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west8

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Been back in the saddle for a few days since returning from holiday and this ‘hobby’ is getting a little silly again. Both in terms of time invested and money spent.
Eg, it’s now Thursday morning and I’m already 1800 notes lighter this week .. with two more bookings to go.

So I started thinking that perhaps the idea of a ‘kept woman’ might be a better and more financially expedient option. I can see both downsides and upsides as follows:


Upsides

1.) Favorite girl available at any time – locally – without needing to ‘book’ or worry about how many guys she fucked that day/week/whatever.

2.) Said girl would always be fresh, happy and relaxed. At least In theory. After all, she’d have all the time in the world for maintenance, gym sessions, etc, etc.

3.) Environment. Either I’d rent a flat or pay her rent or she could live in a flat I own. Point being, I’m quite fussy about a comfortable, cosy, welcoming, environment. It’s all about the atmosphere as well as the location.

4.) Service. Bound to be great – consistently. If she only has me to worry about, it shouldn’t be difficult to get it right each time.

5.) Cost. Even a flat + fixed rate would be cheaper than the current spent. Possibly a LOT cheaper if the girl was happy with, say, £1.5/£2K a week.


Downsides

1.) Familiarity/predictability. Part of the thrill of punting is the unknown. The adventure. The apprehension. The chemistry. Even, as LL often points out in his posts, the journeying to pastures new both in and around London. If it’s the same girl, a large part of that unpredictability is absent.

2.) Cost. Maybe. Maybe not. I can’t think many girls would sniff at a Zone 1 pad + healthy pile of readies every month. Removes a lot of uncertainty for them vis-à-vis income. At the same time, perhaps a girl would resent being ‘kept’ as such. A couple of girls I’ve brought this up with have been enthusiastic about the idea. But one in particular claimed to like her ‘freedom’ too much.

3.) A little too close to a ‘relationship’? Perhaps a girl who has only one ‘client’ would become a little possessive and over time would see the arrangement as more akin to a relationship. In a way, it would be I guess.


Financials aside, if you had the option of your favorite girl on tap, virtually anytime if not all the time, would this be something you folks would consider?

Offline YoungBrum

If I had the money I'd probably do both. Have a "kept" girl but visit others now and again

fredpunter

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2 initial thoughts,
If she's living in your flat could be messy and complicated when/if you decide the arrangement has lost its appeal.

You would probably still want to see other girls as well so you wouldn't save anything

Offline cueball





Financials aside, if you had the option of your favorite girl on tap, virtually anytime if not all the time, would this be something you folks would consider?

No, I do have a regular, possibly my favourite but if she was the only one then she would feel more like relationship and not punting.
I like to swap about girls (even the regulars) and new ones too. Only one wg would end up boring me.

Offline Sedlmayer

"Been back in the saddle for a few days since returning from holiday and this ‘hobby’ is getting a little silly again. Both in terms of time invested and money spent.
Eg, it’s now Thursday morning and I’m already 1800 notes lighter this week .. with two more bookings to go..............

 Even a flat + fixed rate would be cheaper than the current spent. Possibly a LOT cheaper if the girl was happy with, say, £1.5/£2K a week."

Is this seriously your response to being voted WOTY? To come on here boasting about how much you spend on punting per week - well in excess of two grand?
I'm staggered.. :unknown:

Online Watts.E.Dunn

Two sodding grand a week for a kept woman?.

I don't think I'd have any respect for a woman who took that sport of offer up somehow!.

Whatever would she do all day apart from get bored stupid?.

Offline CatBBW

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Two sodding grand a week for a kept woman?.

I don't think I'd have any respect for a woman who took that sport of offer up somehow!.

Whatever would she do all day apart from get bored stupid?.

Probably see all the other men she has with the same "arrangement".

figleaf

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Whatever would she do all day apart from get bored stupid?.

She's gonna sit at home and eat cake and shop online all day.  And then work out how to ask for an increase in her allowance.

Goofy85

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Can I have a job where you work, please?

Offline Sedlmayer

Can I have a job where you work, please?

There's plenty of jobs where he works. Can you get to Narnia for 9:00 in the morning? :crazy:

Stealthshagger

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Is this seriously your response to being voted WOTY? To come on here boasting about how much you spend on punting per week - well in excess of two grand?
I'm staggered.. :unknown:

To be fair: a) fictional money is limitless. B) a wg would need to be waiting all the time for him, as time of bookings is too trivial for him to remember. He IS the star of his fiction  c) he earns his title every day. Wanker of the year not least because he must be wanking, what with his punts being fiction

Offline Silver Birch

Financials aside, if you had the option of your favorite girl on tap, virtually anytime if not all the time, would this be something you folks would consider?

Couldn't be bothered to read it all but - NO

Offline Sedlmayer

To be fair: a) fictional money is limitless. B) a wg would need to be waiting all the time for him, as time of bookings is too trivial for him to remember. He IS the star of his fiction  c) he earns his title every day. Wanker of the year not least because he must be wanking, what with his punts being fiction

I just wish there was a "high five" emoticon mate..... :drinks:

Ben4454

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It depends what you value the most out of plunging into new girls or the fact the punt is free and good service consistantly with one girl.

I myself prefer to fuck new girls regularly and the thought of committing to one is ridiculous to me.

Consider doing what I do and that is have a regular civvy fuck buddy combined with working girls.

Works rather well.

« Last Edit: January 08, 2015, 04:30:51 pm by Ben4454 »

Offline anyfucker

Westie, we don't do our hobby to save money.
If this is a serious post then try goingback to the same WG and see how long it is before you start looking around.

Offline 385North

I like the idea of committing to a  regular long-term, purely because as we get to know each other she can really get into my head and push my physical/emotional limits when it comes to fantasy Sub/Domme roleplay (this is pretty much my punting ethos for 2015), but a full time, funded Mistress would never work (for me at least) because I simply couldn't buy into the whole faux companionship/relationship thing.

I would imagine a professional Mistress is very high maintenance though, especially a younger one, who will have a string of blokes haemorrhaging cash her way. It’s not only her rent you’ll have to pay, but her lifestyle will need funding also and 1.5 – 2K a week probably wouldn’t even cover it if her motives are purely financial/materialistic. You'd probably need to thrown more like 10K a week her way). You might find an older MILF Mistress more economical, but again exclusivity will be hard to gain unless you’re prepared to part with serious cash. And then how do you know for sure it’s an exclusive relationship?

I think you would also need an escape plan and a full proof one at that, because a well funded Mistress probably wouldn't take too kindly to being dropped at short notice. How do you get rid of her for example if she's living rent free in a flat you own?

Interesting topic though, if slightly tongue in cheek perhaps?

« Last Edit: January 08, 2015, 07:31:48 pm by 385North »

Offline MancSean

Seriously dude get a grip never read such tripe in my life!!
What you are eluding to is your own sex slave. I give this type of arrangement 4 weeks tops till cracks begin. Your ego is obviously much bigger than the grey matter in your skull.
Why don't you just get a girlfriend or is that not possible without flashing the cash - what a nob ed

west8

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Is this seriously your response to being voted WOTY? To come on here boasting about how much you spend on punting per week - well in excess of two grand?
I'm staggered.. :unknown:

Oh dear, you can't seem to just drop it. For new threads, would you like me to reserve the two posts below the opener - one for you to bitch, then the following for SheepShagger to chime in.

Point being ...

I don't spend £2K a week. Maybe on a quiet week, yes.

But, pray tell, how the fuck is it any business of yours what I spend - or on whom?

Exactly.

west8

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I like the idea of committing to a  regular long-term, purely because as we get to know each other she can really get into my head and push my physical/emotional limits when it comes to fantasy Sub/Domme roleplay (this is pretty much my punting ethos for 2015), but a full time, funded Mistress would never work (for me at least) because I simply couldn't buy into the whole faux companionship/relationship thing.

I would imagine a professional Mistress is very high maintenance though, especially a younger one, who will have a string of blokes haemorrhaging cash her way. It’s not only her rent you’ll have to pay, but her lifestyle will need funding also and 1.5 – 2K a week probably wouldn’t even cover it if her motives are purely financial/materialistic. You'd probably need to thrown more like 10K a week her way). You might find an older MILF Mistress more economical, but again exclusivity will be hard to gain unless you’re prepared to part with serious cash. And then how do you know for sure it’s an exclusive relationship?

I think you would also need an escape plan and a full proof one at that, because a well funded Mistress probably wouldn't take too kindly to being dropped at short notice. How do you get rid of her for example if she's living rent free in a flat you own?


I agree with you - especially the 'exit strategy' part. But tbh I'm happy seeing the same girls. Been seeing at least one since 2007. Always look forward to going back. She even lives in the same flat as when she first arrived in London.

For me, Adultwork has one major downside: it's pretty much a 'closed shop' after 9-10pm. As I generally prefer to punt between the hours of 10pm and 4am, there are only the two current options: long term regulars and agencies.

I'd save a small fortune if AW had a 'night owl' section!  :)

Offline Mr Farkyhars

I don't recall her name, offhand, but there was a famous 'courtesan' of yore who had a syndicate of seven 'admirers' each of whom saw her one evening a week and each of whom 'subscribed' her the same amount. That strikes me as far more obtainable than any 'exclusivity' agreement :)
« Last Edit: January 09, 2015, 01:43:07 am by Mr Farkyhars »

Offline Matium

Eg, it’s now Thursday morning and I’m already 1800 notes lighter this week .. with two more bookings to go.

There are a lot of very rich men on UKP.

But an indication that their wealth is real is the fact that they are discreet.

Whereas those who are only rich in fantasy monopoly money ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

vt

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Probably see all the other men she has with the same "arrangement".

Very likely the reality of this type of 'exclusive' arrangement...too much of a temptation not to.

Offline dieseldriver

Joined the Illicitencounters site. Loads and loads of married ladies making it clear they want encounters with rich men. They put on their profiles "like going to the best restaurants,"  "enjoy shopping in London," like to experience all that London has to offer"," Like my men smelling nicely, not that Lynx stuff " " looking for a successful gentleman," and so the list goes on. Could probably work out cheaper visiting a WG now and again than keeping these ladies in the lifestyle their hubby can't? ( or doesn't want to).

Come to the conclusion could break my bank balance meeting some of these, and no guarantee of a shag. So I'm sticking to the occasional WG 

Offline Sedlmayer

Oh dear, you can't seem to just drop it. For new threads, would you like me to reserve the two posts below the opener - one for you to bitch, then the following for SheepShagger to chime in.

Point being ...

I don't spend £2K a week. Maybe on a quiet week, yes.

But, pray tell, how the fuck is it any business of yours what I spend - or on whom?

Exactly.

100% correct - it's none of my business at all.

However, you've completely missed the point - perhaps it's a bit subtle for you?

I wasn't commenting upon the amount of money you (claim to) spend on prostitutes. I was registering my extreme surprise that you thought boasting about spending £2K per week was a good response to winning WOTY.

Offline 385North

As has been said before can you two please confine these lovers tiffs to PM. It's just sniping for thr hell of it as far as I can see.

Offline Sedlmayer

As has been said before can you two please confine these lovers tiffs to PM. It's just sniping for thr hell of it as far as I can see.

Not just arguing for the sake of it at all -

"I wasn't commenting upon the amount of money you (claim to) spend on prostitutes. I was registering my extreme surprise that you thought boasting about spending £2K per week was a good response to winning WOTY."


I'm pointing out to the OP that he has completely missed the point of my comment.
You're free to put me on "ignore" if you don't want to read what I write.

Terry 7 incher

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Oh dear, you can't seem to just drop it. For new threads, would you like me to reserve the two posts below the opener - one for you to bitch, then the following for SheepShagger to chime in.

Point being ...

I don't spend £2K a week. Maybe on a quiet week, yes.

But, pray tell, how the fuck is it any business of yours what I spend - or on whom?

Exactly.

Mate, I know the feeling. Some right jealous bitches on here. The other day I started a thread called "dogging on AW", and a load of them pounced on me just cos I mentioned my 7 inch meat sabre a few times. One even trawled through all my posts to quote where I'd mentioned my 17.5 cm pork sword, and he even highlighted each incident in bold too...!!! Sad or what eh?

My motto is simple, if you've got it then flaunt it. There's no shame in being rich or well endowed.

yorkshire123

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Mate, I know the feeling. Some right jealous bitches on here. The other day I started a thread called "dogging on AW", and a load of them pounced on me just cos I mentioned my 7 inch meat sabre a few times. One even trawled through all my posts to quote where I'd mentioned my 17.5 cm pork sword, and he even highlighted each incident in bold too...!!! Sad or what eh?

My motto is simple, if you've got it then flaunt it. There's no shame in being rich or well endowed.

What kind of a man (if you are one) calls other men bitches? Looks like your snuggling up to the right calibre of poster, what a pair of bell-ends  ;)

Mr Jones

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There's plenty of jobs where he works. Can you get to Narnia for 9:00 in the morning? :crazy:

Not everyone is a forklift truck driver, you jealous idiot. He can afford it. Get over it.

Stealthshagger

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Not everyone is a forklift truck driver, you jealous idiot. He can afford it. Get over it.

Or maybe his objection isn't based on jealousy. Like the proven falsehoods of snake8. 

west8

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Mate, I know the feeling. Some right jealous bitches on here. The other day I started a thread called "dogging on AW", and a load of them pounced on me just cos I mentioned my 7 inch meat sabre a few times. One even trawled through all my posts to quote where I'd mentioned my 17.5 cm pork sword, and he even highlighted each incident in bold too...!!! Sad or what eh?

My motto is simple, if you've got it then flaunt it. There's no shame in being rich or well endowed.

I wouldn't know about the well-endowed bit .. sadly!  :drinks:

As far as boasting, one man's £2K is another man's 2p .. it's all relative.


Offline Sedlmayer

Not everyone is a forklift truck driver, you jealous idiot. He can afford it. Get over it.

Thanks for your input - I'm honoured to be the subject of your 11th post.
However, you, like your friend the Snake, are missing the point.

Jealousy doesn't come into it, because going on his track record here, he's almost certainly lying (or at least greatly exaggerating) anyway.
If he's not actually lying , then I feel a bit sorry for him, because if he's spending in excess of £100K/yr on prostitutes he's got some kind of sex addiction, and one day will probably bitterly regret frittering so much money away with nothing but a sore cock to show for it.

Either way, it feels like he's involving himself in some kind of pissing contest with certain other members who have been boasting about spending very large sums on punting recently.
« Last Edit: January 10, 2015, 11:36:13 am by Sedlmayer »

doc14

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What kind of a man (if you are one) calls other men bitches? Looks like your snuggling up to the right calibre of poster, what a pair of bell-ends  ;)
I can't believe Terry 6cm is still going on about his fcucking pork sword

Offline shaunogg

Mate, I know the feeling. Some right jealous bitches on here. The other day I started a thread called "dogging on AW", and a load of them pounced on me just cos I mentioned my 7 inch meat sabre a few times. One even trawled through all my posts to quote where I'd mentioned my 17.5 cm pork sword, and he even highlighted each incident in bold too...!!! Sad or what eh?

My motto is simple, if you've got it then flaunt it. There's no shame in being rich or well endowed.

if you have it flaunt it? yes you do, your fuck wittedness is on clear display once again.

Offline shrewsmale

Putting aside all the falling out on this page, there is a genuine point in there.

I haven't had the exact same dilemma, but I do use swinging sites and have weighed up whether to stick to one or the other.

The benefits of escorting are it's your girl, your services at a time and place to suit you. However of course the price is an issue.

The primary benefit with swinging, aside the sex is of course it's at no cost. That said after the hours you sometimes have to spend grafting, working within other peoples availability and then also doing what they want (rather than just what you want) then paying for a punt can be justified.

As regards how much the guy spent / claims to have spent. Who cares? He may well have spent that and be a modern day wolf of Wall Street. It's important to bear in mind money is different to each of us. In the threads for my local area I find it odd guys won't go over £100 per punt but each to their own.