How to not hurt an escort with a big dick?

[Steely Dan]

Third, try getting some CBD lube involved... It's great for arousal/relaxing the vaginal region. (THC lube is even better but illegal in the UK).

More people passing on things they read on the internet.  As one of the pages that advocates this snake oil says, says 'Unfortunately, there’s no *actual* scientific research on CBD being used in the vagina, but many people with vaginas have had fantastic experiences — including me. '

To misquote the wise Mandy Rice-Davies, a snake oil salesman would say that, wouldn't she?

Most likely, it is as effective as any good lube, but no different.  But if the CBD (cannabis extract) itself does have an effect, who knows what repeated use might do to the women's vagina.  Since you have a condom on, it is only the escort that is trying something unproven.  Doesn't seem fair.

[Thephoenix]

Not really an issue for me😁

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[daviemac]

What does this mean? Am I going to be banned if I don’t review her?

No, but the comment is totally unnecessary and is one of the things listed as not to say  in the punting wiki.

It also makes me think this whole thread is just attention seeking.  To be honest I'd be embarrassed to admit I couldn't use my cock properly.

[Whiteknight]

It also makes me think this whole thread is just attention seeking.  To be honest I'd be embarrassed to admit I couldn't use my cock properly.

That's what I think too 

OP, please share information on the SP please, love to know if she is very petite 

[Dipper]

Lol, I was going to say!

 

[JPin]

More people passing on things they read on the internet.  As one of the pages that advocates this snake oil says, says 'Unfortunately, there’s no *actual* scientific research on CBD being used in the vagina, but many people with vaginas have had fantastic experiences — including me. '

To misquote the wise Mandy Rice-Davies, a snake oil salesman would say that, wouldn't she?

Most likely, it is as effective as any good lube, but no different.  But if the CBD (cannabis extract) itself does have an effect, who knows what repeated use might do to the women's vagina.  Since you have a condom on, it is only the escort that is trying something unproven.  Doesn't seem fair.

I've used it with a few different women, and anally on myself, and it works a treat. Water-based THC lube is even better. Not anecdotal, but first-hand trial and success.

Please give me a little respect and try not to assume I've just read stuff on the internet and regurgitated it.

[Milfman1112]

to hell with your big dick. What a thing to say! And some guys on here give newbies a hard time for not reviewing!!

Also for asking stupid questions.....

[bigmc]

Ive fisted a size 10 girl in the past
I`m 8-9 inches depending on how turned on I am, never been told off for hurting a girl, but given them exquisite pleasure ( so to speak )
I`ve never been turned down for anal, so suspect technique plays a big part,
Talk to the girl, see if you can develop a rapport in bed where she can relax with you xx
 

[Steely Dan]

I've used it with a few different women, and anally on myself, and it works a treat. Water-based THC lube is even better. Not anecdotal, but first-hand trial and success.

Please give me a little respect and try not to assume I've just read stuff on the internet and regurgitated it.

I do believe you tried a good lube with this ingredient in it, sure. We don't know what lube that was. You mentioned the 'active', not the specific lube you used. Your first hand experience is still an anecdote rather than a clinical trial.  Saying that any lube with this ingredient is better, or saying that THC ones (most likely banned for good reason) - are better still, is something you read on the internet.  Your personal trial and error is limited to the exact one you used.  How can you possibly know that any other lubes with Cannabis in them are any good?  I hope for your sake (and the ones you fucked) that the material does not do anything e.g. reduce sensitivity with repeated use. If it doesn't work it is safe, but a waste of money over normal Boots lube.  But if it does work, what else might it do?  Paracetamol is good but 15 might kill you.

[JPin]

I appreciate your response, each to their own. I’ll continue exploring and having fun with CBD and THC, as they’ve both been very pleasurable.

All the best!

[Ali Katt]

I saw an escort for an hour (not reviewed because I’m keeping her for myself)  & decided I’d make her a regular but when I contacted her to book the next meet she asks if we can do 30 minutes instead because I’m too big.
I prefer longer meets & want to see her regularly so how do I not hurt her? I don’t mind slow sensual sex so is it the pounding that hurts a girl or putting your dick all the way in? If I slowly put it all the way in would it hurt less or would I have to put it partially in?

Not saying it isn't true, but if the woman doesn't enjoy it - escort or civvy they will make any excuse. Or it could be a ploy to see more men in a day. TBH if deep penetration wasn't on the cards I wouldn't bother, if find it difficult to cum with shallow penetration.

[the_patient_wolf]

I saw an escort for an hour (not reviewed because I’m keeping her for myself)  & decided I’d make her a regular but when I contacted her to book the next meet she asks if we can do 30 minutes instead because I’m too big.
I prefer longer meets & want to see her regularly so how do I not hurt her? I don’t mind slow sensual sex so is it the pounding that hurts a girl or putting your dick all the way in? If I slowly put it all the way in would it hurt less or would I have to put it partially in?

Sadly for you, I fear that your favourite escort is not as keen on you as you think. My guess is she is not worried what your cock will do to her one bit. She just doesn't want you in her at all.

Sorry to be blunt.

Incidentally, coming on here telling everyone what a big cock you have, makes you...err...  a bit of a cock.

[Mr Sinister]

I saw an escort for an hour (not reviewed because I’m keeping her for myself)  & decided I’d make her a regular

Sharing is caring  yes we all do this but there is no need to publicize it, there are some things that is better kept to yourself. Theoretically you won't have her to yourself as she has other customers too and it only takes one guy to review her on here.

[southcoastpunter]

Sharing is caring  yes we all do this but there is no need to publicize it, there are some things that is better kept to yourself.

Right!. that's what my original comment was really about - ie the fact that he actually said it!. IMO that showed contempt for his fellow UKP members!

[Colston36]

Sorry, the title of this thread had me initially thinking that the escort was the one with the big dick. 

Me too. That's certainly the way it is written. Any comments about the TS fraternity?

[Ali Katt]

Sadly for you, I fear that your favourite escort is not as keen on you as you think. My guess is she is not worried what your cock will do to her one bit. She just doesn't want you in her at all.

Sorry to be blunt.

Incidentally, coming on here telling everyone what a big cock you have, makes you...err...  a bit of a cock.

I think if that's the case surely she would say "I don't think we are compatible" or something.

[Moby Dick]

What does this mean? Am I going to be banned if I don’t review her?

Was it this one?

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[puntingpumping1920]

Sharing is caring  yes we all do this but there is no need to publicize it, there are some things that is better kept to yourself. Theoretically you won't have her to yourself as she has other customers too and it only takes one guy to review her on here.

Not me  👎🏿

[donnybob]

Book a Romanian they are skilled at not letting it go in all the way 

[Marmalade]

Plenty of fish, move on.

If it is an ongoing problem, fuck mostly in spoons.  Nice for both, but your dick wont go in all the way (Generally - nothing is certain in fucking).  Guys with small dicks should avoid spoons.

Not necessarily. I reckon it depends on the angle of her inner tube or something but I’ve had the opposite feedback.

[Marmalade]

How do you know what a woman may or may not like.     I think I'll take notice of the person posting on here who actually has a vagina, I would think she would have a bit more of an insight into how they work.

In the interests of science you could sellotape a tape measure to the end of your cock to measure how far up it goes. Would prove fuck all but would be a great story. 

[LLPunting]

Not necessarily. I reckon it depends on the angle of her inner tube or something but I’ve had the opposite feedback.

Depth of penetration in spoons (and doggy) is affected by how much arse and thigh she's packing, how much she bends at the waist when taking up position and whether you position your hips lower, higher or at the same level as hers.  Depending on your stiffness and curvature this may make penetration easier or more difficult and you could also end up stimulating her g-spot more directly or indeed bashing her front-wall more uncomfortably.

[Marmalade]

Depth of penetration in spoons (and doggy) is affected by how much arse and thigh she's packing, how much she bends at the waist when taking up position and whether you position your hips lower, higher or at the same level as hers.  Depending on your stiffness and curvature this may make penetration easier or more difficult and you could also end up stimulating her g-spot more directly or indeed bashing her front-wall more uncomfortably.

Indeed. The fat arse issue sounds very relevant. Though I’ve come across plenty of bony fuckers who seem to prefer doggy. Spoons does get in at a slightly better angle for depth of penetration. The closeness of contact (thighs to thighs & arse cheeks) also offers stimulation. I think the only answer is stop if she wants to stop, or not shove the whole thing in.

[Thephoenix]

Like the man said.... it's the heat of the meat and the angle of the dangle.