Thanks all for the good comments. Definitely agree that:
1. You have to spend it somewhere, it won’t go with you to the grave
2. After a while keeping track makes it seem Ollie a bad thing but it is a hobby that brings much enjoyment
3. We’ve all had some stellar punts and ones to forget but that makes it an adventure
4. This site has indeed been a god sent. I remember when I first thought of punting and discovered backpage and adultwork, I had no clue what to do. It was only after I stumbled accidentally on this site and decided to read in depth that I figured out where to go and how to operate. Thanks to all my fellow contributors. I think I have also done my bit giving back in reviews.
I think the reason I got to thinking about all this was primarily because:
- Covid has me idle lol so I have nothing better to think about
- distracting myself from work at hand
- I’ve been grappling lately with the idea of punting while having a partner : both financially and personally. As one said above, a better mortgage and family spend are benefits of not punting but I think not satisfying the urge to punt can be even more damage .. ie lead to extra marital affair etc.
For that reason I think punting costs outweigh the negatives.
- I was also just interested to see how my average spending was stacking up. I started off punting at the 200£/hour mark and slowly stepped it down to the sex party rates or the 60-80£/half hour. Over time that trended my spend and ratios down to what I think is almost acceptable. At 80£ish/WG and 109£ish/hour , I’m not too far off what most of us would consider to be acceptable rates. My aspiration is to stick close to these average figures and punt on a “needs” basis rather than overindulge
Thanks for sharing all the commentary, it’s put into perspective my spend and circumstances !
Would be also interested in how some of you deal with the thought of your £ and your partner after you burst that first sobering load. Back when I was young and single and horny with money to throw, I could cum 5/6 times in 2 hours with no remorse ... now when I bust my gun.. first thing comes to mind is £ gone and “shame on me”
. Anyone else experience that?