Got confronted by angry neighbour, rather unpleasant encounter today.

[RX8 Racer]

Saw a WG I have seen previously today and although I enjoyed myself I got quite a shock afterwards when I tried to leave her apartment block.

Now I am always doing my best to be discreet when entering/leaving any prossies premises but I am really kicking myself for potentially exposing myself. As her flat is at the top of a staircase I had to walk past another flat door by the exit to the complex and on my way out an older man maybe in his 50's came out of his flat and confronted me, getting right up in my face.

He basically went on a big rant about how he is sick of the "dirty prostitute" bringing "strange men" to his doorstep and that he just wants to live in peace with his wife.

He berated me, saying I should feel ashamed of what I was doing and that if I ever come back he will report me to the Police, whatever for I have no idea!  I tried being civil and telling him that I was not bothering him and that he might find that minding his own business would be better for him. He clearly didn't take this well!! As it just made him even more pissed off!! He told me he has put up with this nonsense for months now and won't be tolerating it anymore (so move somewhere else or mind your own business then!!) whats it to him anyway what a punter does with a WG in the WG's PROPERTY!

I finally saw that I couldn't reason or get through to this tool so finally having had enough of his ramblings I told him that I'm just going to leave and that be the end of it.  I could still hear him ranting and raving as I walked down the street, what a bloody nutcase

I haven't punted long, couple of months but this is the first time I have ever experienced anything like this and its really shook me up abit.

This man appears to be a nosey do gooder with nothing better to do than harass a complete stranger minding his own business. Maybe he is pissed off that his wife is not shagging him him anymore?  :D6

If necessary and if allowed, anybody who wishes to know the address or WG based there I can provide the details so you can potentially avoid a confrontation.

I would greatly appreciate your thoughts and opinions on this matter. 

[threechilliman]

Should have told him to fuck off.

[martini2429]

Have you let her know of this confrontation with her neighbour?

[Punter115]

Next time u see him tell him as he is on Home ground the young lady will give him 20% off and 50% off if he wants a threesome with the wife .....on reflection, most likely that will not do it.
Fuckin head-case.. next time u get any nonsense from him “ tell him to fuck off “ but politely and if that doesn’t work....tell him u will report him to the police for verbal abuse!

[RX8 Racer]

Have you let her know of this confrontation with her neighbour?

I sent her a text not that long ago about what happened but she has not got back to me yet. When she does I will update you.

[Lewis]

Let's turn this around for a moment.

OP, how would you feel about a knocking shop on your doorstep with dirty men in raincoats (and possibly druggies) walking past your front door all the time?

Maybe the bloke has children or grandchildren staying there and he's trying to protect them from headboards banging the wall and dirty chat/moaning and groaning that's going on in the property next door.

[AnthG]

He basically went on a big rant about how he is sick of the "dirty prostitute" bringing "strange men" to his doorstep and that he just wants to live in peace with his wife.

He berated me, saying I should feel ashamed of what I was doing and that if I ever come back he will report me to the Police,

I would greatly appreciate your thoughts and opinions on this matter. 

You should have responded in a shocked tone of voice saying "what, that's my sister".

[cueball]

Let's turn this around for a moment.

OP, how would you feel about a knocking shop on your doorstep with dirty men in raincoats (and possibly druggies) walking past your front door all the time?

Maybe the bloke has children or grandchildren staying there and he's trying to protect them from headboards banging the wall and dirty chat/moaning and groaning that's going on in the property next door.

Let's turn this back around.....

"Dirty men in raincoats"

Are you from mumsnet?

That's a very strange statement from a punter on a punters site

[hungrypunt]

Ignore him, move on to another WG if it puts you off.
Chances are she will be gone soon anyway.

Hes just jealous he cant use her as its too close to home. give us a link to warn others getting ready to visit ?

[Blackpool Rock]

Let's turn this around for a moment.

OP, how would you feel about a knocking shop on your doorstep with dirty men in raincoats (and possibly druggies) walking past your front door all the time?

Maybe the bloke has children or grandchildren staying there and he's trying to protect them from headboards banging the wall and dirty chat/moaning and groaning that's going on in the property next door.

Speak for yourself, thought this was the stereotype portrayed by the Feminazi man haters and media 

[hungrypunt]

Let's turn this back around.....

"Dirty men in raincoats"

Are you from mumsnet?

That's a very strange statement from a punter on a punters site

What, you mean you don't own a dirty raincoat as part of the punters wardrobe 

[RX8 Racer]

Let's turn this around for a moment.

OP, how would you feel about a knocking shop on your doorstep with dirty men in raincoats (and possibly druggies) walking past your front door all the time?

Maybe the bloke has children or grandchildren staying there and he's trying to protect them from headboards banging the wall and dirty chat/moaning and groaning that's going on in the property next door.

I wouldn't like it I admit and while I cannot speak for every punter that has been there I myself was causing no harm or disturbance to this man, I was leaving the building peacefully or tried to at least. Not once did I threaten him or his family and if he confronted me because he feared for his safety or that of his loved ones then fair enough.

However there was really no need to storm out and get all aggressive towards me though was there? How would you feel as a punter if this happened to you? 

[cueball]

What, you mean you don't own a dirty raincoat as part of the punters wardrobe 

No, the rain coat is clean, it's the contents that's dirty 

[vw]

Let's turn this back around.....

"Dirty men in raincoats"

Are you from mumsnet?

That's a very strange statement from a punter on a punters site

Watch out Cueball, dont upset lewis he will call your landlord.   

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=63613.msg812061#msg812061

[Thestud]

I would have just ignored him and continued with the punt as you're not breaking any laws. It's the WG's problem and not yours.

[RX8 Racer]

You should have responded in a shocked tone of voice saying "what, that's my sister".

 

[cueball]

Watch out Cueball, dont upset lewis he will call your landlord.

I hope my landlord doesn't know about my mac 

[RX8 Racer]

Ignore him, move on to another WG if it puts you off.
Chances are she will be gone soon anyway.

Hes just jealous he cant use her as its too close to home. give us a link to warn others getting ready to visit ?

Think I will, didn't like what happened at all so will be steering clear for awhile. Will post link and update from her shortly.

[pewpewpew]

Are you going to give us the name of the WG or at least the area she works in or what? I don't want this kind of confrontation

[MrMatrix]

Out of interest OP, which town was this in - not the address.
Yes not a nice experience OP, think that would have rattled most people. Hope the punt was worth while, 

[vw]

Out of interest OP, which town was this in - not the address.
Yes not a nice experience OP, think that would have rattled most people. Hope the punt was worth while, 

That might reveal he is MrKean   

[RX8 Racer]

Update:

Right she has got back to me about it and apparantly she has had issues with this man previously as he has been constantly complaining, kicking off and threatening police action against HER although she didn't say whether he has confronted other punters as well, seems likely though.

I told her its put me off any future visits for now and think its best I stay away. She said thats fine and understands my concerns but it's her problem not mine so I am going to just leave it be and see other girls.

This is the girl:

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[James999]

Just say  "I came round to look at some DVDs advertised, no idea what you're on about" and walk off, the element of doubt will be in his mind 

[RX8 Racer]

Out of interest OP, which town was this in - not the address.
Yes not a nice experience OP, think that would have rattled most people. Hope the punt was worth while, 

Southampton mate

[RX8 Racer]

Are you going to give us the name of the WG or at least the area she works in or what? I don't want this kind of confrontation

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Near Ocean village, Southampton.

[vw]

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Near Ocean village, Southampton.

Maybe best to stick a comment on your review of her.   

[houseboot]

"I finally saw that I couldn't reason or get through to this tool so finally having had enough of his ramblings I told him that I'm just going to leave and that be the end of it"

Don't try and reason with him or anyone else in the future.

Don't even speak except to say,"Excuse me I've got a bus to catch" and keep moving.

[One Eyed Snake]

Let's turn this around for a moment.

OP, how would you feel about a knocking shop on your doorstep with dirty men in raincoats (and possibly druggies) walking past your front door all the time?

Maybe the bloke has children or grandchildren staying there and he's trying to protect them from headboards banging the wall and dirty chat/moaning and groaning that's going on in the property next door.

Dirty old men in raincoats, who the fuck are you.

[Steely Dan]

A Tontober punt too.

Deny deny deny.  So be ready with 'Not sure what you on about mate, I was buying a small item on ebay, just picking it up' but don't even stop to say this, say this as you keep walking toward the exit.

[Punter115]

It will be because she is foreign plus very sexy ...that’s what will be getting on the old fuckers nerve.
She will lose a lot of business if he keeps kicking off .....she should offer him a free one and get him on her side .
Certainly looks worth a hundred notes.

[bigmanbigman]

Rx you should have walked away and said nothing .
You have not done the wg or next punters any favours .
Act cool walk away .
Its not her pimp or someone trying to rob you .

[Marmalade]

I don’t know what the Muslim demographic is in the area but they have historically started campaigns to harass punters in many areas. I’ve experienced it in Edinburgh and Birmingham — but out of more punts than can be remembered. Just put it down to bad luck and move on to another prossie not in the same stair.

[paper7]

If punter's stay away then she'll lose income, which would not be fair imho.

[Marmalade]

If punter's stay away then she'll lose income, which would not be fair imho.

why are you defending prossies? She ought to find a location where her customers are not harassed.

As for the cunt of a neighbour, maybe he can’t afford to get a place in a better area. He should suck it up.

[mrdiamond77]

Sorry you had this confrontation, nothing like this has happened to me yet.  You probably should have just ignored the bastard and kept on walking.  Did the right thing in letting her know anyway.  Just see another girl next time.

[nigel4498]

Rx you should have walked away and said nothing .
You have not done the wg or next punters any favours .
Act cool walk away .
Its not her pimp or someone trying to rob you .

Good advice.
306 times over.

[vw]

If punter's stay away then she'll lose income, which would not be fair imho.

 

Up to the punter what risk that take, if she chose a shite venue with nosy neighbours tough shit. 

Life isn't fair anyway.   

[jackdaw]

A mate actually lives next to a WG’s work premises...she actually lives in a better gaff about a mile away.

You can usually easily spot the punters pulling up...unlike Lewis’s fevered imagination..they tend to be better dressed and have more upmarket cars than “locals”.

Actually in this instance she’s a good neighbour...little “action” from early afternoon onwards, and no noise..much better than previous neighbour.

[BP96]

OP, when approached by people in that situation you don't stop. He could have been asking for a light or to chat about the football but just say politely "sorry, I have to go" and keep moving.

[MilleMiglia]

OP, when approached by people in that situation you don't stop. He could have been asking for a light or to chat about the football but just say politely "sorry, I have to go" and keep moving.

Sound advice. Don't engage, just exit ASAP.

[workinallweek]

 Should have said your from the police looking into a racial harrasment charge .

[vw]

Should have said your from the police looking into a racial harrasment charge .

 

An impersonating a police officer charge would be really helpful when all you want to is walk.  No wonder people get themselves in bother when they post like they are brain-dead.   

[bigmanbigman]

Or simply put sorry mate cant stop im in a hurry parking ticket run out .

[bigmanbigman]

A mate actually lives next to a WG’s work premises...she actually lives in a better gaff about a mile away.

You can usually easily spot the punters pulling up...unlike Lewis’s fevered imagination..they tend to be better dressed and have more upmarket cars than “locals”.

Actually in this instance she’s a good neighbour...little “action” from early afternoon onwards, and no noise..much better than previous neighbour.

the impact is .car parking .foot fall.noise and cock fall .so they are not that happy.

[myothernameis]

He basically went on a big rant about how he is sick of the "dirty prostitute" bringing "strange men" to his doorstep and that he just wants to live in peace with his wife.

I would be asking, how does he know his neighbour is a prostitute, just because a number of guys come and go, doesn't mean she is an escort

One of my neighbours, who  moved out 3 years ago, was a physiotherapist, and dealt with issues relating to back pain.  Now on a regular basis, a number of guys would come and go, and at first something like this crossed my mind, and found out about what she does through my local health centre

How ever if he is certain of this, how did he find out, so wouldn't be surprised if he has been trolling AW, and recognize her, or her surroundings

[myothernameis]

I had to walk past another flat door by the exit to the complex and on my way out an older man maybe in his 50's came out of his flat and confronted me, getting right up in my face

Why not have some fun at his expense, if you know his address, why not go on various web sites, and if offering freebies, send them to his address....some sweet revenge, and his wife asking him, what do you want that for

[mr.bluesky]

It's obvious the old bastard isn't getting any. Ask him the next time if he'd like to come round and watch or even better ,join in   

[vt]

Sound advice. Don't engage, just exit ASAP.

+1 Keep walking! 

Sounds like the poor fucker is frustrated as he wants a go himself on hottie Anastasia, but can't get the £40 past his missus!! 

[RX8 Racer]

Rx you should have walked away and said nothing .
You have not done the wg or next punters any favours .
Act cool walk away .
Its not her pimp or someone trying to rob you .

Cheers bigman thats really good advice, the whole thing just took me by surprise and was so unexpected. 

[Professor4]

Having seen this it has put me and I would imagine many punters off visiting her. Let's hope she moves to a better place soon. Last thing I want is confrontation as I would probably lose my temper and then all hell would brake loose.