luckily ive never had to turn anyone away, my policy is good happy people. everyone's been well behaved and been happy, and left even happier. the only time i would turn someone away is if they looked and felt uncomfortable because i believe noone should do anything they dont want to do.
A good answer.
its a talent to see inner beauty straight away. i think you should be more grateful.
Indeed it is a talent. Not difficult to learn and well-worth developing. (Though harder if one is faced with impenetrable bad attitude.)
On your previous answer, I imagine there will be punters who are reluctant to admit they are feeling uncomfortable. A newbie for instance. Nervous but wanting to go through with it. Now some prossies are openly capable and willing to do the ‘hand-holding’ while others are clear that’s not in their personal job remit.
And on the other foot, there’s occasionally a prossie whose attitude may seem to be “think of England and let’s get this over with”. That can be hard work for the punter. They’re quite willing but inwardly resentful or think punters are scum.
Getting through such a session — and the “attitude” is not always apparent until action begins — will be handled differently by different punters I expect. To my mind, such a prossie is treating her body like an object but not in a good way. Ok, like a blow-up doll?? But such characters tend not to leave it at that but keep up a distracting stream of verbal garbage, rigid limbs and reluctance to take direction. When it’s intentional, it’s generally a case of get rid of the punter asap once money received. She doesn’t ‘deserve’ to be let down gently but the punter will maybe choose to do so to avoid hassle or malicious retribution.
Fortunately most SPs at least do their best to offer some sort of service, and when it’s something they’ve chosen and are at least reasonably good at it, we are grateful that the service exists. But it’s a purchase arrangement. And I suppose one of the main benefits of UKP is pointing out the unpleasant prossie minority and I hope that you and other SP visitor-members understand this necessity and realise we are not painting all prossies with the same brush.
