Going back after a bad punt?

[Justanotheruser]

Not long ago I saw a girl who I had on my list for ages. Ended up having a few too many drinks with her at my hotel and things didn't go quite as planned - sex was shit and failed to cum. This was pretty much my fault for getting pissed though. Problem is that now I have a serious feeling of 'unfinished business' and want to go back for a second round....

Anyone managed to have a better time after a particularly poor first meeting? Is it even worth giving someone a second chance...?

[SirFrank]

I rarely go back after a good punt so I certainly wouldn't after a shit one. If the girl dicks me around they rarely get a second chance with me. I got pissed around on the weekend but I half expected it and the girl did let me know so I've not blown her out of the water but not sure if I'll give her another look for a while.

That said in this instance you are at least partly to blame for having a gash experience. I assume she must be smoking if you think she's worth another shot? If you do go back don't get shitfaced beforehand

[Dani]

Normally  would say no don't go back as if a prossie is shit at a first meet she is likely to be worse on a second.  However as you say the punt was shit as you were pissed so sex was crap and you couldn't manage to cum then why not try again but this time don't drink.
If it is your fault it was shit as you say then she might be very good with someone who is sober and actually able to have sex properly and to enjoy it.  However if the punt was shit not only because you were drunk but because she was too or she just didnt put any effort in then don't go back as she is likely to be the same again.

Only you know if it was bad only because you were drunk

[Justanotheruser]

She is definitely good enough in the looks department. But, she's also one of the only girls I can find who will offer facefucking and anal, which is what I'm looking for really.

Guess the main thing holding me back is the cringe factor of it being crap last time. Only cure for that is to man up and actually do it. Anyway thanks for the advice, always good to hear opinions.

[yorkshire123]

She is definitely good enough in the looks department. But, she's also one of the only girls I can find who will offer facefucking and anal, which is what I'm looking for really.

Guess the main thing holding me back is the cringe factor of it being crap last time. Only cure for that is to man up and actually do it. Anyway thanks for the advice, always good to hear opinions.

Any chance of a link to her please 

[threechilliman]

Not sure why you would get pissed before or during a punt, but each to their own. I find alcohol gets my brain in gear but puts my cock to sleep.

Might be worth a revisit, but drink lemonade this time....

tcm

[LL]

I tried it once (read my two reviews on Vanessa Queen).  Went to see her I was pissed and had trouble getting it up.  Had a good time though.  Next time I saw her she'd gained weight and the service was shit.  I gave her a good pounding but she booted me out early.  Don't bother going back after a shit one.

[Tjkooker]

Guilty.
Lass at an agency. First time was amazing. Gorgeous sexy wild.

Second third and fourth times were a disaster sex wise. From all out rough sex first time to her lying prone in missionary on last meet. Bit of EAS on both sides I guess as she was suggesting where we might meet "accidentally"
But if that's the level of sex I'm getting when paying for it how shit would she be in a relationship!

[Ongbak]

I've had a bad punt with someone, but I could tell she was a bit shy but had her down as a ''possible return at a later date - plan B''. I did, and I was blown away, she was completely different and I had an amazing punt.

I think in some cases, people will come across as a bit shy (for their own reason) and it will have an effect on the service they provide. It can go either way, the more you see them the better service they'll provide as they start to feel more comfortable with you OR they provide a truly amazing first punt but start to decline the more times you visit. I've experienced both ways.

[LL]

Second third and fourth times were a disaster sex wise. From all out rough sex first time to her lying prone in missionary on last meet. Bit of EAS on both sides I guess as she was suggesting where we might meet "accidentally"
But if that's the level of sex I'm getting when paying for it how shit would she be in a relationship!

No offence intended mate but I think that EAS on her part is unlikely.  Did she suggest you meet her somewhere like a restaurant or nightclub where you'd end up spending money on her?  I've learnt the hard way that they usually just want something from you (money, help, contacts) when they ask/agree to see you outside of work "unpaid".

[the_exile]

I've had a bad punt with someone, but I could tell she was a bit shy but had her down as a ''possible return at a later date - plan B''. I did, and I was blown away, she was completely different and I had an amazing punt.

I think in some cases, people will come across as a bit shy (for their own reason) and it will have an effect on the service they provide. It can go either way, the more you see them the better service they'll provide as they start to feel more comfortable with you OR they provide a truly amazing first punt but start to decline the more times you visit. I've experienced both ways.

Agree, found a very good local regular by going back after a disappointing first visit - which I put down to her having an off day.

I recognise that feeling of "unfinished business" too!

[Justanotheruser]

Had the opportunity to go back - didn't. If I do, I think I'll leave it a few months and build my confidence again (I'm the shy type). Instead I saw a girl called Miss KDD who was recommended on here and it was fucking awesome. So, big thanks to those who give advice on this site. I'm not a regular user but it's proved very useful...

[Tjkooker]

No offence intended mate but I think that EAS on her part is unlikely.  Did she suggest you meet her somewhere like a restaurant or nightclub where you'd end up spending money on her?  I've learnt the hard way that they usually just want something from you (money, help, contacts) when they ask/agree to see you outside of work "unpaid".

Nothing like that. She actually suggested at the local swimming pool where we both took our kids. Maybe she wanted me to pay for her open lane session or buy a new rubber ring for her wee lass.   I'm not a naive gullible fluffy mate! I know when I'm being played. She wasn't playing.

[The happy one]

Hi,

Any chance of posting links when you talking about an escort please

Want to know the one who is into face fucking

[Justanotheruser]

External Link/Members Only

There you go. As I say, the poor experience was down to me, so not a reflection on her.

[Quesadilla]

External Link/Members Only

There you go. As I say, the poor experience was down to me, so not a reflection on her.

Hmmm...when I read your original message it reminded me of a punt I'd had so no surprise to see it's the same girl!

I don't normally drink and punt myself and it was madness trying to keep up with a girl who's profile name is Whisky!

We ended up laughing and joking half of the session and never really got into a rhythm. It was kind of fun and we way, way went over the booking time without her batting an eye. But ultimately I didn't cum - which I also put down to me especially when drinking. She must be getting a complex now with that happening twice!

So it was unsatisfying and yet I still would give her another go as her DTBJ is pretty awesome and she's definitely into much more kinky stuff.

I would definitely refrain from drinking next time!

She is certainly a character isn't she?

All that said she only does outcalls and I'm so far away she'd only do a 2 hour session which is getting a bit expensive with all the extras I'd want.

[Toshiba]

Id never go back

Plenty of choice so no need