Question about a problem with a regular WG (advice needed)

[pbrown355]

Agree with all the "move on" messages for all the reasons already stated.
A thought that has kept going through my mind on the possibility of EAS is that in the 1st post the OP says he was seeing her every week or 2. Later he plays it down by saying it was every 3-4 weeks or so. And no review-OP we were not born yesterday-stop kidding yourself.
For all the possibilities and probabilities discussed, in such matters you must always take the view that any apparent reluctance to see you should be taken as time to move on. Any other course of action leads to the issue we are all discussing.
The OP has said he will move on. I hope he does for his own sake but mainly for hers.

[petermisc]

I've seen her about 15 times, i usually went to see her once every week or two.

I was seeing her once every 3-4 weeks.

Big difference - seems like the OP isn't being completely honest with himself or us about how often he was seeing this girl.  15 visits at a rate of every week or so, say 3 a month, would mean that he has been seeing her near-weekly for 5 months or so.  This seems a bit obsessive.  Add to that he can't find any other girl who comes up to her standard, and his obvious desperation to see her, and it is clear that he has become obsessed by this girl.  He might not think so, but I suspect that she does, and is why she is limiting his visits.

As someone else said, he should give her a break for at least three months, before trying again.  In that time, he may have got over his obsession, and she may be happy to see him again on an occasional basis.

[BillT]

Just send a happy new year message and one that says i wish you all the best bla bla bla

If you ever have availability and are in the area do get in touch

If she does - engage

To the OP

DO NOT DO THIS!

FFS!

[Thephoenix]

Has anyone mentioned move on?

[badsin]

Has anyone mentioned move on?

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Most punters (including myself) have had sp's they thought were the best, and for a multitude of reasons, this comes to an end.
Keep the happy memories, possibly take a punting break, and move.
End this thread as no good seems to be coming from it, and has been a topic numerous times previous 

[Blackpool Rock]

Well the reason I messaged her from a new number, is that I did not think there is a problem with me doing so to be honest, Since I'd never had any problems in any of our bookings and that she never explicitly said no over text or ignored me, she would always reply back with some excuse and I'd say if you get a cancellation let me know. So sometimes she would fit me in last minute instead of a cancellation but never accept the time I initially asked or advanced bookings from a few days before. If she did express feelings, I would never see her again if that were to happen anyway, I would never date a WG. I was just confused because she said she had no problems at all with me booking and would tell me if that was the case, but has never said so by text or otherwise. I guess I can either ask by text if there was a problem I'm not aware of, or just never see her again, and I would of course respect her wishes. And to answer your question, no I have not reviewed her and won't, there's no reason to anyway she is well-known on this site.

I'm late to the party and don't have the time to read the whole thread so it may have already been said however -

I've never messaged a girl from another number but can understand why someone may do this to try and see if the WG was specifically avoiding them or actually not available.
Having done this and got a booking I think you have your answer in that she doesn't appear to want to see You for whatever reason.
Messaging her again from a 3rd number to get a booking would just seem stalkerish, don't do it as I think she would be right to get freaked out by it.
She's told you that she had no issue seeing you and yet you struggle to get a booking even in advance however got a booking on another number, telling someone face to face you don't want to see them again may be quite hard for her especially if she doesn't feel comfortable with you for some reason or is perhaps wary or a little scared of you for some reason 
Contact via another number simply backs any concern up that she may have, let's not forget these girls are taking their lives in their hands meeting up with strangers for sex and every few years the news throws up a case where a bad egg decides to start killing prostitutes
Even telling you by text is an issue as she knows that you know where she lives or works from.

Perhaps as suggested she has developed feeling for you and is trying to put some distance between you however you also say there is zero chance of a relationship with a WG.

At the end of the day whether it's down to feelings for you or some other reason it's fairly clear she doesn't want to see you again so just leave it at that and move on, I know it's hard to walk away from a good service as they can be hard to find / replace but that's the game we are in.

The only possible reason for contacting her again would be to tell her you have picked up she isn't comfortable seeing you for some reason therefore you're not going to try booking her again however i'd also apologise if it was something you had done to cause this.
She may just leave it at that (or may have blocked your number), alternatively it may provide her with an opportunity to actually give you a reason 

[Fkk]

James it quite clear from the forum is to move on.

But don’t forget to review please. It helps all us punters to make decisions about our next punt.

[Hobbit]

So I have a bit of an issue I'd like feedback and advice from you guys. I have this WG who I'm a regular of, I've seen her about 15 times, i usually went to see her once every week or two. Sessions are always great, and very professional with no fluff, which is how I like it. Never had an issue at all, infact always left happy, she was very accommodating and nice, she provides an excellent service in certain things that not many WGs can do and is also attractive, which is the main reason why I've went back many times. Now here is where is gets weird, The last 4-5 times I've tried to set up bookings, It would always be a hassle to arrange one, and it felt like she would only book me in last minute when she had a cancellation. So one time, I decide to use a different number, set the booking up very easily within seconds and went there. Once I went in, I could tell she looked a bit surprised or even a bit uncomfortable. Then she made comments about how I used a different number. I just made up some excuse, and asked her if she had a problem with me being here and I would leave of course if she doesn't want to have the booking with me. She replied of course not, stating that she just likes to know who is coming is all. Anyway she seemed completely fine with it after all and the session was great as usual, in fact she was even nicer and more accommodating than normal. Towards the end of the session, I decided i wanted to clarify things, so I asked her explicitly after getting dressed if she has a problem with me being a client and If it's okay to book her again in the future. She said of course I am okay with you being a client and book me again whenever you want, and If I didn't want you to be a client I would let you know without hesitation. That confirmed it for me that it was okay to book her again.

Now, I decided to leave it for a few weeks, and got the itch to book her again, since she made it very clear she had no problems with me at all booking her and the session was great. I try to contact her a few times, the same behaviour returns, she starts saying she is fully booked for the day etc.. So i try messaging her on the same day using a different number minutes later, and she says she is available and asks what time she would like me to return. This confused me, since the last session she clearly said I can book her again anytime and she had no problem at all with me.

Now like i mentioned before, She provides one of the best services. I wanted advice on what to do next, the way I see it i have two options, either to set up a booking with a new number, show up and ask her again and clarify if there's a problem, or the other option is to just never attempt to book her again. I've never had any issues with any WG in the past, I am in my 30s, in-shape and always get positive responses. So advice would be great on what to do in the situation, since this is a weird one.

These hookers only care about their business and if you're enjoying the sex so much that you want to see her twice a week then most likely other punters are too enjoying it just as much. She probably has enough regulars now to turn you down and whether you can believe it or not but she has turned you down. You should never let a woman dictate your life! It's that simple, once you become pussy whipped then you become her slave. Best thing to do would be move on and see other girls and don't just have one regular, have lots.

[PilotMan]

Has anyone mentioned move on?

If they did I must have missed it 

[versace]

James it quite clear from the forum is to move on.

But don’t forget to review please. It helps all us punters to make decisions about our next punt.

Agreed, sharing is caring and all that. I might even travel to London to see this lass, the last time I had any action in there was about 8 years ago, one of them Soho walk ups with a cheap as chips Lithuanian BBW, I was pretty wasted though. I remember going down on her

[PilotMan]

OP most on here have said for you to move on for various reasons and bits of it all are probably right. But I’ll be more blunt. You seem to think you’re a perfect punter and she owes you a reason why. Have you truly ever stopped to think why? Just maybe you’ve pushed boundaries (aside from the very wrong borderline stalking of using different phones to trick her). Maybe you’ve been too aggressive, stayed too long, have a smelly cock, smelly breath, shitty arse, maybe you’ve expressed racist views, fucked her too hard? Any one of those reasons could be just as likely, especially as you clearly show a clear lack of self reflection.

Or it could be as simple as you wear red y-fronts and it gives her the ick. But the overriding factor here is for you to show her the respect she deserves and leave her alone as it’s abundantly clear she doesn’t want to see you, yet is too scared to tell you. Maybe because she’s scared of you or maybe because she is kind and doesn’t like upsetting people with uncomfortable truths.

Leave her alone and look at yourself honestly and truthfully. And learn from this.

All of the above.

Plus, she may have a boyfriend who is aware of who she punts and was uncomfortable with the amount of times you visited her and you were getting to stalkerish / EAS / needy.

[Strawberry]

It's the using a different number that has me feeling uncomfortable, yes SPs can be booked up particularly if a specific time or day is required. Yes it is in my experience possible to see a client every 2 weeks without any issues, I've done it and the regular simply asked me to reserve the same time slot for the next 6-12 months (with agreement that if something very important arose, I took a holiday, trip away or something similar I could cancel (but I made keeping that commitment a priority)) so no hassles or risk of being fully booked or booked at his required time.

The sense I get from the OP based on gut feeling reading his post is that this has gotten messy. Something not as straightforward as an organised regular making a booking.

[Charlie Chalk]

Think I’ll go out on a limb here and suggest the OP moves on 

Seriously though, the problem I have with the OP is that he can’t grasp the fact that it was wrong to circumvent the WG’s screening by using another number. It doesn’t matter WHY she was making it difficult for him to get a booking, simply that she had a reason. He should simply have taken the hint instead of acting like a butthurt teenager. Getting her to accept a booking via subterfuge and deception is wrong wrong wrong and it’s disturbing that he can’t seem to understand/accept that.

[Doc Holliday]

The sense I get from the OP based on gut feeling reading his post is that this has gotten messy. Something not as straightforward as an organised regular making a booking.

That's my 'gut feeling' too based on years of reading "why won't my regular see me anymore" threads.

Many moons ago, my OH asked my opinion on whether she should see a guy who had messaged her to arrange a meet and was looking for a "new regular" and that "his old regular wouldn't see him anymore".

I recall the phrase barge pole was in my reply. But of course women asking for advice and heeding it are two different things 

She saw him and it was initially uneventful, until it then very rapidly became clear just how obsessed he still was with his previous regular and that obsession was potentially 'transferable'

[akauya]

It's the using a different number that has me feeling uncomfortable, [...]

Yes, this is it. The WG must freak out every time she gets a call from an unknown number thinking it's the OP "testing" her again.

[pbrown355]

I must be missing something. You guys are talking about visiting her. I didn't notice her link.

[willie loman]

one opinion i personally find absurd, and it crops up from time to time, is the idea that a wg will block you, because she has developed feelings for you, wgs often develop feelings for customers, and hook up with them, if thats what they want, like most sensible adults they try and grab opportunity that comes their way.

my money on this case, is that the guy is hard work, and insists on giving her a 60 minute pounding, or has some choreography demands that the girl cant be arsed with, while few girls want a sexual incompetent, none want  a sexual stakhanovite

[alabama1]

one opinion i personally find absurd, and it crops up from time to time, is the idea that a wg will block you, because she has developed feelings for you, wgs often develop feelings for customers, and hook up with them, if thats what they want, like most sensible adults they try and grab opportunity that comes their way.

my money on this case, is that the guy is hard work, and insists on giving her a 60 minute pounding, or has some choreography demands that the girl cant be arsed with.

I also find this scenario highly unlikely. Surely if this was ever to happen, she would either date you, or exploit you 

[Lucky Luciano]

Sound advice provided-Move On. The Op should avoid looking at her profile and avoid looking at reviews she has received. Presumably the SP will be on AW. The OP could put her on his blacklist but not block her.I recall reading an SP’s views on how to avoid potential EAS;essentially visiting your favourite every 4 months. Easier said than done when you’ve found yourself an SP who provides an excellent service.

[pbrown355]

I've had 4 or 5 WGs over the years who I've visited every 2-3weeks ish. With each of them it lasted for as long as they were escorting then they disappeared. This suggests to me that the OP has done something the SP doesn't like whether he is aware of it or not.
If any of the ladies mentioned above had exhibited even the slightest reluctance to see me I'd never have rung again, just gone looking for her replacement.

[JonasG]

I've had 4 or 5 WGs over the years who I've visited every 2-3weeks ish. With each of them it lasted for as long as they were escorting then they disappeared. This suggests to me that the OP has done something the SP doesn't like whether he is aware of it or not.
If any of the ladies mentioned above had exhibited even the slightest reluctance to see me I'd never have rung again, just gone looking for her replacement.

Indeed.

It takes a lot for an escort to drop a regular like that, which more often than not will be cos of some sort of boundary pushing.

[jeanphillipe]

Link OP ? I'll ask her then tell you if your that curious. 

Take Hendrix and others great advice.

I do get you wanting to know why but she clearly doesn't want to explain.

Like a regular on here used to say...

The Quest Continues ..

[Problem Child]

one opinion i personally find absurd, and it crops up from time to time, is the idea that a wg will block you, because she has developed feelings for you, wgs often develop feelings for customers, and hook up with them, if thats what they want, like most sensible adults they try and grab opportunity that comes their way.

my money on this case, is that the guy is hard work, and insists on giving her a 60 minute pounding, or has some choreography demands that the girl cant be arsed with, while few girls want a sexual incompetent, none want  a sexual stakhanovite

Thanks for the new word Willie 
Was just wondering “why am I reading all of this thread?” when right at the end you pop up with a new one to add to my vocabulary. 

[Bonker]

Many moons ago, my OH asked my opinion on whether she should see a guy who had messaged her to arrange a meet and was looking for a "new regular" and that "his old regular wouldn't see him anymore".

Your other half was (is) a WG?
Don't wish to pry but gotta admit, I am surprised.

[scutty brown]

Your other half was (is) a WG?
Don't wish to pry but gotta admit, I am surprised.

even got her own page on Wiki

External Link/Members Only

[PilotMan]

even got her own page on Wiki

External Link/Members Only

 

[Doc Holliday]

even got her own page on Wiki

External Link/Members Only

Déjà vu with that joke Scutty 

[Doc Holliday]

Your other half was (is) a WG?
Don't wish to pry but gotta admit, I am surprised.

Was (16 years ago) and doesn't have a big nose.

Why surprised?

[scutty brown]

Déjà vu with that joke Scutty 

Sorry, but it's a good joke and mainly a new audience since it was last used

[Georgedaviesok]

Well that's a few minutes of my life I won't get back again. Messaging her from a new number comes across a bit weird/creepy especially when you could have told her it was you prior to the meet. Personally I would have taken the hint. Like countless have said, move on, there's PLENTY of other brasses you can shag although some may be very limited editions!

[Doc Holliday]

Sorry, but it's a good joke and mainly a new audience since it was last used

True.