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Author Topic: Having trouble getting started with AdultWork. Was it difficult for you?  (Read 825 times)

rekkis

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I have met with several agency escorts and arranging a booking was usually very easy, but now I am trying to start booking through AW and I get no responses. I have sent several emails and booking requests and only couple of them were answered or even read. Communicating on the phone can be difficult because english is not my first language, but I have tried to call some girls and nobody has answered the phone. Am I getting no responses because my rating is 0? Do you always call or do you get replies to emails or booking requests? Did you have trouble getting started with AW?

vw

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When did you start, don;'t forget its the Christmas holiday season and many will be away !

rekkis

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I started couple weeks ago, so holiday season definitely plays a factor, but I have been mostly contacting active, high rated escorts. I see these girls logging in but ignoring my messages.

Offline Jimmyredcab

Adultwork is a fucking minefield, your experience sounds quite normal to me.    :thumbsdown: :thumbsdown: :thumbsdown:

Offline Urban_G

I see these girls logging in but ignoring my messages.
That's standard procedure, it's best to call them.

charming_red

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Its probably not the best of time to be sending them emails. Most girls are still on hols and very few logging in (certainly for EEs).

Give it another week and you should start getting responses as they start getting back to business.

Offline uutarn

I had this mate, concerns about 0 feedback etc.
Don't worry mate, just keep trying (on monday all will go back to normal) one will get back to you sooner or later and the ball will start rolling, do your first booking on AW, get your first feedback and you will wonder why you were worrying.

Also, a watched pot never boils ;).

LL

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If English is not your first language and you find communicating on the phone difficult just text them.  I've arranged lots of punts with WGs just via text, and without having met them before.  Some will not respond to text, so text a few girls at once and whichever one replies first with a "yes" to your requested time gets your booking.  The rest get a polite reply stating that you're no longer free (keep 'em sweet for a future booking!).

Offline NelsonH

Just wait until February when they all get their Christmas bills.

AW emails rarely work. Text/call is the way. Don't worry about English, most of 'em are struggling with that.


Sir Lancealot

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I have been mostly contacting active, high rated escorts. I see these girls logging in but ignoring my messages.

The most highly rated girls on AW seem to be in such demand that they can get booked up a couple of weeks in advance and are I would imagine unlikely to bother with a new member with zero FB. Some even say you need a minimum of X FB's before they will consider seeing you. Perhaps better to try with some slightly less well reviewed girls and also those with the green light showing 'available today'.

Offline pewpewpew

Does depend on what you're emailing though. If you're saying "ey up luv. I wanna fuck the arse off ya then sniff ya durty minge", you are 10% leas likely to recieve a response

Offline Moresomes

Does depend on what you're emailing though. If you're saying "ey up luv. I wanna fuck the arse off ya then sniff ya durty minge", you are 10% leas likely to recieve a response

So, that's where I'm going wrong then.

Offline suttonporksword

you might want to get the zero feedback out the way by referring it in your email, they are more than likely going to check anyway. something along the lines of "I am a new member and so obviously have no feedback at present, blah blah blah"...

dude86

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Just tried booking with someone through AW and she emails saying "what's with all your profiles" now if I recall correctly I only ever registered once with my usual email address so I've no idea what's going on there.

vw

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Just tried booking with someone through AW and she emails saying "what's with all your profiles" now if I recall correctly I only ever registered once with my usual email address so I've no idea what's going on there.
Do you use public wifi, you may have many alias or did you log on to the internet at a whore house ?

dude86

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Nope, just the 4G on my phone. Don't see how that creates aliases. Now seems she's ignoring my messages!

Biscuitman

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you might want to get the zero feedback out the way by referring it in your email, they are more than likely going to check anyway. something along the lines of "I am a new member and so obviously have no feedback at present, blah blah blah"...
that's what I did and I also asked how I would get my 1st rating feedback if nobody agrees to see me and it worked.

Offline Acerimmer

AW is an absolute minefield now, when I first discovered it there were only 5 pages of escorts, almost no EE and definitely no Romanians

Why don't you set up a reverse booking and see who bites. Be realistic, pick a date you are definitely free and have funds in place, decide what you want and advertise, there will be chancers, mingers, fruit loops but some of the best punts I've had are from RBs, give it a go.
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FallenMan

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It's annoying as hell now. Total minefield as was said above. Anyone else get that 'must prove location for VAT purposes to buy content' since october? Very hard to keep it anonymous now. Meh, fuck it, I guess we're there to fuck not buy stuff, but it's still annoying that I have credits that I annoyingly jumped through anonymous hoops to get, that I now can't use to check a wg's photos before contacting if I want.
Good luck getting it running mate!  :drinks:

Offline Dani

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I have sent several emails and booking requests and only couple of them were answered or even read.

Don't send booking requests until you have agreed a day and time as this is something timewasters tend to do and will likely just get deleted. Some women also get 'offended' if you do this as they view it as telling them when they will see you rather than you asking if they are available so again will just delete it
Also if you find it difficult to converse in English over the phone it will be taken that it will be difficult to converse in person so many will not see you as being able to understand each other is quite important as a safety aspect

Well reviewed girls are less likely to bother with a booking that might be difficult to get things across in when they get more than enough easy bookings

I don't know a way to get around this so can't offer advice except maybe pick someone who is less busy and maybe less fussy

NotMyNameOnAW

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As it just so happens Ive been experimenting with a zero feedback profile after a dispute arose on my normal profile over a provider profile used by more than one escort.

I was actually quite stunned by the hostility shown to zero feedbackers.
My account has been open for a month and Ive been active.

For the record, Im mature and experienced. I visit British Escorts almost exclusively, so have nothing to say on EE escorts.

My experiences can be summarised as thus.

Two meets that happened.
Berkshire - A regular user of AW. An OK meet. Good escort, but no chemistry
London - A more casual user of AW. Good escort. Really enjoyable meet.

Nonetheless, I gave two positive feedbacks and received none in return. The London one annoys me a bit.

Of the rest that didnt happen, here are the reasons why
Surrey - OTT reaction to asking whether she was available today (her green light was on the BTW) including a long, intense text after Id hung up.
London - Cancelled on the morning
Surrey - Said she was available tomorrow, but changed her mind to the day after tomorrow.
Hertfordshire - email (quite a nice one actually) saying she wouldnt see a zero feedback
Heathrow - Where do I start? When I texted her to say I couldnt call (I was in the pub). She rang me up. Twice. And was abusive to me.
Essex - Wouldnt answer a simple question three times. Booked me into a time I hadnt confirmed and then called ME a timewaster.
Hertfordshire - Replied to an email saying she would text me. Didnt. I reminded her, then she did text me. (Her number wasnt on her profile) so it was all emails up to here. But she only texted me to make me feel bad about reminding her.
Essex - no Reply

So, here's the thing - out of 10 potential meets - only two happened - and the rest was just a waste of MY time. If anything, I prefer no reply to an email.
What Ive learnt is:

1. The Text/ Phone/ email debate depends very much on the escort. AW is awful on a phone, so if you or the escort are using a phone, its very much Call or Text. Given that you are likely to go to voicemail anyway, you shouldnt feel shamed by texting. You might not get a reply, but it doesnt make you a time waster.
2. Time Wasting is very real and as a zero feedbacker, you will be assumed to be one. However, Im surprised how often escorts contribute to the time wasting they complain about. There are two very real things that could improve things. a. Properly reading any text/ email you get will avoid repetition and b. Dont get enraged if somebody doesnt accept the first time you offer.

So, as somebody succinctly put, AW is a mine field and Im afraid good manners seem to be at a premium on there at a moment. It never used to be this hard. And, oh, my account is still on zero feedback.