Can anyone offer guidance on the whole squirting thing? Ok, so you apply g spot pressure, i do a side to side rub, like a clit, which together with a nice tongue on the clit will bring on an orgasm, what do you have to do to take it to squirting?
Now squirting is a whole other area from just bringing a girl to orgasm. There have been some long threads on this subject, not just how to achieve it, but whether it is actually a con.
My opinion, for what it's worth, is that like the facial, it is a product of the porn industry, where there seems to be a requirement actually see the male ejaculation happening, so that facials (or "the money shot") are a far better way of viewing the final climactic point of the scene than the internal climax. This desire seems somehow to have transferred to actually seeing an ejaculation from women, where there is no physiological reason to suppose that they can. I don't dispute that some women can produce a small amount of clear fluid at the point of climax and I have had this happen literally a handful of times with WGs, however the huge amounts of fluid propelled across the room is quite clearly urine and in porn films you can often actually see it coming from the urethra rather than the vagina.
To get back to the point, I think there is no point in trying to perfect a particular technique to make a woman squirt. If she is going to produce that small amount of clear fluid as she climaxes, she will anyway; if she is going to soak you, the bed and the room, she will have drunk copious amounts of water so that her pee is clear and not smelly and she will piss on you when she wants, probably according to if you have paid for it rather than anything that you do to her. I did see one WG (discussed recently in the EM thread about punting in the 1990s) who when I fucked her from behind over her massage table had to ask me to stop a number of times because she had an involuntary desire to pee, but if we changed position it used to disappear so obviously something to do with me putting pressure on her bladder in that particular position.
I've gone back to the SAAFE thread that started me thinking in the first place and there are now actually more positive comments about fingering, and the main complaint seems to be that most clients just don't know how to do it. Like facials and squirting, I suspect that as for most of us our only experience of watching others having sex is porn, which is often far from the reality of real sex between a man and a woman, being much more slanted towards the male perspective.
