Normal girls turning into potential working girls

[SwenyTodd]

Anyone turned a civvy into a wg?

Ive been chatting to a colleague at office who’s 20 years my junior. This weekend I treated to the shops and last night we had some fun.  I told her I don’t want any drama (as I’m married) but she was happy for NSA provided I can take her out a few times.  Win win!

[m4rmite]

Take her to Primark if clothes shopping for her.
Keeps the puntingprice down.

Seriously though it won't be long before she gets attached and then 

[hornypnter]

Make sure she ain't a bunny boiler 

[houseboot]

Even if she is happy for a NSA relationship, you're more likely to be seen taking her out than seen visiting a WG.

More likely to get caught, leading to plenty of drama.

Much more likely a lose, lose situation than a win, win one.

[Kingy28]

Make sure she ain't a bunny boiler 

Good advice

[xxlmuscles]

Good advice

+1

[Zeusthedoc]

Business and pleasure are not a good combination!

Good luck, but I can see this not going the way you want/expect!

[Plan R]

Good luck - but it has a lot of potential to get very messy very quickly 

[Swsnapper]

Never ever trust a woman who goes along with that mandate. They are few and far between and along with myself there are probably quite a few on here who have been there and got the t shirt to dispel that theory of no strings fun...

[CheeseBoard]

Good luck - but it has a lot of potential to get very messy very quickly 

Total agreement with this.  It's too close to home, she must know you and your real name.  If she feels spurned at any minute, it could turn nasty

[Steelworker]

Good luck - but it has a lot of potential to get very messy very quickly 

Sounds a great and cheap situation until it’s not. Then there’s a chance it’ll cost you a lot. My advice, stop now and extract yourself amicably.

[throatfiller8]

Confucius he say "Never shit on own doorstep". 

[DastardlyDick]

And, as you work with her, she could seriously mess up your career. Hell hath no fury etc.

[SwenyTodd]

Good luck - but it has a lot of potential to get very messy very quickly 

Thanks for this and other comments.  I guess with a WG you are more cautious so will heed your advice with my office bunny!

[vw]

Anyone turned a civvy into a wg?

Ive been chatting to a colleague at office who’s 20 years my junior. This weekend I treated to the shops and last night we had some fun.  I told her I don’t want any drama (as I’m married) but she was happy for NSA provided I can take her out a few times.  Win win!

At work?   

Don't shit on your own doorstep, this wont end well.

Anyway what twat IF true, and that's a big IF

[DoctorSalchicha]

Walk away politely, you are playing with fire and sooner or later that will explode on your face.

I've been there and I can only tell you that the beginning is amazing, compare it to a train that goes up the hill, nice and slowly, but once reaches the top of the hill, its a runaway downhill and you won't like to be there when the train derails and it stops. Better jump from the train while you can man.

[puntlover1]

Don't shit where you eat.

[Fuzzyduck]

Ah the hot young thing in the office. Who hasn't been tempted by that? Firm fleshed, eager, adventurous.

OP - if you were responding to this thread rather than starting it, what would you say? Exactly. There are a number of end game scenarios, but you lose in most of them. For example, do you forsee a scenario when they might meet, at a work do for example? You need balls of steel to carry that off.

I'm also not so sure it will necessarily be that cheap an option. Putting aside the stress and logistics of getting away with it, there are shopping trips, meals out, hotels, maybe a dirty weekend away. Or are you getting away with Primark, a KFC and banging her in the back of her own car?

I've been in a similar situation before and it's hard to break off when it's all going so well, so maybe you won't for now. Just watch out for any change or escalation on her side - wanting to see you more, asking for more expensive gifts. It's not happened to me, but some subtle blackmail is not unheard of.

Since we seem to be in the mood for sharing proverbs and advice, here's another: you should always have an affair with someone who has more to lose than you do.

[myothernameis]

I told her I don’t want any drama (as I’m married)

Just wait till she comes and asks you for this and that, and you say no, and she says, I tell your wife

[charming_red]

Sex with colleagues can be great. It must be great seeing a side of them you've never thought you would. Yes there is a chance it can makes things awkward but it depends on how close your daily interaction is. The risk adds more excitement, but if you're married you are playing with fire by screwing someone who knows your name and finer details.

Punting would be the safest option in this case, but only you would know this girl and what she's like. Some are happy for a fling and move on. Others will show up on your doorstep and show your wife a video of you fucking her and getting her pregnant! 

[Fuzzyduck]

Others will show up on your doorstep and show your wife a video of you fucking her and getting her pregnant! 

Fucking her BB would indeed add an extra level of potential disaster coming OP's way.

[Heph]

To answer the OP's original Q: yes. And it was thrilling, delightful, fraught, fun, difficult, risky, demanding, patience-exhausting, exhilarating, hugely expensive, exasperating, rewarding, very dangerous, indelibly memorable, pain-in-the-arse and, ultimately, saddening too, when it inevitably had to wind down after several years.

I'm sure your own experience will follow unpredictable paths, unique to you, but there's every reason to suppose it'll probably involve much of the above too. So, there probably really is something in the other chaps' advice to have a sense of whether your girl is stable and good-natured enough to bear the inevitable difficulties and jealousies that will ensue, if it turns out to be anything more than a fling for a few months.

Enjoy!

[ViperKai]

Be careful mate, this sounds dangerous and could turn highly toxic...  “Don’t get laid where you get paid”  she must know lots about you which ultimately will end in Lose Lose!

[sparkus]

Sex with colleagues can be great. It must be great seeing a side of them you've never thought you would. Yes there is a chance it can makes things awkward but it depends on how close your daily interaction is. The risk adds more excitement, but if you're married you are playing with fire by screwing someone who knows your name and finer details.

Punting would be the safest option in this case, but only you would know this girl and what she's like. Some are happy for a fling and move on. Others will show up on your doorstep and show your wife a video of you fucking her and getting her pregnant! 

I do it all the time but since the whole Weinstein thing I'm a bit wary! Had some fun times on company accounts during training sessions away, that's for sure.

Re: Weinstein, a temp (older bird) invited me for a drink one night and suggested near hers. We ended up back at hers after one drink but I just couldn't get enough clear signal out of her to proceed so I called it a night. Walked away feeling I'd lost my touch (in the past she'd have been laid on the carpet getting a seeing to after the first drink being poured) but ultimately not worth losing job for.

[sparkus]

Fucking her BB would indeed add an extra level of potential disaster coming OP's way.

I've done a few colleagues and ex-colleagues BB, especially anally. Not something I'd do punting and risk of STI has been low as these have been sexually inactive women who'd cracked on to me.

[Skeleton]

Seems a few on here have been there, done that, and found out the risk. Wonder how many turned to punting after this, but didn't punt beforehand.
Certainly the case for me.

[sparkus]

Seems a few on here have been there, done that, and found out the risk. Wonder how many turned to punting after this, but didn't punt beforehand.
Certainly the case for me.

I've done both simultaneously. Used to nip round someone's flat on weekends and spend all day in bed. Took advantage on visiting unusual part of London to visit massage parlours/brothels I'd not normally have chance to go to.

Punting does have the advantage of less chance of discovery by OH.

[cash2spare]

Anyone turned a civvy into a wg?

Ive been chatting to a colleague at office who’s 20 years my junior. This weekend I treated to the shops and last night we had some fun.  I told her I don’t want any drama (as I’m married) but she was happy for NSA provided I can take her out a few times.  Win win!

Lose, lose fella. Give your head a wobble and wake up ffs. There is NO such thing as NSA when you are married. Get the wife to drop her knickers a bit more (well at least once a week) or suffer the consequences lol
Men who like sex and then get married FFS you couldn't make it up could you lol
I don't know if you buy the Big Issue but carry on and you will soon be selling it!

[mak35m3]

Id agree to close to home, when it comes to an end not everyone acts as if its NSA

[BlueRock]

Agree with others unless you meet on a site for NSA women have a habit of getting attached to men they get attention from. Boredom flirting at work has led to me receiving gifts, texts all bloody weekend and that's just from chatting not fucking them. Shagging anyone at work is a mugs game even if you're single.

[Scarboroughdude]

I met a woman who was after NSA sex and i thought id struck gold at the time.....then after a few meetings she asked to borrow money, I lent her a few hundred and she paid it back but then it got more and frequent and I was feeling obligated and although the sex was good it felt like there were strings attached. I got out of it and we drifted apart thank god.

Its much easier just paying upfront IMHO theres no such thing as a free meal.

[Daffodil]

Affairs are very high risk, but more rewarding. Financially often more expensive mind, and a lot more time consuming.

Prossies are a much safer bet, certainly if all you want is sex.

There are plenty of women out there, in my experience, who are happy just to have a bit of fun though and life’s boring without a little risk, right?

[sparkus]

Said it before and will again, it's safer to have an affair with someone who's doing the same. The fact they already have a partner (who may be a useless muppet in bed) means they're less likely to get jealous of you having one (the same thought will occur to them).

A woman is less likely to enter into a risky affair with a single colleague who may get jealous of hubby or want more (which is half of what the whole incel thing is about IMO)

[Zeusthedoc]

Said it before and will again, it's safer to have an affair with someone who's doing the same. The fact they already have a partner (who may be a useless muppet in bed) means they're less likely to get jealous of you having one (the same thought will occur to them).

A woman is less likely to enter into a risky affair with a single colleague who may get jealous of hubby or want more (which is half of what the whole incel thing is about IMO)

until she splits from her fella expecting you to split from the mrs!
happened to a colleague - was a shame because his mrs was a model compared to the munt he cheated on her with!

[John Johnson]

It's never a good idea to pork the payroll. You may get lucky but most likely something will go wrong and Doris will be told by the formerly sweet young thing. Result is that you lose everything.

[Horizontal pleasures]

I recently lost a colleague if 35 years. He undid his zip with a younger woman colleague 12 years ago and it became the subject of an exploitation complaint. He was discreetly expelled. There had not been coercion in a legal sense but impropriety and against the professional rules to do it in house.

You are skating on thin ice mister OP.

[purple_t]

Don't dip your pen in the company ink, OP.

If it goes pear-shaped and she gets work involved, they will side with her. I've seen it happen to a guy I work with in his mid-40s. Might not be worth the risk to your career.

[SwenyTodd]

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I'm finding escorts are more discreet and reliable than office affairs!

[hungrypunt]

Shes probably and Sb and half of seekingarrangement have shagged her = Prossie in training

[pisceanuk]

Agree, it can lead to a sexual harassment claim, not worth it, and that's why I prefer WGs than trying at work.

I recently lost a colleague if 35 years. He undid his zip with a younger woman colleague 12 years ago and it became the subject of an exploitation complaint. He was discreetly expelled. There had not been coercion in a legal sense but impropriety and against the professional rules to do it in house.

You are skating on thin ice mister OP.

[blackburnian]

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I'm finding escorts are more discreet and reliable than office affairs!

If you're after a bit of a challenge why not try "converting" an AW cam girl ?  I've had some success over the years .

Bb

[sparkus]

If you're after a bit of a challenge why not try "converting" an AW cam girl ?  I've had some success over the years .

Bb

Was gonna say - isn't the thread supposed to be about converting girls rather than office romances?

[thumbspot]

If you're after a bit of a challenge why not try "converting" an AW cam girl ?  I've had some success over the years .

Bb

+1

I’ve punted with two cam girls over the years. Both absolutely excellent, but a few years back now. One still cams (External Link/Members Only), the other has completely disappeared.

I had nothing to do with convincing them to start escorting.

There’s one I’ve seen on cam more recently - hoping she might take the plunge as she’s filthy on cam, but unlikely to do meets.

[bearcat69]

Seems a few on here have been there, done that, and found out the risk. Wonder how many turned to punting after this, but didn't punt beforehand.
Certainly the case for me.

A lot of people like to blame porn, but I would say trying it on with a girl I was working with a few years ago, giving her money at every opportunity I could, and getting that kind of look of uncertainty from her when I tried to subtly hint I was interested in her, was probably one of the main things that pushed me into punting actually.

I remember a few months after starting punting and her trying to be flirty with me in a won't really lead anywhere kind of way and me just looking at her and thinking, she's nothing special and not worth the effort. She left the company not long after that, and to be honest I don't miss her, having come to the conclusion she was just a bit of a useless mooch. Funny how punting can have that effect when I think about it. See it as a benefit of punting though. Last thing I need is complications from women like that at work.

[badsin]

Theres a phrase I've seen on here a few times "you're not paying for sex, you're paying to walk away afterwards".
Complicated things invariably go wrong

[sparkus]

Theres a phrase I've seen on here a few times "you're not paying for sex, you're paying to walk away afterwards".
Complicated things invariably go wrong

Jack Nicholson, I believe.

[chinafan]

Surely the big idea behind punting, and the main reason it works so well, is you're paying to walk away with no drama afterwards.

[myothernameis]

A female colleague in work, her partner decided to have fling with one of his female workers, over the next few weeks, they began to see each other more often

He thought he was being discrete, and no one knew, but someone in my work spotted him one night, booking into a hotel in Edinburgh, and remember he stays in Glasgow

Told his wife, he got a major work contract to be done in Edinburgh, so wouldn't be home at the week end, and he knew his wife would be at work.  Once she found out the marriage was over, and they had been married for 16 years

Comparing the two females, his wife is a cracking person and very gorgeous, and why did he do this, its beyond believe, he had a happy marriage, everyone thinks this other female has come on to him, and it gone from there