Been back in the saddle for a few days since returning from holiday and this ‘hobby’ is getting a little silly again. Both in terms of time invested and money spent.
Eg, it’s now Thursday morning and I’m already 1800 notes lighter this week .. with two more bookings to go.
So I started thinking that perhaps the idea of a ‘kept woman’ might be a better and more financially expedient option. I can see both downsides and upsides as follows:
Upsides
1.) Favorite girl available at any time – locally – without needing to ‘book’ or worry about how many guys she fucked that day/week/whatever.
2.) Said girl would always be fresh, happy and relaxed. At least In theory. After all, she’d have all the time in the world for maintenance, gym sessions, etc, etc.
3.) Environment. Either I’d rent a flat or pay her rent or she could live in a flat I own. Point being, I’m quite fussy about a comfortable, cosy, welcoming, environment. It’s all about the atmosphere as well as the location.
4.) Service. Bound to be great – consistently. If she only has me to worry about, it shouldn’t be difficult to get it right each time.
5.) Cost. Even a flat + fixed rate would be cheaper than the current spent. Possibly a LOT cheaper if the girl was happy with, say, £1.5/£2K a week.
Downsides
1.) Familiarity/predictability. Part of the thrill of punting is the unknown. The adventure. The apprehension. The chemistry. Even, as LL often points out in his posts, the journeying to pastures new both in and around London. If it’s the same girl, a large part of that unpredictability is absent.
2.) Cost. Maybe. Maybe not. I can’t think many girls would sniff at a Zone 1 pad + healthy pile of readies every month. Removes a lot of uncertainty for them vis-à-vis income. At the same time, perhaps a girl would resent being ‘kept’ as such. A couple of girls I’ve brought this up with have been enthusiastic about the idea. But one in particular claimed to like her ‘freedom’ too much.
3.) A little too close to a ‘relationship’? Perhaps a girl who has only one ‘client’ would become a little possessive and over time would see the arrangement as more akin to a relationship. In a way, it would be I guess.
Financials aside, if you had the option of your favorite girl on tap, virtually anytime if not all the time, would this be something you folks would consider?