The Money We Spend ....

[Rich198529]

As 2018 finishes & 2019 starts , I looked at my bank this morning & after a very average night with shit service at our local curry house that cus it’s new year way over charged us it got me thinking that this year I’m going to really try & start putting some money away for savings. Now being 33 you would thing I would have started this years ago but 10 or more years ago I found the purple website & it’s robbed me of any spare cash I have lol . When I thinks of the thousands of pounds I’ve wasted away on escorts it’s quite shameful. Seeing these women is a very expensive hobby when you think of it. I used to see girls for half hour for £50 & I was happy with that cus I was young & inexperienced so after a kiss & cuddle on the bed & a quick bj I’d shoot my load in seconds of the girl jumping on me lol but as I’ve got older the experiences I seek are getting more & more expensive. I’ve saw pornstars , babestation girls & Instagram models , granny’s , Dom’s , girls who’ve fucked me up the arse (only once not my thing) , girls who can’t understand a word I’m saying , street whores in my car , the list goes on.
I don’t really know why I’m typing all this out I just was wondering your thoughts on this little secret hobbie of ours & how you finance it & be happy with your savings haha.

Anyway Happy new year folks , I’m off to find my next hour love interest.

X

[Digby232]

I’ve wasted thousands on wife, kids, new bathroom when not needed etc. My New Years resolution is to punt a bit. I’m in Southampton so really got to wait for a decent girl to tour as place flooded with Romanians .

[PleadInsanity]

As 2018 finishes & 2019 starts , I looked at my bank this morning & after a very average night with shit service at our local curry house that cus it’s new year way over charged us it got me thinking that this year I’m going to really try & start putting some money away for savings. Now being 33 you would thing I would have started this years ago but 10 or more years ago I found the purple website & it’s robbed me of any spare cash I have lol . When I thinks of the thousands of pounds I’ve wasted away on escorts it’s quite shameful. Seeing these women is a very expensive hobby when you think of it. I used to see girls for half hour for £50 & I was happy with that cus I was young & inexperienced so after a kiss & cuddle on the bed & a quick bj I’d shoot my load in seconds of the girl jumping on me lol but as I’ve got older the experiences I seek are getting more & more expensive. I’ve saw pornstars , babestation girls & Instagram models , granny’s , Dom’s , girls who’ve fucked me up the arse (only once not my thing) , girls who can’t understand a word I’m saying , street whores in my car , the list goes on.
I don’t really know why I’m typing all this out I just was wondering your thoughts on this little secret hobbie of ours & how you finance it & be happy with your savings haha.

Anyway Happy new year folks , I’m off to find my next hour love interest.

X

As WC Fields said “I spent half my money on gambling, alcohol and wild women. The other half I wasted.” 
If you didn't spend on whores you would only waste it.............on another hobby

[threechilliman]

I don’t really know why I’m typing all this out I just was wondering your thoughts on this little secret hobbie of ours & how you finance it & be happy with your savings haha.

It doesn't. I only punt with cash that isn't needed for anything else.

[cueball]

Budget... Set yourself a strict budget per month and don't go over it. Do it strictly and you can maintain the level to enjoy yourself.

For me, I don't carry money over monthly, if i don't use the budget on punting then I'll use it elsewhere. I still stick to the monthly budget 

[Moby Dick]

Have fun whilst you still can is my approach.
There may be a time when you will have regrets, spending too much time with whores rather than "proper" relationships could be a regret, but retiring with a pot of cash to give to a nursing home instead of having filthy memories with some women half my age is a wasted life.
I don't have any debts, and when I punt I simply think I will delay retirement by another day to pay for it.

[Winker121]

Have fun whilst you still can is my approach.
There may be a time when you will have regrets, spending too much time with whores rather than "proper" relationships could be a regret, but retiring with a pot of cash to give to a nursing home instead of having filthy memories with some women half my age is a wasted life.
I don't have any debts, and when I punt I simply think I will delay retirement by another day to pay for it.

Just the way I see it.  Further on in life might not be fit enough or affluent enough to punt so will do it while I can.

[hendrix]

Have fun whilst you still can is my approach.
There may be a time when you will have regrets, spending too much time with whores rather than "proper" relationships could be a regret, but retiring with a pot of cash to give to a nursing home instead of having filthy memories with some women half my age is a wasted life.
I don't have any debts, and when I punt I simply think I will delay retirement by another day to pay for it.

This is my approach too. It's a short life and I intend to enjoy it to the max.

[MrMatrix]

I’ve wasted thousands on wife, kids, new bathroom when not needed etc. My New Years resolution is to punt a bit. I’m in Southampton so really got to wait for a decent girl to tour as place flooded with Romanians .

You sound you are at the stage of life where you need to put yourself first. If your wife is playing silly sods in the bedroom and mind games then you should get out there. DrConners and Nigel4498 are based in Southampton region so have a look at who they would recommend- shouldn't go far wrong.
We look forward to your first review. Happy New Year Digby

[S.X. MacHine]

Each to their own, but at 67 what the fuck do I want to be saving my cash for? So Jeremy fucking Corbyn can confiscate my hard earned, heavily taxed money with his fucking Wealth Tax or Estate Duty?
Fuck that, I'm into a bit of self pampering while I'm still able. I do NOT regard investment in whores as money wasted!
Far better give your cash to sex workers than any Government, especially a commie one....

[MrMatrix]

Each to their own, but at 67 what the fuck do I want to be saving my cash for? So Jeremy fucking Corbyn can confiscate my hard earned, heavily taxed money with his fucking Wealth Tax or Estate Duty?
Fuck that, I'm into a bit of self pampering while I'm still able. I do NOT regard investment in whores as money wasted!
Far better give your cash to sex workers than any Government, especially a commie one....

+1. Its worrying what will happen if Corbyn gets in and there is a chance  a big chance. And to finance his bonkers plans he will have to raid peoples accounts who've saved and worked hard all their lives. I too intend to spend more this year.
Life is for enjoying and like you S X M I hope to be able to do just that.

[Stevensmiles]

Why is spending cash on sex a waste.
It’s only a waste of it’s impacting your life in some harmful way.

ie: Your getting into debt. Your not eating, you lose the house through mortgage default etc etc etc.

Like anything you need to balance stuff.

[Dipper]

Lots of sound advice here.

 

[Home Alone]

Budget... Set yourself a strict budget per month and don't go over it. Do it strictly and you can maintain the level to enjoy yourself.

For me, I don't carry money over monthly, if i don't use the budget on punting then I'll use it elsewhere. I still stick to the monthly budget 

Sensible advice, cueball.

For various reasons:
my much-appreciated Regular retired & other SPs who I wanted to 'audition' for the vacancy didn't reply to suggested bookings;
advancing years - 73 next birthday - & less stamina;
mortality catching up with me - four funerals of family/friends this year, including one of a former Regular who, on retirement several years ago, kept in contact;
my punting budget was raided a lot less in 2018 than in any other year since I began.

The upside of that is that my general savings budget has done much better than for any other year since I began!

Fortunately, last month, I saw a lass who might well have re-discovered my punting mojo! 

[tailspin]

To quote Oscar Wilde:

"A cynic is a man who knows the cost of everything and the value of nothing."

It doesn't sound like there are too many cynics in here.   If I didn't punt I would probably do something really stupid and have a affair, which would cost me way more and, if it ended up in the divorce courts, make the lawyers a lot of money.  My money.  So I will continue to enjoy myself in moderation.

If I do end up in a nursing home in my dottage I will regale my fellow inmates with tales of all the choice WGs I shagged.  It will be better than daytime TV.

[threechilliman]

To quote Oscar Wilde:

"A cynic is a man who knows the cost of everything and the value of nothing."

It doesn't sound like there are too many cynics in here.   If I didn't punt I would probably do something really stupid and have a affair, which would cost me way more and, if it ended up in the divorce courts, make the lawyers a lot of money.  My money.  So I will continue to enjoy myself in moderation.

If I do end up in a nursing home in my dottage I will regale my fellow inmates with tales of all the choice WGs I shagged.  It will be better than daytime TV.

If I didn't punt, the wife would spend it for me.....

[Home Alone]

If I do end up in a nursing home in my dottage I will regale my fellow inmates with tales of all the choice WGs I shagged.  It will be better than daytime TV.

The person who has Lasting Power of Attorney over me - one of the very few people in Civvy-land who know I punt - has promised that I'll only be admitted to a Nursing/Care Home where the nurses/carers wear black nylons!

[MrMatrix]

For various reasons:
my much-appreciated Regular retired & other SPs who I wanted to 'audition' for the vacancy didn't reply to suggested bookings;
advancing years - 73 next birthday - & less stamina;
mortality catching up with me - four funerals of family/friends this year, including one of a former Regular who, on retirement several years ago, kept in contact;
my punting budget was raided a lot less in 2018 than in any other year since I began.

Fortunately, last month, I saw a lass who might well have re-discovered my punting mojo! 

Well HA, I'm impressed that you are still punting at 73. Loss of a regular is not always easy to move on from, especially if she was long term.
I have lost a lot of friends in the last few years and as my OH says this isn't a rehersal, bouyed with her ringing endorsement I too intend to carry on. Like you, this year has been my leanest in 6 years. Its just the way things have worked out. Just need to get a  regular locally and things will change- hopefully in the next couple of months. I have my eye on someone already--