Have been on there about 15 years but not on all the time. I only bother when I'm away from home.
Met 4 or 5 couples and had plenty of fun with them. Met a couple of ladies too, one was married and got a bit heavy for me but a good fuck. The other was single, big lass and not great looking but a dirty bitch. The hardest and fastest I've ever pumped a woman up the arse and she loved it.
Once you get some good verifications you get some interest. If I was actually single I might have a fair bit of fun but married life holds me back.
And yes, women get a 100-200 messages a day.