Author Topic: Financial domination - get off on giving a dominatrix all your money (Read 1707 times)

wombat42 · « **on:** October 29, 2018, 10:04:31 am »

Bangers and Gash · « **Reply #1 on:** October 29, 2018, 01:06:25 pm »

It would be interesting to know what your thoughts are on this issue.

Waterhouse · « **Reply #2 on:** October 29, 2018, 01:23:57 pm »

Absolutely ridiculous activity IMO. The fools who give their money away for nothing in return in this manner should be ashamed of themselves. If you have money to throw away like this, then give it to a deserving charity instead. You'll feel better in yourself for doing so.

As for the lowlife women who engage in and encourage this FinDom rubbish, f***off and earn your money like a proper WG/SP/escort instead of leeching off of these submissive idiots.

TPreston · « **Reply #3 on:** October 29, 2018, 01:30:23 pm »

mainly a myth. There'll be rare as rocking horse shit type guys that are that desperate for attention but nah not having its some wide spread thing (and by wide spread I mean even a small niche market). Bullshitting women perpetuating things as well- much more socially acceptable to say you're new disposable income is from findom than sucking off a 47 year old bloke in a mid range hotel.

if you look on seeking arrangement new profiles that buy into the hype and market themselves this way - these profiles last about 2 weeks before they realize that no guy is gonna give them money for fuck all.

And then the few older 'findom' profiles - all of these girls are oddly keen to meet up and bump uglies for a couple hundred quid. Odd that if they're making money hand over fist for fuck all, yet still keen to do regular sex work over the course of several hours. Almost like the findom bollocks doesn't bring in any actual money

wombat42 · « **Reply #4 on:** October 29, 2018, 01:53:28 pm »

Financial slavery seems to be quite common amongst dominatrices, for example:

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Financial Slavery

Why not worship me with lavish gifts and money. You can spoil, pamper and induldge my whims.

You can pay my bills.

Do contact to arrange a financial gift.

Please do bring gifts to our session if you so wish.

I adore ; Orchids, Oriental Lilies and Bonsai Trees.

Roses are always welcome too.

Perfume; Agent Provocateur - Maitresse or Chanel - CoCo

Stockings, of course, sheer and seamed. What could be better?

Footwear - I am a UK size 5.5

wombat42 · « **Reply #5 on:** October 29, 2018, 01:55:38 pm »

Findom on Google:
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wombat42 · « **Reply #6 on:** October 29, 2018, 01:57:24 pm »

Even has a Wikipedia entry: External Link/Members Only

NIK · « **Reply #7 on:** October 29, 2018, 02:58:15 pm »

Financial domination is the biggest load of bollocks in the entire world of punting.
Basically lazy cows who expect money for fuck all.
Any bloke who indulges these spongers is totally

and absolutely

cultvoid · « **Reply #8 on:** October 29, 2018, 03:58:20 pm »

My very brief foray into Fetlife circles (I went to a few "munches", met some interesting people but some total hatstand nutjobs too) suggests that this is a very real thing. Sadly there is a non-trivial number of men who for some reason, really do get off on being financially controlled. It's tragic, sad, and all the rest of it, but if that's what they choose to do, I don't really blame the women who exploit their desire.

Power to their elbow but I don't respect either side.

xxlmuscles · « **Reply #9 on:** October 29, 2018, 04:20:09 pm »

There's no way I can understand how this could get you hard

king tarzan · « **Reply #10 on:** October 29, 2018, 04:23:59 pm »

Absolutely nonsense...

Financial domination
Sugar daddy hunters
Non sexual escorts

= Fucken Tramps

wombat42 · « **Reply #11 on:** October 29, 2018, 06:03:50 pm »

Quote from: king tarzan on October 29, 2018, 04:23:59 pm

Absolutely nonsense...

Financial domination
Sugar daddy hunters
Non sexual escorts

= Fucken Tramps

Obvously many are into domination as a fantasy thing (ref mistresses and dominatrices) but when it impinges into real life that is where it gets scary and problematic.

nbarnes · « **Reply #12 on:** October 29, 2018, 06:17:38 pm »

Financial domination?

Isn't that being married?

NIK · « **Reply #13 on:** October 29, 2018, 06:42:41 pm »

Quote from: nbarnes on October 29, 2018, 06:17:38 pm

Financial domination?

Isn't that being married?

I wish I'd a fiver for everytime I've heard that one on here.

Bogof60 · « **Reply #14 on:** October 29, 2018, 07:49:21 pm »

If it floats your boat then go for it.

Can imagine it's a very niche market

Colston36 · « **Reply #15 on:** October 29, 2018, 09:08:41 pm »

Quote from: cultvoid on October 29, 2018, 03:58:20 pm

My very brief foray into Fetlife circles (I went to a few "munches", met some interesting people but some total hatstand nutjobs too) suggests that this is a very real thing. Sadly there is a non-trivial number of men who for some reason, really do get off on being financially controlled. It's tragic, sad, and all the rest of it, but if that's what they choose to do, I don't really blame the women who exploit their desire.

Power to their elbow but I don't respect either side.

I think the punters are loopy and most sane people condemn them, but this is a form of masochism and they definitely exist. Others dismiss the women as idle cows, but it takes considerable cunning and psychological acumen to get money for not providing sex. It is also true that quite a few girls will try for findomme before coming up with the real thing.Why wouldn't they? Escorting is all about money. I am often surprised on here by the bigoted way so many dismiss others' likings because they don't share them.

king tarzan · « **Reply #16 on:** October 29, 2018, 09:57:00 pm »

Quote from: Yondu616 on October 29, 2018, 01:23:57 pm

Absolutely ridiculous activity IMO. The fools who give their money away for nothing in return in this manner should be ashamed of themselves. If you have money to throw away like this, then give it to a deserving charity instead. You'll feel better in yourself for doing so.

As for the lowlife women who engage in and encourage this FinDom rubbish, f***off and earn your money like a proper WG/SP/escort instead of leeching off of these submissive idiots.

Well said

Stevensmiles · « **Reply #17 on:** October 29, 2018, 11:59:28 pm »

It’s not a case of any of these women being spongers wether they be dominatrixes, mistresses or escorts offering BDSM services.
If there is a market for it. Then there will be an opportunity to exploit it.

The idea of me giving money to a woman simply because she says she is superior to me is about as ridiculous as Mike Ashley getting into a helicopter without first having it serviced.

But there is a fetish for everything and nothing surprises me.

I knew a guy who did that. Met his mistress at an ATM and handed over a lump of money to her. She would simply walk off.
Cash point meets I think it’s called.

But that was part and parcel of the arrangement he had with her. Regular sessions and socialising etc.

But just to give money to someone because they say it’s domination financial or whatever.
It’s plain daft.

PS. Being a Toon supporter. I just wish I was Mike Ashley’s helicopter mechanic.

Bad I know eh !!!!

smartieshouse · « **Reply #18 on:** October 30, 2018, 06:36:12 am »

I had a GF that does it. She's on Instagram with a lot of male followers. Obviously girls on there get messages (which she did) which progress to dirty chat. Before she knew it they were offering cash for custom pics etc etc. Not big amounts of cash e.g. £10 here and there but it does add up.

Lizzie_Lockhart · « **Reply #19 on:** October 30, 2018, 08:15:58 am »

I've dabbled in FinDom before, I didn't do too badly out of it but I actually found it more difficult than escorting in all honesty.

I think it's possible that as I'm not in to dishing out humiliation I had to be creative in other ways but between the number of fantasists (more than I come across as an escort tbh) and how emotionally draining it was, I just couldn't do it long term.

xx

smartieshouse · « **Reply #20 on:** October 30, 2018, 08:33:32 am »

For the GF it was Just a buzz rather than a means of income.

Happy to give you her details for any heel slaves lol!!

Stevensmiles · « **Reply #21 on:** October 30, 2018, 08:43:36 am »

What’s a heel slave ?

smartieshouse · « **Reply #22 on:** October 30, 2018, 09:02:26 am »

Guys that have a heel fetish - shoe worship etc etc

Gordon Bennett · « **Reply #23 on:** October 30, 2018, 06:15:41 pm »

I'm not sure how it's different from a cowboy builder charging a bewildered old lady £200K to clean her gutters..... it appears some people have a gene that allows them to take advantage of other folks who probably have some type of personality or mental deficiency.

mills_and_bhuna · « **Reply #24 on:** October 30, 2018, 06:22:58 pm »

Plenty women willing to do this in real life anyway .
They're usually referred to as wives .

misterali · « **Reply #25 on:** October 30, 2018, 06:27:35 pm »

Findom, yeah I heard of that. Sounds like I’m in that situation. I’m forced to give away 40%+ of my earnings to my dominatrix. Goes by the name of HMRC, god forbid you don’t address her as Her Majesty

NIK · « **Reply #26 on:** October 31, 2018, 09:55:07 am »

Quote from: bigbadbob on October 30, 2018, 06:22:58 pm

Plenty women willing to do this in real life anyway .
They're usually referred to as wives .

Another brand new joke!

ManinBeds · « **Reply #27 on:** October 31, 2018, 08:03:47 pm »

Will never be able to understand people that do this, it's total madness IMO. If you want to give away money at least give it a worthy cause.

prophethezikah · « **Reply #28 on:** November 05, 2018, 10:14:33 am »

Men and women are all different in their attitudes to money and how superior and in control they are, what they owe each other or even how needed and valued they are....the fair and balanced way is to draw a line down the middle, share equally, then nobody is subservient to another.......some men like to pay for everything it makes them feel, well important.....money don't buy love.

Waterhouse · « **Reply #29 on:** November 05, 2018, 10:20:30 am »

Quote from: prophethezikah on November 05, 2018, 10:14:33 am

Men and women are all different in their attitudes to money and how superior and in control they are, what they owe each other or even how needed and valued they are....the fair and balanced way is to draw a line down the middle, share equally, then nobody is subservient to another.......some men like to pay for everything it makes them feel, well important.....money don't buy love.

WTF are you on about. Read the context of the thread. This isn't a philosophical debate on the merits or demerits of sharing.

Stevensmiles · « **Reply #30 on:** November 06, 2018, 05:25:20 pm »

Quote from: prophethezikah on November 05, 2018, 10:14:33 am

Men and women are all different in their attitudes to money and how superior and in control they are, what they owe each other or even how needed and valued they are....the fair and balanced way is to draw a line down the middle, share equally, then nobody is subservient to another.......some men like to pay for everything it makes them feel, well important.....money don't buy love.

Trust a prophet to come up with something like that.

Stevensmiles · « **Reply #31 on:** November 06, 2018, 05:26:31 pm »

Quote from: misterali on October 30, 2018, 06:27:35 pm

Findom, yeah I heard of that. Sounds like I’m in that situation. I’m forced to give away 40%+ of my earnings to my dominatrix. Goes by the name of HMRC, god forbid you don’t address her as Her Majesty

Geeeeeeeee

I wish I earned enough to be in the 40% tax bracket.

misterali · « **Reply #32 on:** November 06, 2018, 06:21:00 pm »

Quote from: Stevensmiles on November 06, 2018, 05:26:31 pm

Geeeeeeeee

I wish I earned enough to be in the 40% tax bracket.

We all do in overall taxes. Those in higher earner brackets actually pay more!

king tarzan · « **Reply #33 on:** November 06, 2018, 09:55:15 pm »

Quote from: misterali on November 06, 2018, 06:21:00 pm

We all do in overall taxes. Those in higher earner brackets actually pay more!

Sadly keeping the parasites on there backside to stay tuned for Jeremy fucken Kyle show every morning!

misterali · « **Reply #34 on:** November 07, 2018, 02:54:41 pm »

Quote from: king tarzan on November 06, 2018, 09:55:15 pm

Sadly keeping the parasites on there backside to stay tuned for Jeremy fucken Kyle show every morning!

Those are the true tax evaders

theoldmaggot · « **Reply #35 on:** November 07, 2018, 11:50:34 pm »

I reckon PC remote access software domination is the new thing now...basically using teamviewer software or something similar

Little link to article for more information:

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A New Kind of Kink: Data Domination
Mistress Harley is a tech dominatrix. Instead of dominating bodies, she dominates online life. This includes bank accounts, emails, social media and porn. The potential impact of a session with her can last longer than any bruise.

Whatever floats your boat I guess

Marcusnash187 · « **Reply #36 on:** November 09, 2018, 12:00:57 am »

I would never give a whore a penny without getting at least a blowy out of it.

redveee · « **Reply #37 on:** November 09, 2018, 12:24:18 am »

There are girls who make a 'living' out of their paypigs buying them gifts.

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TPreston · « **Reply #38 on:** November 09, 2018, 01:53:05 am »

Quote from: redveee on November 09, 2018, 12:24:18 am

There are girls who make a 'living' out of their paypigs buying them gifts.

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Im still majorly skeptical. She looks like one of those types who couldn't wait to pose with her tits out in nuts/zoo so this is just attention seeking. Shes had odd bits off lonely needy types that desperate for attention but she's brassing, camming or 'sugaring' for the rest IMO

I've had 'experienced findom' types on seeking - They've had active Twitter accounts for years for this shite, have findom seeking cash slaves plastered over their profiles - and yet they're more than willing to meet up with me for a shag for £150. I'm no great shakes believe me - im guessing it's not my charm theyre keen on. If they're racking in these fat stacks for fuck all why would she wanna waste most of an afternoon/evening on shagging me for small potatoes.

welshman · « **Reply #39 on:** November 10, 2018, 12:39:55 pm »

I know when when it comes sexual preferences it is each to their own but I agree with other posters in that I don't see the attraction of paying money to a woman to receive no services in return. To me it is like giving money to a shop and not buying their goods or giving money to a hotel and not staying there. If men are into financial domination, the phrase more money than sense fits them perfectly.

Londonpunter30 · « **Reply #40 on:** November 10, 2018, 12:58:30 pm »

I think it's meant to be part of some sort of relationship where you buy gifts and hand over money, but get a longer meet or social time for free.

Golden rule is prossies don't do anything for free

Discord · « **Reply #41 on:** November 10, 2018, 06:22:23 pm »

I'm very partial to a bit of femdom but have never really seen the appeal of findom. Sadly since the rise of social media many of the better looking women offering femdom type services have latched onto the idea that can get away with doing nothing or next to nothing via findom. So instead of offering a proper service where you actually meet up with them at an incall location for a domination session all they want to do is findom where you send them money for nothing. If your lucky you may get a dom style cam session in return or access to their members only gallery or whatever it may be (how generous). On the rare occasion you do find one that will meet for a proper session they often have a very limited list of what services they actually offer pretty much all just pain related, ball busting and the like. The ones that don't meet at all or those that only do so for ATM type meets are the worst kind of parasites though and I write them off as lazy charlatans.

Due to this nonsense it is now extremely difficult to find a decent femdom provider or at least one of British descent. As I say I'm partial to it so search AW for this kind of service quite regularly. Whenever I find someone promising I always try and search to see if I can find a twitter account connected to them. If so a simple scan through that will reveal if they are worth bothering with. More often than not when finding such a twitter it quickly becomes apparent they are of the "want money for nothing" mindset.

Rome66 · « **Reply #42 on:** November 10, 2018, 06:49:12 pm »

Financial Domination and Marriage go together like a horse and carraige

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