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ness4

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Question...I've been doing this for years but recently thought I'd take a note as to how many WG's I see and I've been to a WG on 28 separate occasions in 3 months. I'm always safe and never go for lower quality but am I addicted? Do I have a problem? (and where do you go about such a problem if so?)

Anyone else found themselves in a similar situation?

Offline smiths

Question...I've been doing this for years but recently thought I'd take a note as to how many WG's I see and I've been to a WG on 28 separate occasions in 3 months. I'm always safe and never go for lower quality but am I addicted? Do I have a problem? (and where do you go about such a problem if so?)

Anyone else found themselves in a similar situation?

Only YOU know if you have a problem but my advice is can you easily afford what its costing you, if not then that's not good in my view.

Emotional Attachment Syndrome (EAS) is another thing too watch out for, if that doesn't apply to you and you can easily afford punting and importantly enjoy yourself then go for it. Personally I enjoy punting and can afford it, wont suffer from EAS nowadays so if I find a good regular I might punt with her 3-4 times a week until I get bored as well as newbie WGs to me possibly. I can control my punting as I know because at present I am in a GUM incubation period so not punting but am loving Wimbledon and not missing punting at all for the moment.

I also think its unhealthy if punting is a persons ONLY interest and thing they think about all the time.

Online jackdaw

Deep down you know the answer...yes or no...yourself.

Mere frequency of punting does not necessarily equate to addiction. You need to ask questions of yourself, and be honest. Stuff like:-
1/ Is punting this much causing problems elsewhere in my life?
2/ Can I afford this level out of income, or am I running down capital, or not buying essential items?
3/ Can I stop if I want to?


vw

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Maybe your just a binge punter like me !  5 since Friday, 5 booked the rest of the week.  Summer Puntaday !!!

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Question...I've been doing this for years but recently thought I'd take a note as to how many WG's I see and I've been to a WG on 28 separate occasions in 3 months. I'm always safe and never go for lower quality but am I addicted? Do I have a problem? (and where do you go about such a problem if so?)

Anyone else found themselves in a similar situation?

If you always thinking about pussy and sex,then you may be addicted to punting.I suffer E.A.S until 5 mins after the punt and thats only if the W.G is an incredible fuck.

p.s lower quality in what way,no street hookers?

ness4

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Good question re the lower quality comment...I suppose I define it as No street walkers, no bareback, no Romanians (sorry...tried it in the past and always seem to be the same depressing same punts), same goes for the Asian places where the girl changes every week (nothing against Asian WG's though as have had some stunners) no SoHo £20 jobs...and I try to stay away from very low price, low rated AW types...dont know if everyone will agree

I've got a few "regulars" who I know are a good time and like to see occasional new and different (depending on where I am)

I can get a little attached to some of the WG's but I know that its only the money...so it doesn't effect memoir long

In many ways I'd like to stop...but its difficult to stop something that is fun!

Offline Cuntminion

Question...I've been doing this for years but recently thought I'd take a note as to how many WG's I see and I've been to a WG on 28 separate occasions in 3 months. I'm always safe and never go for lower quality but am I addicted? Do I have a problem? (and where do you go about such a problem if so?)

Anyone else found themselves in a similar situation?

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Offline punk

Good question re the lower quality comment...I suppose I define it as No street walkers, no bareback, no Romanians (sorry...tried it in the past and always seem to be the same depressing same punts), same goes for the Asian places where the girl changes every week (nothing against Asian WG's though as have had some stunners) no SoHo £20 jobs...and I try to stay away from very low price, low rated AW types...dont know if everyone will agree

I've got a few "regulars" who I know are a good time and like to see occasional new and different (depending on where I am)

I can get a little attached to some of the WG's but I know that its only the money...so it doesn't effect memoir long

In many ways I'd like to stop...but its difficult to stop something that is fun!

Is 99 % of the time about business, and as such you should treat it that way,its a general rule, because some prossies like some punters are out to get what they can get away with.

Offline Cuntminion

You want to book yourself a known negative sp

Nothing brings eas or addiction back into touch like poor comms or service

Offline smiths

Good question re the lower quality comment...I suppose I define it as No street walkers, no bareback, no Romanians (sorry...tried it in the past and always seem to be the same depressing same punts), same goes for the Asian places where the girl changes every week (nothing against Asian WG's though as have had some stunners) no SoHo £20 jobs...and I try to stay away from very low price, low rated AW types...dont know if everyone will agree

I've got a few "regulars" who I know are a good time and like to see occasional new and different (depending on where I am)

I can get a little attached to some of the WG's but I know that its only the money...so it doesn't effect memoir long

In many ways I'd like to stop...but its difficult to stop something that is fun!


As I know what makes a good WG is her attitude NOT what she happens to be charging i have and will punt with WGs who charge low rates, in recent times i have had good punts with WGs who charged me from £60-80 an hour as well as some who charged me more.

ness4

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You want to book yourself a known negative sp

Nothing brings eas or addiction back into touch like poor comms or service

LOL...if only life were that easy. Alcoholics could be treated with a pint of Carling!  :lol:

ness4

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As I know what makes a good WG is her attitude NOT what she happens to be charging i have and will punt with WGs who charge low rates, in recent times i have had good punts with WGs who charged me from £60-80 an hour as well as some who charged me more.

Yep I agree with that. I don't have a minimum  or maximum limit and my all time favorite WG is only £100ph

Offline Cuntminion

LOL...if only life were that easy. Alcoholics could be treated with a pint of Carling!  :lol:

I don't drink because of carling  :D

But honestly I think I had a touch of the fluffies because I liked the first wg I saw and stuck with it for a while

Now I got a new rule set as I try to book week or two in advance
If I hear nothing after a few days making contact I move on

The reasoning behind poor comms could be anything you'll never know the question really is how many times or how much will you accept it ?

The point is poor experience can bring things back into touch and certainly make you aware of the reality of the situation

LL

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You want to book yourself a known negative sp

Nothing brings eas or addiction back into touch like poor comms or service
Or an STI :hi:

I don't think I've been addicted to it (lack of funds restricts my punting frequency) but have made bad choices at times, due to punting which I have regretted afterwards. For example if I have the money and desire to punt then everything else gets given a lower priority. Mentioned it before on here. At times I've turned down the offer of a night out with friends in favour of a punt. I should never do this since the night out would be a lot more rewarding. However punting can become a compulsion at times. This is when it borders on an addiction for me perhaps. Also I limit the amount of Viagra pills I take - never more than one a week. I could easily become addicted to those otherwise I reckon.

Offline Cuntminion

 :D

Forgot sti but yeah that would bring you back in line

Though I don't encourage op to catch an sti

ness4

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3 times in 3 days.....I do need a crap punt to put me off....any suggestions in Hampshire/Berkshire as to who could put me off for a month or 2?

vw

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3 times in 3 days.....I do need a crap punt to put me off....any suggestions in Hampshire/Berkshire as to who could put me off for a month or 2?

This might put you off External Link/Members Only

ness4

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This might put you off External Link/Members Only

Yeah that would put me off....as she likes being filmed I could watch it back whenever I started to feel the need, and re live the horror!

vw

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That's the solution,  Just had a fun 5 hours today to feed my addiction, bookings tomorrow and Friday now .  I feel your pain busiest 10 days of my 15 year punting life.   

ness4

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After 4 this week I think I am now punted out.

2 visits to my favourite regular, 1 to another regular followed by a new punt (with the biggest natural boobs I have ever seen!!)




willmo1

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Keep moving. Theres always a better girl waiting to be found

Offline PatrickCarnes

Addiction is usually considered when there are severe consequences in your life, like if you are obsessing with it to a degree that it is negatively affecting your work, or your friendships/relationships, your interests, you are isolating yourself from people because of the secrecy of it and also if you are spending more than you can afford. An addiction is usually used to manage and numb unwanted feelings and thoughts, so for example if something pisses you off ( and you probably don't even know you are pissed off ) and you find yourself habitually arranging a punt to escape the uncomfortable feelings then you may be addicted.