Started off with sex on birthdays and Christmas. Once I started punting, there was no stopping unless she turns on the taps for 6 months minimum. Been duped too many times before, when she started to want sex on a regular basis, for it to fall back down in frequency.
She thinks our current frequency is "once a month", until I reminded her the last time was 6th December 2017, when I instigated it, after another equally long dry patch!