I’m 25 and interested in getting myself a sugar mum / mummy since I’m broke. I’m fairly fit, work out. Can anyone suggest any website or apps or generally how to go about finding myself a sugar mum / mummy? Any help would be appreciated thanks in advance
As some people here who thinks that finding a sugar mama is impossible, the matter of fact a young, straight guy being a sugar baby does happen. Of course male sugar babies does not happen that much as female sugar babies but it does happen. Also with the amount of single mature ladies being on a rise or expected to be on the rise in the near future, more and more single, mature ladies will be looking for either a high value guy at her age or young attractive guy for a boy toy who can rock her world under the sheets.
If you want to do this here is link to playboy article that explains how To Become a Male Sugar Baby [https://www.playboy.com/read/dear-playboy-advisor-i-want-to-be-a-male-sugar-baby].
They is also a couple of youtube videos about this same topic though that could help you:
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What can you offer ladies? Are you good at conversation? Able to talk about subjects, or keen to learn about things you don't currently know? Can you empathise with women? Do you know what to do/say when she's had a terrible day? Or a good day? Are you able to make women feel at ease? Can you easily connect to them? Are you a good listener?
What's your dress sense and hygeine like? Daily/twice daily showers? Clean clothes (including pants & socks) every day? No frays or holes, not scruffy? Tidy hair? Good clean unstained teeth? Well kept beard or fresh shaved? Smell nice? Clipped and filed nails? TOEnails??
What's your sex techniques like? Are you good (I mean REALLY good) at cunnilingus? Do you know where the erogenous zones are? What about the G-spot? Can you give good massages? Are you willing to spend plenty of time on giving pleasure, knowing there's a possibility that your cock won't even leave your pants, let alone get wet? Can you maintain an erection for longer than a few minutes, or can you get repeated erections if not? Can you actually fuck for more than a few minutes without getting tired/bored? Are you willing to explore and learn how to make THAT PARTICULAR woman orgasm?
Would you be able to do all the above with someone you wouldn't usually fancy? As in old(er)? Fat? Not your usual type?
That said, what CatBBW mentioned above, what the playboy article or youtube points out about being a male sugar baby is that they are a couple of things you need to trick off in your list before entering this space. First off websites like Seeking arrangement, Ashley Madison or AW profile need to be created. Maybe you will need to setup a tinder account (or other dating sites) and set your dating range to 35 + year olds females. If you’re not going to do the online thing then you can do the old fashioned way by going to 5 star hotel bars, high end restaurants/bars/Cafes’s, high end gyms, airports (e.g. booking flights in first class), fashion shows, working at high end shops/bars/restaurants or going to high end events/parties where rich/posh people tend to go to attract such rich mature ladies by flirting with her and complimenting her looks. That said I don’t know if those methods work in 2021.
One thing to point out is the location. You will very unlikely find a sugar mama let say in Kingston upon Hull, Blackpool, North East Lincolnshire, Burnley, Mansfield or Great Yarmouth. You will have to travel to the major cities in the UK to increase your chance to find a sugar mama. So being in high end places in cities like Manchester, London, and Edinburgh or even in smaller cities/towns like Oxford or Cambridge to find your sugar mama. As someone mentioned you may have to go to another country were sugar mama’s is popular to find a sugar mama like Japan, Dubai or USA.
As CatBBW pointed out above is true. You need to be available to have a good conversation, have interesting topics to talk about (by the way don’t talk about politics or religion as this can be a turn off for her) , have a couple of interesting hobbies to make yourself interesting, don’t treat her like her mother (e.g. thinking she will pay for everything), be able to make a woman feel good around you, have a good dress sense (e.g invest one or two tailored suits from retailers like Bonobos or Suitsupply), have good table manners/Etiquette, have good hygiene, have a clean haircut or tidy Beard when meeting your sugar mama, yes wearing a nice fragrance around her is a must and knowing the best upscale bars in the city so that your friends don’t know you’re a sugar baby and to impress her. As the playboy article mentioned you will need to spend money to make money for this hobby. As for knowing how to dress well go to fashion blogs on reddit or watch youtube videos from guys like alpha M, gentleman's gazette, real men real style and etc…..
But most important tip is that you need to have is you’re fitness being at top form, your skills in the bedroom being above average and lasting longer in the bedroom than average guy. Like others mentioned you will need to be fit. Not just going to the gym 2 days a week doing 30 minutes sessions just so you can be fairly fit but you need to have at least 8%-11% body fat with washboard abs. Therefore going to the gym 5 days per week doing cardio for stamina, having a great diet and lift weights for building muscle.
Next you need to love cunnilingus (or pleasing her for that matter) and have big enough dick to please her. If you don’t like eating pussy or have a small dick then forget being a sugar baby. That said you will need to last long in the bed so doing Kegel PC exercises and again going to the gym helps. You will need to be a good learner and listener to your sugar mama so that you can please her in the bedroom. CatBBW has mentioned others above so read that. Remember your body and sexual stamina are worth more to this woman than you may think. Your sugar mama aren’t here paying for regular guy as she can get that for free at any bar/restaurant/café from any desperate thirsty guy . End of the day you need to be a guy that has the 666's/top % of guys who know how to please a woman and make her cum hard.
I would not recommend selling your body for money. It will not be as glamourous as you think it will be.
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It's also big in Japan. I don't know about the UK though.
Your best bet would be to become a male stripper or chat up middle aged women that you think are well off and hope they sponsor you. Personally, I would rather be broke than have an older female trying to tongue me down for the need of £££££.
You might end up like this guy.
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That said as Payyourwaymate as mentioned above, do you want to do this? Unlike being a Punter, you most likely won’t be seeing most attractive ladies all the time. Most ladies in their 40’s aren’t the most attractive and unlikely you will be banging an attractive mature lady with Brandi Love Barbie Stroker, Cory Chase, Lara Latex, Alexis Fawx, Mona Wales, Aubrey Black, Carly G, Holly Kiss, Mckenzie Lee, Josephine James or Cassie Bender looks. The question is can you perform with an unattractive sugar mama? Just watch Payyourwaymate video link, though I would not mind fucking that mob boss wife at the end of that video
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Also you need to be careful as these sugar mamas can controlling/psychopath and want to control your life. Such sugar mamas can try to mess up your personally life and contact your family. So have an exit strategy and don’t completely depend on her for everything like you rent or paying off your student debt. Also be careful if the sugar mama is married or has a boyfriend as you don’t want to mess with another man’s woman if things go south. Also from what I heard you can’t have any other relationships outside your sugar mama. So if you have a girlfriend or you have meet a girl you really like and want to make your girlfriend then either your sugar mama relationship ends or your relationship with you partner ends. You can have you cake and eat it.
End of the day the biggest question is will you trade your dignity, mental health and integrity banging mostly unattractive mature ladies for $$$$? That will be up for you.
