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Offline thekingreturns

So I was doing my usual daily swiping on Tinder and low and behold I match with a local-ish WG.... Not made contact yet as i'm unsure what to do. I was attracted to her first picture then it only became clear where I knew her from after i'd swiped right.... and boom mutual match. I'll be honest I wont message her due to knowing her current hobbie is other men's cocks. Anyone else been in this situation?

TIA

Kingy

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Offline thekingreturns

Clearly not going to say as if he see's this she will have my town and pics of me

Offline Fuzzyduck

Your post doesn't make sense unless you're using Tinder to try and find a girlfriend. If you're just after some easy fucks, then I don't see the issue.

Offline thekingreturns

Oh yeah looking to find the "one"

Offline stevedave

If you have seen her as a punter, then the likelihood of her putting out for free is pretty slim. If you haven't, just crack on and try and fuck her... lets be honest, nobody uses tinder to meet the love of their life  :lol:

Offline thekingreturns

If you have seen her as a punter, then the likelihood of her putting out for free is pretty slim. If you haven't, just crack on and try and fuck her... lets be honest, nobody uses tinder to meet the love of their life  :lol:

I must admit I've used it before briefly but since I've been using it more regular I've noticed its more about sex than a relationship

Offline bhudda

Clearly not going to say as if he see's this she will have my town and pics of me

Never used tinder but presumably she will have "matched" with multiple people? Not just you.

So i for one am not going to take you seriously

Offline jesse4585

Never used a dating app,  but have been in a similar situation.

It was about 10 years ago, the WG & I arrived at the parking at the same time for one of those 'driver awareness courses'. (You get them after tripping a speeding camera,  as an alternative to points on your licence.)  She asked me which building the course was in, saying "You look like a man who knows what he's doing"  (I was wearing one of my best suits).  We sat together for the 2 hour course,  talking in breaks & the group exercises.  We had a strong mutual attraction, and she made it clear she wanted me to ask her out.  I already had an intuition she was a WG, which was confirmed as she took a phone call in one the breaks, which I partly overheard;  from the things she was saying she was a brothel girl talking to the 'manager'.

The only reason I didn't ask her is that I was in a relationship at the time.  For more than a year afterwards, part of me strongly regretted not doing anything. The relationship I was in was already on the way out. I used to have dreams about fucking her.  I'm not very good looking, and even when I was young I'd only get opportunities for free sex with a new attractive woman about once per 2-3 years.

Hopefully you're the sort who has more opportunities, and you won't regret missing out like I did.

Offline Bigwilts


So I was doing my usual daily swiping on Tinder and low and behold I match with a local-ish WG.... Not made contact yet as i'm unsure what to do. I was attracted to her first picture then it only became clear where I knew her from after i'd swiped right.... and boom mutual match. I'll be honest I wont message her due to knowing her current hobbie is other men's cocks. Anyone else been in this situation?

TIA

Kingy
If you really want nothing to do with her then ‘unmatch’, you would then both lose access to each other’s profiles.




I must admit I've used it before briefly but since I've been using it more regular I've noticed its more about sex than a relationship
Different people are dating for different reasons.  Some actually are looking for a relationship, some just sex and others are looking for a relationship but will settle for some sex along the way.


She may be on there as another form of advertising, but unless her profile drops the hints or she brings that up in chat / conversation then she is probably just there as a normal person

The worst cases that can happen are that you go out and pay for a meal with a woman and nothing happens afterwards or you fall in love then get depressed about her day job.

I do tinder, massages and prostitutes.  They are all different.  Currently I’m not looking for anyone permanent
One fun one was a woman on tinder while I was away for the weekend, she was looking for long term but was happy to settle for a fuck buddy a few times when I was around before she found someone to keep

Others have been normal women interested in dating, with and without one or two night stands




Offline Fuzzyduck

I must admit I've used it before briefly but since I've been using it more regular I've noticed its more about sex than a relationship

:sarcastic: :sarcastic:

You should go for it, mate. Looking at your reviews, it doesn't seem you're having much luck with regular punting.

Offline thekingreturns

:sarcastic: :sarcastic:

You should go for it, mate. Looking at your reviews, it doesn't seem you're having much luck with regular punting.

Probably the reason I've not punted on these shores since haha

Offline bdyno

If you have seen her as a punter, then the likelihood of her putting out for free is pretty slim. If you haven't, just crack on and try and fuck her... lets be honest, nobody uses tinder to meet the love of their life  :lol:
100% this.

Offline thekingreturns

Never used tinder but presumably she will have "matched" with multiple people? Not just you.

So i for one am not going to take you seriously

Oh yeah and looking at other comments she probably swipes right for everyone.

Offline Fuzzyduck

Oh yeah and looking at other comments she probably swipes right for everyone.

Oh I get it now. You have no intention to see her but just wanted to tell us that a SP in civvie mode liked you. Fair enough.

Offline thekingreturns

Oh I get it now. You have no intention to see her but just wanted to tell us that a SP in civvie mode liked you. Fair enough.

Not at all.... it now just makes sense why she matched me that's all.... for what its worth she isn't much of a looker.

Offline Fuzzyduck

Not at all.... it now just makes sense why she matched me that's all.... for what its worth she isn't much of a looker.

Yes, perhaps she's in hooker mode and using tinder to get new clients. But she also might be in civvie mode and just likes the look of you. Is that unreasonable? :lol:

Personally, assuming I was still attracted enough to see her, I would go see what the story was. If she's touting, then I'd drop her straightaway. If she's for real, then I might have some fun times knowing it was unlikely ever to progress too far. I'd certainly never mention I was aware of her job.

Offline thekingreturns

Yes, perhaps she's in hooker mode and using tinder to get new clients. But she also might be in civvie mode and just likes the look of you. Is that unreasonable? :lol:

Personally, assuming I was still attracted enough to see her, I would go see what the story was. If she's touting, then I'd drop her straightaway. If she's for real, then I might have some fun times knowing it was unlikely ever to progress too far. I'd certainly never mention I was aware of her job.

Well message sent and see what happens

Offline Rochelle

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Well message sent and see what happens
She probably swiped right by accident.
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Offline thekingreturns

She probably swiped right by accident.
:D

How bloody rude.... true.... but rude

Offline Fuzzyduck

Well message sent and see what happens

I want an invitation to the wedding, OK?

Offline lewisjones23

Never used a dating app,  but have been in a similar situation.

It was about 10 years ago, the WG & I arrived at the parking at the same time for one of those 'driver awareness courses'. (You get them after tripping a speeding camera,  as an alternative to points on your licence.)  She asked me which building the course was in, saying "You look like a man who knows what he's doing"  (I was wearing one of my best suits).  We sat together for the 2 hour course,  talking in breaks & the group exercises.  We had a strong mutual attraction, and she made it clear she wanted me to ask her out.  I already had an intuition she was a WG, which was confirmed as she took a phone call in one the breaks, which I partly overheard;  from the things she was saying she was a brothel girl talking to the 'manager'.

The only reason I didn't ask her is that I was in a relationship at the time.  For more than a year afterwards, part of me strongly regretted not doing anything. The relationship I was in was already on the way out. I used to have dreams about fucking her.  I'm not very good looking, and even when I was young I'd only get opportunities for free sex with a new attractive woman about once per 2-3 years.

Hopefully you're the sort who has more opportunities, and you won't regret missing out like I did.

why did you wear a suit to the course?

Offline niceguy30!!

Give it a go, I had a long term relationship with an escorts. If I ever split up with my current misses, I'd defo consider a dating another escort again. It has plenty of benefits.

Offline freeze44

Give it a go, I had a long term relationship with an escorts. If I ever split up with my current misses, I'd defo consider a dating another escort again. It has plenty of benefits.

Fair enough but struggle to know what the benefits would be?

Yes they are supposed to be skilled at fucking but that's because their doing it with every Tom, Diana and Abdul every day.

Skilled at lying and manipulation and getting you to part with cash too!

Before you say I'm being negative I would say realistic. You may have had an experience that's different but that's in the minority reckon.

We pay to fuck so why would it be a benefit if there no cash for the wg  :unknown:

Offline millbush

Give it a go, I had a long term relationship with an escorts. If I ever split up with my current misses, I'd defo consider a dating another escort again. It has plenty of benefits.

Got the odd negative also.
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Offline jesse4585

why did you wear a suit to the course?
It was held in the evening, I probably went there straight from work, don't remember for sure.  Might have just been wearing it as it looks good on me.  Back in the day I'd sometimes put on a suit just for a punt.   That was a while back,  I don't think suits impress folk these days like they did a decade or two back.

Offline king tarzan

Lots of whores are on tinder.. nothing new...
for shafting of there own personal choice.. they choose from the cock menu :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
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Online scutty brown

Sees a girl on Tinder and doesn't know what to do?
In that case he's better sticking to Grindr

Offline king tarzan

Sees a girl on Tinder and doesn't know what to do?
In that case he's better sticking to Grindr

Give him a few lessons then :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
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Offline OakTree

Never used a dating app,  but have been in a similar situation.

It was about 10 years ago, the WG & I arrived at the parking at the same time for one of those 'driver awareness courses'. (You get them after tripping a speeding camera,  as an alternative to points on your licence.)  She asked me which building the course was in, saying "You look like a man who knows what he's doing"  (I was wearing one of my best suits).  We sat together for the 2 hour course,  talking in breaks & the group exercises.  We had a strong mutual attraction, and she made it clear she wanted me to ask her out.  I already had an intuition she was a WG, which was confirmed as she took a phone call in one the breaks, which I partly overheard;  from the things she was saying she was a brothel girl talking to the 'manager'.

The only reason I didn't ask her is that I was in a relationship at the time.  For more than a year afterwards, part of me strongly regretted not doing anything. The relationship I was in was already on the way out. I used to have dreams about fucking her.  I'm not very good looking, and even when I was young I'd only get opportunities for free sex with a new attractive woman about once per 2-3 years.

Hopefully you're the sort who has more opportunities, and you won't regret missing out like I did.

I think you’ve added 2+2 and made 5

What’s the chances of being a punter, going on a speed awareness course and end up sitting next to a WG?

You convinced yourself she fancied you then convinced yourself she’s a WG purely on intuition. How? Then she has a phone call and by the sounds of it let’s on to the whole world she fucks for cash. Come on!

You didn’t miss out on anything mate. Your mind was just working in overdrive.

Offline nightbot

It's common to get matches due to accidental swipes, or match with someone but have no interest in actually meeting up, or match and then not really be interested.
It's also common to have your message just get buried under a sea of other messages from other guys and you never get a response because of that. I once saw my ex flatmate's tinder and she had like 900+ matches and most of those guys sent her a text. No one would possibly read it all, no matter how nice and thoughtful the message.

The best time to get noticed and increase the likelihood of a response is actually by thinking of something quick and sending her a message immediately when you match, as she will notice the message right along side the match notification. But unfortunately you came here to make a thread instead of doing that.

If you have seen her as a punter, then the likelihood of her putting out for free is pretty slim. If you haven't, just crack on and try and fuck her... lets be honest, nobody uses tinder to meet the love of their life  :lol:
Two of my friends got married recently to people they met on Tinder. And the woman my best mate has been with for past 3 years was someone he met on Tinder.
Plenty of people in their mid 20s to mid 30s use Tinder and Bumble for serious dating in UK, outside of those range it's a fuckbuddy finder. In US it's entirely a fuckbuddy finder regardless of age range.
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Offline PatMacGroin

I've heard plenty of stories of women using tinder in a very mercenary way.

From struggling students using it as a way to get taken out for a free meal. Through to Sugar Baby/Gold Digger types on the look out for a wealthy guy willing to pamper them. With no interest in a relationship or having sex, but giving out just enough affection to get what they want. There have always been a proportion of women like that, even if it is small, but tinder is a tool they can use to great efficiency. Just like it's a tool plenty guys have learnt to exploit for copious one night stands.

Often, female users with that modus opperandi will be looking for a profile that fits certain criteria. Basically, a guy that looks/sounds pathetic enough to be a desperate soft touch without being dangerous. Even better if his profile indicates he might have a bit of cash, by wearing expensive clothing in photo's or mentions of a flash job. Would that describe your twitter profile? Something about the self deprecating tone of some of your posts makes me think it might be.

Even if she is being mercenary, as you know she's a WG you can be well aware that's a definite possibility. So try it out with that in mind. Maybe you'll be pleasantly surprised.

Offline PatMacGroin

Oh I get it now. You have no intention to see her but just wanted to tell us that a SP in civvie mode liked you. Fair enough.

And this is probably true too.  :lol:

Offline freeze44

I've heard plenty of stories of women using tinder in a very mercenary way.

From struggling students using it as a way to get taken out for a free meal. Through to Sugar Baby/Gold Digger types on the look out for a wealthy guy willing to pamper them. With no interest in a relationship or having sex, but giving out just enough affection to get what they want. There have always been a proportion of women like that, even if it is small, but tinder is a tool they can use to great efficiency. Just like it's a tool plenty guys have learnt to exploit for copious one night stands.

Often, female users with that modus opperandi will be looking for a profile that fits certain criteria. Basically, a guy that looks/sounds pathetic enough to be a desperate soft touch without being dangerous. Even better if his profile indicates he might have a bit of cash, by wearing expensive clothing in photo's or mentions of a flash job. Would that describe your twitter profile? Something about the self deprecating tone of some of your posts makes me think it might be.

Even if she is being mercenary, as you know she's a WG you can be well aware that's a definite possibility. So try it out with that in mind. Maybe you'll be pleasantly surprised.

Some good points here  :thumbsup: Think you may have burst the op's bubble though! He gone from being a stud muffin to a loser being used!  :lol:

Offline thekingreturns

Well I never got a message back and I don't know if shes read it or what because i'm not a paid Tinder member.

The more and more I look on Tinder you do tend to notice a lot of people after a sugar daddy etc.

Offline Mr Sinister

I've come across 2 reviewed wgs on tinder, I swiped them but did not match.

On a break from punting as I'm doing the whole dating app thing with good success fucked a few civvies so far.

Offline jesse4585

I think you’ve added 2+2 and made 5
Possibly, though I'm the one who was there,  and I doubt it.

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What’s the chances of being a punter, going on a speed awareness course and end up sitting next to a WG?
For that specific scenario,  the chances are low.  But it's just one out of literally thousands of possible situations where a punter might meet a WG out in the wild.

Let's define meet  as  "find yourself in close proximity with a stranger for at least 5 mins"  , like  standing next to them in a long queue,  or sitting next to them on a train.

This is will vary depending on lifestyle, but many will have on average ten or more such meetings a week.
In line with government estimates, close to 1% of the population are WGs.
If you do the math, then over the years,  it's close to impossible for someone who's out & about a bit not to have a few random meets with WGs.

Hence we've had quite a few threads about bumping into WGs in public.  Granted, in most cases it's as the punter already knows the WG, or at least recognises them from pics.

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You convinced yourself she fancied you then convinced yourself she’s a WG purely on intuition. How?
First clue she fancied me was the unusually complementary quote I posted about me looking like I know what I'm doing. Over the next two hours there was all kinds of body language, e.g. leaning forward so I could get a good look at her tits (she had the top 2 buttons of her shirt undone), she even once played footsie with me!

Actually I never 100% assumned she was a WG just by intuition, just developed a strong suspicion. Think about street walkers for a second - almost anyone can tell they're whore's just by looking at them, they have an obviously sexualised appearance & way of walking.

On the other extreme, like I've said before,  some of the big shot businessmen & jetsetters who frequently visit the top hotels, claim to have an antenna that can recognise the high class whores that can sometimes be found round the bar.

I've no experience with that,  but I do with brothel girls, my fave type of whore.  The lass in question was  sexualised in dress, movement, eye contact etc. Not to the extreme of a street walker,but enough for me to think she was likely a whore.  If you read my reviews, I often spend a good bit of the session chatting with the WG. I'm the sort whos interested in WG as people, so this helps me spot them out in the wild.

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Then she has a phone call and by the sounds of it let’s on to the whole world she fucks for cash.
It wasn't that blatant, only a punter or someone in the sex industry would have put two & two together.  In fairness, I guess there's a 5%  chance I miss read and it was really civvy work related.  And maybe a 5% chance she was just a big flirt and didn't really fancy me at all.


Offline jesse4585

I once saw my ex flatmate's tinder and she had like 900+ matches and most of those guys sent her a text.

I believe that's common even for plain lasses  on Tinder,  and for the very best looking men. But guys who are average looking or below, they hardly get any messages at all, much less actual dates.  And that's largely regardless of age or location, though some places are better than others.

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This is why I've never used dating apps. Folk like me with an (at best) average looking face can waste dozens of hours a month, pay for premium updates,  and still never get any date. 

A much surer bet to do a little OT and go on a punt!

Offline jesse4585

close to 1% of the population are WGs.

Pesky middle age!  It's 0.1% not 1%.  But other points still stand. I've had some of my best wanks thinking of what might have happened if I'd asked that lass out,  and don't like to think I might have miss-read about her being a WG.

Offline Watfordpunter97

oh great just in time for Valentines Day!! :dash:

lol "Right, just off to go and suck more cock love"

Offline nightbot

I believe that's common even for plain lasses  on Tinder,  and for the very best looking men. But guys who are average looking or below, they hardly get any messages at all, much less actual dates.  And that's largely regardless of age or location, though some places are better than others.

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This is why I've never used dating apps. Folk like me with an (at best) average looking face can waste dozens of hours a month, pay for premium updates,  and still never get any date. 

A much surer bet to do a little OT and go on a punt!
My ex flatemate is a stunner with like traditionally attractive features (by western standards) like slim, blonde, blue eyes, symmetrical face etc....so 900+ is probably on the higher end of what women usually get. More plain looking women, or even model material men don't actually have as much because I've seen tinder matches of people that fit those criteria as well.

Additionally, in Europe white guys have it better off on tinder than non white. You can be an above average, even handsome and fit non white guy and yet you'd get beaten by an average looking white dude when it comes to online dating.
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Offline jesse4585

My ex flatemate is a stunner with like traditionally attractive features (by western standards) like slim, blonde, blue eyes, symmetrical face etc....so 900+ is probably on the higher end of what women usually get. More plain looking women, or even model material men don't actually have as much because I've seen tinder matches of people that fit those criteria as well.
Interesting.  Yeah I meant plain women & very hot men will also also have plenty of messages, compared to regular males. It makes sense that stunning women would have by far the most.

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Additionally, in Europe white guys have it better off on tinder than non white. You can be an above average, even handsome and fit non white guy and yet you'd get beaten by an average looking white dude when it comes to online dating.
Yeah I'd heard that, and also that it might be close to global not just Europe, though I think compared to men v women,  white v non white is much less studied. Would be interesting to know if it makes such a difference only in online dating - just from general observation round west London,  slough etc, you quite often see non white men with equally attractive white chicks. Quite worrying that men living in Asia also have the disadvantage of outnumbering women by many millions, at least in countries like India & China.  Hopefully policy makers will never let that sort of selective abortion happen on a scale again, can't be good for social stability or individual happiness.  At least there is punting to act as a pressure valve.

Offline nightbot

Interesting.  Yeah I meant plain women & very hot men will also also have plenty of messages, compared to regular males. It makes sense that stunning women would have by far the most.
Yeah I'd heard that, and also that it might be close to global not just Europe, though I think compared to men v women,  white v non white is much less studied. Would be interesting to know if it makes such a difference only in online dating - just from general observation round west London,  slough etc, you quite often see non white men with equally attractive white chicks. Quite worrying that men living in Asia also have the disadvantage of outnumbering women by many millions, at least in countries like India & China.  Hopefully policy makers will never let that sort of selective abortion happen on a scale again, can't be good for social stability or individual happiness.  At least there is punting to act as a pressure valve.
It's just online dating really.
Almost all the women I've dated or been on dates with so far since I came to this country have been white, and if I meet someone face to face and ask them out then I end up getting a date most of the time. So I've never really had any issues related to my race or appearance...online dating though...is a desert for me. Barely a 100 matches over several years and most of them never responded. I've had more success and more genuine matches on Bumble than Tinder percentage wise, but this also means you match less on Bumble than on tinder, but when you do match there's a higher chance of communication and subsequently a date. Just because of the way bumble works.

Offline billybobsmith

Been trying Tinder for a couple of weeks now.
Pretty much swiped right on everything (bar the really large ladies and the Instagram poser model types).  Probably 1000+ in the NW and Lincolnshire areas.
(Can't really tell where it's searching as it seems to give random results for London etc. when you put your location as Manchester and 20mile range)

I've had 7 matches.  3 unliked me by the following morning and the other 4 just ignored me.
I added a few to Instagram and Snapchat (ones that are "within 10-20 miles" of me = somewhere in the USA).  Most seem to be wanting up to £40 for their photos and videos.
Another, apparently just up the road from, wanted the SA favourite of "sign up for this adult website I use so I can verify you before we meet".  Doubtful "she's" anywhere within 4000 miles of me!

Either my pictures and bio are bad, or I'm just plain repulsive to all women on there.

Offline nightbot

If I recall it correctly, the way the app works is that if you swipe everything it actually gives you a lower score and affects your profile visibility.

The accounts that ask you to sign up are basically scam accounts or even bots.
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Offline sub_marine

I know a guy at work from Sweden, he visits Japan about 4 times a year for business.  He is on tinder and lines up a different hot Japanese bird for every night he is there.  Apparently the girls can't get enough of a blonde fit 30 y.o. Swede, I've seen some of the pics and they are all top quality.  For some reason he is in no hurry to settle down and get married here in UK

Offline nightbot

Being white is actually playing the game of life in easy mode, in any facet of life, it's just more apparent when you go to Asia because there are so few white people there relatively speaking to the native population.

Offline jesse4585

Being white is actually playing the game of life in easy mode, in any facet of life, it's just more apparent when you go to Asia because there are so few white people there relatively speaking to the native population.
Just be white theory.  It does seem to be broadly true, but I think it's important to point out there are many exceptions.

Granted, there's thousands of reports of white lads who can't get laid in the west, going to east asia and scoring with stunners. Or of 'cat fishing' experiments, where white folk set their goelocation to an asian city, then get lots of matches from hot babes, even though their Tinder pic is not good looking.

On the other hand,  I've heard from several businessmen they now see quite a bit of anti-white racism when they travel to east asia, and even to parts of Africa like Laos  (though admitedly you generally get special treatment for being white in most of Africa.)

For some UK jobs,  you actually  have an advantage if you're non white  (though admittedly this is mainly with large corporates, and seems to benefit women more than men.)

I myself was in a Labour party meeting only last week where we're finalising our candidates for the London Assembly elections in May, and there was in general a massive and explicit favouring for the BAME candidates.  (Driven admittedly mainly by the non white folks at the meeting,  but most of the white folks present agreed with it too.)
Taking this back to punting,  my first gf was a white WG, and I know for a fact that she prefered black men as bfs, I was her first white boyfriend,  and she was spoilt for choice for men of all colours who wanted to go out with her.

A fair bit of science has been done on this, and while it's true that being white is an advantage overall,  it's only quite a small one, and in the course of a lifetime there's going to be lots of times when it's actually beneficial to be non white,  and countless where it doesn't matter either way.




Offline nightbot

Just be white theory.  It does seem to be broadly true, but I think it's important to point out there are many exceptions.

Granted, there's thousands of reports of white lads who can't get laid in the west, going to east asia and scoring with stunners. Or of 'cat fishing' experiments, where white folk set their goelocation to an asian city, then get lots of matches from hot babes, even though their Tinder pic is not good looking.

On the other hand,  I've heard from several businessmen they now see quite a bit of anti-white racism when they travel to east asia, and even to parts of Africa like Laos  (though admitedly you generally get special treatment for being white in most of Africa.)

For some UK jobs,  you actually  have an advantage if you're non white  (though admittedly this is mainly with large corporates, and seems to benefit women more than men.)

I myself was in a Labour party meeting only last week where we're finalising our candidates for the London Assembly elections in May, and there was in general a massive and explicit favouring for the BAME candidates.  (Driven admittedly mainly by the non white folks at the meeting,  but most of the white folks present agreed with it too.)
Taking this back to punting,  my first gf was a white WG, and I know for a fact that she prefered black men as bfs, I was her first white boyfriend,  and she was spoilt for choice for men of all colours who wanted to go out with her.

A fair bit of science has been done on this, and while it's true that being white is an advantage overall,  it's only quite a small one, and in the course of a lifetime there's going to be lots of times when it's actually beneficial to be non white,  and countless where it doesn't matter either way.
See exceptions doesn't make it not true. Sure there are those white lads who have it worse off, but you can be sure that a non white lad on a similar socio economic/physical level as the white lad will have it worse off.

The existence of those exceptions where being non white is beneficial does not really outweigh or diminish the overall advantage of being white. Like yea there are some jobs where being non white has an advantage but those jobs are outreach jobs that involve interacting with the specific non white community. These jobs do not outnumber the other jobs or even come close to a number large enough to make the advantage marginal. And I don't mean any personal disrespect towards you, but the very reason you think it's not significant enough is an example of white privilege because it's not something you personally experience in your day to day life. But because you have experienced the few downsides, you imagine the difference to be small.

But it's not really comparable to experiencing it in every facet of life from something as trivial as renting a property, to getting screened before an interview based on name, or getting insta rejected in dating before even having a chance. Like I personally haven't experienced as much of it specifically due to my race in dating, but I am sure it's still quite a bit more than my white friends.
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Offline fallentrees1321

Ive seen a few WG's Ive seen on AW on tinder , one ive punted with and a couple ive never punted with.

Would probably swipe and if matched try it on with any ive not punted with just with a view of getting some .

If I had punted with them before I wouldn't bother , if they did remember then tinder has name and employers name etc on . And we all know how prossie logic works , they probably wouldn't want to put out for free or would be like "ewww you punt"  :wackogirl: