I sometimes go for a massage with HE before a meet.
And, once I booked an escort and we thought it would be fun to pretended to be married and she was buying me an escort for my 40th birthday.
That was one hell of a night.
tbh, the escort pretending to be my wife was not amazing, just not my type but the second one.. wow... had them both overnight and spent a few hours in the morning with the better one.
Also, I was once in Barcelona and found a bar called Kiss Me (might have that name wrong ), basically could do anything with the ladies AT THE BAR.. I had some fun in here then went to other venues.. I forgot how many times but it was a fair few and not that expensive. It was about 15 years ago though.. Just went from Club to Club (the places that did stuff were called clubs) ended up in the od room and had the od fondle in the od club.