Got confronted by angry neighbour, rather unpleasant encounter today.

[vt]

Having seen this it has put me and I would imagine many punters off visiting her. Let's hope she moves to a better place soon. Last thing I want is confrontation as I would probably lose my temper and then all hell would brake loose.

It will cost her business if he keeps confronting punters, he also needs to be careful though as he might pick on someone like yourself willing to give it back. 

[RX8 Racer]

Sorry you had this confrontation, nothing like this has happened to me yet.  You probably should have just ignored the bastard and kept on walking.  Did the right thing in letting her know anyway.  Just see another girl next time.

Cheers mate I know now that I should have just walked on, just didn't it coming thats all, we live and learn I guess.

[RX8 Racer]

OP, when approached by people in that situation you don't stop. He could have been asking for a light or to chat about the football but just say politely "sorry, I have to go" and keep moving.

Thank you, lots of good advice from everyone here, much appreciated

[hamchang]

I'm with the neighbour. Too many prossies pick stupid locations and crap apartments because they are cheap. They need to have a bit of common sense about it. Ground floor always, and if possible, not with a communal corridor access. House is better, like a terraced. They also gravitate to places with no parking. In Bristol, the number of times I have been late because they are in some stupid apartment with no parking, on a one way system.

Most of these new build apartment blocks and conversions are shite, so that bloke and his missus will be hearing the creaks and groans all day of people traipsing up the stairs, and then the bang bang bang of shagging all day. To make things worse, he's hearing that and looking at his old hag of a wife getting jealous.

Prossies.... put a bit of thought and care into your location.

If it were me on the stairs getting confronted though, I would say "police business. Please go back inside. Theres been a murder. Stay inside until we tell you its OK to come out"

 

[Marmalade]

Sorry, but seriously, when you start getting harassment, unless you’re a big bruiser, JUST GET OUT OF THERE AS QUICKLY AS POSSIBLE. Don’t bother with smart answers. Don't give them time to position themselves (for instance, to block your exit). Don’t make threats unless you are EXCEEDINGLY confident about being able to win. You have nothing to prove. Don’t look them in the eye.  Just keep your dignity, walk in a straight line straight past them as if they weren’t there.

[bigmanbigman]

Think parking ticket run out got to go is best answer.

[James999]

House is better, like a terraced.

No it's not, everyone will see who's coming and going and nosey neighbours both sides to hear the noises she / you make 

Ground floor flat in a large block is best, there will be people coming and going all day and no one will know which flat visitors are going to, no need for lift or to pass many other flats to get to the pro$$ies one 

[AnthG]

I don’t know what the Muslim demographic is in the area but they have historically started campaigns to harass punters in many areas. I’ve experienced it in Edinburgh and Birmingham — but out of more punts than can be remembered. Just put it down to bad luck and move on to another prossie not in the same stair.

If punter's stay away then she'll lose income, which would not be fair imho.

I am going to say this a different way. If you stay away this guy has won. The OP did not say in the first post this was a Muslim. In my eyes this puts a whole different slant onto it.

I am sick and tired of Muslims sitting there preaching their moralities of stupid things like alcohol and paying for sex when for them its ok to beat their wives and fiddle small children.

My advice now is go and report him to the police. Say he started talking aggressively about Muhammad to you and how he had laid something called a 'Kafeer' down onto the girl in the flat. Tell him you think this is race hatred by him towards a young non-muslim girl sex worker.  Then he will get kicked out of the flat not her. Fuck him the sick twat.

[Type_O_Negative]

It will cost her business if he keeps confronting punters, he also needs to be careful though as he might pick on someone like yourself willing to give it back. 

Confrontation with the punters is a one thing. Another is Police. He could easily call them and they would raid her flat. One WG told me it happened to her and she had to relocate.

[shagmore]

Tell him that you are selling doubt enlacing, or miss sold PPI , is he interested
What a tool to say the least, glad to hear you got out ok

[AnthG]

Confrontation with the punters is a one thing. Another is Police. He could easily call them and they would raid her flat. One WG told me it happened to her and she had to relocate.

A girl told me she was raided too by the police as a rival girl had reported her to the police for running a brothel. The police came pretty sharpish but left after they could see she was working by herself they left without any issue.

She is not breaking any laws if she is working by herself from there.

She may be breaking a tennency agreement but I don't think the police would get into that unless she was breaking any laws.

[Marmalade]

I rather doubt it Anth. How much experience of such situations have you had??? If you say you have, them we can agree to differ. If you haven’t, then I suggest you consider that the guy’s personal safety is paramount, especially in a shit neighbourhood where the police may be loathe to investigate and if the cunt of a neighbour is experienced in such things (as many people in shit neighbourhoods are) he will have three witnesses lined up to say that he was perfectly polite and that the punter was a bit aggressive. A tenner goes a long way in such places. Or if he is Muslim, a ‘brother’ or two will lie for free.

[AnthG]

I rather doubt it Anth. How much experience of such situations have you had??? If you say you have, them we can agree to differ.

No personal experience.

But I think if three random punters totally independent of each other that see this girl do the same thing and claim the same thing, and make the same complaint independently it will look very different than just one.

This girls AW account has been posted on the topic so punters know who she is.

This guy can come along with his three Muslim best mates. But I think it would not stand against three unrelated independent punters complaining about him.

So I still say, complain to the police about him. Even if he comes back claiming "no it was the other guy being intimidating to me" tha wouldn't hold up much as it was him that confronted the punter not the other way around. And the police would just chalk it up to one persons word vs the others.

But if more than one punter complained then its a different story.

My stance is, if this guy gets his way. He will tell all of his mates of his success and they will all start doing it too. And that will happen.

[James999]

She may be breaking a tennency agreement but I don't think the police would get into that unless she was breaking any laws.

She will be breaking the tennancy agreement & likely in breach of the lease on the flat (Assuming it's not freehold) , but neither are criminal matters so the police will not have an interest.

[hungrypunt]

Just say  "I came round to look at some VDs advertised, no idea what you're on about" and walk off, the element of doubt will be in his mind 

 

Edit just checked the profile, Id risk it for her, OH yes
But then Ive no wife

[Doombar]

Now I am always doing my best to be discreet when entering/leaving any prossies premises but I am really kicking myself for potentially exposing myself. As her flat is at the top of a staircase I had to walk past another flat door by the exit to the complex and on my way out an older man maybe in his 50's came out of his flat and confronted me, getting right up in my face.

Firstly well done for being under 50 - thought most punters were older than that 

Bit odd that this neighbour is confronting the punters - and how did he know when you were passing his door when she is several floors above him?  He's clearly very unhappy about it and spends all day looking out his window and listening to footsteps ie. a nutter!

He would be better off talking to the prostitute.  If he wants to be malicious he could try calling the police or contacting her landlord.  He's maybe tried those routes and no result, so now confronting punters is the only avenue left to him.  He might start letting down their tyres, taking photos of them, etc, so I'd be inclined to steer clear.

[bigmanbigman]

All the more reasion for parking streets away

[vw]

Firstly well done for being under 50 - thought most punters were older than that  :

You assume far too.much then. 

[OakTree]

Sorry, but seriously, when you start getting harassment, unless you’re a big bruiser, JUST GET OUT OF THERE AS QUICKLY AS POSSIBLE. Don’t bother with smart answers. Don't give them time to position themselves (for instance, to block your exit). Don’t make threats unless you are EXCEEDINGLY confident about being able to win. You have nothing to prove. Don’t look them in the eye.  Just keep your dignity, walk in a straight line straight past them as if they weren’t there.

That exactly what I would do. I would not look at them or engage with them. Just keep on walking. The last thing I would want is things to escalate to a point where other neighbors come out to see what’s happening or even escalate to where the police turn up.

[Sir Lance-a-lot]

If this happens again, say nothing.  But take out your phone, take a mugshot of him, then start recording video of his ranting.

Then walk away.

[madmania]

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Near Ocean village, Southampton.

Not a surprise, it's the shithole of Southampton

In some ways I feel bad for the guy - there are loads of WGs operating out of those flats and the front door must be going 50 times a day. Alice's infamous whisper policy makes a bit more sense now.

However ultimately fuck him it's none of his business and he shouldn't live there if he doesn't like it, especially if you were being quiet and respectful.

Either ignore him or say sorry mate no idea what you're on about and walked. I'm with Marmalade you have nothing to prove and it's the girl's problem not yours.

Give her a miss for a while!

[bigmanbigman]

Not to hard to work out what happens next if you do that !

[Anastssia]

Hey.  Its me the girl! Why you dont say the truth?? That never happen! I even dont have old neighbor! Good!!

[Anastssia]

Hi! Im the girl what are you talking about! Why you say that if never happen ?? Really? Who are you? First i dont have any old neighbor! And then not even a client tell me about this!

[Likesvariety]

If this happens again, say nothing.  But take out your phone, take a mugshot of him, then start recording video of his ranting.

Then walk away.

He could turn violent in response.  OK, maybe, if you are big and strong.

Best advice is Marmalade's, get out without a confrontation.

How many punters want to risk disclosure if there is a row and the police are called?

[mrhappypants]

OP, how would you feel about a knocking shop on your doorstep with dirty men in raincoats (and possibly druggies) walking past your front door all the time?

I wouldn't mind the druggies or the dirty old men in raincoats,....but... if I had to put up with some of you fuckers walking past the door it would drive me completely demented.

[Anastssia]

I'm with the neighbour. Too many prossies pick stupid locations and crap apartments because they are cheap. They need to have a bit of common sense about it. Ground floor always, and if possible, not with a communal corridor access. House is better, like a terraced. They also gravitate to places with no parking. In Bristol, the number of times I have been late because they are in some stupid apartment with no parking, on a one way system.

Most of these new build apartment blocks and conversions are shite, so that bloke and his missus will be hearing the creaks and groans all day of people traipsing up the stairs, and then the bang bang bang of shagging all day. To make things worse, he's hearing that and looking at his old hag of a wife getting jealous.

Prossies.... put a bit of thought and care into your location.

If it were me on the stairs getting confronted though, I would say "police business. Please go back inside. Theres been a murder. Stay inside until we tell you its OK to come out"

 

hi dear! Im that girl! My flat its expresive 900! I leave on the first floor! I have no neighbor! So..before judge ask if its mie or not..

[Sheer Tights]

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I once had a run in with the landlady of the very popular Nicolebaby in the front garden of her flat. When she condemned people like me & tried to convince me that Hounslow was a respectable area I tried to assure the landlady that I was visiting to learn Hungarian. I walked then received a couple of texts from Nicole telling me to ignore the 'crazy lady' and come back. Shortly after Nicole was evicted & has not been seen since.

[Belgarion]

Should have just told the guy to fuck off or go make a booking and get rid of the sexual frustration plaguing him.

[peter purves]

Saw a WG I have seen previously today and although I enjoyed myself I got quite a shock afterwards when I tried to leave her apartment block.

Now I am always doing my best to be discreet when entering/leaving any prossies premises but I am really kicking myself for potentially exposing myself. As her flat is at the top of a staircase I had to walk past another flat door by the exit to the complex and on my way out an older man maybe in his 50's came out of his flat and confronted me, getting right up in my face.

He basically went on a big rant about how he is sick of the "dirty prostitute" bringing "strange men" to his doorstep and that he just wants to live in peace with his wife.

He berated me, saying I should feel ashamed of what I was doing and that if I ever come back he will report me to the Police, whatever for I have no idea!  I tried being civil and telling him that I was not bothering him and that he might find that minding his own business would be better for him. He clearly didn't take this well!! As it just made him even more pissed off!! He told me he has put up with this nonsense for months now and won't be tolerating it anymore (so move somewhere else or mind your own business then!!) whats it to him anyway what a punter does with a WG in the WG's PROPERTY!

I finally saw that I couldn't reason or get through to this tool so finally having had enough of his ramblings I told him that I'm just going to leave and that be the end of it.  I could still hear him ranting and raving as I walked down the street, what a bloody nutcase

I haven't punted long, couple of months but this is the first time I have ever experienced anything like this and its really shook me up abit.

This man appears to be a nosey do gooder with nothing better to do than harass a complete stranger minding his own business. Maybe he is pissed off that his wife is not shagging him him anymore?  :D6

If necessary and if allowed, anybody who wishes to know the address or WG based there I can provide the details so you can potentially avoid a confrontation.

I would greatly appreciate your thoughts and opinions on this matter. 

Sounds like you handled the situation as well as could be IMO 




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[BP96]

I am sick and tired of Muslims

Bloody hell, doesn't take much for the loonies to start foaming at the mouth. OP didn't mention any religion.

[hamchang]

I am sick and tired of Muslims sitting there preaching their moralities of stupid things like alcohol and paying for sex when for them its ok to beat their wives and fiddle small children.
 

Sounds more like the average Conservative Party cabinet meeting.

[RX8 Racer]

I would be asking, how does he know his neighbour is a prostitute, just because a number of guys come and go, doesn't mean she is an escort

One of my neighbours, who  moved out 3 years ago, was a physiotherapist, and dealt with issues relating to back pain.  Now on a regular basis, a number of guys would come and go, and at first something like this crossed my mind, and found out about what she does through my local health centre

How ever if he is certain of this, how did he find out, so wouldn't be surprised if he has been trolling AW, and recognize her, or her surroundings

With regard to how he knows for sure that shes a prostitute, my guess is that he has seen her on AdultWork or he could have been snooping on her when he has nothing better to do. Either way its clear he knows and seems hell bent on getting her out of there.

[BP]

Hi! Im the girl what are you talking about! Why you say that if never happen ?? Really? Who are you? First i dont have any old neighbor! And then not even a client tell me about this!

Well this is a little confusing.
Perhaps the OP can clarify

[RX8 Racer]

Having seen this it has put me and I would imagine many punters off visiting her. Let's hope she moves to a better place soon. Last thing I want is confrontation as I would probably lose my temper and then all hell would brake loose.

He was not a pleasant man so I can imagine other punters here would have reacted differently. I am glad to have warned the punting community, especially those of you that frequent the SE.

[hungrypunt]

hi dear! Im that girl! My flat its expresive 900! I leave on the first floor! I have no neighbor! So..before judge ask if its mie or not..

So is this you or not
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and are you saying no neighbour confronted the punter ?

BTW your fit as fuck, Id have you all day 

[Anastssia]

Update:

Right she has got back to me about it and apparantly she has had issues with this man previously as he has been constantly complaining, kicking off and threatening police action against HER although she didn't say whether he has confronted other punters as well, seems likely though.

I told her its put me off any future visits for now and think its best I stay away. She said thats fine and understands my concerns but it's her problem not mine so I am going to just leave it be and see other girls.

This is the girl:

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Why you lie??(

[cueball]

hi dear! Im that girl! My flat its expresive 900! I leave on the first floor! I have no neighbor! So..before judge ask if its mie or not..

I'm guessing the phone has gone a bit quiet has it 

Always best to come on here and try to deny it ever happened, cast doubt over the op and hopefully ring a ding ding, back to business and the ranting neighbour.

Get a new gaff... you can afford it

[Anastssia]

So is this you or not
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and are you saying no neighbour confronted the punter ?

BTW your fit as fuck, Id have you all day 

Yes its me the girl from the pictures! But this never happen! Good! I leave in a quick area!!! Not even Ocean Village! Im in city centre!!! Im on first floor! With no neighbor around! Really??? I have no old neighbor!! Oh my Good! It geting bored and start write things that never happen! If you come at my place and somebody say something to you i will take you for free! How you can lie like this??? And when you been to my place ?? Cuz i was in holiday ! Oh Good! Not normal!

[Anastssia]

I'm guessing the phone has gone a bit quiet has it 

Always best to come on here and try to deny it ever happened, cast doubt over the op and hopefully ring a ding ding, back to business and the ranting neighbour.

Get a new gaff... you can afford it

No dear! I was in holiday and i client just tell me about this! Before talk be sure that all its true! Bla bla .

[Anastssia]

So is this you or not
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and are you saying no neighbour confronted the punter ?

BTW your fit as fuck, Id have you all day 

And the first time when "come where was the neighbor???

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[myothernameis]

As her flat is at the top of a staircase I had to walk past another flat door by the exit to the complex and on my way out an older man maybe in his 50's came out of his flat and confronted me, getting right up in my face.

Hi! Im the girl what are you talking about! Why you say that if never happen ?? Really? Who are you? First i dont have any old neighbor! And then not even a client tell me about this!

So we now have two sides to the story, RX8 says he was confronted by the escorts neighbour, male in his 50's, but Anastssia says, she dosnt have any old neighbours

Someone is telling porkies, is it RX8 trying to give this escort a bad name, telling other punters, if you go to see this escort, this old guy will come out, and shout at you, or Anastssia is trying to say this never happened, my flat is safe to visit

[madmania]

So we now have two sides to the story, RX8 says he was confronted by the escorts neighbour, male in his 50's, but Anastssia says, she dosnt have any old neighbours

Someone is telling porkies, is it RX8 trying to give this escort a bad name, telling other punters, if you go to see this escort, this old guy will come out, and shout at you, or Anastssia is trying to say this never happened, my flat is safe to visit

Why would RX8 lie? He's sung this girls praises on quite a few occasions and posted a very positive review.

The girl has everything to gain by lying, this way it casts doubt on OP and might mean people give her the benefit of the doubt. And if they don't believe her then she's in no worse position than she was before.

OP, you said you messaged her right? Get some screen grabs so you can prove you are telling he truth!

[Silver Birch]

Why would RX8 lie? He's sung this girls praises on quite a few occasions and posted a very positive review.

The girl has everything to gain by lying, this way it casts doubt on OP and might mean people give her the benefit of the doubt. And if they don't believe her then she's in no worse position than she was before.

OP, you said you messaged her right? Get some screen grabs so you can prove you are telling he truth!

Like you say, I'm inclined to believe the OP, why would he make it up? If he wanted to harm her business then he could just write her service was shit.

Not my regular area but I am grateful for the review/warning and don't see why he has to prove anything with screenshots.

[Anastssia]

So we now have two sides to the story, RX8 says he was confronted by the escorts neighbour, male in his 50's, but Anastssia says, she dosnt have any old neighbours

Someone is telling porkies, is it RX8 trying to give this escort a bad name, telling other punters, if you go to see this escort, this old guy will come out, and shout at you, or Anastssia is trying to say this never happened, my flat is safe to visit

Come at my place to see it! If somebody tell you something you will have free time! Or also you can read my AW feedbacks.

[Anastssia]

Why would RX8 lie? He's sung this girls praises on quite a few occasions and posted a very positive review.

The girl has everything to gain by lying, this way it casts doubt on OP and might mean people give her the benefit of the doubt. And if they don't believe her then she's in no worse position than she was before.

OP, you said you messaged her right? Get some screen grabs so you can prove you are telling he truth!

Why you think that a WG its always lie??? Come at my place! To are if i have any old or somebody tell you something. And then yes you can say that o lie.!

[Anastssia]

Like you say, I'm inclined to believe the OP, why would he make it up? If he wanted to harm her business then he could just write her service was shit.

Not my regular area but I am grateful for the review/warning and don't see why he has to prove anything with screenshots.

Yes i will like to know when him 'come" and also the text when its say to me about the "history" with my phone number.

[Blackpool Rock]

Like you say, I'm inclined to believe the OP, why would he make it up? If he wanted to harm her business then he could just write her service was shit.

Not my regular area but I am grateful for the review/warning and don't see why he has to prove anything with screenshots.

Perhaps someone else who has punted her recently could confirm whether her flat is on the ground floor etc, alternatively someone could book a punt and find out then report back.

On another point the girl has only joined today to post on this thread so who is the WK tipping her off 

[myothernameis]

Perhaps someone else who has punted her recently could confirm whether her flat is on the ground floor etc, alternatively someone could book a punt and find out then report back.

On another point the girl has only joined today to post on this thread so who is the WK tipping her off 

Only 10 posts from the escort, and even how she has gone about posting, has questions marks, either poor English, or very bad at spelling, and she hasn't even reported the post, yet......remove this post, as it is untrue, if you don't remove post, I will send my neighbour to deal with you 

[bigmanbigman]

I think rx is telling the truth But
If he keeps seeing this type of wg cant say im surprised.