Lasting Longer

[zyed]

Hello guys, been a while. I tend to last a reasonable amount of time but sometimes dont last as long as I want. Can anyone recommend any tablets/ delay sprays that work. I have found Stud 100 from Boots but yet to try it. I am 24 years old btw. Thanks.

[lamboman]

Emla cream end of thread.

[Punterperson1971]

Emla cream end of thread.

Did you mean elmea cream 

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[Aldebaran]

Did you mean elmea cream 

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Combine with a fruity lube for OWO she will enjoy as much as you.

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[Atrueyorkie]

Hello guys, been a while. I tend to last a reasonable amount of time but sometimes dont last as long as I want. Can anyone recommend any tablets/ delay sprays that work. I have found Stud 100 from Boots but yet to try it. I am 24 years old btw. Thanks.

My personal tips.

Don’t wank, fucks you up about how pussy feels. Exercise, a healthy body helps a lot. Stop watching porn, it’s unrealistic, most times your no going to be doing half the moves they do in the scenes. Plus they take breaks inbetween. Another one is relax, change up the tempo every now, one time you can go crazy and the next to re-control you slow it down. Foreplay as well, when you feel like your close do something different like kissing, rubbing the clit etc

My personal advice, I don’t wanna do pills unless I have to and don’t want to be reliant on taking pills.

[Simon1977]

The Jamaican stone, works for me! Get it on ebay £10-£20 and the stone lasts for ages!!

[Taggart]

The Jamaican stone, works for me! Get it on ebay £10-£20 and the stone lasts for ages!!

Maybe this recommendation should come with a health warning?
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[standardpostage]

The Jamaican stone, works for me! Get it on ebay £10-£20 and the stone lasts for ages!!

Don't like the sound of it. [just googled it]

PS you last longer as you get older.  Health etc.

[Doc Holliday]

Don't like the sound of it. [just googled it]

I had to search also as never heard of it. Highly risky if ingested, which puts the giver of oral sex at risk. Banned in a great many countries for that reason.

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[FiveKnuckles]

Highly risky if ingested, which puts the giver of oral sex at risk.

+1 my thought as I read the link above.   

there's a thread on saafe where WGs complain about 'irresponsible' use of numbing creams.
would be crazy to rub a potentially poisonous substance (some claims organic tree sap) and receive oral.  dead or infertile girls everywhere.

[SeekingSteve]

Takes the whole 'fucked the life out of her' to a whole new meaning....
Best thing is to practice edging, get a feel for when its about to blow. If you can control your mind and arousal, you can control ejaculation.
I think Durex actually do a condom with a delay gel inside, might be worth trying those. Obviously you may need to explain to the WG why you are using your own supply though.

[KerachiDope]

You are a young dude OP. Forget using pills.
Watch your diet, watch your weight, exercise daily, drink plenty of water, get a good nights sleep and remove the stressors from your life.

[Payyourwaymate]

Breath control and mental detachment from taking part of the act itself. Or you can keep seeing latinas who try to make you cum quick and become forced to adapt quickly or burn through £££££ as a consequence of not being able to control when you nut lol. That's what happened to me anyway.

[Aldebaran]

Don't like the sound of it. [just googled it]

PS you last longer as you get older.  Health etc.

And eventually you reach the stage where you can't cum however long you try......

[The man]

I've posted this before so have copied below:
You can train yourself to last longer, I did this when I was younger and have always been able to last a long time and control when I cum. Practice kegels (squeezing the muscle that stops you peeing mid flow) 100 quick reps a day followed by a 10 second squeeze/hold. Then when you wank don't allow yourself to cum, as you feel yourself approaching orgasm stop and squeeze the kegel muscles until the feeling goes. Then continue with wank, repeat process 2-3 times and crucially don't allow yourself to cum on the last one, difficult lol. Practice regularly and only allow yourself to cum once a month or at most once a fortnight (serious willpower required!), I used to do it for an hour at a time pretty much every other day so its a serious time commitment haha. I was doing it during my single phase so plenty of time to practice but once I was with a girl I had no problems at all lasting. The long sessions train you not to get overstimulated and finish early and crucially teach your body to recognise and control when you're going to cum, rather than trying to think of something to distract you and then you suddenly can't stop you feel the early stages, slow down or change position and pace yourself. Once you get used to it you won't need to keep up with the 'training' quite so much and can cum whenever you want (otherwise you'd go mad lol). Worked for me.

[southcoastpunter]

many guys say that the little blue pill reduces sensitivity and therefore makes you last longer. Certainly had that effect on me.

i also thought that is why some younger guys take it - not for ED but to last longer.

[Ron89]

I used to only last 5-10 mins but now I can go for pretty much a whole hour booking, even in my favourite positions. I'd recommend quitting porn, masturbation and other activities that mess with dopamine receptors, such as video games. I noticed a massive difference after a few months without these. I'd also recommend taking a high quality Ashwagandha supplement twice a day.

If these don't work I'd suggest Priligy, it works really well but will give you some side effects too. 30mg priligy didn't do much for me but 60mg was game-changing. Thankfully, the above worked so well that I don't need to resort to priligy anymore.

[the_exile]

Re. Kegels - External Link/Members Only could be a useful read

It is something that will require practice to locate the right muscles and then learn how to exercise them but IMO definitely worth sticking with. You can do them through the day whenever you have a spare moment and test the holding back part if you have a wank. Not sure I could be as disciplined as another poster on this thread, though! Have found the conditioning of those muscles gives more sensation building up to cumming, like it's taking me longer to go from feeling that I'm going to cum and it actually starting, if that makes sense?

[zyed]

Thanks guys for all the advise, I will have a look at the pelvic exercise's and I do keep healthy and active. 

[JustaPunter]

Hello guys, been a while. I tend to last a reasonable amount of time but sometimes dont last as long as I want. Can anyone recommend any tablets/ delay sprays that work. I have found Stud 100 from Boots but yet to try it. I am 24 years old btw. Thanks.

At 24 you should be looking at multiple nuts not trying to hold out for ages for one nut.

I remember when the EE girls started to arrive in London around 06 (ish)

Near Earls Court and I would book 30 mins and nut 3 times, 1st from a quick BJ, quick recovery, a shag and some anal, then 3rd nut from another BJ.

Christ I miss being in my 30’s and strong as an ox.

[kingmg]

No wg nowadays would let you cum 3 times in 30 mins.
You would be out the door after 1 pop or its esstra baby

[JamesKW]

My personal tips.

Don’t wank, fucks you up about how pussy feels. Exercise, a healthy body helps a lot. Stop watching porn, it’s unrealistic, most times your no going to be doing half the moves they do in the scenes. Plus they take breaks inbetween.

Have to disagree here,you can have lengthy edging wanks for an hour or so,with the object of not cumming,which can really help with lasting longer.I found this a useful technique in lasting out a three hour party and getting value for money.

[JustaPunter]

No wg nowadays would let you cum 3 times in 30 mins.
You would be out the door after 1 pop or its esstra baby

Maybe you should try moving away from low price P&D ?

[pantywetter]

It comes with age.

I worried about this in my early 20s.  In my late 30s it is now taking too long.

Agree with the poster above that smashing out 2 or 3 is a better strategy when you are younger.

[estats]

On this topic, I see a lot of the "fleshlight" style units brand themselves as stamina trainers, has anyone any experience they work?

[FiveKnuckles]

Emla cream end of thread.

EMLA    game changer!
Used on my last punt and applied 20mins prior to meet (find nearby toilet).  Give the little chap a wet wipe (or quick rinse) as it's a oil based emollient and may affect the Dom!

kid you not,  the WG could bite the head off and I wouldn't feel a thing.  The whole session was more fun without worrying about shooting to soon.

picked up thee 5g tubes for £12 shipped from thefamilychemist.  plenty to last a loooong time 

[Payyourwaymate]

EMLA    game changer!
Used on my last punt and applied 20mins prior to meet (find nearby toilet).  Give the little chap a wet wipe (or quick rinse) as it's a oil based emollient and may affect the Dom!

kid you not,  the WG could bite the head off and I wouldn't feel a thing.  The whole session was more fun without worrying about shooting to soon.

picked up thee 5g tubes for £12 shipped from thefamilychemist.  plenty to last a loooong time 

What's the point having sex with a numb dick though? Does it not defeat the purpose of the sensation? Or is it more the visual you are going for?

[FiveKnuckles]

What's the point having sex with a numb dick though? Does it not defeat the purpose of the sensation? Or is it more the visual you are going for?

towards the end 'i think'  the sensation was coming back or I just got the urge to pop from the friction/mental focus.

I don't believe I have PE (i.e pop within minutes) but want to drag my sessions out for more fun with a hot babe.  In a 15min P&D emla would be overkill,  30-60min imma getting my monies worth 

*apply emla to banjo string and top edge of helmet.

[FiveKnuckles]

picked up thee 5g tubes for £12 shipped from thefamilychemist.  plenty to last a loooong time 

NEW10  discount code.  used when I picked up blue pills  

[MrBeano]

Re. Kegels - External Link/Members Only could be a useful read

It is something that will require practice to locate the right muscles and then learn how to exercise them but IMO definitely worth sticking with. You can do them through the day whenever you have a spare moment and test the holding back part if you have a wank. Not sure I could be as disciplined as another poster on this thread, though! Have found the conditioning of those muscles gives more sensation building up to cumming, like it's taking me longer to go from feeling that I'm going to cum and it actually starting, if that makes sense?

i do like this, do you know if this is available on youtube or if theres a guide with pictures? im new to kegels and was finding it hard to understand the steps on the site

[Payyourwaymate]

towards the end 'i think'  the sensation was coming back or I just got the urge to pop from the friction/mental focus.

I don't believe I have PE (i.e pop within minutes) but want to drag my sessions out for more fun with a hot babe.  In a 15min P&D emla would be overkill,  30-60min imma getting my monies worth 

*apply emla to banjo string and top edge of helmet.

Ah fair enough. Thanks for explaining.

[simpledude467]

Hello guys, been a while. I tend to last a reasonable amount of time but sometimes dont last as long as I want. Can anyone recommend any tablets/ delay sprays that work. I have found Stud 100 from Boots but yet to try it. I am 24 years old btw. Thanks.

you begin to use aids, you will never have normal sex.

once u get used to the pills u will not be able to do it without.

google PC EXERCISE FOR ME and if you go to the gym spend 10 to 15 mins per day on the ROWER.

there are good penis oils out there, however i am sure i cant give links so use organic oilive oil on your penis as starters.

btw. stop watching porn. stop masturbating. untill you fix the "need" to last longer. This will become an PE issue. do your own research.

[Marmalade]

i do like this, do you know if this is available on youtube or if theres a guide with pictures? im new to kegels and was finding it hard to understand the steps on the site

You start with the easier to locate muscles. Half way through having a pee, stop, and squeeze the muscles you are using to stop a few times. The area of control increases with practice till you can just do a quick clench the moment before you would ejaculaste.  Comes from a yoga technique but I believe there’s several ‘how-to’ lay guides. Mostly just a matter of practice. It means the refractory period is much shorter, or even stay hard enough to keep going. Point of practicing with civvies helps to achieve a mutual orgasm. In my experience the muscles seem to get weaker as one gets older, but by then PE is less of a problem anyway. Good luck.

[Dogfather]

You are paying for sex.

Why would you want to last longer?
To pay more?
 

[delta69]

You are paying for sex.

Why would you want to last longer?
To pay more?
 

He doesn't want to blow his load in 10 seconds

[Punterperson1971]

He doesn't want to blow his load in 10 seconds

I like to last almost all of a 30 minute booking if possible and if it’s a decent wg she will know that and not push you out the door as soon as you’ve cum

[Swsnapper]

I prefer to just get the first one out of way (although would you consider it PE as such), then spend quality time on the second with a WG.

Years ago in relationships once outside of the honeymoon period partners would only want it once a night generally which was annoying if shot load too early.

As I'm now in my early 40s I have no inclination with a partner to go more than once generally. Not that I couldn't physically but guess bit of the sex drive has gone so I'm not a complete pest as I was a few years ago.

With a WG would deffo look for the two pops, but not punted in a while now due to relationship circumstances.

[southcoastpunter]

online porn and the little blue pill have changed things a bit. a few years ago, the average length of time of penetrative sex was about 5 minutes  - if i remember the published research correctly. Now very few of us are happy to be this average or even a bit over average. We want half an hour or more and we hear comments like "i gave her a real pounding" or "i smashed her" etc.

For good or bad, sex has, i think, changed over the last 15-20 years or so.