Anal size restrictions

[Barista123]

As it is a quiet time for actual visits, some thoughts on what might be on offer sometime soon, we hope!

For those interested in anal, a recurring worry is when an SP quotes ' A levels at discretion". If you want an anal punt it is hard enough finding a provider but then to be turned down on size grounds is more than a bit frustrating.

I fully support the right of SPs to offer only what they are happy with so this isn't a veiled attack on them. I am more trying to find out what others think and have experienced.

So what constitutes too big for anal do we think?

I am not very long (less than 6.5ins) but pretty thick (well over 5ins round). Should I be turned down for anal by SPs?

[Nosser2]

As it is a quiet time for actual visits, some thoughts on what might be on offer sometime soon, we hope!

For those interested in anal, a recurring worry is when an SP quotes ' A levels at discretion". If you want an anal punt it is hard enough finding a provider but then to be turned down on size grounds is more than a bit frustrating.

I fully support the right of SPs to offer only what they are happy with so this isn't a veiled attack on them. I am more trying to find out what others think and have experienced.

So what constitutes too big for anal do we think?

I am not very long (less than 6.5ins) but pretty thick (well over 5ins round). Should I be turned down for anal by SPs?

The answer lies in your question. it's all up to the SP. What one considers too big, another might not. Likewise what she thinks is too big today, she might accommodate tomorrow as she's feeling in a better mood for it.

I am quite a bit longer and thicker than you in my dimensions, and what I know is when I see comments from an SP suggesting that size is an issue when it comes to anal, then I know it's not likely to be on the menu for me.

To me it's not a problem so long as I know up front, and am not lured in because I happen to fancy anal with a particular SP, only to find she balks at my size on the day. I've learned to tell them about my size before the meet to make sure.

[gbyld87]

No penis is technically too big for anal, from a mechanical perspective.  What a girl enjoys or is willing to do is another matter.  Some ask for it in the backdoor, others can't even consider it.  It's entirely a question of what the want to do, not if they can.  And that's exactly how it should be.

[CoolTiger]

I know we are in the middle of a lockdown, but here's a couple of on-going threads on WG's who are really into anal.

Please add any new profiles to this list.

East Midlands Girls who are genuinely into Anal
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=69750.0


East Mids Based MILFs who like Anal?
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=71576.0

[Stickitin]

As it is a quiet time for actual visits, some thoughts on what might be on offer sometime soon, we hope!

For those interested in anal, a recurring worry is when an SP quotes ' A levels at discretion". If you want an anal punt it is hard enough finding a provider but then to be turned down on size grounds is more than a bit frustrating.

I fully support the right of SPs to offer only what they are happy with so this isn't a veiled attack on them. I am more trying to find out what others think and have experienced.

So what constitutes too big for anal do we think?

I am not very long (less than 6.5ins) but pretty thick (well over 5ins round). Should I be turned down for anal by SPs?

Can’t say it’s ever occurred to me to measure the thickness of my cock 

[Barista123]

Bet you’ve taken a ruler to it though.

[RandomGuy99]

As you've said it's entirely at the discretion of the SP.  It's her body and her rules. You should respect that.

Put it this way.  If someone suggested sticking a cock the size of yours up your arse and banging the help out of it, how would you feel about it?

I suspect your answer would be NO WAY!!

So you shouldn't really be surprised when an SP declines to let you put your cock up her arse. Should you?

[NickyBobby]

If a WG advertises anal, she should first of all actually enjoy it, and use dildos and butt plugs to make sure she can fit the required length and girth in.

Sadly “A levels (at discretion)” usually means “I advertise anal but will make excuses why I can’t on the day of the booking”

[nottspunter]

here's your girl External Link/Members Only

[Gopal1978]

If a WG advertises anal, she should first of all actually enjoy it, and use dildos and butt plugs to make sure she can fit the required length and girth in.

Sadly “A levels (at discretion)” usually means “I advertise anal but will make excuses why I can’t on the day of the booking”

There is a wide variety. A woman happy to take an average cock may not be able to take a giant foot long girthy member. Many escorts say they don't see black guys. This could be due to their above average size. No idea how some of the petite Thai SPs manage to accommodate larger guys. 

[Barista123]

Some good contributions here, thanks to all. Still not quite got to the answer i was (possibly unrealistically) looking for.

Is there a point below which the consensus is ‘you would be unlucky to be refused’
and/or a point above which we are in ‘you’ll be pretty lucky’ territory?

Bear in mind this is just a basis for an entertaining discussion , not a quest for a legal guarantee.

[Gopal1978]

Discretion is discretion matey.

Once you are above average length or girth you may not get lucky.

Sure it depends what mood the lady is in and time since she had the back doors smashed in.

[badsin]

Some good contributions here, thanks to all. Still not quite got to the answer i was (possibly unrealistically) looking for.

Some good comments on here, so what is the answer you're looking for? 

[Picti]

Look at the Internet and you'll see some women taking very big plugs, toys, and cocks. So it depends on the woman and her experience and training. I suspect for a WG it'll also depend on what she's already taken that day or the day before.

Your best bet is to focus on WGs who offer anal without the caveats, and discuss with them beforehand. She's the only person who can tell you what her limits are.

In line with your question it's not something I'm offered very often and when I am offered I usually let her take control of it initially to determine the position, angle, depth, pace, etc. So basically size isn't the only consideration and preparation and technique are important.

[Stickitin]

Bet you’ve taken a ruler to it though.

When I was about 14 years old maybe.....not since 

[doughboy]

When I was about 14 years old maybe.....not since 

Your penis or your ass?

[one eyed panda]

There is a wide variety. A woman happy to take an average cock may not be able to take a giant foot long girthy member. Many escorts say they don't see black guys. This could be due to their above average size. No idea how some of the petite Thai SPs manage to accommodate larger guys. 

I had a couple of encounters with thai called Aisha of the Invasian agency in London. Wouldnt trouble the bar at 5' but took my not inconsiderable member balls deep. Not the only example I could come up with  . Maybe bone length not 100% correlating with size of internal organs, especially after much practice

[Buttons]

I don’t think there is an answer to this. Every situation is different. Some girls love it, some hate it, some do it, some don’t. Within those parameters, it depends on other factors, how much you are paying, how long, does she like you or trust you enough, has she douched her arse, does she even care if it gets messy and you pull out with shit on your cock. I think cock size, whilst a factor, isn’t the only or most important factor.

I’m not a small guy in the trouser department, but I’ve had girls who say they don’t do it ask if I wanted to after seeing my hard cock because the want anal now. Equally I’ve had girls who say they will do it in pre meet comms, say I’m too large when we meet. BTW I’m not massive, but above average.

I only do anal when I want it, which isn’t that often, much prefer pussy, and if it’s offered. Meaning I very rarely book a girl specifically to fuck her arse. If the OP is looking for anal and nothing else will do, then he’s making a mistake if he thinks there’s some kind of average cock size where the likelihood is he’ll get brown hole access. He should just book one of the girls who offer anal as a dead cert.

[myothernameis]

So what constitutes too big for anal do we think?

I am not very long (less than 6.5ins) but pretty thick (well over 5ins round). Should I be turned down for anal by SPs?

I had seen a escort a few years back in a London airport hotel, and during our meet, asked about anal.  The escort looked and felt my cock, and the answer was no, as I was to big

Comparing my size to your self, slightly bigger, and my average length is just over 7", and my girth around 5.5", the escort preferred something smaller in size

[davidgood]

I am not overly well endowed in the trouser department, but what I believe is average size.

For me anal is a must have for 1 to 1s. Over the years I think I have only been refused a couple of times on size grounds and I believe the SPs concerned were claiming to offer it to encourage bookings rather than actually doing it.

Most SPs who offer it want it to be at discretion for obvious reasons, but there are some who do not add this proviso and claim they can take any size. In my experience these are the ones who actually enjoy anal and will provide a good service.

When starting the inital enquiry I always ask if anal is available. At this point it is not uncommon to be told No, as the SP or her profile handler has ticked all the like boxes without thinking.

If I make a booking I always make it clear on the booking request, e mail or text that I want anal and nowadays I usually get the service I want.

As has been mentioned earlier, anal is often refused as the SP has not preped for it. You need to give them advance warning not just expect it because it is mentioned on their profile.

Regards,

davidgood

[Moby Dick]

Like cunts some arseholes are bigger than others.

[mrwhite]

It is up to the person and what they are comfortable with.  I have met one SP who was more than happy for me to fuck her arse while she DAP'd herself with a toy at the same time, others who are totally into anal and prefer it to vaginal and others who have said I'm too big (which is flattering but utter bullshit)

[MilleMiglia]

If a WG advertises anal, she should first of all actually enjoy it, and use dildos and butt plugs to make sure she can fit the required length and girth in.

Sadly “A levels (at discretion)” usually means “I advertise anal but will make excuses why I can’t on the day of the booking”

Very true. One reason that I have fond memories of the pre-internet era is that you rang up, asked the question and got a yes or no answer.

[S94]

It is up to the person and what they are comfortable with.  I have met one SP who was more than happy for me to fuck her arse while she DAP'd herself with a toy at the same time, others who are totally into anal and prefer it to vaginal and others who have said I'm too big (which is flattering but utter bullshit)

Please can you let me know who it was that was happy to do DAP? It’s something I really want to try but it’s impossible to find a sp who offers this. Thanks!

[Rochelle]

It is up to the person and what they are comfortable with.  I have met one SP who was more than happy for me to fuck her arse while she DAP'd herself with a toy at the same time, others who are totally into anal and prefer it to vaginal and others who have said I'm too big (which is flattering but utter bullshit)

So it's up to the person what they're comfortable with, but at the same time if that person's not comfortable with your size it's bullshit?

[Tonyg]

Like cunts some arseholes are bigger than others.

As Anthony said to Cleopatra.... as he opened a crate of ale.....

[Moby Dick]

As Anthony said to Cleopatra.... as he opened a crate of ale.....

Who?
Where they the swinging publicans from the Dog and Fuckit?

[Southendlothario]

At the end of the day, Its up to the girl in question isnt it.
Just take what you can from it, take pleasure in being told your ol chap is too big for her to take.
Has put a smile on my face before now