I only once had a problem about this in my early days of using AW when someone I wanted to see had an upper age-limit of 60, which was my age at the time.
Being the pedant I am, I pointed out that, as I wasn't over 60, could I come and see her [I was less assertive in those days!]? She agreed; and I noticed that she altered the wording on her Profile shortly afterwards to be less age-specific.
Although she subsequently disappeared from AW, I noticed earlier this year that she'd returned with a slightly different Nickname but exactly the same wording on her Profile.
It wasn't my best-ever punt so I didn't bother going back before my 61st birthday!