Overnight bookings

[Cellular40]

As the old argument goes, for £750 you could have had FIVE separate £150 bookings.

But ultimately it's what the punter wants.

Exactly this.

What I want and what I choose to spend my money on, will be different from the next punter.

There is no right or wrong. If I wanted 6 separate £150 bookings, I would’ve done that.

[AnthG]

I don’t agree with your claim that advertised rates on AW are usually fantasy rates.
Most of my punts have been at the advertised rate.

No, I said the overnighter rates are.

The rest are generally non-negotiable. The overnighter rates are a very different kettle of fish.

I have done 10 overnighters and never paid the advertised rate.

[Cellular40]

No, I said the overnighter rates are.

The rest are generally non-negotiable. The overnighter rates are a very different kettle of fish.

I have done 10 overnighters and never paid the advertised rate.

Good for you.
I have done countless overnights with regular escorts over the years and apart from a handful, I’ve paid the advertised rate.

Again, if I considered the advertised rate too high for what I want, I’d look elsewhere.

[Kev40ish]

I have had quite a few overnights. I do enjoy them as there is something quite nice waking up to someone you have been fucking all evening.

The most I have paid is £1600 for two girls plus £200 for the hire of blue door. This was from 9pm until 9am although one of the girls had to go at 7am for work..I think we fell asleep at about 4am, but I was awoken by the girl who had to leave early with my cock in her mouth.

I suppose it’s what you class as VFM, I thought it was well worth the expense for a totally debauched meet.

But there have been regulars who I have seen for less than their advertised rates.

Since discovering seeking, I haven’t paid more that £300

[winkywanky]

I don’t agree with your claim that advertised rates on AW are usually fantasy rates.
Most of my punts have been at the advertised rate.

And unless you have spoken to a majority WG’s and they tell you why their rates are what they are on their profile I don’t think you can come to that conclusion.

Many WG’s put in their FAQ that rates are non negotiable, of course thus could be bullshit, but if that’s on her profile I am not going to negotiate. Far easier to look elsewhere.

Pretty sure Anth is talking about a WG's overnight rates.

It's well known that they are frequently open to negotiation, unlike the hourly rates which are more written in stone.

The overnight rates are by and large speculative, and open to bargaining.

[winkywanky]

Exactly this.

What I want and what I choose to spend my money on, will be different from the next punter.

There is no right or wrong. If I wanted 6 separate £150 bookings, I would’ve done that.

Just to clarify, 6 x £150 = £900, 5 x£150 = £750 

[AnthG]

I have done countless overnights with regular escorts over the years and apart from a handful, I’ve paid the advertised rate.

Then you are mad with too much money.

Did you see my initial post where I said multiple people were ridiculing me for only negotiating down to £600. As they only ever pay £400-£500 and always negotiate down to that.

You telling them you paid the advertised rate every time would have them in hysterics.

I have seen many girls themselves on UKE say the advertised rates for overnighters are solely for punters who have never booked them before. They always have a lower rate for regulars.

But as you say, its your money and thus your choice. I am just saying this for the benefit of others to decide.

[James999]

Then you are mad with too much money.

Or a bullshitter of course 

<<<Just Saying>>>

[Cellular40]

Just to clarify, 6 x £150 = £900, 5 x£150 = £750 

I of course meant 5, not 6.
I don’t tend to proof read.

[winkywanky]

I hope you don't let a WG do your sums   

[Cellular40]

Then you are mad with too much money.

Did you see my initial post where I said multiple people were ridiculing me for only negotiating down to £600. As they only ever pay £400-£500 and always negotiate down to that.

You telling them you paid the advertised rate every time would have them in hysterics.

I have seen many girls themselves on UKE say the advertised rates for overnighters are solely for punters who have never booked them before. They always have a lower rate for regulars.

But as you say, its your money and thus your choice. I am just saying this for the benefit of others to decide.

I’m not mad with too much money.
It’s simply my choice to punt how I choose.

I have seen many girls state they don’t do overnights with people they’ve never met, also.
So maybe it depends on the girl. It’s sort of logical to not meet someone for 12+ hours when you’ve not met them before.

People ridiculing others for what they pay seems strange to me. We all have a different view of value for money, so it’s a bit ridiculous to want to “ridicule” a punter for not paying what they deem value for money.

[Cellular40]

I have had quite a few overnights. I do enjoy them as there is something quite nice waking up to someone you have been fucking all evening.

The most I have paid is £1600 for two girls plus £200 for the hire of blue door. This was from 9pm until 9am although one of the girls had to go at 7am for work..I think we fell asleep at about 4am, but I was awoken by the girl who had to leave early with my cock in her mouth.

I suppose it’s what you class as VFM, I thought it was well worth the expense for a totally debauched meet.

But there have been regulars who I have seen for less than their advertised rates.

Since discovering seeking, I haven’t paid more that £300

Agreed.

Value for money is very subjective and based upon one’s own view. There is no right or wrong.

I have done countless overnights with Seeking aswell now and have paid from £200 - £400.
So I rarely book a regular for an overnight these days, although if I’m seeking a specific experience such as BDSM I will look to AW, it’s likely to cost more.

[Cellular40]

Or a bullshitter of course 

<<<Just Saying>>>

I very well could be, or I could simply be telling the truth and adding my view.

But how will you ever know for sure, with anyone who posts their view?
You take what you want from here.

[Cuntminion]

I haven't read the other comments so these could have been said before. But I have done around 10 overnighters and my comments/advice from it.

Never pay £800 for one, the most I have paid is £600. And on UKE people were ridiculing me for that as they say they usually negotiate the girl down to either £400, £450 or £500.

I would say £500 is a good price for an overnighter to try and aim for. Never £800.

Secondly, you will be expected to take the girl out for something to eat, or order in something to eat.

I have done all my overnighters at a hotel, so that meant either eating in the hotel, going to a nearby retaurant or I ordered a delivery from Dominos pizza.

So I would say add another £60 at least for the meal as these are expensive.

You will need to bring stuff to also drink during the night, some girls will be iffy about alcohol so then just fizzy drinks. Other girls will want alcohol. Every girl I have seen wanted this so you will need to bring alcohol for the girl.

In terms of sleep, my experience is the girl will want to go to sleep by around 12am-1am and get up about 6.30am to be out sharpish at 7am on the dot.

They are not worth £800!

I'll come watch princess bride with you for £400 overnight, I'll even let you spoon me

[James999]

But how will you ever know for sure,

If you'd been around her a bit longer you would notice that the truth has a strange habit of coming out in the end, some of us have a spidey feel for "wrong uns" time will tell 

[Cellular40]

If you'd been around her a bit longer you would notice that the truth has a strange habit of coming out in the end, some of us have a spidey feel for "wrong uns" time will tell 

As you said, time will tell. 

[Cuntminion]

Also you pay £500+ for a sleepover and you still have to buy the food and drink?

Fuck
Right
Off

[django0700]

Also you pay £500+ for a sleepover and you still have to buy the food and drink?

Fuck
Right
Off

Agreed, I am a stingy scrooge, I would rather fuck 5-6 different girls when I am in the mood for it....there is no way an overnighter with 1-2 shags is good value for me...but that's my opinion. I could get an additional blow and go , rather than pay for her food and drink...

[Cuntminion]

Agreed, I am a stingy scrooge, I would rather fuck 5-6 different girls when I am in the mood for it....there is no way an overnighter with 1-2 shags is good value for me...but that's my opinion. I could get an additional blow and go , rather than pay for her food and drink...

Yeah I'd rather have 5-6 seperate bookings and if I'm buying for two I'm eating for two

[smiths]

Also you pay £500+ for a sleepover and you still have to buy the food and drink?

Fuck
Right
Off

AND the cost of the hotel room in some cases, so a £500 overnighter would be about £650 or so with some food and drink or more, so obviously an £800 overnighter would be £950 or so and if you want a hotel with a suite etc add a couple of hundred more at least.

I shall stick to my tried and tested punting, overday punts with good regulars on occasion for around £400-500 at their place with no food and drink to buy plus no sleeping. Though most of my punts are an hour or 2, not that often longer, only when I find a good reg.

[Marmalade]

You can have an opinion that it’s worth £800 to you and Anth and others can have an opinion that you’re a mug.

If everyone paid £800 for an overnight there would of course be a knock-on problem. Americans are the main over-payers, whether it’s for prοssies or tipping every bloody barman. It subsidises greed.

It has ruined several holiday destinations I could name. Available income is no measure. I have more respect for someone who spends £500 judiciously than someone who does not, whether they earn a million or just a decent living wage.

[hendrix]

For me, it also depends on what I actually *want* and what the market might be. Some people happily pay £60-£80 for kissing, a bj and a shag. And that's obviously up to them but that's a waste of money for *me* If I want to piss on a WG in Buck Palace while Her Maj wanks off a corgi, how do I price that?

Review to follow

[Cellular40]

For me, it also depends on what I actually *want* and what the market might be. Some people happily pay £60-£80 for kissing, a bj and a shag. And that's obviously up to them but that's a waste of money for *me* If I want to piss on a WG in Buck Palace while Her Maj wanks off a corgi, how do I price that?

Review to follow

 

[yobbra]

I think your boys have to remember plenty of guys like myself (and i am assuming many others on here) have hotels/drinks/dinners on company expenses when we travel with business so the additional 'overheads' that you add to an overnight price don't apply to me and many others like me.

[winkywanky]

Can you PM to tell me who you work for, then I can make sure I don't buy any of their products and pay for your punting out of my own pocket?   

[yobbra]

Can you PM to tell me who you work for, then I can make sure I don't buy any of their products and pay for your punting out of my own pocket?   

You aren't paying for my seeking experiences.   The hotel and dinner and drinks would be paid for on business whether i am having an overnight or not.  Tough to put the sb's allowance through on exs (for me anyway)

[AnthG]

You aren't paying for my seeking experiences.   The hotel and dinner and drinks would be paid for on business whether i am having an overnight or not.  Tough to put the sb's allowance through on exs (for me anyway)

Your dinner would be paid for, and they'd expect you to only have a reasonably priced meal.

The WGs dinner is not paid for, and when you tell a girl you are paying for her meal, she does not order the soup....

[winkywanky]

Lobster thermidor all the way! 

[Kev40ish]

Your dinner would be paid for, and they'd expect you to only have a reasonably priced meal.

The WGs dinner is not paid for, and when you tell a girl you are paying for her meal, she does not order the soup....

I suppose it depends what your business is, I put entertaining through on expenses. So quite easy to claim for two.

Although there has been a change in the law recently, so not so easy anymore..

[Cuntminion]

I think your boys have to remember plenty of guys like myself (and i am assuming many others on here) have hotels/drinks/dinners on company expenses when we travel with business so the additional 'overheads' that you add to an overnight price don't apply to me and many others like me.

Urgh speak for yourself rather than an imagined collective you have no idea what applies to who

[Marmalade]

Dies nobody use company expenses ethically?

[winkywanky]

Not if MPs are anything to go by.

[yobbra]

Your dinner would be paid for, and they'd expect you to only have a reasonably priced meal.

The WGs dinner is not paid for, and when you tell a girl you are paying for her meal, she does not order the soup....

Its easier to justify a bigger per person expense budget when there are two of you than when you are dining alone.   Simply because it will be entertaining a potential client.   If you eat alone its much harder to justify a big over spend.

[GingerNuts]

Its easier to justify a bigger per person expense budget when there are two of you than when you are dining alone.   Simply because it will be entertaining a potential client.   If you eat alone its much harder to justify a big over spend.

Is there no requirement to declare who you're claiming the second meal etc. for?

[winkywanky]

Give her a doggy bag.

[Marmalade]

Give her a doggy bag.

When she’s eaten it will have a double use if she’s ugly.

But if your morals are as low as the average MP why would you skimp?

[winkywanky]

Harsh.

MPs don't have to skimp, when they rightly got their expenses system sorted out to prevent the blatant fraud they'd been perpetrating for years, as a sop they were given a 20% payrise to make up for it.

So plenty of spare dosh for anything they want, and in any case, male MPs can always get a Monica off a willing intern.

[Marmalade]

MPs don't have to skimp, when they rightly got their expenses system sorted out to prevent the blatant fraud they'd been perpetrating for years, as a sop they were given a 20% payrise to make up for it.

So plenty of spare dosh for anything they want, and in any case, male MPs can always get a Monica off a willing intern.

Does nobody use company expenses ethically?

Not if MPs are anything to go by.

So do you cheat with expenses or not?

[winkywanky]

I don't work now. When I did it was public sector. Early on in my career I was away from home quite often, so expenses (not particularly lavish) were involved. I never cheated. One or two guys did, and one of them got caught out with a faked hotel receipt. Hauled up on a charge, and if he'd owned up he'd have been let off with a warning. We all told him. He didn't listen, he got the sack.

But I never had an 'expense account' where I could entertain clients or anything. And long before my punting days had started in any case. Although with the travelling, all the stuff I know now, and the internet, if I had been a punter I'd probably have filled my boots. But with MY money  .

[cotton]

On the subject of overnighters of girls you know vs new girls my experience is that overnights with unknown girls were always better , less awkward , less expectations , everything was fresher and more fun , and better sex and generally better.
I think you would have to really get on well with and be totally comfortable with an SP to step up to an overnighter and for it to work. When ive overnighted girls that i knew i often found it a slightly awkward progression , plus i kindof sensed the elephant in the room was the whole question "why has this guy gone from fucking me for an hour to now an overnighter , is he soft on me or what ?" it shines a light on the fact that you might like the girl , which in the context that shes a WG might be a bit cringy and a bit uncomfortable. If shes a new girl then there wont be this psycological baggage , it will all be fresh and a clean slate and you can just ride the wave and fuck her.
I overnighted with one girl i knew and it was so awkward we never had any physical contact at all , it was like so now we are kindof freinds i felt i had to respect her boundaries and stuff.  Obviously different people will adapt to different situations differently and others will likely adapt to the overnighter with a rugular girl better than me , but personally i have no interest in having a hooker over and feeling i have to host and entertain her , id rather have a whore over fuck her when i want and otherwise let her entertain herself watching tv or something.
Its worth trying just for a different experience but id question the motivation for doing it as logically in a sex transaction from a sex:cost perspective it just isnt good value for money.

[winkywanky]

Interesting perspective, and it probably applied to the one overnight I did. I'd seen the girl several times before for 30min bookings and it ought to have gone well, but it was indeed a bit awkward.

An overnight with a new girl is potentially high risk, but at least the girl might not use familiarity to try to just have an easy 12hrs. Interesting strategy, and provided the girl had a good track record of successful overnights, perhaps worth considering (if all the potential negatives discussed here were well considered).

[Bonker]

Don't read anything into this guys, just looking for insight.

Does it boost your ego? i.e. I've got a girl over and can fuck her as many times as I like.

Is it to satisfy a need for affection?

Nothing wrong with either, in my book.

[Cellular40]

Don't read anything into this guys, just looking for insight.

Does it boost your ego? i.e. I've got a girl over and can fuck her as many times as I like.

Is it to satisfy a need for affection?

Nothing wrong with either, in my book.

Doesn’t boost my ego.

I’m paying an escort to have sex with me and pretend she likes it, some escorts I tend to enjoy the company of more than others.

I like the relaxed vibe of overnights and how they flow very smoothly, I’m single and not looking for a relationship currently but sometimes I like a bit more than an hour, and like to enjoy the company of someone drinking wine, chatting, going for dinner, then fucking. It’s a whole experience IMO. Still, I understand she’s there for the cash and I’m “normal” enough for her to want to tolerate me for 12 or so hours.

I may try Smiths “overdays” they sound interesting and like they could be a lot of fun.