Do you add to the list or not?

[Marmalade]

Spot on, wristjob. The OP's almost taken the approach: "Never mind the quality; count how many I've seen." Whereas for many of us, especially the more mature punters, know that the best SPs provide a quality service.

Okay; lots of SPs provide a low quality service but that wasn't the issue the OP raised.

I think we’ve established that the OP is a twat and he’s hopefully regretting such a moronic post. But there’s nothing wrong with quantity per se. A lot of us go through different phases. Slow luxurious fucks with added ‘personality’ are a great buzz: but so can several cheap n cheerful pump-n-dumps one after the other (contrasts and variety without their inane baggage & chatter). The dumb thing is doing it to impress mates (if his mates give a fuck maybe he needs new mates).

[Waterhouse]

I think we’ve established that the OP is a twat and he’s hopefully regretting such a moronic post. But there’s nothing wrong with quantity per se. A lot of us go through different phases. Slow luxurious fucks with added ‘personality’ are a great buzz: but so can several cheap n cheerful pump-n-dumps one after the other (contrasts and variety without their inane baggage & chatter). The dumb thing is doing it to impress mates (if his mates give a fuck maybe he needs new mates).

Truth to tell, I get the impression the folk on this forum are the closest thing he has to mates.

[somethingrandom]

I have no target, or list.
Pros outnumber civvies 20:1 alas, but then I have been married for all but 2 years since I was 20.

25 civilians, you do the maths......

[Ali Katt]

Do you add escorts to the number of women you slept with or not?

 I'm only counting civie women on my list. I'm not sure if I should add escorts due to the ease of just arranging and paying for the service. Where as with civie girls it's all about the chase and attraction.

It's not a contest. I don't care if someone has had more sexual partners than me. As I've said before I am more interested in the experience than just having a fuck.

[Home Alone]

Truth to tell, I get the impression the folk on this forum are the closest thing he has to mates.

... which is why I sometimes call you guys "the mates I've never met." I can easily tell you stuff that I'd never tell my longstanding mates.

Even though several have met a couple of my Regulars over the years without realising how I knew them.

[hawkzville]

I recall once shagging a WG whilst I was on a business trip to Singapore who told me that she was originally from East Timor; for a while after that I had a bit of an obsession - which became a "list" - ie I'd like to shag at least one woman from as many different countries as possible; happily crossing them off gave me (at the time) something of a fillip, but then getting increasingly fed up with it once I'd been through all the obvious countries and realising that unless I actually went to Tajikistan I'd be unlikely to find a W/G hailing from there - taking that to the nth degree then I didn't fancy hanging around in Vatican City on the off-chance that one of the approximate 400 female residents would do the business...…. so in the end I just abandoned it; after all there was no "prize" to being the sad old git who'd thought shagging his way (metaphorically) around the world would be fun..... like all lists or hit lists eventually they cease to be relevant or important.

[Ali Katt]

What is the point in reaching 100 fucks? Then what is the next goal?

Of course having sex with escorts counts. Why would a one night stand be more desirable, especially if it has the nefarious aspect of taking "advantage" of a drunken woman?

That said as I've said before organising a date is harder than organising a punt.

[Charliehutton]

What is the point in reaching 100 fucks? Then what is the next goal?

I can't speak for the OP, but in my case, Ali, it's because it's a race against time. "Oh Lord give me Chastity, but Oh Lord.....please don't give it me yet."

One of these days the Cialis will stop working and that'll be the end of it for me. Game over. And that's how I see it, really, as a game. Setting myself a little target just adds a bit of extra fun to it all. It's a bit like playing golf for a couple of quid; it really doesn't matter, and the game would still be perfectly enjoyable without it, but it adds a bit of zest, somehow.

So it's no big deal, and I can well understand why anyone would consider it pointless. As for the goal after that, well, it's better to travel hopefully than to arrive.....

[Ali Katt]

I can't speak for the OP, but in my case, Ali, it's because it's a race against time. "Oh Lord give me Chastity, but Oh Lord.....please don't give it me yet."

One of these days the Cialis will stop working and that'll be the end of it for me. Game over. And that's how I see it, really, as a game. Setting myself a little target just adds a bit of extra fun to it all. It's a bit like playing golf for a couple of quid; it really doesn't matter, and the game would still be perfectly enjoyable without it, but it adds a bit of zest, somehow.

So it's no big deal, and I can well understand why anyone would consider it pointless. As for the goal after that, well, it's better to travel hopefully than to arrive.....

Your circumstances sound different. I think metalgear said he is in his 30s. It's having sex for the sake of some imaginary target to prove your sexual prowess that I find pointless.

[Rockhead]

Must admit I do keep a private list, for the same reasons that Marmalade used to - it's more as an enjoyable memory-jogger, sentimental reasons etc. (I conveniently omit to record the amount of £££ spent).

I'll also add that if that list didn't include WGs it'd be pretty f**kin' short! 

[Home Alone]

I can't speak for the OP, but in my case, Ali, it's because it's a race against time. "Oh Lord give me Chastity, but Oh Lord.....please don't give it me yet."

One of these days the Cialis will stop working and that'll be the end of it for me. Game over.

As a fellow disciple of St. Augustine of Hippo, Charlie, can I offer a couple of other thoughts? I have a Bucket List of Services I've not yet had - or at least not yet enjoyed - which I'm working my way through. So that's a justification for keeping a list of Escorts I'd still like to see.

And, even if the Cialis stopped doing the trick, I think I'd still want to book the occasional punt. Well, who am I to deprive some lass who gives me the impression that she's enjoying my RO of that pleasure?!

[Ali Katt]

As a fellow disciple of St. Augustine of Hippo, Charlie, can I offer a couple of other thoughts? I have a Bucket List of Services I've not yet had - or at least not yet enjoyed - which I'm working my way through. So that's a justification for keeping a list of Escorts I'd still like to see.

And, even if the Cialis stopped doing the trick, I think I'd still want to book the occasional punt. Well, who am I to deprive some lass who gives me the impression that she's enjoying my RO of that pleasure?!

That's also different and there's stuff I want to try as well. I could have misconstrued it but the impression I got was metal gear was having a pissing contest with his mates.

[Home Alone]

Don't think you'd misconstrued at all!

[francescototti]

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