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Toshiba

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A quick bit of advice please guys

Ive just had a punt with a new escort, i was her first

During doggy i looked down after a good few strokes to notice a bit of blood. Stopped and pulled out , stupidly off with the condom then wiped my cock at the base of my shaft to get blood off and maybe an inch or two up, not loads of blood but even a speck scares me shitless.

Shall i hop down to the gum clinic just in case? Daft lass , and i know about getting tested regularly etc etc but would you freak out like i have after this?

Jesus i can pick them

Toshiba

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Oh and i know id have to wait 2 weeks before going to the clinic btw

Offline Dani

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I will say to go but mainly because you will worry yourself senseless if you don't.
I hope you told the prossie off as well.  There is no excuse to work during your period and I know some do when they have been working for awhile, mainly because on some places they are told it is ok to do so if using a sponge.  However if she is that new and you were her first she would not have been told it is ok, so she just decided it didn't matter and she obviously didn't even bother using a sponge. 
I wouldn't be happy with her if it was me as it is YOUR health she is putting at risk.

When I had regular periods (yay for this tablet I take) I did not always know if I was about to bleed as I had irregular spotting so I would have a quick check before every booking.  Not the nicest thing to do but if you are not regular then it is a necessary practise to get into.  It has to be better than bleeding on a client as blood carries so much risk

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Shall i hop down to the gum clinic just in case? Daft lass , and i know about getting tested regularly etc etc but would you freak out like i have after this?


I have done in the past. Very likely would feel stressed for a day or 2 after if it happened now but probably not be as stressed and not race down the GUM. Best I know really nasty stuff needs a more direct route than through the skin, course best I know isn't 100%

What I would do is post a review on here with a warning about her cos that is a bloody pisstake (only happened to me once a while back) and she deserves to get off to a rocky start cos of it.

Toshiba

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I will say to go but mainly because you will worry yourself senseless if you don't.
I hope you told the prossie off as well.  There is no excuse to work during your period and I know some do when they have been working for awhile, mainly because on some places they are told it is ok to do so if using a sponge.  However if she is that new and you were her first she would not have been told it is ok, so she just decided it didn't matter and she obviously didn't even bother using a sponge. 
I wouldn't be happy with her if it was me as it is YOUR health she is putting at risk.

When I had regular periods (yay for this tablet I take) I did not always know if I was about to bleed as I had irregular spotting so I would have a quick check before every booking.  Not the nicest thing to do but if you are not regular then it is a necessary practise to get into.  It has to be better than bleeding on a client as blood carries so much risk

I wasnt harsh on her tbh but fuck me i  should have been, she gave me owo afterwards stupidly after id wet wiped it clean , and now she could have put any faint residue all over my cock.thats my stupid fault for allowing her to do that.both very stupid as i should have know better but i was thinking with my cock.your right it will eat at me unless i do it.my second visit in a fucking month !! Jesus christ i cant believe how silly i was there and she didnt know better either.

Daft

Sienna_Bronze

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Some women do bleed during or after sex without being on their period. Even a small vaginal year can bleed quite a bit.

Toshiba

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Some women do bleed during or after sex without being on their period. Even a small vaginal year can bleed quite a bit.

Quite possible but that wont make any difference to my situation


I will get tested in 2 weeks and avoid the OH....best thing tbh


Offline smiths

A quick bit of advice please guys

Ive just had a punt with a new escort, i was her first

During doggy i looked down after a good few strokes to notice a bit of blood. Stopped and pulled out , stupidly off with the condom then wiped my cock at the base of my shaft to get blood off and maybe an inch or two up, not loads of blood but even a speck scares me shitless.

Shall i hop down to the gum clinic just in case? Daft lass , and i know about getting tested regularly etc etc but would you freak out like i have after this?

Jesus i can pick them

You really being her first punter relies on her being honest which she might not be so i would take that with a huge pinch of salt. Obviously you have to get yourself checked out. Highly unlikely you have caught anything though but you never know of course.
« Last Edit: August 19, 2014, 04:23:14 pm by smiths »

Toshiba

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:rolleyes:

Her first punter!! .an agency girl, and believe me i can tell she was new to the game, shame as she had a cracking rack

Toshiba

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You really being her first punter relies on her being honest which she might not be so i would take that with a huge pinch of salt. Obviously you have to get yourself checked out. Hig

Deffo her first punt imho, and know i didnt have an sti recently just a scare, and tested ok.

Is punting for me? No , i vowed to jack it in after my last scare, and ive still gone and punted, im doomed.

Offline Dani

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Some women do bleed during or after sex without being on their period. Even a small vaginal year can bleed quite a bit.

Yes some do, however you would know if you did and would either choose a job that did not cause you to bleed or use a sponge to ensure the client wasn't covered in it and put on your profile you wear a sponge as sex can cause you to bleed.

Plus bleeding during sex is normally a good indicator that something is wrong.  Anything from an abrasion of the cervix right up to PID or STIs or even worse Endometritis or some other internal problem that would need surgery to sort out.

You don't see clients if you know you are likely to bleed on them.  Its too risky.  Its no different to us refusing to suck a cock that has an open cut on it, in fact we would probably tell him to leave as it was too risky for our health.  We wouldn't allow it so why should it be ok for us to trick the client into having it happen to him.

Toshiba

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Yes some do, however you would know if you did and would either choose a job that did not cause you to bleed or use a sponge to ensure the client wasn't covered in it and put on your profile you wear a sponge as sex can cause you to bleed.

Plus bleeding during sex is normally a good indicator that something is wrong.  Anything from an abrasion of the cervix right up to PID or STIs or even worse Endometritis or some other internal problem that would need surgery to sort out.

You don't see clients if you know you are likely to bleed on them.  Its too risky.  Its no different to us refusing to suck a cock that has an open cut on it, in fact we would probably tell him to leave as it was too risky for our health.  We wouldn't allow it so why should it be ok for us to trick the client into having it happen to him.

The agency told me she was new to escorting and this was her first day,i got first appt.

Her niavity in the matter and mine was stupid in hindsight.i may be wetting my knickers but better being safe

Offline AnthG

Someone please correct me if I am wrong. But STDs transferrable by blood wouldn't even show on any tests at this moment so soon to the booking.

So I would go to the GUM but not until the time period for when these will show in your blood it is wasteful otherwise. Unless of course you go twice, now and again then.
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Sparquin

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Forgive me if this is stating the obvious, but have you asked the agency if she showed them any test results to show she is clean when they took her on? Yes, yes I know these can be faked or useless but it might give you a little peace of mind in the time before you get tested, which, as mentioned, you need to wait for in order to allow any nasties to establish themselves to the point of being detectable.

Offline AnthG

Forgive me if this is stating the obvious, but have you asked the agency if she showed them any test results to show she is clean when they took her on? Yes, yes I know these can be faked
Or more likely the agency can just say "yes she did" and that would be it. Even if she did not such thing.
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Toshiba

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Someone please correct me if I am wrong. But STDs transferrable by blood wouldn't even show on any tests at this moment so soon to the booking.

So I would go to the GUM but not until the time period for when these will show in your blood it is wasteful otherwise. Unless of course you go twice, now and again then.

Anth if you check my second post you will see i know i have to wait 2 weeks

Offline AnthG

Anth if you check my second post you will see i know i have to wait 2 weeks
Hi HC. Yes sorry, missed it on first reading through the thread.

I would say it seems you know the best course of action. The GUM advise everyone to go once every 3 months anyway so it cannot be of any harm waiting 3 weeks and then going for the quarterly checkup then
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SirFrank

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The risks of blood on intact skin should be relatively low. However if you are concerned (and you clearly are) go get yourself checked out in a week or two

LL

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Happened to me once (a long time ago), I was very worried too.  Get yourself checked out in a couple of weeks.  In the meantime you could call the GUM clinic and ask for a callback from a doctor or nurse.  They might put your mind at rest of at least put your worries into perspective.

Toshiba

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The risks of blood on intact skin should be relatively low. However if you are concerned (and you clearly are) go get yourself checked out in a week or two

Cheers i will, you lot do help my mind

Mancspunter

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The risks of blood on intact skin should be relatively low. However if you are concerned (and you clearly are) go get yourself checked out in a week or two

This, unless you have any open wounds, sores etc around where the blood came into contact the risk really is small tiny infact, skin is a great barrier in its self.
Don't panic, as others have said get checked in a week or so, and then again in 6months for anything that takes longer to show, but in the meantime chill winston  :thumbsup:

Toshiba

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This, unless you have any open wounds, sores etc around where the blood came into contact the risk really is small tiny infact, skin is a great barrier in its self.
Don't panic, as others have said get checked in a week or so, and then again in 6months for anything that takes longer to show, but in the meantime chill winston  :thumbsup:

I panic cos im attached, so can i catch an sti from period blood?

Toshiba

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I only ask as it may have came into contact on my bellend as i was wiping my shaft down

Mancspunter

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I am not a doctor so you need to go ask one, but it is my understanding that anything really nasty needs to get into your bloodstream.
Normally when barebacking someone whos infected any nastys have a chance to work a way into your system through your urethra.
 In your case its a little bit of blood smeared on your bell end for a few seconds so unless its covered in cuts or spots, the only other way into your system is into your japs eye and from what you said thats remote and even more remote that whatever small amount made it in then infects you, if she had anything at all.
As for your other half, well that was just daft of you wasn't it?
Your only options are, to fake erectile dysfunction until you have been checked, or tell her, or rubber up for everything, or be a dick head and carry on shagging and hope you have nothing to pass on.
« Last Edit: August 20, 2014, 12:29:05 am by Mancspunter »