No one said she's not, up to the individual to asses the risk, not one girl you see don't or hasn't bb'd some one, this is not fairy cakes and tinsel, it's probably one of the darkest and most sinister hobbys ( and most expensive ) you could choose, there's a risk every time you punt, it's about minimising those risks ( you will never be 100% sure ) with out losing all the fun, dj I'm married, and going in to a 10th year of no sex with the o h, so the only risk in my house, is her finding out, and I'm sure you will be letting us know who your hiv mate is BB'ing for all our safety !