All a long time ago.
A girl in a brothel introduced me to "The Boss," we then all went out to lunch as he had a business proposal to me. This my first encounter with the importance of personal security, the girl had obviously revealed some of our "pillow talk" to him or noted the Certificates on my living room wall. It also became obvious that the boss was a non-paying customer.
Declined the work and moved on quickly, changing my punting SIM quickly.
Another time was a first EE punt, arrived at the house, was shown in by a girl, introduced to the girl I was meeting, moved through the house noticing three guys siting in the kitchen, playing cards, smoking and drinking. My thinking brain just said, "Ignore them and don't fuss." My downstairs brain was saying, "get in the bedroom quickly."
Final time was in one of the Chinese shops, eventually it dawned on me that the maid was the boss.