Performance anxiety on a punt

[ForrestGump]

I've had a couple of punts now where I've been feeling really horny in the lead-up to the punt. But when it came to getting down to business no matter how much I wanted to I've been unable to pop, which is intensely frustrating.

I've, so far, been unable to get a handle on what exactly it is at the root of my problem. But I'm pretty sure it's anxiety related or some other psychological obstacle rather than a physical one. I know this to be true because I can, when alone, make myself cum with or without porn.

So I was wondering whether any others here have encountered that same obstacle and have tips/strategies to help overcome it.

[ArtVandalay]

For me it was finding the perfect GFE... Lots of kissing, very intimate and made to feel completely at ease

[smiths]

I've had a couple of punts now where I've been feeling really horny in the lead-up to the punt. But when it came to getting down to business no matter how much I wanted to I've been unable to pop, which is intensely frustrating.

I've, so far, been unable to get a handle on what exactly it is at the root of my problem. But I'm pretty sure it's anxiety related or some other psychological obstacle rather than a physical one. I know this to be true because I can, when alone, make myself cum with or without porn.

So I was wondering whether any others here have encountered that same obstacle and have tips/strategies to help overcome it.

The WG talking dirty and then me sticking my tongue down her throat until i tickle her tonsils usually ensures i can pop. The biggest obstacle for me is a cold unfriendly WG, i dont wish to be in the same room as such people let alone punt with them.

[touch.and.go]

I've had a couple of punts now where I've been feeling really horny in the lead-up to the punt. But when it came to getting down to business no matter how much I wanted to I've been unable to pop, which is intensely frustrating.

I've, so far, been unable to get a handle on what exactly it is at the root of my problem. But I'm pretty sure it's anxiety related or some other psychological obstacle rather than a physical one. I know this to be true because I can, when alone, make myself cum with or without porn.

So I was wondering whether any others here have encountered that same obstacle and have tips/strategies to help overcome it.

I sometimes wilt half way through a long session, and some vigorous RO or rimming normally does the trick - in fact anything which isnt focussed on your cock normally makes it stiff as a board and gets the pre-cum flowing. 

[threechilliman]

I sometimes wilt half way through a long session, and some vigorous RO or rimming normally does the trick - in fact anything which isnt focussed on y

our cock normally makes it stiff as a board and gets the pre-cum flowing. 

+1 at about the half hour stage. I usually call for halftime, then get back to it. I sometimes think my cock is a lazy bastard that won't stay awake for more than half an hour...

tcm

[aerofan5]

Enthusiasm is the trick - if the girl is enthusiastic it gets me popping big time!

[ForrestGump]

Thanks everyone for responding. It's all good food for thought.

My preference, already, is for an intimate GFE with an enthusiastic girl. So I can definitely relate to those of you who seek the same. I've not yet explored the dirty talk aspect. But think I should do so.

I have my eye on Stacy Nice Summer as my next punt which, by all accounts, should tick most of the boxes already mentioned.

TCM and T&G touched on something that I'd been thinking about which is more along the lines of having a specific mind focus, which I'm going to follow up on. It seems as though there's a need to have a known good distraction that's effective at taking focus away from wanting desperately to cum and, instead, transfer it onto something else. I've been dabbling a bit with this but haven't yet found the right trigger that works for me. I'll definitely persevere with this aspect, too.

[touch.and.go]

Thanks everyone for responding. It's all good food for thought.

My preference, already, is for an intimate GFE with an enthusiastic girl. So I can definitely relate to those of you who seek the same. I've not yet explored the dirty talk aspect. But think I should do so.

I have my eye on Stacy Nice Summer as my next punt which, by all accounts, should tick most of the boxes already mentioned.

TCM and T&G touched on something that I'd been thinking about which is more along the lines of having a specific mind focus, which I'm going to follow up on. It seems as though there's a need to have a known good distraction that's effective at taking focus away from wanting desperately to cum and, instead, transfer it onto something else. I've been dabbling a bit with this but haven't yet found the right trigger that works for me. I'll definitely persevere with this aspect, too.

If your'e focused on spunking up and worried its not going to happen, then it will be self-fulfilling. Forget all that and focus on her body and the bits of it that really turn you on - and everything will sort itself out I'm sure. 

[potato]

Once you've got the the "will I cum this time" mentality buzzing around in your head it can be hard to break the mental block. Also if you are taking any performance enhancing pills to maintain an erection then that can have the same effect on some people.

[CBPaul]

The WG talking dirty and then me sticking my tongue down her throat until i tickle her tonsils usually ensures i can pop. The biggest obstacle for me is a cold unfriendly WG, i dont wish to be in the same room as such people let alone punt with them.

+1

As the years pass I find it harder to get anywhere with a cold prossie who clearly wants me out of the door ASAP.

OP, try to get the thoughts of cumming out of your head, physically it's a non-issue since you can achieve it through masturbation. Find the type of prossie who gives the service you want and relax. You probably won't cum if you lie back wondering if you're going to jizz.

[ForrestGump]

Once you've got the the "will I cum this time" mentality buzzing around in your head it can be hard to break the mental block. Also if you are taking any performance enhancing pills to maintain an erection then that can have the same effect on some people.

It is, as you describe, like a mental block, where I find myself focusing all attention on trying to cum and it just seems to result in me reversing away from the point I'm trying to reach.

Yes I've recently taken to popping a generic viagra before a punt. It could very well be a factor in this. But I did have problems popping before I started taking viagra. So it's difficult to say for sure.

+1

As the years pass I find it harder to get anywhere with a cold prossie who clearly wants me out of the door ASAP.

OP, try to get the thoughts of cumming out of your head, physically it's a non-issue since you can achieve it through masturbation. Find the type of prossie who gives the service you want and relax. You probably won't cum if you lie back wondering if you're going to jizz.

Agreed on the cold wg thing. It's the kiss of death whenever I've encountered one.

I'll work on getting a distraction technique that I can use when needed. I suspect the relaxation aspect is the key. Perhaps some kind of hypnosis type trigger will help.

[Owwhatanight]

Some times i cannot give a door a bang !!!!

[macmate]

To get total value for money, recently I've resorted to the Ol' Blue Pill and a dab of Eau de Delay on the old fella, and the last punt I suffered from the same... The pill n spray combo gets me over the initial nervousness of getting it on with a WG, but the mix then means I'm struggling to finish... bugger!

[jack_walsh]

That's amazing Mr.Gump, the very same thing happened to me on a punt this morning.  For the second time in a couple of weeks I found myself pumping away like a mechanical pornstar, in all sorts of positions, but nothing doing.  Today I was hard as a stick of rock for over 20 minutes but not even the slightest urge to pop. Last week it was worse when my lazy fella downstairs decided to go on strike after 15 minutes of sucking and thrusting.

Most of the replies here are bang on though.  In both cases, for me, the WG was not my type, not very pretty, not like her profile on AW, had issues prior to the meet (causing delayed start), not dressed as requested, too business like, not really GFE at all, no proper kissing, no personality.  Today's punt was in a desperate dive of a flat which was a massive turn off. Last week's looked like she'd put on a few pounds and was generally unfit.  Neither WG was lacking in effort though.

In both cases above I tried too hard to pop, instead of not thinking about it as mentioned already. I suppose it is about finding a decent GFE with the right WG and it's not just about the sex.  Main things are attraction, seduction, intimacy, and fun.

I don't know if it's worth emailing a potential punt first with my exact requirements. Any thoughts?

[ForrestGump]

To get total value for money, recently I've resorted to the Ol' Blue Pill and a dab of Eau de Delay on the old fella, and the last punt I suffered from the same... The pill n spray combo gets me over the initial nervousness of getting it on with a WG, but the mix then means I'm struggling to finish... bugger!

Oh no! That's not good, macmate. Perhaps with a bit more experimentation you'll hit on a working combo. Good luck with that.

That's amazing Mr.Gump, the very same thing happened to me on a punt this morning.  For the second time in a couple of weeks I found myself pumping away like a mechanical pornstar, in all sorts of positions, but nothing doing.  Today I was hard as a stick of rock for over 20 minutes but not even the slightest urge to pop. Last week it was worse when my lazy fella downstairs decided to go on strike after 15 minutes of sucking and thrusting.

Most of the replies here are bang on though.  In both cases, for me, the WG was not my type, not very pretty, not like her profile on AW, had issues prior to the meet (causing delayed start), not dressed as requested, too business like, not really GFE at all, no proper kissing, no personality.  Today's punt was in a desperate dive of a flat which was a massive turn off. Last week's looked like she'd put on a few pounds and was generally unfit.  Neither WG was lacking in effort though.

In both cases above I tried too hard to pop, instead of not thinking about it as mentioned already. I suppose it is about finding a decent GFE with the right WG and it's not just about the sex.  Main things are attraction, seduction, intimacy, and fun.

I don't know if it's worth emailing a potential punt first with my exact requirements. Any thoughts?

I can, of course, empathise with you and your challenge, jack_walsh. And I completely agree with you on your summary of the main ingredients. I've never really given the due thought to the seduction aspect but have a related fantasy that I'd like to fulfill. I just need to hook up with the right wg to turn it into reality

Regarding the suggestion of emailing a wg with your requirements, it's not something I've tried so am unable to comment on what kind of reaction it'll get you. But I'd say it's worth a try. 

[kriss_de_valnor]

In my case serious problems at work affected my sexual life

Like touch.and.go mentioned - i did everything which wasn't focussed on my cock - and when i was kissing her feet i got massive wood. And i discovered my fetish "dark" side by the way 

Another very important thing - girl's attitude. And i always go with my "type" prossie. At this moment i prefer tall girls with long legs to heavens

[Urban_G]

I've, so far, been unable to get a handle on what exactly it is at the root of my problem. But I'm pretty sure it's anxiety related or some other psychological obstacle rather than a physical one.
I know this to be true because I can, when alone, make myself cum with or without porn.

That suggests the problem is the girls fault and not your own (that's a joke btw).

Are you punting with girls that you are normally attracted to or are you going for something different?
I would say that you could try (when the moment is right) to really concentrate on cumming and just bang away selfishly until you either do cum or almost die trying.

Maybe you could ask the girl to wear something a bit kinky or perform some other act like playing with herself in front of you while you knock one out to finish.

[Gigabyte]

For me abstaining for a few days seems to cure it. Takes a lot less effort for me to pop and I am usually ready for round 2 in short order.

[ForrestGump]

That suggests the problem is the girls fault and not your own (that's a joke btw).

Thanks. I get the joke. But believe me when I say that I've been with enough frosty wgs to know when I at least feel welcome. 

Are you punting with girls that you are normally attracted to or are you going for something different?

Honestly the females I'm naturally attracted to cover what I consider to be quite a broad spectrum. But I am at least a little bit selective, because if she's not breathing or doesn't have a fanny she's not getting onto my hot list 

I would say that you could try (when the moment is right) to really concentrate on cumming and just bang away selfishly until you either do cum or almost die trying.

You've got to believe me when I say that I have definitely been there with this one. 

Maybe you could ask the girl to wear something a bit kinky or perform some other act like playing with herself in front of you while you knock one out to finish.

Relative to what I've read about from some other forum members, I am very vanilla in what I indulge in when on a punt. So introducing some more kink, including getting my wg to dress up, definitely has some mileage. I have enjoyed it when my wg contributes by taking the initiative rather than being on the more passive side. Her playing with herself without having to be asked to do so is a good example of that. I'm then sometimes able to knock one out as I take in that scene. But success is still variable. Perhaps a full-on role play type punt is what it'll take to get me properly into the groove.

For me abstaining for a few days seems to cure it. Takes a lot less effort for me to pop and I am usually ready for round 2 in short order.

Yup! I'm with you on that one. I absolutely have to do the same. I'm normally feeling in need of a pop before I even start to seriously consider making a booking. But for my next punt I'll try holding on for another couple of days beyond where I normally feel ready to see if that helps. 

Thanks, guys, I appreciate your thoughts and suggestions. 

[potato]

The other way to look at it is to see it as an advantage rather than an issue.  It gives you more time to experiment with lots of positions and enjoy the view whilst shagging them.  Much better than being premature where its all over in flash! I don't think your double cocktail is helping things either - delay cream anaesthetises your cock so it is less sensitive and Viagra can have a similar effect on some. So leave off the cream and concentrate on having fun and not the conclusion to it!

[akauya]

The other way to look at it is to see it as an advantage rather than an issue.  It gives you more time to experiment with lots of positions and enjoy the view whilst shagging them.  Much better than being premature where its all over in flash! I don't think your double cocktail is helping things either - delay cream anaesthetises your cock so it is less sensitive and Viagra can have a similar effect on some. So leave off the cream and concentrate on having fun and not the conclusion to it!

Good post!

Sometimes viagra does have a delay effect on me and it's annoying when that happens. Luckily it doesn't happen too often. So I'd go with what Ellwood said, lay of the delay cream and see how you get on.

[jonalpha]

I find 69 is the way to get the juices flowing. You're concentrating on the pussy in your face and then all of a sudden it's - oh my god, watch out!! They better be ready for CIM at that point.

[ForrestGump]

The other way to look at it is to see it as an advantage rather than an issue.  It gives you more time to experiment with lots of positions and enjoy the view whilst shagging them.  Much better than being premature where its all over in flash! I don't think your double cocktail is helping things either - delay cream anaesthetises your cock so it is less sensitive and Viagra can have a similar effect on some. So leave off the cream and concentrate on having fun and not the conclusion to it!

Very true epd. Both a blessing and a curse wrapped up in the same thing. Mind you in the heat of the punt it's all too easy to lose sight of it as being a blessing when it seems no matter what I do I can't pop. But your suggestion is more very good food for thought. And, just to clarify, it's macmate who's the one with the need to use delay cream. I, of course, am in need of  a product which has the reverse effect, if there is such a thing. 

Good post!
Sometimes viagra does have a delay effect on me and it's annoying when that happens. Luckily it doesn't happen too often. So I'd go with what Ellwood said, lay of the delay cream and see how you get on.

Now this is an interesting comment you've made there akauya about v having a delaying effect on you. I'd been wondering whether the v is affecting me in that same way. I've punted twice since I started popping a pre-punt v. The first time all went very well with me getting a magnificent boner and managed to pop within the hour. All good, I thought. But second run and, again, magnificent boner but no pop. So it's got me wondering whether the v is a factor. But I'd kind of dismissed it on the basis that all went well on the first run. But if it's affecting you intermittently then it may very well be having the same affect on me. 

I find 69 is the way to get the juices flowing. You're concentrating on the pussy in your face and then all of a sudden it's - oh my god, watch out!! They better be ready for CIM at that point.

Oh yes, jonalpha, a punt without 69 is always going to end in failure for me. There's nothing I enjoy more than daty and, preferably, getting my snout fully enveloped in my wgs inner lips. It's during this part of the punt that I'm most likely to pop. I should probably aim to develop a fantasy around this aspect to help me intensify the pleasure when I need to. 

[wristjob]

Only porblems I've ever had was with 1 WG who was as close as I ever got to a regular. From the 3rd time onwards it just didn't really happen - no question she was great, ticked all the boxes good technique etc but it just didn't happen. The last time I saw her I hadn't seen her for 2 months, no issues with WGs in the meantime but it just didn't happen.

[mcardle464]

Hi All,

this is a subject that is bothering me too. I didn't want to post on it until I had finished my researches, but ForrestG forced my hand (so to speak ).

@Forrest do you watch a lot of porn? If so read on....

I have had two sessions of punting with a several years break.  In the first session, despite my inexperience, I could pop with the right woman...I'm very much the vanilla GFE type, so had 3 or 4 good WGs then a disaster with someone I took an instant dislike to. 

I didn't punt for a few years then came back to it late last year.  I've basically had difficulties getting an erection and coming.

So I took some viagra (mail order from Superdrug - as recommended by UKP, although ASDA is apparently cheaper). This made it difficult to pop.

But in the gap time I'd got to watching a lot of porn - a porn addiction and with my home cinema etc, P2P, I can download pretty spiffy porn anytime I like - it's not like you are leering at a glob of pinkish pikels juddering about which it was a few years ago online!

I believe I have got PIED - Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction.  It's becoming widespread.  This site explains it really well

External Link/Members Only  I recommend you take a look at it. if you have symptoms like watching lots of porn, being able to come with the porn, hard "death grip" masturbation (which doesn't feel like a woman), then difficulties with real sex, you may have the disorder - it's curable.

Basically - you can train your brain only to respond to porn and off women.  I think that's been what's happened to me. I've got the symptoms.

Essentially like any addiction you have to go cold turkey on the porn and let your body recover to normal functioning.  Perversely the younger you are, the more you can be affected. Old gits like me who grew up long before video porn can't affect their brains as much.

OK, that was the depressing bit.  I really would suggest that anybody reading this post cuts out the porn - not because I'm a moralist - but because it does hit the stimulation pathways in your brain and trains them to respond to the wrong stimuli.

I have virtually stopped watching porn.  I don't think I am fully recovered yet and I haven't had the money to go to a WG and test out my theories.

PART 2: the Research Programme

I have always felt that a bit of stimulant boosting would be good in the Performance anxiety on a punt situation. 

I am a big taker of all sorts of nutrients, vitamins, herbs, and have done for years.  So I have been investigating the various pro-sexual nutrients you can take, from herbs to yohimbine to arginine.  I decided that as Viagra was suboptimal, I would do this in a scientific manner and note the dose and effects and publish here.  Unfortunately I haven't started it with real sex, just masturbation.  So its very much at the preliminary stages.  Certainly L-Arginine  1- 4 grams has an effect with me.

Arginine is pretty safe.  I've been using it for years and on occasion taken massive doses when recovering from serious injury, 20 g or more.  I'd be interested in any feedback - take it on an empty stomach with water or juice (not milk) as protein will impair it crossing the Blood/Brain barrier. For larger doses I use pure powder but you can get it in capsules in health shops.

I plan to continue the programme and report when I have any useful results.  I regret this is a premature announcement but I felt I had to respond to the posting as it is possible other UKP members have or are developing PIED.  Please read the material on External Link/Members Only as it is quite a sobering analysis.

[ForrestGump]

Hi All,

this is a subject that is bothering me too. I didn't want to post on it until I had finished my researches, but ForrestG forced my hand (so to speak ).

@Forrest do you watch a lot of porn? If so read on....

Thanks for this mcardle. And I'm sorry that your hand was forced!

I've been punting for a relatively short time, just 3 months or so. However since I started punting my interest in and craving for porn has tailed off quite dramatically. Historically, though, I've wanked a lot while consuming a lot of porn. Perhaps it'll take a while longer before the effects of my porn addiction (assuming that's what it is) fades.

I'm very interested to know whether PIED is a factor in my problem. I'll definitely try the cold turkey thing. I expect I can manage that, especially if it results in an improvement in my punt/pop success rate.

I'm not normally sold on the idea of vitamin supplements. However arginine sounds interesting in that it can deliver benefits to those suffering from ED and anxiety problems. Will give it due consideration.

I'm interested to hear about further results/conclusions of your programme. So please keep me posted. I'll do the same.

[Toby]

I'm very interested to know whether PIED is a factor in my problem. I'll definitely try the cold turkey thing. I expect I can manage that, especially if it results in an improvement in my punt/pop success rate.

I would imagine wanking a lot possibly has something to do with it. As was put to me recently: your body is used to cumming through your own 'handling', and less used to what other people do to you.

[mcardle464]

Thanks for your responses, Toby and Forrest.

@toby: as I understand it, and I am not an expert, it's not the wanking (obviously people have always done that) - it's the combination of wanking and the levels of stimulation/immediate gratification you can get from an internet porn overload. There hasn't been anything like it before, and our brains get used to levels of gratification and seek new stimuli - for example I imagine the first skydive must be pretty terrifying, but by the 100th it might be routine, and possibly even somewhat boring.

Essentially you are transferring your sexual impulses off women, and onto screen-based media. Doctors have noticed young males (teen to twenties) having ED, which  *never* happened before. Young males might be prone to coming too soon, but never used to have problems with hard-ons and this is down to PIED caused by porn addiction while their brains are still developing.

I'm sorry, I didn't explain Arginine properly. It increases blood flow - it's an amino acid, a protein that you get in your food.  Taking it about an hour before a punt should help blood flow to the penis which improves erections and sensation.

External Link/Members Only  This bloke is a doctor.  He does sell his own herbal formulations, which looks a bid quacky but his books are very good.  He did one on Natural Sex Boosters - which I recommend. You can check out what he thinks of various substances on that site. What I like about him is he actually takes things and writes about their subjective effect, rather than just quote academic papers. A field man, rather than just a desk jockey.

External Link/Members Only

External Link/Members Only   It says here that Arginine can be used as a cream for ED. First I've heard of that. Interesting - I just take it internally.

@UKPers: I expect others of you have experimented with non-pharmaceutical "sex boosters" (that is not viagra, kamagra, cialis etc)- I'd be interested to hear of your experiences.

[jack_walsh]

Another interesting thread on this frankly amazing site.

Thanks for the posts, going to try Arginine to see if can help with my occassional DE problem. 

[touch.and.go]

Thanks for this mcardle. And I'm sorry that your hand was forced!

I've been punting for a relatively short time, just 3 months or so. However since I started punting my interest in and craving for porn has tailed off quite dramatically. Historically, though, I've wanked a lot while consuming a lot of porn. Perhaps it'll take a while longer before the effects of my porn addiction (assuming that's what it is) fades.

I'm very interested to know whether PIED is a factor in my problem. I'll definitely try the cold turkey thing. I expect I can manage that, especially if it results in an improvement in my punt/pop success rate.

I'm not normally sold on the idea of vitamin supplements. However arginine sounds interesting in that it can deliver benefits to those suffering from ED and anxiety problems. Will give it due consideration.

I'm interested to hear about further results/conclusions of your programme. So please keep me posted. I'll do the same.

Forrest - have you tried no porn and no wanking for a week before a punt? I used to get turned on by porn before I started punting but now I hardly bother.

[ForrestGump]

Forrest - have you tried no porn and no wanking for a week before a punt? I used to get turned on by porn before I started punting but now I hardly bother.

Have abstained for about a week now and probably won't get a safe opportunity to punt until next week due to unexpected circumstances beyond my control. I hope by then I'll be good and ready to pop.

Yup am finding it a lot easier than I thought it would be to abstain completely from porn. Of course having a clear mental image of the successful outcome of this bit of self-research is a great motivator

[yorkshire123]

Have abstained for about a week now and probably won't get a safe opportunity to punt until next week

2 weeks worth, fucking hell Gump it may be a good idea to tell the poor girl to wear some goggles 

[ForrestGump]

2 weeks worth, fucking hell Gump it may be a good idea to tell the poor girl to wear some goggles 

Funny you should say that Y123. It just so happens that my mental image involves me redecorating the room. 

Must... stay... strong... 

[yorkshire123]

Funny you should say that Y123. It just so happens that my mental image involves me redecorating the room. 

Must... stay... strong... 

Good luck buddy 

[fgs]

The WG talking dirty and then me sticking my tongue down her throat until i tickle her tonsils usually ensures i can pop. The biggest obstacle for me is a cold unfriendly WG, i dont wish to be in the same room as such people let alone punt with them.

Cold and unfriendly WG is by far the worst performance inhibitor for me - other than BO of course 

[fgs]

Thanks for this mcardle. And I'm sorry that your hand was forced!

I've been punting for a relatively short time, just 3 months or so. However since I started punting my interest in and craving for porn has tailed off quite dramatically. Historically, though, I've wanked a lot while consuming a lot of porn. Perhaps it'll take a while longer before the effects of my porn addiction (assuming that's what it is) fades.

I'm very interested to know whether PIED is a factor in my problem. I'll definitely try the cold turkey thing. I expect I can manage that, especially if it results in an improvement in my punt/pop success rate.

I'm not normally sold on the idea of vitamin supplements. However arginine sounds interesting in that it can deliver benefits to those suffering from ED and anxiety problems. Will give it due consideration.

I'm interested to hear about further results/conclusions of your programme. So please keep me posted. I'll do the same.

]

From experience the cost element from the inevitable increase in brass intake to account for your  porn addiction will soon take its financial toll and you will gravitate back to porn. I was on 5 brasses a week at one point but have managed to wean myself back to 1 a week with a healthy dose of internet porn. Its all about balance....

[ForrestGump]

]

From experience the cost element from the inevitable increase in brass intake to account for your  porn addiction will soon take its financial toll and you will gravitate back to porn. I was on 5 brasses a week at one point but have managed to wean myself back to 1 a week with a healthy dose of internet porn. Its all about balance....

Wise words, indeed, fgs. Wise words.

Perhaps not for you but the scourge that is the human ageing process is also a factor in this for me. What I mean by that is that I find that, after firing, it now takes me longer to build up a full head of steam than it did say 10 years ago. So, from a purely financial perspective, that's a bit of a blessing. But, yes, moderation seems to be the solution to problems associated to so many human vices. 

[touch.and.go]

2 weeks worth, fucking hell Gump it may be a good idea to tell the poor girl to wear some goggles 

According to Wikki :


The volume of semen ejaculate varies. A review of 30 studies concluded that the average was around 3.4 milliliters (ml), with some studies finding amounts as high as 4.99 ml or as low as 2.3 ml.[6] In a study with Swedish and Danish men, a prolonged interval between ejaculations caused an increase of the sperm count in the semen but not an increase of its amount.[12]

Trust those scandinavians to know whats going on.

[Dani]

Oops wrong thread

[bower]

same thing happens to me, ive had 3 punts now and 3 non finishes! 
with me i think its the women who really dont seem to want to be there, thats an instant turn off for me and when theyve turned up and not what u expected them to look like.
after each one ive said never again but in truth ill keep trying and keep looking for someone who gives a good gfe

[ForrestGump]

same thing happens to me, ive had 3 punts now and 3 non finishes! 
with me i think its the women who really dont seem to want to be there, thats an instant turn off for me and when theyve turned up and not what u expected them to look like.
after each one ive said never again but in truth ill keep trying and keep looking for someone who gives a good gfe

That sucks, bower.

I hope you find a solution to the problem soon.

Perhaps some of the content in this thread will help you?

Good luck 

[bower]

hope so forrest, living in the arse end of nowhere doesnt help either, havin to travel or pay a fortune and then a shit punt really guts u

[Jim Panzee]

I dont normally get anxiety before a punt. It's normally when Ive just walked into the room and sat down on the bed I think OOH FUCK  then I calm down a bit.

[ForrestGump]

For me it was finding the perfect GFE... Lots of kissing, very intimate and made to feel completely at ease

Well, AV, I was initially sceptical but now admit you were spot on with your prescribed remedy. 

Credit also to my gfe service provider, Nicole. https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=35598.0