A few days away girls and boys .

[workinallweek]

 Ok so who has done a break and taken a girl with them ? did it work and how ? has it put you off the idea or the person

Girls have you done a few days away with a guy ? how well do or did you know them first ? has it put you off the idea or the person

any thoughts ? or recomendations (not girl wise ) ?

[Corus Boy]

Needs you, the correct girl and suitable location.

Exchanged a barrage of emails with one lady and was heartened that she was happy to spend time chatting and not all business.

Booked her for an hour in her hometown, three hourse from me.  One hour hotel booking very good that followed by an 'off the clock' three hour sightseeing tour suggested by her, food and alcoholwere consumed, at my expense. It was like being on a civvy date.

had a great time and the friendly banter continued after.

Invited her to my place for an overnight that turned into a late afternoon session, dinner out, home for an evening of fun, sleep and morning session. Her last train home wasn't until 3pm so she elected to spend the day with me sightseeing in South Wales, no more work but a few hugs and kisses during the afternoon.

That led to a full weekend at my place.  48 hours of playtime.

A very successful time because it was with the right lady, right places, keeping the fact that it was a business deal and boundaries were respected.

[workinallweek]

may i ask who ?

[Corus Boy]

may i ask who ?

Long retired and back in civvy street.

[Yr Blaidd]

Many times in the past have I taken girls for weekends / long weekends / etc.

In all honesty, paying them as prossies for the time has never worked out.  There has just been no synergy there.  Too much worry and discussion of of "What am I paying for here.?"

What has been better is when we've got past the prossie stage, and seen each other as friends, and no money has exchanged hands for the time and fun..  Simply, "I'll treat you to a weekend away, and we have fun like any civvie girlfriend".

You have got to know someone very well, and trust them, in order to enjoy a weekend with them.  This instantly excludes most!

[Cervixbanger]

Ok so who has done a break and taken a girl with them ? did it work and how ? has it put you off the idea or the person

Girls have you done a few days away with a guy ? how well do or did you know them first ? has it put you off the idea or the person

any thoughts ? or recomendations (not girl wise ) ?

Yes, I've done weekends, long weekends and full weeks away. I always tried to see them for a couple of hours first if possible. If the booking was 'blind' then I only considered two nights away to start with. When selecting I also was very clear about what I wanted from the booking - for instance, I'd rather pay a higher fee and let her do her own shopping back home - no way did I want to be traipsing around stores in my holiday time! Essential for me that they are non-smokers, speak good English etc. Some were agency girls, some indies. I haven't done this for several years now but am considering again.

Back in the day, I was using an Israeli-based agency (now closed) called lefantasy.com Had some very good EE bookings with them including a week in Cap D'Agde, a week in the Hedonism resort in Jamaica and a long weekend visiting swingers clubs in Holland. Researching for a similar replacement agency over the past couple of months has led me to travel-lady.com but I've not used them yet.

For indies, I've had very good results from Travelgirls.com This is a subscription civvy site, so sex isn't guaranteed but I've only failed on one weekend booking in the past (still a good weekend in Poland though). Most girls are up for different levels of fun but they definitely don't see themselves as prossies and it's essential that you approach them as civvies if you are to get anywhere. Needs a bit more work that the agency booking.

Not certain if any of this helps you but with research I've found a very good time can be had!

[Thecunninglinguist]

Maybe this current thread my give you some idea?
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=177687.0

[SlamBoy]

Yes, I've done weekends, long weekends and full weeks away. I always tried to see them for a couple of hours first if possible. If the booking was 'blind' then I only considered two nights away to start with. When selecting I also was very clear about what I wanted from the booking - for instance, I'd rather pay a higher fee and let her do her own shopping back home - no way did I want to be traipsing around stores in my holiday time! Essential for me that they are non-smokers, speak good English etc. Some were agency girls, some indies. I haven't done this for several years now but am considering again.

Back in the day, I was using an Israeli-based agency (now closed) called lefantasy.com Had some very good EE bookings with them including a week in Cap D'Agde, a week in the Hedonism resort in Jamaica and a long weekend visiting swingers clubs in Holland. Researching for a similar replacement agency over the past couple of months has led me to travel-lady.com but I've not used them yet.

For indies, I've had very good results from Travelgirls.com This is a subscription civvy site, so sex isn't guaranteed but I've only failed on one weekend booking in the past (still a good weekend in Poland though). Most girls are up for different levels of fun but they definitely don't see themselves as prossies and it's essential that you approach them as civvies if you are to get anywhere. Needs a bit more work that the agency booking.

Not certain if any of this helps you but with research I've found a very good time can be had!

All that but no reviews 

[workinallweek]

Maybe this current thread my give you some idea?
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=177687.0

yes i read that but may be too rich for me 

[Cervixbanger]

All that but no reviews 

All these trips abroad were pre-2015 and the agency involved has closed. I've not found any of their "old" girls on other escort sites in my latest searches, so assume they've long retired. After 2015 I was with a regular GF and haven't used WGs until a few months ago when I joined this forum in the summer in preparation for returning to the punting scene. To date I've only seen two London girls (both for one hour) and one them (Lucy at Natural Wellness, Southgate) already seems to have moved on. Will try to write up the other one though.

[Flunt]

Ok so who has done a break and taken a girl with them....

It's all down to the individual and depends entirely on what you're looking for.

My first thoughts on the subject lead to a briefly posted RB before being strongly discouraged by fellow members here. Fortunately, the one who had caught my eye ended up with a collection of negative reviews on here. I'm pleased to say I dodged an AW bullet.

Later thoughts turned to SA and I've enjoyed a few overnights at very good rates but never pursued anything longer on SA... and I have enjoyed a handful of good overnights from AW as well.

My longer experiences with pro$$ies have been international. I went to Agadir, Morocco for a week met up with someone whose company I enjoyed for a few repeat nights and arranged to spend a week with her a couple of months later. After five days it had become a little strained and I thought we were happy to see the back of each other. I paid her about £400, I enjoyed some serious good shagging, she cooked some amazing local dishes but apart from that she was a miserable, sour faced bitch who was obsessed with her mobile.

I did something similar in the Philippines a few months ago and look forward to meeting her again with daytime adventures planned along with the night time activities. I'm not convinced she's a pro$$ie though so that might yet come to a difficult conclusion...

Anything longer than a couple of days and it becomes personal and any mask you both will have will start to slip. If you click with a pro$$ie and genuinely enjoy each others company then make her an offer of holiday, plus expenses and a token fee which allows her the freedom to enjoy the holiday as well as earning her keep.

[myothernameis]

Ok so who has done a break and taken a girl with them ? did it work and how ? has it put you off the idea or the person

Only done this a few times, but it was with a girl from one of the Glasgow Massage parlours. We knew each for at least 4-5 years, and got on very well with each other, and one day I put it to her, would she like to come to London with me

All we had to agree on was a price, so minus the cost of the hotel, travel, and meals, and considering what you would pay today, got my self a bargain

[HS4000Kestral]

I'm researching using Travelgirls - this was the only post on the subject I can find - anyone had any more recent experience either in UK or abroad?
Thanks
Oscar

[southcoastpunter]

I took a lady from SA to Italy for two weeks last July (2020). Italy went from one of the worst covid countries in Europe to one of the best mid last year - and I love Italy anyway. We had had 7 or 8 days out together beforehand, a couple of short breaks (one or two nights) in the UK and about 5  or 6 overnights at mine.
Then in that lovely period in the summer when things were looking a bit better, I wanted to go abroad for a holiday and asked if she wanted to come.

She was 22 and was the very first person I messaged and met off SA. I certainly was very lucky to strike gold first time. She didn't want a PPm or an allowance - just to be bought gifts from time to time and taken away when I go. So all round perfect. She was a very mature (for her age) lady and just a lovely person as well as attractive and sexy.

Although we got on really well together, 2 weeks is a long time to be together and just little things started to show - the age gap was one. She wanted to be on the go all the time, I was happy to people watch with a drink and enjoy the views. This will get some guys going - she loved sex and wanted it all the time - i couldn't keep up!!! lol

It was a great time - but as others before have said, you need to make sure that you get on really well in all the non sexual ways too!! Yes it was expensive - but probably not much more than if you had gone with an OH. At least i didn't have any PPM or allowance expenses and i really enjoyed it. Sadly she has since moved away with her work. But a lovely lady.

[Home Alone]

I could copy various quotations from the posts above. I've been away three times with an SP; the same one each time. I've been seeing her pretty regularly since 2012 and we've always got on, both inside and outside our SP/client relationship. A couple of months ago, she described us a 'mates', a name I'm happy with.

Just over five years ago now, I floated the idea of her coming to my 70th birthday party; and then about a month later on my 70th present to me - a week in Jamaica. We had a cover story to explain, if either of us were asked at the birthday party - we weren't! - how we met. And surreptitiously, she was waiting in my bedroom - to help me celebrate my birthday properly!      - once I'd waved off the last of the guests who weren't staying in the same hotel as the party had been held. 

About a month later we met on a train to Manchester Airport where we stayed in an hotel before flying off to Jamaica, which had been on my bucket list since the late 1960s.

For some reason, she thinks I'm very fluffy so we'd agreed that we'd go as pals, not as SP/client - more or less as Yr Blaidd recommends above. I picked up the tab for the - all-inclusive - holiday and she kind-of looked after me while we were there. [For example, I'm physically disabled so she brought all the food and drinks to the table rather than see me struggle. I'm an independent beggar and used to struggle with carrying plates and a walking stick.] We split the costs outside the hotel 50/50 so that she didn't feel like a 'kept woman'.

It worked so well that we repeated the idea the following Spring when we went for a week in the Cape Verde Islands. Subsequently, we've had 5 days staying with friends of mine who now live on the Costa Blanca. And, as soon as possible after the current restrictions are lifted, we're planning another week in Jamaica!

[Simon_9000]

Got to say HA, that sounds pretty awesome.

I've not been punting long enough to know a girl that long to consider taking them abroad but it's now on my to-do list.  I've not been overnight with a girl so far, I guess that's a recommended step along the way.

Interesting that some girls seem happy to be just taken away and paid for. I automatically thought their fee would be no of nights multiplied by their nightly rate.

[Home Alone]

Got to say HA, that sounds pretty awesome.

I've not been punting long enough to know a girl that long to consider taking them abroad but it's now on my to-do list.  I've not been overnight with a girl so far, I guess that's a recommended step along the way.

Interesting that some girls seem happy to be just taken away and paid for. I automatically thought their fee would be no of nights multiplied by their nightly rate.

Well, Simon, I've been very fortunate. It happened that my approach - I'm 25 years older than the SP I've been away with and had been seeing her for long enough before I, somewhat nervously, suggested the idea of a week in Jamaica about a month after my 70th birthday - was the right one for her. I'd already been seeing her fairly regularly in the 4 or 5 years before that . She didn't offer Overnight sessions on here - her maximum booking was a 4-hour daytime session - but I'd had enough of those for each of us to feel comfortable with the other one.

Jamaica had been on my bucket list since a work colleague emigrated there in 1968; so it may well have been the venue that was more attractive than Yours truly!!

The things that you'd probably need to take from the above are:
1] Don't rush into anything. Make sure that, insofar as any Punter really knows any SP, you and the SP 'click' with each other. If she only goes to 'top up her tan', you may not enjoy yourself as much as I did 5 years ago.

2] After you've seen here for a number of extended sessions and are still of a mind to suggest an overseas holiday with her, ask her how she feels about it; and what her terms and conditions would be. Perhaps not as bluntly as that, obvs!!

Among other questions, the latter would include: who pays for what - my guess is that you'll certainly be expected to pay for the flight and hotel. How much sex is there going to be during the week you're away and how is she going to charge you.

I remember seeing another SP on AW once during the year after that visit to Jamaica and, with absolutely no prompting from me, she told me what her rates for being taken on holiday were. Suffice it to say that even if I had gelled with her enough to have suggested a holiday away together, I couldn't have afforded her! And even if I could have, I wouldn't have!!

As I imply, I've been very lucky with my former Regular SP who, in her retirement from 'the industry', has become a friend. I hope you're as fortunate.

[Bonker]

I think I saw you in Jamaica HA.
My wife pointed you out "Ah, that's nice. That's nice, that old fella being looked after by his daughter".

"Nah, I saw the hint in his eye. She's his girlfriend and is fucking him bandy".

[Bonker]

My situation is at the other end of the spectrum. Max time spent with a WG is an hour. As soon as I've come I can't wait to get out of the place. Even if I finish early. No massage, cuddles or chat for me.

The very idea of a holiday appalls me. But I can see its appeal to others.

[Home Alone]

I think I saw you in Jamaica HA.
My wife pointed you out "Ah, that's nice. That's nice, that old fella being looked after by his daughter".

"Nah, I saw the hint in his eye. She's his girlfriend and is fucking him bandy".

No, Bonker; I've walked like that since I was 12!  I didn't meet 'her' till I was 66!

[Vic69]

I often have time away with clients, always works well and we have a really good time, I would only go away with clients that I know fairly well.
I would say if you are thinking of taking a lady away somewhere, do a bit of a trial run first, do a couple of overnights (or longer dinner bookings), go for a meal, see how she behaves (and dresses) in public, see how the conversation flows, get a feel to see if she has any alcohol or drug issues, see if you click.  A few days away with a lady that you really dont get on with, or is a total embarrassment will feel like a (costly) lifetime.

[Corus Boy]

I often have time away with clients, always works well and we have a really good time, I would only go away with clients that I know fairly well.
I would say if you are thinking of taking a lady away somewhere, do a bit of a trial run first, do a couple of overnights (or longer dinner bookings), go for a meal, see how she behaves (and dresses) in public, see how the conversation flows, get a feel to see if she has any alcohol or drug issues, see if you click.  A few days away with a lady that you really dont get on with, or is a total embarrassment will feel like a (costly) lifetime.

I agree with you from the 'taking' side.

May I add/suggest that whereas it might be a disaster to be trapped away with someone when things do not work out you may also lose a good SP/customer who hits all the right spots for regular hourly meetings.

Also there will be the delicate dance around costs/funding/sleeping arrangements/sex expectations?

[Simon_9000]

Well, Simon, I've been very fortunate. It happened that my approach - I'm 25 years older than the SP I've been away with and had been seeing her for long enough before I, somewhat nervously, suggested the idea of a week in Jamaica about a month after my 70th birthday - was the right one for her. I'd already been seeing her fairly regularly in the 4 or 5 years before that . She didn't offer Overnight sessions on here - her maximum booking was a 4-hour daytime session - but I'd had enough of those for each of us to feel comfortable with the other one.

Jamaica had been on my bucket list since a work colleague emigrated there in 1968; so it may well have been the venue that was more attractive than Yours truly!!

The things that you'd probably need to take from the above are:
1] Don't rush into anything. Make sure that, insofar as any Punter really knows any SP, you and the SP 'click' with each other. If she only goes to 'top up her tan', you may not enjoy yourself as much as I did 5 years ago.

2] After you've seen here for a number of extended sessions and are still of a mind to suggest an overseas holiday with her, ask her how she feels about it; and what her terms and conditions would be. Perhaps not as bluntly as that, obvs!!

Among other questions, the latter would include: who pays for what - my guess is that you'll certainly be expected to pay for the flight and hotel. How much sex is there going to be during the week you're away and how is she going to charge you.

I remember seeing another SP on AW once during the year after that visit to Jamaica and, with absolutely no prompting from me, she told me what her rates for being taken on holiday were. Suffice it to say that even if I had gelled with her enough to have suggested a holiday away together, I couldn't have afforded her! And even if I could have, I wouldn't have!!

As I imply, I've been very lucky with my former Regular SP who, in her retirement from 'the industry', has become a friend. I hope you're as fortunate.

Thanks. I'm a similar age so some good points to take away. 

[Bebebelle]

I have been away with clients both in the Uk and abroad. I think you both have to be very up front in what you’re expecting from a trip so there’s no misunderstandings. I wouldn’t expect a client to pay a nightly fee for 7 nights away, I would base my price on an in all price of roughly what I would expect to earn if I was working at home, just so I’m not any worse off for having a week away from my regulars etc.  It can work very well for both sides if you are both able to get on as friends as well as client and SP.  You definitely need to have met on either a few hourly bookings or an overnighter to check that you can get on. I think a weekend away should be quite easy for most, while 2 weeks might be a little too much for either side.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

I often have time away with clients, always works well and we have a really good time, I would only go away with clients that I know fairly well.
I would say if you are thinking of taking a lady away somewhere, do a bit of a trial run first, do a couple of overnights (or longer dinner bookings), go for a meal, see how she behaves (and dresses) in public, see how the conversation flows, get a feel to see if she has any alcohol or drug issues, see if you click.  A few days away with a lady that you really dont get on with, or is a total embarrassment will feel like a (costly) lifetime.

OK wise words from the wise woman!

Now i like this idea but what sort of money would be linvolved?. It seems that some SP's have just gone along for the ride ie the "clent" has paid for the trip. OK now rarely going any bloody where suppose a week away costs say 3000 per person 6K overall now what would a typical SP want to see as if says that was a few overnights then what 6 to 7 K extra on that ?. Thats a small fortune to most i'd say!

Unless she might think, he's a nice guy i'm getting a week somewhere nice thats costing me nothing apart from lost time, and well its a sort of busmans  holliday thing?..

[Hobbit]

I don't think I could, or ever would take a girl away simply because for the following reasons.

1) Finding a girl I get on with and find attractive and can spend several hours with without either getting bored of them or them annoying me is rare. I like people, but I can't spend days with someone. Eventually, they would piss me off. 

2) The most I have ever spent on a girl was £1500 for a 22-hour booking, and that was a few years ago but I had EAS for her and that's probably why I enjoyed such a long booking, but nowadays I prefer shorter bookings as no one has charmed me as she did.

3) One thing I always find difficult when with a prostitute for long bookings is not worrying about the time. I would always be conscious of how time is being spent and how much action I am getting. What's the point of spending £2000+ on a girl and only getting a few hours of sex and watching her sunbathe or sleep for the rest? I just feel it's a waste of money on a hooker. If you want to take a girl away then take a civvy as it would be cheaper and more fun if you can find someone you click with.

[Vic69]

OK wise words from the wise woman!

Now i like this idea but what sort of money would be linvolved?. It seems that some SP's have just gone along for the ride ie the "clent" has paid for the trip. OK now rarely going any bloody where suppose a week away costs say 3000 per person 6K overall now what would a typical SP want to see as if says that was a few overnights then what 6 to 7 K extra on that ?. Thats a small fortune to most i'd say!

Unless she might think, he's a nice guy i'm getting a week somewhere nice thats costing me nothing apart from lost time, and well its a sort of busmans  holliday thing?..

Lol, thankyou wisdom sadly comes with age!

I would agree with Bebebelle, I wouldnt expect a client to pay 7x my overnight fee, I would average out what I earn in a week and base my fee on that.  As Bebebelle said, you must discuss both your expectations in terms of sleeping arrangements, time off etc.  Personally I am happy to be with my clients as a girlfriend would for the duration of the holiday, but that is because I know them well and we get along and I'm pretty laid back, but everyone works differently.

Also the question of privacy will have to be discussed, some ladies like to purchase their own air tickets (with you paying up front for this), somewhere during your time away your identity will be compromised, this has to be thought about also.

[django0700]

I don't think I could, or ever would take a girl away simply because for the following reasons.

1) Finding a girl I get on with and find attractive and can spend several hours with without either getting bored of them or them annoying me is rare. I like people, but I can't spend days with someone. Eventually, they would piss me off. 

2) The most I have ever spent on a girl was £1500 for a 22-hour booking, and that was a few years ago but I had EAS for her and that's probably why I enjoyed such a long booking, but nowadays I prefer shorter bookings as no one has charmed me as she did.

3) One thing I always find difficult when with a prostitute for long bookings is not worrying about the time. I would always be conscious of how time is being spent and how much action I am getting. What's the point of spending £2000+ on a girl and only getting a few hours of sex and watching her sunbathe or sleep for the rest? I just feel it's a waste of money on a hooker. If you want to take a girl away then take a civvy as it would be cheaper and more fun if you can find someone you click with.

I agree. I would rather immerse myself into the local WG scene. But then I am a stingy bastard who likes variety...

[rubric]

Yeah, would agree with most of the caveats mentioned.  If you are going to do this the key is to work out what happens when you aren't shagging each other senseless, do you share enough common interests and do you enjoy each others company?

Or one or both of you are going to be bored shitless and there'll be a lot of frosty silences.

[Simon_9000]

Also the question of privacy will have to be discussed, some ladies like to purchase their own air tickets (with you paying up front for this), somewhere during your time away your identity will be compromised, this has to be thought about also.

Ah, good point about privacy. Those who've taken girls away, how have you handled info such as entering passport info for flights booked etc? Most girls will want that info kept private.

[Vic69]

Ah, good point about privacy. Those who've taken girls away, how have you handled info such as entering passport info for flights booked etc? Most girls will want that info kept private.

As mine were long standing trusted clients, they just booked my flights for me.  I have noticed a lot of ladies state they will book their own flights and require a certain % of the total up front.  I think if I had a request from someone I had only spent a minimal amount of time with I would prefer to make my own arrangements requesting the flight money up front.  I think you really have to do your homework if you are going to take a lady away, check feedback here and AW, is she long established, are her clients long established AW members.....the usual kind of thing, but as I said you MUST spend some time, might look good on paper but in the flesh she could be a nightmare.

[Greenchilli]

Ah, good point about privacy. Those who've taken girls away, how have you handled info such as entering passport info for flights booked etc? Most girls will want that info kept private.

Normally semi pro's and contacts from sites such as SA , travel girls etc send you their  details via whatsapp/viber/telegram after getting to know you a bit. I think what is critical when it comes to trips overseas is that both of you should get on well and details around intimacy should have been discussed prior to booking the trip.
Travelgirls used to be good few years back but now is full of escorts. Avg min asking price for weekend away from EE girls came to around 900- 1000 Euros about a year back which I was not willing to pay as I had no clue as to what I was getting. The girls gave me their insta profile after face time and some of them had good profiles ie influencers , marketing -front office those types. Lot of contacts from SA wanted to go to nice (expensive!) places- hotels & restaurants and there was no fees involved for the trip ! But in hindsight it works out to be more or less the same. I was already based in EU so there was no flying costs for me atleast .

[Bebebelle]

As Vic69 said, I was happy to give my personal details as I was already comfortable enough to spend a week away with that client so I don’t see an issue is sharing those details. I think ideally you both need to know the basics, ie real name, DOB and perhaps home town in case either of you were to fall ill whilst away. If say, one of you were involved in an accident or collapses with a heart attack, it’s going to be very awkward when the paramedics turn up and you end up telling them that you only know him as ballsdeepinU   
We fully discussed what things we both enjoy doing while on holiday like sightseeing, beach trips, eating habits, how much time spent drinking, whether we both like shopping, visiting art galleries or things like paragliding and other water sports etc  whether we’d have time apart or not. One client told me he needed an afternoon siesta due to a health condition so suggested that I could spend that time either sunbathing or shopping so that worked out perfect for us both. Good communication is definitely the key.

[Vic69]

As Vic69 said, I was happy to give my personal details as I was already comfortable enough to spend a week away with that client so I don’t see an issue is sharing those details. I think ideally you both need to know the basics, ie real name, DOB and perhaps home town in case either of you were to fall ill whilst away. If say, one of you were involved in an accident or collapses with a heart attack, it’s going to be very awkward when the paramedics turn up and you end up telling them that you only know him as ballsdeepinU   
We fully discussed what things we both enjoy doing while on holiday like sightseeing, beach trips, eating habits, how much time spent drinking, whether we both like shopping, visiting art galleries or things like paragliding and other water sports etc  whether we’d have time apart or not. One client told me he needed an afternoon siesta due to a health condition so suggested that I could spend that time either sunbathing or shopping so that worked out perfect for us both. Good communication is definitely the key.

Yep all good points, I've had the same situation regarding health (mine and my clients), I have a rare ish blood group and allergic to penicillin, so would disclose that along with my emergency contact, and would expect the same from my client.  Cant emphasise enough about getting to know the lady and discuss all these things, holidays and breaks with a SP are not for everyone, but when it works a great time can be had for you both!

[Home Alone]

As Vic69 said, I was happy to give my personal details as I was already comfortable enough to spend a week away with that client so I don’t see an issue is sharing those details. I think ideally you both need to know the basics, ie real name, DOB and perhaps home town in case either of you were to fall ill whilst away. If say, one of you were involved in an accident or collapses with a heart attack, it’s going to be very awkward when the paramedics turn up and you end up telling them that you only know him as ballsdeepinU   
We fully discussed what things we both enjoy doing while on holiday like sightseeing, beach trips, eating habits, how much time spent drinking, whether we both like shopping, visiting art galleries or things like paragliding and other water sports etc  whether we’d have time apart or not. One client told me he needed an afternoon siesta due to a health condition so suggested that I could spend that time either sunbathing or shopping so that worked out perfect for us both. Good communication is definitely the key.

I'm sure the lass who accompanied me would echo all of what Bebebelle's said there. Each of us has known the other's real name, age and home address for most of the 9 years I've been seeing her.

And I trust her - and she me - implicitly. In her direction, so implicitly that she's had Lasting Power of Attorney over me for about 6 years.  That's so, if I have to go into residential care, she'll do her best to get me into a Home where the staff wear the shortest skirts possible with suspenders and black stocking tops!

Seriously though, she knows what my wishes are if I should peg out while we're away together: which branch of Co-op Funerals I've already paid to deal with my cremation; which solicitor has drawn up my will; etc, etc.

Meanwhile, I also agree with Bebebelle about coming to an agreement about how we spend our time together on holiday. I'm more interested in the history of the places we visit while she's happier going on shopping trips than I am. Both of us are equally happy to spend quite a lot of Factor 50 on each other so that people at home know we've been away.

That final sentence of Bebebelle's post is also crucial to a happy holiday for the two of you.

[Simon_9000]

Thanks for all the replies and sharing experiences, really useful. Upfront pre-holiday communication is key.

Thanks

[Hobbit]

As Vic69 said, I was happy to give my personal details as I was already comfortable enough to spend a week away with that client so I don’t see an issue is sharing those details. I think ideally you both need to know the basics, ie real name, DOB and perhaps home town in case either of you were to fall ill whilst away. If say, one of you were involved in an accident or collapses with a heart attack, it’s going to be very awkward when the paramedics turn up and you end up telling them that you only know him as ballsdeepinU   
We fully discussed what things we both enjoy doing while on holiday like sightseeing, beach trips, eating habits, how much time spent drinking, whether we both like shopping, visiting art galleries or things like paragliding and other water sports etc  whether we’d have time apart or not. One client told me he needed an afternoon siesta due to a health condition so suggested that I could spend that time either sunbathing or shopping so that worked out perfect for us both. Good communication is definitely the key.

A hooker giving her real name and address to a client. Seriously? That's extremely rare as most girls would never do that regardless of how well you know someone. Remember we are talking about professional hookers here and not SA girls. Because that's a different story.

[Home Alone]

No, it probably doesn't happen often.

It depends on the degree of confidence and trust that you develop in each other as human beings. Not all WGs are out to rip punters off, in my experience.

[HoldMichaels]

A hooker giving her real name and address to a client. Seriously? That's extremely rare as most girls would never do that regardless of how well you know someone.

I won't question the rarity of it, as I expect you're probably right, but when I was seeing Yuffie Yulan on the regular, I knew her real name, her address - hell, her mum used to look after my dog when I had to leave town for work! She obviously didn't know *how* I came to know her daughter, as far as she was concerned I was just a friend.

[hungrypunt]

Done it with girls from Seeking a good few times, only once did something go slightly pear shaped where she was a biiiig drinker.
the rest were bliss.
Overnights, long weekends, done a full 2 weeks once . SA or AW you have to have some sort of connection, and that can be made instantly. If you have to push to make it work it wont be good. If it doesnt feel right it wont be in my experience

[Hobbit]

I won't question the rarity of it, as I expect you're probably right, but when I was seeing Yuffie Yulan on the regular, I knew her real name, her address - hell, her mum used to look after my dog when I had to leave town for work! She obviously didn't know *how* I came to know her daughter, as far as she was concerned I was just a friend.

It probably does happen rarely but probably more often with older hookers, I think the older ones tend to have a bit more life experience and/or slight desperation/neediness for them to reveal such information. I don't think you will get many younger ones giving out their real identity. Unless they are naïve.

[hungrypunt]

I wouldnt want to know their real identity myself tbh

[Bebebelle]

It probably does happen rarely but probably more often with older hookers, I think the older ones tend to have a bit more life experience and/or slight desperation/neediness for them to reveal such information. I don't think you will get many younger ones giving out their real identity. Unless they are naïve.

As a professional older hooker here, why would that make me needy or desperate to give out my personal details ?  I think if I’m going to spend a week abroad somewhere with a client then it’s sensible that we know basic details about each other for the reasons I mentioned before. Let’s not forget that I wouldn’t consider going away with a client that I didn’t have a good connection with who I also really trusted. There’s lots of guys out there who are also happy to share the name on his passport if we’re going away.  Apart from going away , I don’t need to know your personal info just like you don’t need mine either. As escorts we are much more at risk of our identities being found out anyway when we invite you into our homes so from there you have a starting point to find out who we are. 

[Hobbit]

As a professional older hooker here, why would that make me needy or desperate to give out my personal details ?  I think if I’m going to spend a week abroad somewhere with a client then it’s sensible that we know basic details about each other for the reasons I mentioned before. Let’s not forget that I wouldn’t consider going away with a client that I didn’t have a good connection with who I also really trusted. There’s lots of guys out there who are also happy to share the name on his passport if we’re going away.  Apart from going away , I don’t need to know your personal info just like you don’t need mine either. As escorts we are much more at risk of our identities being found out anyway when we invite you into our homes so from there you have a starting point to find out who we are.

Older hookers tend to be competing against younger ones more as most guys would prefer a younger prossie than an older one. This doesn't apply to everyone as there are some guys that prefer mature women and even I sometimes have a craving for older pussy occasionally. I find they try harder to keep clients and maybe befriending clients can be part of it. 

Personally, I think hookers should be careful giving out personal details because in this day and age relationships are very fragile and you can't trust anyone. You could be friends with someone for many years and still fall out. Therefore, in my opinion the responsible thing would be to set boundaries for the safety of both parties.

[Home Alone]

Older hookers tend to be competing against younger ones more as most guys would prefer a younger prossie than an older one. This doesn't apply to everyone as there are some guys that prefer mature women and even I sometimes have a craving for older pussy occasionally. I find they try harder to keep clients and maybe befriending clients can be part of it. 

Personally, I think hookers should be careful giving out personal details because in this day and age relationships are very fragile and you can't trust anyone. You could be friends with someone for many years and still fall out. Therefore, in my opinion the responsible thing would be to set boundaries for the safety of both parties.

But surely, Hobbit, isn't what each of those of us who actually have experienced holidays like this is saying that we have been extremely cautious about the plan, and discussed all its ramifications, before committing ourselves to it?

Surely the extension of your concerns - which I've highlighted - in the second paragraph of your post is that none of us should ever make any friends because - 15, 20, 25 years down the line - we might fall out with them. 

Personally, I'm more of a glass-half-full person than that. Earlier in this thread, I wrote about my 70th birthday party, which was attended by friends I'd had from junior school, grammar school and College Days. The person who'd known me longest was someone who sat next to me in what they now call 'Year 4', which at the time was 62 years previously. Obviously I haven't kept in touch with all those classmates at school or College but surely that's no reason not to discuss going on holiday with someone I'd been having regular - okay; paid-for - sex for the previous four years.

Additionally, I'm someone who'd previously had the dreaded E.A.S. - if only there were a vaccine against that! -so have become ultra-cautious about letting myself get too close to an SP.  And it was with that in mind that I set out, as comprehensively as I could, in Replies #14 and #16 above all the cautious steps I took before broaching the idea to the SP in question.

I suspect, Hobbit, that you and I will always be on different sides of this discussion; but I hope you are reassured by my comments; and perhaps, more importantly, those of Bebebelle and Vic69 that at least some of us don't rush into either proposing, or accepting, the idea of clients going on holiday with SPs.

[Hobbit]

But surely, Hobbit, isn't what each of those of us who actually have experienced holidays like this is saying that we have been extremely cautious about the plan, and discussed all its ramifications, before committing ourselves to it?

Surely the extension of your concerns - which I've highlighted - in the second paragraph of your post is that none of us should ever make any friends because - 15, 20, 25 years down the line - we might fall out with them. 

Personally, I'm more of a glass-half-full person than that. Earlier in this thread, I wrote about my 70th birthday party, which was attended by friends I'd had from junior school, grammar school and College Days. The person who'd known me longest was someone who sat next to me in what they now call 'Year 4', which at the time was 62 years previously. Obviously I haven't kept in touch with all those classmates at school or College but surely that's no reason not to discuss going on holiday with someone I'd been having regular - okay; paid-for - sex for the previous four years.

Additionally, I'm someone who'd previously had the dreaded E.A.S. - if only there were a vaccine against that! -so have become ultra-cautious about letting myself get too close to an SP.  And it was with that in mind that I set out, as comprehensively as I could, in Replies #14 and #16 above all the cautious steps I took before broaching the idea to the SP in question.

I suspect, Hobbit, that you and I will always be on different sides of this discussion; but I hope you are reassured by my comments; and perhaps, more importantly, those of Bebebelle and Vic69 that at least some of us don't rush into either proposing, or accepting, the idea of clients going on holiday with SPs.

I think we probably would disagree on some things based on our life experiences and perceptions. I didn't say one should not make friends, in fact, some of the best friendships are the ones that have distance and separation from time to time. Having someone in your face for days on end isn't my cup of tea.

EAS is natural and nothing can be done about it apart from being aware of it and trying to keep it under control. Nevertheless, it isn't that easy.

[workinallweek]

 Well seeing as i started the thread i thought i should comment again 

I did go way with a regular  who by then had retired   


it was fun and we had a good time   

I paid for the flights and accomadation then we went Dutch on pretty much the rest

shared a bed had some fun as mates and then returned home  .

we had different ideas of fun during the days but came to a sensible compromise and we are still in touch so wasnt that bad   lol

would i do it again ?  yes with more planning

[hendrix]

It's something that I do frequently with regs, always been a good time with no issues. Not for everyone obviously.

[DipsyDoodle]

Yes, I've done this.  As Bebebelle said, communication is key.  You have to know the other person reasonably well, and have mutual trust because real world information comes out.

With one regular, it all just kind of happened as after several months, we shared real names.  Later we spent a weekend away and had a blast, so a month later we did another weekend away.  We then decided to do a trip abroad and ended up in Malaga for a week in late summer.  I paid for flights, accommodation, and meals, but no service provider fee.  We had such a good time that six months later we went to the Caribbean under the same arrangements.

Would I do it again?  Yes, as I did virtually the same thing with another regular the following year.

[mradventures]

one thing i have just remmbered, i think in spain and some other euro countries hotels or major transport (equivilent to national express here) often want to see your passport or ID.