sharing is it?

Members not contributing can be banned.

If your punting, why not share? I don’t understand?

You’ve been here since 2015, why do you not know how the site works ?

[Pawgylove]

a lunch date and chat with a view to a potential long term arrangement with monthly allowance. No meeting payment - i don't agree to those- if they can't invest an hour or two of their time, then imo they are too focused on "money" and not on the type of arrangement i am looking for.[\b]

Completely agree.

[southcoastpunter]

Bia aged 29 Bournemouth
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was chatting, arranged a M&G then ghosted me a couple of hours before meeting (just blocked me on WA)

MoniG aged 35 Bournemouth
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we chatted, had a good M&G, arranged a second dinner date then just nothing....no more messages on Seeking or WA. Obviously i didn't go to our DD meeting. Noticed she has not been on Seeking for about a week so maybe she has changed her mind about things - but my experience pre-dated this

[southcoastpunter]

Bex, aged 41 Poole - potential scammer / wants paid M&G

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chatted a number of times, arranged to have dinner together. On the day, asked for money to meet to "demonstrate i am genuine" - when i said i don't do that, got immediately blocked!

[somethingrandom]

Emma, 25, Bristol
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Anyone had any dealings with her? Seems nice but inevitably some money worries were mentioned

Just to confirm my suspicions, absolutely 100% scammer and a rather talented one also.

[hamchang]

Just to confirm my suspicions, absolutely 100% scammer and a rather talented one also.

Do tell more - I've got some convos with her and was planning to try and see her next week.

[somethingrandom]

Do tell more - I've got some convos with her and was planning to try and see her next week.

If you do, you can always ask her how she intends to repay the £700 I loaned her.lol.

In all seriousness, I think she is very clever, and very convincing, and very coniving.
It's possible that if you met her in a hotel she might possibly exist and won't actually rob you in person.
Don't pay any deposit whatsoever

And I would be interested in hearing your experience

She had a whole trail of fake WhatsApps and bank screenshot to support her story, some of which is possibly genuine.

But then she started getting a friend to contact me, maybe to scam me as well, but I was able to prove she was connected to Emma (real name by the way) and I also spoke to her on the phone a few times.
She went utterly ballistic eventually, but still is insisting that she really does want to meet.

I'm just considering the lost cash my charitable donation for the year. Hopefully she did actually need it.

Shame, it would have been more lucrative all round if she just actually met.

[southcoastpunter]

Shame, it would have been more lucrative all round if she just actually met.

not for her if she can find (sorry, but you do serve this) idiots who will lend £700 to a person they have never met on a site known to have some scammers on it. 

what got into you? I think as you say, you have made a "charitable donation" which you will never see again (or her)