Please if you be so kind, can you give me your run down on seeking as I don’t get the aspect of it at all..
I could write a whole essay on this, but in a very short and possibly over simplified summary is that Seeking is more akin to paid dating than punting. You and the girl will both have profiles like a dating site, and there’s no such thing as a likes list or their rates. You message each other and go from there - it’s NOT a case of a hooker supermarket where you pick the girl you fancy and book her for an hour.
Whilst there are a range of girls on the platform, the best ones are those who are not pro sex workers but real girls with lives and jobs who are after a little something extra in life. Whether it’s to experience a bit of luxury they couldn’t otherwise afford,, to connect with a successful guy they’d never otherwise meet or just to have a little extra spending money to ease their problems. Because they aren’t pros, they tend to see far fewer men than an escort, you get to know each other much better and if all is well form a bit of a connection.
Personally I like knowing a little more about the girl I’m sleeping with, and I find the better the connection invariably the better the sex. Also sex tends to be more adventurous - subjectively I think a girl who’s willing to have a sugar arrangement is going to be more sexually assertive and open to stuff than a pure civvie. And there’s really no such thing as extras, they’ll have things they like and don’t like but by and large pretty much everything tends to be on the table.
I don’t want to make it sound like it’s all sunshine and rainbows - there’s an absolute fuck load of scammers, time wasters, delusional idiots and hidden escorts using the site. It’s a massive time investment to set up your profile, message the girls, organise meets etc. But for me it’s well worth it - if you can be bothered to wade through the shit there are definitely gems to be found. Best of luck