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[thethreefs]

Here's a new experience for me,
I had a punt recently and while the girl was objectively a great looker and provided the services with what i'd call great enthusiasm I just couldn't get excited.
Struggled to keep the wee chap hard and had to call it at the end of the time without shooting.

Now i'm not worried or anything, and just chalk it up to another experience in life but it has made me think.
I've been put off punting a few times before, usual reasons being shit service or the wg not being 'into' it. but its never been me that's the problem!

Not looking for advice as such, more looking to hear about similar happening to you lads? 

[Clattypats]

Here's a new experience for me,
I had a punt recently and while the girl was objectively a great looker and provided the services with what i'd call great enthusiasm I just couldn't get excited.
Struggled to keep the wee chap hard and had to call it at the end of the time without shooting.

Now i'm not worried or anything, and just chalk it up to another experience in life but it has made me think.
I've been put off punting a few times before, usual reasons being shit service or the wg not being 'into' it. but its never been me that's the problem!

Not looking for advice as such, more looking to hear about similar happening to you lads? 

I totally see your point...Everyone's perception of how good looking a WG is will differ....For me she has to be good/sexy looking, but also have that sexy persona ...A bit of dirty talk during, helps..

Some punters will maybe be into what they class as "models".. I've seen a few that could be maybe classed as that..doesn't mean I've had the time of my life...A POS, yes..but not the best POS I've experienced..

I will only repeat visit girls that to me are sexy as fuck,  and do it for me...

[willie loman]

I found early on that fucking a complete stranger within minutes of meeting them, wasn't working for me, hence I hang around the saunas, chat to the girls in the lounge, sometimes only picking a girl after ive seen and chatted to her several times. Then when you go in the room, you are both in a way looking forward to it. Some girls prefer to go into the room with someone they know a wee bit as well. Just my opinion.

[allypally]

This also happened to me recently, girl was nice looking but just couldn't get into the flow if things.
I think if you look forward to the punt too much and expect things to go like what's in your head, it can be disappointing if that makes sense.

As said, mine was recent and would probably be more embarrassed putting up the review!!

Thank fuck for Pornhub when I got home lol

[rathbone]

I found early on that fucking a complete stranger within minutes of meeting them, wasn't working for me

Agreed, it can be a strange thing to get your head around.  A quick "getting to know you" chat can help when you arrive (although I realise some people just want to get on with the action immediately), and likewise sometimes things click better on a second or third visit as you know each other a little bit better.

[auldie63]

Surely this is why we have regular go to girls. You know what you both like and are comfortable in each others company.
Don't get me wrong, there is still the excitement of the 1st book with a girl. but that is why we call it punting, Unless you are a guy from Tazmania or other wanker you cannot guarantee what the meet will be like, or indeed if it's going to happen at all. 

[Bobbins1973]

Same with me, she was stunning but just felt that it was purely going through the motions and couldn't get into the swing of things - was it the girl was out of my league, fake moaning or the stress of going to an hotel for an incall and the room being very cramped ?

[Harrymetsally]

Same with me, she was stunning but just felt that it was purely going through the motions and couldn't get into the swing of things - was it the girl was out of my league, fake moaning or the stress of going to an hotel for an incall and the room being very cramped ?

Yeah if you're stressed about going to a hotel then that kill your boner. 

[Clattypats]

Yeah if you're stressed about going to a hotel then that kill your boner.

Or maybe there will be a hotel where the room isn't very cramped..  ..if you do incalls with Wgs..and it's not at their premises..Deal with it ! ..

[S.X. MacHine]

Yes, I had a similar thing happen to me last year, with a very pretty, petite South American WG. She was immaculately turned out and friendly; the flat was equally lovely. Yet I couldn't get into the action. Suspect her half hearted approach to oral on me had something to do with it.
It happens.

[myothernameis]

Here's a new experience for me, Not looking for advice as such, more looking to hear about similar happening to you lads? 

Just wondering how old you roughly are, as I think the older you get you appreciate, the more older or even mature escorts

In general I look at the escorts photos and if I see something I like, I message her, and what I like, and with in a few days, I'm seeing the escort, and never had any issue with getting it up, and over the years have pick some right mingers

There was one escort called Mary, and she worked from the high flats in Royston road, now do any of you guys recognize this escort, don't think she works anymore, but from what I remember she was cheap as fuck £50 per hour

[chinafan]

For it to work for me, there has to be an element of chemistry. As I've gotten older, I think my radar for the mechanical, going through the motions vibe has gotten more sensitive.

The punts where, even though the girl was "hot" and "sexy", but I couldn't get into it, were because of the lack of genuine chemistry. I had a long anticipated punt with the fabled Priya91 a few months ago, and while I found her objectively very sexy - and told her so - I didn't get off on it as much as I wanted to as I felt she was (very expertly) going through the motions.

[Sadams]

I also struggle to fuck a girl, however good looking she is, within minutes of walking through the door which is why most of my meetings I just lie back and take a blow job. If I feel up for it I may then fuck her but always end with CIM. Trying to keep it up with a girl I don't know who may clearly be faking it just doesn't work.

[Harrymetsally]

For it to work for me, there has to be an element of chemistry. As I've gotten older, I think my radar for the mechanical, going through the motions vibe has gotten more sensitive.

The punts where, even though the girl was "hot" and "sexy", but I couldn't get into it, were because of the lack of genuine chemistry. I had a long anticipated punt with the fabled Priya91 a few months ago, and while I found her objectively very sexy - and told her so - I didn't get off on it as much as I wanted to as I felt she was (very expertly) going through the motions.

Yeah these days I have to get back into that 20 year old mindset where I'm like 'you're going to suck my dick, I'm going to fuck you then I'm going to shoot my load down your gob'.  However my regular girls have no problem getting my pecker hard, once I have sexual confidence in them that they will get me off.

BTW has that asian girl in catchcart gone now Chinafan?

[chinafan]

Yeah these days I have to get back into that 20 year old mindset where I'm like 'you're going to suck my dick, I'm going to fuck you then I'm going to shoot my load down your gob'.  However my regular girls have no problem getting my pecker hard, once I have sexual confidence in them that they will get me off.

BTW has that asian girl in catchcart gone now Chinafan?

Not sure mate, I haven't been in contact with her for a month or so, so haven't checked or been interested, I'm afraid. She did say something about her work up north taking her back there at some point.

[Jock D]

There was one escort called Mary, and she worked from the high flats in Royston road, now do any of you guys recognize this escort, don't think she works anymore, but from what I remember she was cheap as fuck £50 per hour

Pretty sure I know who you are talking about, and I doubt very much that she's still working...she must be in her 60's by now. She actually 'graduated' from the street scene...with the advent of the internet & AW. She wasn't great looking, but did provide a gvfm service as she was cheap.

Btw, the flat she worked from was also her home...so if your still curious, you could always go and give her a chap.