Used by a WG

[bushman]

I agree to an extent but I have started to wonder if OP is trolling. I had some sympathy at the start but then saw this:

Then I saw OP posting in another thread that he does not get bored in relation to WGs pretending like he just did not make a thread within 48 hours claiming he was used and tossed aside after professing his love. That's when I ran out of sympathy, and OP still has not named the WG either. These threads are all the same. A brokenhearted OP makes a thread for attention, does not name the WG involved, ignores all advice given and vanishes  .

What's worse is the post OP made was around the Jan this year about WG manipulation and how to avoid them but lo and behold somehow he fell for the same shit he acted like he knew how to avoid. So that means within 10 months of that post, OP somehow became prey to this WG whilst having the knowledge of how some of them behave and giving advice lol. Why some people pretend to be something they are not online baffles me. If OP is a fluffy teddybear that's fine, but to front like he is not posting like an experienced emotionally rational punter saying find fee fuck and flee.... and then make a thread talking about getting used, not saying who the WG is to help other punters avoid her and then pretending nothing happened is simply mindboggling to me.

OP needs to clarify if he made that post after he was used or if he was used this year after Jan when he made that post. Also who the WG is so we know as a collective who to be aware of. I'm sure however, OP will pretend this thread does not exist from now on and go on like nothing happened though; like the rest of the teddybear OPs of the past posting for attention and not for help.

I think he was in denial. He knew he was getting scammed, but was thinking that if he gave advice on how to respond to EAS he would somehow miraculously start to follow his own counsel....or he was blinded by "love".

[Band1t]

I’m not sure naming the SP would be the right move. Having EAS is not the SP’s fault, it’s her job to be flirtatious and convincing.
Unless of course someone was seriously taken advantage of.

[bushman]

I’m not sure naming the SP would be the right move. Having EAS is not the SP’s fault, it’s her job to be flirtatious and convincing.
Unless of course someone was seriously taken advantage of.

Did you read the OP's original post?
Where does flirtation and convincing stop and manipulation start?

[PaulRuff]

I’m not sure naming the SP would be the right move. Having EAS is not the SP’s fault, it’s her job to be flirtatious and convincing.
Unless of course someone was seriously taken advantage of.

I'd say her having him pay her rent for a number of months qualified as her taking advantage.  Bro before Ho everytime.

[Waterhouse]

I’m not sure naming the SP would be the right move. Having EAS is not the SP’s fault, it’s her job to be flirtatious and convincing.
Unless of course someone was seriously taken advantage of.

Yes it is his fault.  Whether the prossie was leading him on or not, he has a duty to himself to draw a line and understand that the arrangement is for paid for sex, not a romantic relationship. End of.

[stevedave]

Unless of course someone was seriously taken advantage of.

Which he was.

[Marmalade]

Yes it is his fault.  Whether the prossie was leading him on or not, he has a duty to himself to draw a line and understand that the arrangement is for paid for sex, not a romantic relationship. End of.

Yes it’s his fault. Same as if he got ripped off by any black market trader.
I don’t know that that means the SP shouldn’t be named for taking advantage.

What about an WG who wheedles an extortionate tip? One who gets the punter to fall in love with her to get him to pay for new tits? In all cases the punter has been illusioned into thinking he’ll get more. Confidence trickster basically. That the punter was a chump doesn’t completely excuse her — a good number of SPs would have drawn the line when they saw the punter was incapable of doing so. No need to blacklist her — a more experienced punter wouldn’t have fallen for her ‘charms’ to such an extent, but punters should know she’s a trickster.

To the OP: think of all women, not just prossies, like this: if they can’t pay their own way, why should you? Love is between equals. Buy a drink out of gentlemanly courtesy: then let her buy the next round or go thirsty. Pay for a taxi back to your place: not the one to get her home in the morning.

Have some self-respect.

[mills_and_bhuna]

I'm still leaning towards this being an exercise in trolling.
OP seems to have had loads of money to spend on sauna visits and independents as well as the former love of his life turned little cow.
He seems to be so inconsistent with his posting history he's either two physical people with access to the same account or suffers from multiple personality disorder. Or just a garden variety troll.

[WAP]

OP has been posting today and has ignored the mod earlier in this thread. This looks like Karimbenzima1991 all over again. No respect. What a Troll.

[Payyourwaymate]

OP has been posting today and has ignored the mod earlier in this thread. This looks like Karimbenzima1991 all over again. No respect. What a Troll.

OP is online right now when I just checked. Still pretending this thread does not exist and hoping it will die off I bet.

[Norwich95]

And then hes come on here to tell us his story so we can all call him pathetic and a twat so he can get off to that too!

Should he be paying us?

[s0whatsnew?]

I find that pretending to be poor insulates pretty well against WGs trying to game me 🙂

Some of us don't have to pretend !   

[Marmalade]

If he can’t fess up the name of the trollop he’s better off posting sob stories on Mumsnet. 

[Rochelle]

Never lose site of the fact they are in it for the cash 

They wouldn’t piss on you if you were on fire, unless you paid for it 😂😂😂

*sight

Do you mean like most people who work?

[Marmalade]

If he can’t fess up the name of the trollop he’s better off posting sob stories on Mumsnet. 

I think the discussion on here (as for most similarly trollish) can be helpful to newish punters even if the OP is beyond redemption. The OP has gone back in his hole which doesn’t speak well for him. If the story was true he probably told his p4p about UKP as well and feels too shy to name her even though he’s been ripped off. Otherwise it may just be a fake post by some creep wanting to ‘warn’ punters. But it’s a sad story. Very mumsnet. He could go on mummynet and tell it, cry tears of repentance and get ‘sympathys’.

[stevedave]

OP now banned, the right call I feel head1 

[catweazle]

OP now banned, the right call I feel head1 

+1

[Doc Holliday]

I think the discussion on here (as for most similarly trollish) can be helpful to newish punters even if the OP is beyond redemption.

Yes I agree you would think so, but I have been reading this thread's subject matter regularly on forums for nearly two decades and they all read pretty much the same ... yet the message fails to get through.

In my experience it is far from the new inexperienced punters that succumb. I have known many experienced ones who found themselves in this position and often more than once!

[PaulRuff]

Am tittering at the reason for banning...

[mills_and_bhuna]

Well that saves me from answering his PM .......

[Matrix]

Well that saves me from answering his PM .......

Do share.

It's liberating! 

[mills_and_bhuna]

Do share.

It's liberating! 

he just asked what my problem was.
I wasn't particularly trying to goad him but when someone tells you that Covid and EAS has drained his resources and fucked his life up but then posts as if his hotlist is bursting at the seams I get a bit sceptical.
His posting had more red flags than a Mayday rally.

[Marmalade]

It’s a long time since I can recall a full blown troll thread. Keeps us on our toes.

[P Hughes]

Sounds like shades of EAS. I know some SP's can be quite convincing in terms of appealing to a guys ego, but you always have to bear in mind how and why you got to know her in the first place. I don't think you ever become true friends because you really don't know them.  You just know what they reveal to you and vice versa. Quite frankly,  in my experience, SP's are not the most trustworthy and honest of characters, so you really have to proceed with caution. When I first started punting I got mixed  up with a regular who was just a few years younger than me in her late 20's and was really good looking. After a while she started texting me randomly asking how I'm doing, what am I up to, lots of fake banter. Then she told me her "real name" and elements of her private life. All the usual tricks SPs use when touting for business. I thought I was regarded as a special punter. One day I arranged to meet her as usual at a hotel I used.  I got there early and saw her sitting in the foyer area with her head resting on her pimp boyfriend's shoulder. He looked a unit also. You could tell he was the type of person who had been to jail a few times. They couldn't see me across the room, but I could see them clearly at a certain angle. I checked in then texted her to come up. Deep down I was a little gutted as I thought I was getting preferential treatment and was "special ", I was never delusional enough to think I actually had a chance with her. I was wrong, I was just another punter. It taught me an important early lesson. You are literally just a ATM to most  SPs. They rarely if ever harbour personal feelings for a punter. If you are seeking any type of emotional response from an SP, punting probably isn't for you.

[hungrypunt]

Sounds like shades of EAS. I know some SP's can be quite convincing in terms of appealing to a guys ego, but you always have to bear in mind how and why you got to know her in the first place. I don't think you ever become true friends because you really don't know them.  You just know what they reveal to you and vice versa. Quite frankly,  in my experience, SP's are not the most trustworthy and honest of characters, so you really have to proceed with caution. When I first started punting I got mixed  up with a regular who was just a few years younger than me in her late 20's and was really good looking. After a while she started texting me randomly asking how I'm doing, what am I up to, lots of fake banter. Then she told me her "real name" and elements of her private life. All the usual tricks SPs use when touting for business. I thought I was regarded as a special punter. One day I arranged to meet her as usual at a hotel I used.  I got there early and saw her sitting in the foyer area with her head resting on her pimp boyfriend's shoulder. He looked a unit also. You could tell he was the type of person who had been to jail a few times. They couldn't see me across the room, but I could see them clearly at a certain angle. I checked in then texted her to come up. Deep down I was a little gutted as I thought I was getting preferential treatment and was "special ", I was never delusional enough to think I actually had a chance with her. I was wrong, I was just another punter. It taught me an important early lesson. You are literally just a ATM to most  SPs. They rarely if ever harbour personal feelings for a punter. If you are seeking any type of emotional response from an SP, punting probably isn't for you.

How we doing Subboy1980

 

[mrfishyfoo]

How we doing Subboy1980

 

 

[Payyourwaymate]

Sounds like shades of EAS. I know some SP's can be quite convincing in terms of appealing to a guys ego, but you always have to bear in mind how and why you got to know her in the first place. I don't think you ever become true friends because you really don't know them.  You just know what they reveal to you and vice versa. Quite frankly,  in my experience, SP's are not the most trustworthy and honest of characters, so you really have to proceed with caution. When I first started punting I got mixed  up with a regular who was just a few years younger than me in her late 20's and was really good looking. After a while she started texting me randomly asking how I'm doing, what am I up to, lots of fake banter. Then she told me her "real name" and elements of her private life. All the usual tricks SPs use when touting for business. I thought I was regarded as a special punter. One day I arranged to meet her as usual at a hotel I used.  I got there early and saw her sitting in the foyer area with her head resting on her pimp boyfriend's shoulder. He looked a unit also. You could tell he was the type of person who had been to jail a few times. They couldn't see me across the room, but I could see them clearly at a certain angle. I checked in then texted her to come up. Deep down I was a little gutted as I thought I was getting preferential treatment and was "special ", I was never delusional enough to think I actually had a chance with her. I was wrong, I was just another punter. It taught me an important early lesson. You are literally just a ATM to most  SPs. They rarely if ever harbour personal feelings for a punter. If you are seeking any type of emotional response from an SP, punting probably isn't for you.

I see, so...who is she? She must have been reviewed on here surely.

[willie loman]

Sounds like shades of EAS. I know some SP's can be quite convincing in terms of appealing to a guys ego, but you always have to bear in mind how and why you got to know her in the first place. I don't think you ever become true friends because you really don't know them.  You just know what they reveal to you and vice versa. Quite frankly,  in my experience, SP's are not the most trustworthy and honest of characters, so you really have to proceed with caution. When I first started punting I got mixed  up with a regular who was just a few years younger than me in her late 20's and was really good looking. After a while she started texting me randomly asking how I'm doing, what am I up to, lots of fake banter. Then she told me her "real name" and elements of her private life. All the usual tricks SPs use when touting for business. I thought I was regarded as a special punter. One day I arranged to meet her as usual at a hotel I used.  I got there early and saw her sitting in the foyer area with her head resting on her pimp boyfriend's shoulder. He looked a unit also. You could tell he was the type of person who had been to jail a few times. They couldn't see me across the room, but I could see them clearly at a certain angle. I checked in then texted her to come up. Deep down I was a little gutted as I thought I was getting preferential treatment and was "special ", I was never delusional enough to think I actually had a chance with her. I was wrong, I was just another punter. It taught me an important early lesson. You are literally just a ATM to most  SPs. They rarely if ever harbour personal feelings for a punter. If you are seeking any type of emotional response from an SP, punting probably isn't for you.

always useful to punt with a wgs mate, they will often enlighten you , deliberately or not, on the actual status of a wg.

[Jamsonite]

Which Rom? Ive seen a couple youve reviewed, be nice to know as not to return

You have reviewed her!

[alabama1]

You have reviewed her!

Wouldn't it be easier to just name her instead of playing games 

[Jamsonite]

He will know!

[alabama1]

He will know!

Yes but the rest of us don't !

[Problem Child]

Sounds like shades of EAS. I know some SP's can be quite convincing in terms of appealing to a guys ego, but you always have to bear in mind how and why you got to know her in the first place. I don't think you ever become true friends because you really don't know them.  You just know what they reveal to you and vice versa. Quite frankly,  in my experience, SP's are not the most trustworthy and honest of characters, so you really have to proceed with caution. When I first started punting I got mixed  up with a regular who was just a few years younger than me in her late 20's and was really good looking. After a while she started texting me randomly asking how I'm doing, what am I up to, lots of fake banter. Then she told me her "real name" and elements of her private life. All the usual tricks SPs use when touting for business. I thought I was regarded as a special punter. One day I arranged to meet her as usual at a hotel I used.  I got there early and saw her sitting in the foyer area with her head resting on her pimp boyfriend's shoulder. He looked a unit also. You could tell he was the type of person who had been to jail a few times. They couldn't see me across the room, but I could see them clearly at a certain angle. I checked in then texted her to come up. Deep down I was a little gutted as I thought I was getting preferential treatment and was "special ", I was never delusional enough to think I actually had a chance with her. I was wrong, I was just another punter. It taught me an important early lesson. You are literally just a ATM to most  SPs. They rarely if ever harbour personal feelings for a punter. If you are seeking any type of emotional response from an SP, punting probably isn't for you.

Am I missing something here? 
So an escort was friendly to you, then you found out she had a boyfriend?
I don’t really see what the big deal is?
As a regular, you may have got some sort of preferential treatment, just like you would off a barber or  mechanic maybe, but your time with her was still transactional. What did you expect?

[WAP]

Although due to a glitch his profile shows only one post, If you look at P Hughes posting history you’ll see that he’s posted about this same topic several many times. It’s a continuing theme. IMO it can be useful to read to bring some punters with EAS back down to Earth. Poor buggers. 

I follow the four Fs: Find. Finances. Fuck. Flee

[Doc Holliday]

Although due to a glitch his profile shows only one post, If you look at P Hughes posting history you’ll see that he’s posted about this same topic several many times. It’s a continuing theme.

He has indeed. The post count isn't a glitch though but is set that way. Posts made in general discussion or off topic, no longer count towards your total. He has made 27 posts.

[DouglasReynholm]

"lite cunt"? I prefer them with some weight on myself.

A fantasist troll, I'd say. Don't believe a word of what he said.

"Banned reason: Your fucked now mate I really cant take any more of your shit"  UKP is the only site where the banning reasons make you laugh out loud. "Fucking arsehole", "complete wanker", "cocky tout", "general twat". ..