Seeking.com regional open thread - West Midlands

[AffAlchemist]

Decided to resub after a few years off. My gawd the filters. So many filters on profiles

That’s the worse part
I’ve even had them send me videos but with filters
Some of the cat fishes have been truly amazing
Surely they must know you will see the real person eventually and a filter can’t be applied to your retina!!! 😂😂😂

[AffAlchemist]

Decided to resub after a few years off. My gawd the filters. So many filters on profiles

That’s the worse part
I’ve even had them send me videos but with filters
Some of the cat fishes have been truly amazing
Surely they must know you will see the real person eventually and a filter can’t be applied to your retina!!! 😂😂😂

[DAlpine1980]

Yeah, it's really off putting for their intended audience. Mind you in it's heyday for me, I would have just ignored all the filtered profiles as plenty weren't. Now, that seems like you have a very small pool of profiles to chat to if you do.

That’s the worse part
I’ve even had them send me videos but with filters
Some of the cat fishes have been truly amazing
Surely they must know you will see the real person eventually and a filter can’t be applied to your retina!!! 😂😂😂

[DAlpine1980]

Hi all,

Sorry for the info request.

I have a good couple of chats going and some good meetings lined up. One profile has messaged a few times. Messages have been poor and I am sure she has been on there since last time I was on (some years ago). Anybody know if she is legit or scammer? If legit, I may try my luck.

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[Jmaes123]

Just clicked on the link and reading her bio she has stated EthnicityWhite / Caucasian. Doesn’t look it to me?

[Jimboe89]

I can confirm she is not a scammer.  Nice enough girl.  Stafford based.  Very wiling.  Saw her once, but logistically it was too difficult to see her again.  Plus it was more of a semi pro vibe rather than SB.

[samsung1]

Just wanted to ask do you guys take the girl out for drinks for a chat first or do you book a hotel and take them to there instead?

[Jumping Jack Flash]

Just wanted to ask do you guys take the girl out for drinks for a chat first or do you book a hotel and take them to there instead?

Everyone is different, my preferred option is a social meet first where the fine details are agreed then on another visit drinks and a hotel.

[updownandaround]

Just wanted to ask do you guys take the girl out for drinks for a chat first or do you book a hotel and take them to there instead?

I will generally always meet for a drink first at a venue where we can take things private i.e. a hotel. Some girls are clearly just game or pros and will come straight to the room but I would only do that after a video chat where I can sus out if they are nutters/fakers/scammers or not. I also split the cost of the hotel across multiple girls, I never arrange to meet just one girl as sometimes it doesn't just pan out.

I don't do the whole social first thing because I always feel cheated if I meet with a girl, see that she'll bang first time and then only bang her the next time around. That just doesn't make sense to me but each to their own.

[updownandaround]

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I highly recommend this Eastern European girl in Brum, a bit on the chunkier side but she compensates by putting on an amazing performance! Clearly a semi pro or ex full time escort as she turned up with a little bag of condoms, lube and was well versed in hooker lingo. She wanted 400 which I told her was insane for B'ham. She was happy with 200. Really nice girl.

[updownandaround]

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This one says she's in London but is based in Birmingham, decent no nonsense girl, 250 for all you can eat.

[DAlpine1980]

Have you met both of these recently?

[updownandaround]

Have you met both of these recently?

I have indeed.

[updownandaround]

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Definitely one for exotic the MILF lovers out there. Lives in Birmingham, no money mentioned or asked for which is odd as she gives off semi pro vibes. Literally up for anything, anal, rimming, you name it and and an absolutely amazing rack on a trim woman. She does the usual routine of "I'm only looking for one person" but clearly not the case. Well worth a go.

[Jumping Jack Flash]

Up Down and Around you’ve been busy, have the meets been recent?

You use a different MO to me, I prefer several meets with the same SB. I’ve been seeing my current SB for 18 months and in that time we have had around 25 meets. A 22 year old who wants your tongue and cock is a total ego boost!

[updownandaround]

Up Down and Around you’ve been busy, have the meets been recent?

You use a different MO to me, I prefer several meets with the same SB. I’ve been seeing my current SB for 18 months and in that time we have had around 25 meets. A 22 year old who wants your tongue and cock is a total ego boost!

Yes, all recent. I like a lot of variety, occasionally I find someone I'll see on the regular but I find that's quite rare. I also get bored easily especially if the sex is either too vanilla or the chemistry isn't right. I will typically organise 3 meets in a day in a nice hotel so that they don't hesitate to come over. I've only recently added Birmingham to the roster but mainly because the night life is so much fun! Manchester, Leeds, London and now Birmingham are my main haunts for Seeking. I've also been experimenting with Cardiff which is a bit hit and miss and not a lot of churn so not a lot of new girls. Newcastle, Edinburgh and Glasgow are also fruitful but too far away.

[Jumping Jack Flash]

Yes, all recent. I like a lot of variety, occasionally I find someone I'll see on the regular but I find that's quite rare. I also get bored easily especially if the sex is either too vanilla or the chemistry isn't right. I will typically organise 3 meets in a day in a nice hotel so that they don't hesitate to come over. I've only recently added Birmingham to the roster but mainly because the night life is so much fun! Manchester, Leeds, London and now Birmingham are my main haunts for Seeking. I've also been experimenting with Cardiff which is a bit hit and miss and not a lot of churn so not a lot of new girls. Newcastle, Edinburgh and Glasgow are also fruitful but too far away.

Fair play to you. I find that when you find a nugget on Seeking then it’s worth the time and investment, I’m meeting my regular today for food then an afternoon of good sex. There’s something about day use hotel rooms, you’re fucking whilst most other folk are working!

[DAlpine1980]

Up Down and Around you’ve been busy, have the meets been recent?

You use a different MO to me, I prefer several meets with the same SB. I’ve been seeing my current SB for 18 months and in that time we have had around 25 meets. A 22 year old who wants your tongue and cock is a total ego boost!

Yeah I like regulars too. I've dived back in after a few years away and it does seem to be harder to find that. I tend to find the arrangement relaxes quite a bit after the first few meets, and my most memorable meets have all come after meet 4 or 5

[updownandaround]

Yeah I like regulars too. I've dived back in after a few years away and it does seem to be harder to find that. I tend to find the arrangement relaxes quite a bit after the first few meets, and my most memorable meets have all come after meet 4 or 5

Don't get me wrong, I enjoy a good reg too but I find things get complicated, especially with the young ones as they often catch feelings. They also get complacent after a while of the soft life and think they can find it anywhere.

[Brumish]

Don't get me wrong, I enjoy a good reg too but I find things get complicated, especially with the young ones as they often catch feelings. They also get complacent after a while of the soft life and think they can find it anywhere.

This is so true

[DAlpine1980]

Don't get me wrong, I enjoy a good reg too but I find things get complicated, especially with the young ones as they often catch feelings. They also get complacent after a while of the soft life and think they can find it anywhere.

I agree things can get complicated. I have an interesting chat with a premium member on there who I am sure must have picked up on everyone's radar. She seems really nice but I can't help feeling she might be looking for more than something NSA even though she clearly knows her way around the site!

[updownandaround]

I'd go far as to say a lot of girls are like that, they want a lot more than just the hour long sex hook up and an exchange of cash, they want the emotional connection and of course the lifestyle. But would you really want to offer that to a girl who has 250K Seeking miles on the clock? An Insta with a million fuck buddies on it and a Whatsapp full of "I'm in the area this afternoon, wanna meet?" type blokes?

[DAlpine1980]

Had to happen didn't it. Always been able to cancel my subscription before. This time I did everything correct (followed the labyrnthine maze to cancel payment and subscription) and lost access to reading all my emails etc. Perfect. Today the payment pops up on my statement. I've just sent a polite email asking why this happened. I'll either get booted or ignored I suspect.

[updownandaround]

Had to happen didn't it. Always been able to cancel my subscription before. This time I did everything correct (followed the labyrnthine maze to cancel payment and subscription) and lost access to reading all my emails etc. Perfect. Today the payment pops up on my statement. I've just sent a polite email asking why this happened. I'll either get booted or ignored I suspect.

I always do the one time subscriptions but I know it defaults to the recurring sub.

[Chris1990mcr]

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This one says she's in London but is based in Birmingham, decent no nonsense girl, 250 for all you can eat.

Looks fit going to try and arrange a meet.

Love the look of the exotic milf you posted also trying with her.

[Jonesmick85]

Up Down and Around you’ve been busy, have the meets been recent?

You use a different MO to me, I prefer several meets with the same SB. I’ve been seeing my current SB for 18 months and in that time we have had around 25 meets. A 22 year old who wants your tongue and cock is a total ego boost!

She wants an allowance now 😭

[fredhiggins]

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Definitely one for exotic the MILF lovers out there. Lives in Birmingham, no money mentioned or asked for which is odd as she gives off semi pro vibes. Literally up for anything, anal, rimming, you name it and and an absolutely amazing rack on a trim woman. She does the usual routine of "I'm only looking for one person" but clearly not the case. Well worth a go.

Gorgeous

[Jonesmick85]

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Definitely one for exotic the MILF lovers out there. Lives in Birmingham, no money mentioned or asked for which is odd as she gives off semi pro vibes. Literally up for anything, anal, rimming, you name it and and an absolutely amazing rack on a trim woman. She does the usual routine of "I'm only looking for one person" but clearly not the case. Well worth a go.

Sorry I quoted the wrong message, this gorgeous milf wants an allowance now. She told me some SA acquaintances had advised her to ask for money. Gutted!!

Have you seen her daughter too 😍

[darkhorse85]

Sorry I quoted the wrong message, this gorgeous milf wants an allowance now. She told me some SA acquaintances had advised her to ask for money. Gutted!!

Have you seen her daughter too 😍

Has she removed her profile?

[Man of steel]

Looking to try seeking.com..Do most guys put in their actual details and pictures to attract long term relationships? and if comfortable allow them to come to your private residence.

[Jonesmick85]

Has she removed her profile?

Ah, I thought she’d just blocked me after we chatted and couldn’t come to an arrangement.

[InMefan]

Tried to re-sign up to seeking using a different email address and tried to pay but account is still suspended. They seem to remember all few different cards I've used.
Can you still pay using Revolut or not? I downloaded that app a while ago but I've never actually used it and I don't really understand properly how it works to be honest.

[darkhorse85]

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Definitely one for exotic the MILF lovers out there. Lives in Birmingham, no money mentioned or asked for which is odd as she gives off semi pro vibes. Literally up for anything, anal, rimming, you name it and and an absolutely amazing rack on a trim woman. She does the usual routine of "I'm only looking for one person" but clearly not the case. Well worth a go.

Updownandaround, Would you be up for swapping her number for another SB in West Mids?

[fredhiggins]

Ah, I thought she’d just blocked me after we chatted and couldn’t come to an arrangement.

I can't access her.

[Joball87]

Not sure if sharing numbers is in the rules for the forum unless numbers are publicly advertised ?!

[Jumping Jack Flash]

Looking to try seeking.com..Do most guys put in their actual details and pictures to attract long term relationships? and if comfortable allow them to come to your private residence.

I recommend reading this thread and the Seeking open thread in full before you start on Seeking. It will be time we’ll spent and could save you a small fortune.

[updownandaround]

Looking to try seeking.com..Do most guys put in their actual details and pictures to attract long term relationships? and if comfortable allow them to come to your private residence.

I think someone else already gave the advice of reading a few of the threads on the forums, click "Sugar Daddy" at the top of the home screen and digest all that first.

And I would advice against inviting any of them to your home unless you know them very very well. Certainly not for a first meet.

[updownandaround]

Has she removed her profile?

Apparently she's removed her profile. I know she sees a lot of guys now so she probably has enough paying blokes in her phone.

[updownandaround]

Sorry I quoted the wrong message, this gorgeous milf wants an allowance now. She told me some SA acquaintances had advised her to ask for money. Gutted!!

Have you seen her daughter too 😍

Her daughter is stunning btw 😂

[Iloveoral]

Updownandaround, Would you be up for swapping her number for another SB in West Mids?

Would you have any reviews to contribute to site matey?
I’m aware your not here as much as most.

[Maverick090]

Has anybody seen this girl? Seems genuine just a few tiny red flags about her…any info would be great

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SexySiren

[Maverick090]

Has anybody seen or have any info on this girl, seems genuine but a few tiny red flags 🚩

SexySiren

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[Jmaes123]

Her daughter is stunning btw 😂

The daughter is not a bad Tennis Player is she on SA too?

[updownandaround]

The daughter is not a bad Tennis Player is she on SA too?

Not that I am aware of, no. Let's just hope she has tits like her mum!

[YoungBrum]

Has anybody seen or have any info on this girl, seems genuine but a few tiny red flags 🚩

SexySiren

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Spoke for a bit, seemed cool but then hit me with "I need a deposit to prove you're real"

[Jmaes123]

Not that I am aware of, no. Let's just hope she has tits like her mum!

Christ yes her breasts are amazing, she doesn’t usually wear a bra easy access, she has a great body indeed for her age

[Brumish]

Zoya -
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Anyone got any intel on this wench? Something just doesn't seem right...she has the sort of look I'm really into ATM but she says she's a student and doesn't beat around the bush and agrees with almost everything I throw at her. Seems far too straightforward for a student

[updownandaround]

Zoya -
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Anyone got any intel on this wench? Something just doesn't seem right...she has the sort of look I'm really into ATM but she says she's a student and doesn't beat around the bush and agrees with almost everything I throw at her. Seems far too straightforward for a student

I video chatted with this one a couple of weeks ago but I just didn't vibe with her, nice enough though and no red flags that I noticed, just not my type I guess.

[Brumish]

I video chatted with this one a couple of weeks ago but I just didn't vibe with her, nice enough though and no red flags that I noticed, just not my type I guess.

Great stuff pal 👍
She is absolutely my type....I'm heavily into this north African look

[DAlpine1980]

Zoya -
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Anyone got any intel on this wench? Something just doesn't seem right...she has the sort of look I'm really into ATM but she says she's a student and doesn't beat around the bush and agrees with almost everything I throw at her. Seems far too straightforward for a student

Chatted a fair bit with her, but found it just too business like. She seemed nice enough