Who still has sex with the wife

[bigmanbigman]

Normally children put a stop to most or all sex
If that happens before kids cant really see the point of you hanging in there try counciling etc and then at least your fine out what her views are etc but
You are in a mess for sure.

[welshman]

Coming up for 20th anniversay and still shag 4 or 5 times a week, and it's very good.

But i just lover shagging younger ladies - at 60 how else would i get a 25yr old without paying .... 

This posts demonstrates what I like best about punting is that you can do things which otherwise would not be possible. You can have sex with very attractive women who would normally be out of your league, you can live out fantasies such as threesomes, role play and as the poster says older punters can have sex with younger women which is something I particularly enjoy.

[mrpeterman]

Couldn't agree more..yes get it at home on a semi regulare basis...only need to ask and it's on offer..

But sex with women who are so fucking atractive  out of my league hot and will do anything is so appealing...can't turn it down.

 

[StikiWiki]

Guys is this not a bit sad?

For context I'm not married and my longest relationship has only been 2 years so I fully accept that I might be naïve but surely there's no point staying in a loveless marriage?

Now I know that sexless =/= loveless but from what some of you are saying it seems like you feel such indifference towards your wives if not outright disdain.

Why keep yourself in an unhappy situation? Wouldn't it would be better for both partners to go their separate ways?

You are so right, and if only it was that easy, when kids are involved, I want them to have as stable home life as possible until they go, then you are probably too old to give a fuck. If I hadn't got my children, I would have gone ages ago. But, remember, escorts are not there to fall in love with, they are there to get a shag and a good one as you are paying for it, sometimes through the nose as well !!!!!!

[bigmanbigman]

Sweets in a sweet shop but once you have eaten them none till you buy more !
(Wgs)

[Mr_Shins]

When I met my wife though I was 35, she was 38 and she was the 2nd best sexual partner I had ever had, the best being a woman I met off the internet in 1994 when that was virtually unheard of, and went to meet her in the USA and spent 2 weeks with her. That woman in the USA was the only one I have ever been able to f**k without her taking the lead, however the woman I married was still way better than anyone else and was better than many WGs I have subsequently visited.

[momochan]

I had my xmas shag today 

[bigmanbigman]

Like father Christmas cums once a year ?

[Punter115]

Nearly spilt my Glenmorangie big- man ......very funny !

[MrMatrix]

I had my xmas shag today 

So do we get a review of Mrs M.. Lol 

[KenniLingus]

Like father Christmas cums once a year ?

And when he comes he fills a sack...

[bigmanbigman]

Ho ho ho

[Spacecowb0y]

Only today the Mrs has been asking me ”whats up”, well .... Not my cock darling as you've only bothered 3 times in the whole year!
Both kids go back to uni soon,and then I can make 2017 a memorable punting year before I go mental with sexual dissatisfaction for a women I love, but just doesn't get it.

[mediumjoe]

So many of us here know exactly how you feel . But what else can you (we)do ?  So difficult as they are ruled by their hormones and if they are repulsed by being touched or penetrated .........?

   Your last words -for a woman I love that just doesn't get it .  So sad.       Still, at least we can get our jollies !  Happy punting.  Joe

[Spacecowb0y]

Thanks Joe. I won't be the first or last guy in a long term relationship in this situation and it's either walk or "carry on punting”

[momochan]

So do we get a review of Mrs M.. Lol 

Ok here goes , i woke up next to her rubbed her tits and nipples and pussy till she was wet ,then she got on top and fucked me till she come (i let let her do this cos if i cum before her , she wont be able to cum) then i get behind her and do it doggy style till i cum (i cant cum missionary with her for years  )
all vanilla and all done within 10 mins.

[MrMatrix]

Ok here goes , i woke up next to her rubbed her tits and nipples and pussy till she was wet ,then she got on top and fucked me till she come (i let let her do this cos if i cum before her , she wont be able to cum) then i get behind her and do it doggy style till i cum (i cant cum missionary with her for years  )
all vanilla and all done within 10 mins.

O dear- I see why you punt. The excitement at home is clearly too much. Interesting comment on missionary as neither can I with any one !
I' reading this as a Neutral Momochan as she didn't say No.
Have a good new year mate. 

[booby]

Whoa so many similar stories. Obviously this isnt something you chat to your mate down the pub about so thought it was just me, so this is both reassuring and a little disheartening.

My story, I used to punt in my cold lonely years as I used to be pretty terrible with women and small talk. I then improved my skills with women, mainly thanks to the internet and practicing on dates got from dating sites. I had a good few years, slept with lots of women then settled down with someone I got on great with, the sex was ok, but not great.

Didn't punt for 4 years then I was just bored of the same old. And so last year I've had a few punts. I'm very visual, love sexy outfits and my partner ain't really into that, like bbws too and my wife ain't that, I just like variety, I ain't got one type. Shame as sex used to be the only part that i felt was lacking but don't know if it's my frustration manifesting in other ways or if that other poster was correct in saying they're all mad!

If I had my time again, I'd just be a swinger and get a swinger wife. Best of both worlds, someone you get on with AND fresh pussy.

[MrMatrix]

So many of us here know exactly how you feel . But what else can you (we)do ?  So difficult as they are ruled by their hormones and if they are repulsed by being touched or penetrated .........?

   Your last words -for a woman I love that just doesn't get it .  So sad.       Still, at least we can get our jollies !  Happy punting.  Joe

I too have got the T shirt. The above applies to me as well. This was never what I wanted, but you're both right she just doesn't get it. And its very sad.... 

[richardlbym]

I'm not married but I've been living with my only girlfriend for 21 years and am now 42.  We have no kids and neither of us want them.  Sex became rare 10 years ago and stopped altogether about 8 years ago.  I don't want to do it with her anyway.  I would long to leave her and fall in love with someone new but I don't have the courage.  She's a good person and we get on fine.  So escorts have been the nearest thing to finding someone new.

[Knobhead]

This thread is actually quite educational! 

[mediumjoe]

Richard you are only 42, believe me - blink and before you know it you will be 52, and looking back thinking what happened.  Life passes exponentially faster the older you get. If the financial consequences aren't too terrible get out know, believe me the thrill of the chase running after new women will make you wonder why you stayed as long as you have. Hope you don't mind me trying to give you advice. One downside would be that most of the couples you both know will sort of fade away, as being the woman she will keep the contacts going.   Joe

[richardlbym]

Richard you are only 42, believe me - blink and before you know it you will be 52, and looking back thinking what happened.  Life passes exponentially faster the older you get. If the financial consequences aren't too terrible get out know, believe me the thrill of the chase running after new women will make you wonder why you stayed as long as you have. Hope you don't mind me trying to give you advice. One downside would be that most of the couples you both know will sort of fade away, as being the woman she will keep the contacts going.   Joe

Yes, but how do I get the courage?  I think the only way I could possibly do it is to meet someone else while still with my girlfriend.  But that's easier said than done.

[BigBoi1955]

I think the only way I could possibly do it is to meet someone else while still with my girlfriend.  But that's easier said than done.

It's called having an affair and since the internet came along much easier done than before.

To be honest I think you should just keep things simple and be honest with her and tell her the problem and your solution. If I had my time again I'd have confronted my wife with the (No Sex = Not Happy) discussion. I think if I'd done that she'd have wanted to stay together but allowed me to visit escorts and/or see other woman. After the children I think I'd have accepted that option. 

[richardlbym]

I was thinking of meeting someone else who I can leave my girlfriend for rather than having an affair.  But I am no good with women and it is hard enough meeting someone when you are single, never mind when you are already living with someone.

[mediumjoe]

Hi Richard,  if you really are not comfortable talking to women it's quite understandable we all feel a bit like that. It's possible that what you need is  to go on a course that deals with motivational training confidence building et cetera,  perhaps get some expert help on hair and style,  make you feel a bit better about yourself. Personally I have never been able to chat a woman up  in a bar or a club, completely frightening but when I met dozens and dozens of women after arranging to meet  through dating websites I didn't have any problems whatsoever you both know why you're there, no problem.  I just treated it a bit like interviewing people for a job,  and  the anticipation of meeting somebody new was quite exciting. You have to remember that they are more petrified than you are.
   Happy hunting,  there's an awful lot of women of your age out there desperately looking for a man.
Joe

[richardlbym]

but when I met dozens and dozens of women after arranging to meet  through dating websites I didn't have any problems whatsoever you both know why you're there, no problem.  I just treated it a bit like interviewing people for a job,  and  the anticipation of meeting somebody new was quite exciting. You have to remember that they are more petrified than you are.

But surely online dating can only work if you split up with your partner first?

[mediumjoe]

 I think you have answered your own question, you realise that you're going to have to do the deed, but there's nothing to stop you having a look at what's out there, treat it a bit like punting,  false email address and username etc .  Get yourself a photograph that's not too bad but could be anybody, and just try it ,there is no need to take anything any further at this point if you don't want to, just meet the women, have a chat and gain some confidence when a few say afterwards that they would like to meet you again that's your cue to do the deed and move on

[richardlbym]

I think you have answered your own question, you realise that you're going to have to do the deed

That's the problem, I don't have the courage to do that.  I need to be secure in a new relationship first.

[bigmanbigman]

We all wish for a easy life but some things take some input from ourself.
Your stuck and will stay that way unless you change something
Start with some me time swimming .new hobby. Gym
Make some changes to your life and go from there.

[webpunter]

Swimming / gym are both good coz you get showered up at the end.  Good for getting rid of perfume / oil

Start with some me time swimming .new hobby. Gym

[richardlbym]

But even if I met a new person, how do I know I would be happier in the long run?  So many people in this thread have said that things usually go sour or at least go very dull after a few years.

[Spacecowb0y]

But even if I met a new person, how do I know I would be happier in the long run?  So many people in this thread have said that things usually go sour or at least go very dull after a few years.

Short answer is you don't. None of us really do. Get out there and dip your toe. Life is short and should not be full of regrets.
I say this as someone who continues to try with my wife of many years, I guess I always will, but enough is enough and my desire to meet like minded women is strong.