Ex-WG on my school run

[Fitzjew]

So long story short, I used to see this petite, young hot girl (EE) a few years back from my neck of the woods. I never took these brothel girls to actually live in the same neighborhood they work in. Anyway, She disappeared for years, last I saw her was about 3 or 4 years ago(reviewed) .

Lo and behold, last week just after droppping my baby at nursery, I saw her on the same her on the same road pushing a baby(makes sense why she disappeared) and I couldn't remember where I had seen her before. It dawned on me the next day after I saw her again and I went to my punting record and the picture is 100% her. Today I was running late and boom, she was on the gate, her kid goes to the same nursery as mine kid 

This girl is top 3 for me, I even looked high and dry to find her again after she left.
I am so tempted to ask her if she is up for a one off punt. This is dangerous territory but my little friend down south has taken over the brains at this point. I am sure I won't appear like a creep approaching &  :scare:she maybe ust 5years or so younger than me.

IS THIS A GOOD IDEA? WHAT WOULD YOU SUGGEST I DO?

[Eazytime]

So long story short, I used to see this petite, young hot girl (EE) a few years back from my neck of the woods. I never took these brothel girls to actually live in the same neighborhood they work in. Anyway, She disappeared for years, last I saw her was about 3 or 4 years ago(reviewed) .

Lo and behold, last week just after droppping my baby at nursery, I saw her on the same her on the same road pushing a baby(makes sense why she disappeared) and I couldn't remember where I had seen her before. It dawned on me the next day after I saw her again and I went to my punting record and the picture is 100% her. Today I was running late and boom, she was on the gate, her kid goes to the same nursery as mine kid 

This girl is top 3 for me, I even looked high and dry to find her again after she left.
I am so tempted to ask her if she is up for a one off punt. This is dangerous territory but my little friend down south has taken over the brains at this point. I am sure I won't appear like a creep approaching &  :scare:she maybe ust 5years or so younger than me.

IS THIS A GOOD IDEA? WHAT WOULD YOU SUGGEST I DO?

I’d suggest you leave her alone. I don’t think anyone would appreciate that

Just my two cents

[Fuzzyduck]

Please take this in the spirit I give it, as friendly advice.

DON'T BE A FUCKING DICK!

She's likely moved on, found some happiness and is building a family. Last thing she needs is some creep raking up the past and making her feel extremely uncomfortable.

[anonymouse72]

Please take this in the spirit I give it, as friendly advice.

DON'T BE A FUCKING DICK!

She's likely moved on, found some happiness and is building a family. Last thing she needs is some creep raking up the past and making her feel extremely uncomfortable.

Absolutely 100% what Fuzzy said. Don't be a c@nt she's probably trying to put it behind her and has moved on.

[Fitzjew]

Please take this in the spirit I give it, as friendly advice.

DON'T BE A FUCKING DICK!

She's likely moved on, found some happiness and is building a family. Last thing she needs is some creep raking up the past and making her feel extremely uncomfortable.

This crossed my mind hence why I am asking for opinions as my clear thinking up top has escaped me. 

[Fuzzyduck]

This crossed my mind hence why I am asking for opinions as my clear thinking up top has escaped me. 

Just crossed your mind? Seriously what is fucking wrong with you?

[Lou2019]

do you want a view from an SP?

[Jimmy The Gent]

I would have thought the absolute maximum you should do is smile (in a friendly, not creepy, way) and nod, the way someone might to a fellow dog walker, although in London that would already mark you out as a weirdo...

But realistically, just leave it, and 100% definitely do not ask her for one final punt 

[lillythesavage]

I would have thought the absolute maximum you should do is smile (in a friendly, not creepy, way) and nod, the way someone might to a fellow dog walker, although in London that would already mark you out as a weirdo...

But realistically, just leave it, and 100% definitely do not ask her for one final punt 

My 77 year old mum in law visited at the weekend for 4 days, and was given a seat on the tube every single time we used it, which was a lot as she took in shows, returning home to Dublin from LCY, a younger chap carried her bag through both airports and delivered her safely to her son.

She remarked the Irish could learn a lot, London is not the faceless unfriendly place some make it out to be. 

In answer to the OP, leave the woman alone, if she still wanted to fuck for money she would advertise, move on fella.

[contentguy]

The summary of your question to me is:

"Is it acceptable to proposition a mother on the school run for paid sex?  Her daughter goes to the same nursery school / is in the same class as mine?"

I do hope that the OP is trolling us, otherwise he seems to be totally fucking undesirable.

 

[Atrueyorkie]

I would have thought the absolute maximum you should do is smile (in a friendly, not creepy, way) and nod, the way someone might to a fellow dog walker, although in London that would already mark you out as a weirdo...

But realistically, just leave it, and 100% definitely do not ask her for one final punt 

+1 this. Remember some just do it part time. You asking to do it one last time may be met with some fierce backlash.

Plus to make matters worse you are bound to see the person constantly, don’t shit where you eat. Imagine getting asked by your kid how you know this person.

You’re playing with fire, think with your head and not the other head.

If she acknowledges you, keep it courjal. If anything let her bring it up that she remembers you from somewhere. Let her initiate if anything.

You saying anything will come across as unwanted and depending on the situation creepy

[Jimmy The Gent]

My 77 year old mum in law visited at the weekend for 4 days, and was given a seat on the tube every single time we used it, which was a lot as she took in shows, returning home to Dublin from LCY, a younger chap carried her bag through both airports and delivered her safely to her son.

She remarked the Irish could learn a lot, London is not the faceless unfriendly place some make it out to be. 

When I was in Dublin with my girlfriend as an 18 year old, we got lost and asked a builder if he knew where our hotel was. He took his hard hat off, took us to his car and drove us there, telling us the best places to go that weren't Temple Bar, while gently taking the piss out of us for being miles away from where we should have been!

[lillythesavage]

When I was in Dublin with my girlfriend as an 18 year old, we got lost and asked a builder if he knew where our hotel was. He took his hard hat off, took us to his car and drove us there, telling us the best places to go that weren't Temple Bar, while gently taking the piss out of us for being miles away from where we should have been!

Dublin has changed a lot over the years, the Irish hospitality is still there, more so out of Dublin, but it is there in London too. Temple Bar can be fun, expensive fun and not for every time, a once off now and then.

[hendrix]

Please take this in the spirit I give it, as friendly advice.

DON'T BE A FUCKING DICK!

She's likely moved on, found some happiness and is building a family. Last thing she needs is some creep raking up the past and making her feel extremely uncomfortable.

+1

[Fitzjew]

Just crossed your mind? Seriously what is fucking wrong with you?

LOL I do not mean just at the point of reading the response. Anyway , I have received sounds of reason from most so THANKS all

[Fitzjew]

s worse you are bound to see the person constantly, don’t shit where you eat. Imagine getting asked by your kid how you know this person.

You’re playing with fire, think with your head and not the other head.

This is why I came here 100%, I needed to know to get opinions and you are right, I will let it be

[daviemac]

This is why I came here 100%, I needed to know to get opinions and you are right, I will let it be

If you were any sort of even half decent bloke you wouldn't have to ask on here, you should know that if she's no longer escorting and has a child you should leave her alone.

There's a similar thread here where some bloke wants to proposition his cleaner.  https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=343489.msg3560330#msg3560330

How would you feel if an escort came up to you outside the nursery and asked if you wanted a booking.    

[Rayray23k]

If you were any sort of even half decent bloke you wouldn't have to ask on here, you should know that if she's no longer escorting and has a child you should leave her alone.

There's a similar thread here where some bloke wants to proposition his cleaner.  https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=343489.msg3560330#msg3560330

How would you feel if an escort came up to you outside the nursery and asked if you wanted a booking.   

He would probably pull out his diary and check.

I'm kidding. I think he gets the point.

[Waterhouse]

Fuck me..!!   No wonder they still have to put “DO NOT DRINK” warnings on bottles of bleach. 

[contentguy]

Fuck me..!!   No wonder they still have to put “DO NOT DRINK” warnings on bottles of bleach. 

    

[Fuzzyduck]

LOL I do not mean just at the point of reading the response. Anyway , I have received sounds of reason from most so THANKS all

No, I meant that those issues and thoughts only just "crossed your mind" rather than setting off huge alarm bells that made you slap yourself in the face and call yourself a twat. I believe you understand that other people think it's an appalling idea but you give no indication of understanding why they think that. Your compass is seriously bent.

[PLeisure]

Fuck me..!!   No wonder they still have to put “DO NOT DRINK” warnings on bottles of bleach. 

No, I meant that those issues and thoughts only just "crossed your mind" rather than setting off huge alarm bells that made you slap yourself in the face and call yourself a twat. I believe you understand that other people think it's an appalling idea but you give no indication of understanding why they think that. Your compass is seriously bent.

Right? !!

I read the OP soon after it was posted and had to step away. Couldn't believe someone would be so stupid as to have to ask.

OP came on here hoping for some validation - he certainly got it 

[JustaPunter]

So long story short, I used to see this petite, young hot girl (EE) a few years back from my neck of the woods. I never took these brothel girls to actually live in the same neighborhood they work in. Anyway, She disappeared for years, last I saw her was about 3 or 4 years ago(reviewed) .

Lo and behold, last week just after droppping my baby at nursery, I saw her on the same her on the same road pushing a baby(makes sense why she disappeared) and I couldn't remember where I had seen her before. It dawned on me the next day after I saw her again and I went to my punting record and the picture is 100% her. Today I was running late and boom, she was on the gate, her kid goes to the same nursery as mine kid 

This girl is top 3 for me, I even looked high and dry to find her again after she left.
I am so tempted to ask her if she is up for a one off punt. This is dangerous territory but my little friend down south has taken over the brains at this point. I am sure I won't appear like a creep approaching &  :scare:she maybe ust 5years or so younger than me.

IS THIS A GOOD IDEA? WHAT WOULD YOU SUGGEST I DO?

You have issues.

[Punterperson1971]

So long story short, I used to see this petite, young hot girl (EE) a few years back from my neck of the woods. I never took these brothel girls to actually live in the same neighborhood they work in. Anyway, She disappeared for years, last I saw her was about 3 or 4 years ago(reviewed) .

Lo and behold, last week just after droppping my baby at nursery, I saw her on the same her on the same road pushing a baby(makes sense why she disappeared) and I couldn't remember where I had seen her before. It dawned on me the next day after I saw her again and I went to my punting record and the picture is 100% her. Today I was running late and boom, she was on the gate, her kid goes to the same nursery as mine kid 

This girl is top 3 for me, I even looked high and dry to find her again after she left.
I am so tempted to ask her if she is up for a one off punt. This is dangerous territory but my little friend down south has taken over the brains at this point. I am sure I won't appear like a creep approaching &  :scare:she maybe ust 5years or so younger than me.

IS THIS A GOOD IDEA? WHAT WOULD YOU SUGGEST I DO?

Wtf are you thinking  and yes you do sound creepy what happens if other moms see you approach her and think your wierd and it gets back to your family.
Ffs really???
 

[billybobsmith]

You never know if she is doing something on the side.  She could have a regular or two, be on SA etc.
That said, as with the general advice here, I wouldn't be approaching her based upon past history and ask her if she's up for some fun.
At the very least, maybe a hello and see if anything, over time, comes from that.

No idea if she would still recognise the op, and either be freaked out, or what around him.

 

[Liverpool]

Unless there's good reason to interact, and no, propositioning them isn't one, I avoid all contact with SP's I've seen out and about. They have their private lives too and so that should be respected. As others have said, OP, you're an idiot for even thinking this would be a good idea.

[Shagswell2001]

So long story short, I used to see this petite, young hot girl (EE) a few years back from my neck of the woods. I never took these brothel girls to actually live in the same neighborhood they work in. Anyway, She disappeared for years, last I saw her was about 3 or 4 years ago(reviewed) .

Lo and behold, last week just after droppping my baby at nursery, I saw her on the same her on the same road pushing a baby(makes sense why she disappeared) and I couldn't remember where I had seen her before. It dawned on me the next day after I saw her again and I went to my punting record and the picture is 100% her. Today I was running late and boom, she was on the gate, her kid goes to the same nursery as mine kid 

This girl is top 3 for me, I even looked high and dry to find her again after she left.
I am so tempted to ask her if she is up for a one off punt. This is dangerous territory but my little friend down south has taken over the brains at this point. I am sure I won't appear like a creep approaching &  :scare:she maybe ust 5years or so younger than me.

IS THIS A GOOD IDEA? WHAT WOULD YOU SUGGEST I DO?

She probably won't even remember you. You were just another faceless punter and the only interest she had in you was your cash. Leave the girl alone, she has moved on, so should you.

[hunkybc]

Do not be a creepy psycho. Leave the girl alone. Also do not create any issues for your kid socially.

[marc_hotsteppa]

+1 this. Remember some just do it part time. You asking to do it one last time may be met with some fierce backlash.

Plus to make matters worse you are bound to see the person constantly, don’t shit where you eat. Imagine getting asked by your kid how you know this person.

You’re playing with fire, think with your head and not the other head.

If she acknowledges you, keep it courjal. If anything let her bring it up that she remembers you from somewhere. Let her initiate if anything.

You saying anything will come across as unwanted and depending on the situation creepy

Exactly this, especially the part in bold.

[spiralnotebook]

Hope you`re keeping up the maintenance payments  .

[Stevelondon]

It’s a no from me.
Remember the good times you once had and allow the woman to move on.
As others have said. If she wants to return to her SP life. Then you may find her in that environment.

More importantly. What’s this stuff about London v Dublin

Being a bloke from up North who has lived most of his life in the Smoke. Plus I have been to Dublin 
Makes me an expert.

[whoya.kiddin]

If you were any sort of even half decent bloke you wouldn't have to ask on here, you should know that if she's no longer escorting and has a child you should leave her alone.

There's a similar thread here where some bloke wants to proposition his cleaner.  https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=343489.msg3560330#msg3560330

How would you feel if an escort came up to you outside the nursery and asked if you wanted a booking.   

Agreed.  The right of anonymity and confidentiality, at the time and in the future, for both parties in an escorting transaction is fundamental.  It is only in the most extreme circumstances - where there is a real risk of physical danger to punters or SP's - that we should entertain exceptions.  The OP should consider how he would feel if a previous provider were to bring up his punting history around his family or work colleagues.

[big-al93]

To be quite honest, even if she does recognise you and she starts to speak to you, even if she started escorting again and you found the advert. DON'T DO IT!!! Bad idea. Far too close to home, unless you and the childs mother are no longer together, but even then think very carefully.

[Hobbit]

I think the OP is trolling and we are just entertaining him.

[PhelTGrik]

Don't be a dick.
If this isn't a troll, I will perhaps be a little dramatic and advise that you consider that what you're proposing can very easily result in plod being summoned to award you an accusation of sexual harassment. Consider also that with what you've told us thus far you read as a man who is proposing to solicit services from someone who happens to be present at a nursery or travelling to/from one.

Not a good look and this really shouldn't need to be explained to you.

[PLeisure]

I think the OP is trolling and we are just entertaining him.

I'm inclined to agree.

Which makes OP even more of a loser 

[jsparky]

Fuck me..!!   No wonder they still have to put “DO NOT DRINK” warnings on bottles of bleach. 

I bet he is a Trumper, just drink the cool aid. 

[LLPunting]

Soliciting is ILLEGAL.

On the flip, say you saw someone you used to bully at school, or they bullied you, would you appreciate it if they walked up to you and picked a fight for old times sake?  How about someone you used to play doctors and nurses with just randomly approaches you and loudly accuses you of being a pervert or tells you that what you did wasn't actually consensual?

How easy would it be to find (and explain) a need for a new nursery to your child's mother?

[EUGENE TACKLEBERRY]

do you want a view from an SP?

I think the boys have got it covered 

[LLPunting]

I think the boys have got it covered 

Hey Eugene, can you get me Callahan's number?

[bops909]

So long story short, I used to see this petite, young hot girl (EE) a few years back from my neck of the woods.

 I saw her on the same her on the same road pushing a baby(makes sense why she disappeared) and I couldn't remember where I had seen her before.

 Today I was running late and boom, she was on the gate, her kid goes to the same nursery as mine kid 

This girl is top 3 for me, I even looked high and dry to find her again after she left.

Moving the discussion on slightly - you are going to have to consider that the two of you will have some interaction if your kids are in the same nursery.

If she makes eye contact with you as you're doing the pick up or your kids are in the same Christmas show or become friends.

I'd have a think about that and how you're going to deal with it. Are you going to blank her, make small talk or are you going to have a chat?

The curiosity is going to kill you. It'll be hard not to want to find out who she is and what her circumstances are.

Maybe she's a single Mum?

[LLPunting]

Moving the discussion on slightly - you are going to have to consider that the two of you will have some interaction if your kids are in the same nursery.

If she makes eye contact with you as you're doing the pick up or your kids are in the same Christmas show or become friends.

I'd have a think about that and how you're going to deal with it. Are you going to blank her, make small talk or are you going to have a chat?

The curiosity is going to kill you. It'll be hard not to want to find out who she is and what her circumstances are.

Maybe she's a single Mum?

 

Don't encourage his fantasies.   Unless you see her current advertising of services or she recklessly propositions you (illegal), she's a civvy, respect her as such.

[rebelscum]

Moving the discussion on slightly - you are going to have to consider that the two of you will have some interaction if your kids are in the same nursery.

If she makes eye contact with you as you're doing the pick up or your kids are in the same Christmas show or become friends.

I'd have a think about that and how you're going to deal with it. Are you going to blank her, make small talk or are you going to have a chat?

The curiosity is going to kill you. It'll be hard not to want to find out who she is and what her circumstances are.

Maybe she's a single Mum?

He knows who she is, mate-hence why there's the issue in the first place.  As LLP says, don't encourage his fantasies.  From someone who is supposedly an experienced punter, you seem to have as loose a grip on reality as the OP does. 

[Alanroy]

Well the answers here seem quite conclusive  hopefully OP will heed the advice, but it seems any further chance encounters will just excite him...

[Fitzjew]

Well the answers here seem quite conclusive  hopefully OP will heed the advice, but it seems any further chance encounters will just excite him...

Considering you read all replies, you would see what I will do(or not do in this case) 

[Fitzjew]

you seem to have as loose a grip on reality as the OP does.

If a punter cannot call upon other seasoned punters for a 2nd opinion rather than just act of something is LOOSE GRIP ON REALITY? 

To clarify to everyone. I will not approach her, I will keep it moving and just admire from far as one with pumping blood would(unless she does approach me, of course).

THANK You for responding gents.

[Markc]

As most of said asking her for a one punt is a bad idea. If you see her at the school gate, smile and say hello and see what her reaction is. Also most of us on here would say don’t punt on your doorstep as you could get caught by someone you know.

You could always check Adultwork for the local area or any parlours around you and see if she has started working again and then make a booking.

Many years ago l used to see a woman on a regular basis at a parlour in a nearby town. They she left and the parlour would not tell me where she had gone. Which was the right thing for them to do but about 2 years later l saw a picture on another parlours website and the description was very similar but she changed her working name. So l made a booking and luckily for me it was the same women. She was pleased to see me and told me the other place had became a bad place to work and they started to take a bigger cut of the hourly rate but without putting up the prices. So she left and tried to get contact details of some of her regulars but they won’t give them to her. Again that was the right thing for them to do.

I still see her today as she is independent and has a profile on AW and l visit her home rather than the serviced appointments she uses for some of her bookings.

[LLPunting]

As most of said asking her for a one punt is a bad idea. If you see her at the school gate, smile and say hello and see what her reaction is. Also most of us on here would say don’t punt on your doorstep as you could get caught by someone you know.

You could always check Adultwork for the local area or any parlours around you and see if she has started working again and then make a booking.

Many years ago l used to see a woman on a regular basis at a parlour in a nearby town. They she left and the parlour would not tell me where she had gone. Which was the right thing for them to do but about 2 years later l saw a picture on another parlours website and the description was very similar but she changed her working name. So l made a booking and luckily for me it was the same women. She was pleased to see me and told me the other place had became a bad place to work and they started to take a bigger cut of the hourly rate but without putting up the prices. So she left and tried to get contact details of some of her regulars but they won’t give them to her. Again that was the right thing for them to do.

I still see her today as she is independent and has a profile on AW and l visit her home rather than the serviced appointments she uses for some of her bookings.

Have you reviewed her here?  Be honest now 

[EUGENE TACKLEBERRY]

Hey Eugene, can you get me Callahan's number?

[victor989]

Don't do it. If you did, she likely to report you for harassing her.